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Ladies: Do you watch adult movies?

  • 25-08-2011 4:27pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭SheFiend


    First thread! :)

    I'd love to hear your honest answers. I enjoy watching porn, a lot. My boyfriend was a bit taken aback in the beginning when I mentioned it, and at the time I was worried he would be put-out over it. But luckily it turned out it didn't bother him. In fact, he likes hearing about what weird and wonderful films I've watched, and he likes watching them with me ;)

    So how about you girls? Do you watch adult movies?

    Do you watch adult movies? (Anonymous poll) 59 votes

    No way!
    0% 0 votes
    I do, but it's a secret.
    18% 11 votes
    Both myself and my partner enjoy them.
    81% 48 votes


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    I would...if there was any decent porn out there :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭SheFiend


    It's hard to find good, new porn. Even the under-the-counter over-priced stuff in sex-shops is crap. Online is the way to go, if you can bear wading through all the dodgy, time-wasting sites. If I wasn't so stingey I'd pay for membership to a decent site. Oooh! Come to think of it, there's my X-mas present sorted!!! Heeheehee! ;D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭ElleEm


    I really enjoy watching porn, but it's not something I openly admit.
    There's still a taboo around it I think.
    It is also hard to find porn geared towards women.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 75 ✭✭thefireinside


    There are loads of good porn movies for us girlies online; Youporn have a 'Romantic' section and Pornhub has a 'Female friendly' section :)

    Also using the search feature is your friend, especially on sites like xvideos where there are a gazillion tags.

    I think theres a niche for more female orientated adult movies! I have bought a few from Ann Summers... a yawn-fest to say the least!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭SheFiend


    Depends on what you're into. Personally I don't see the attraction in the "Female Friendly" stuff. Well, if that was the only type, it would have to do.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭gargleblaster


    No way. I have used it in the past, and I enjoyed it quite a lot. That was before I read about the abuses in the industry. Now I couldn't really enjoy it even if I wanted to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Don't get me started (again) on my rant about lesbian porn made for men. :pac:


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Gibson Wide Planetarium


    Sure, prefer the fiction though


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    bluewolf wrote: »
    Sure, prefer the fiction though

    "Linda trembled as Hank thrust his quivering member into her waiting ladyparts, as they rolled around the hayloft in an explosion of pent up lust unleashed like a winter storm"

    that kind of stuff? :pac:

    watching it as a couple can be fun, long as its not a replacement for the real thing


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Gibson Wide Planetarium


    krudler wrote: »
    "Linda trembled as Hank thrust his quivering member into her waiting ladyparts, as they rolled around the hayloft in an explosion of pent up lust unleashed like a winter storm"

    that kind of stuff? :pac:

    watching it as a couple can be fun, long as its not a replacement for the real thing

    Better written stuff, not soppy crap :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    bluewolf wrote: »
    Better written stuff, not soppy crap :)

    I knocked that out in 30 seconds, gimme some time and I could spin a yarn of erotic wonderment :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭Aishae


    wheres the 'i occasionally do but its not a state secret' option? :pac:
    its quite rare. but occasionally feel the urge and am glued to the screen for a few hours but i play the online sex games more than watching the porn itself because a lot of porn is pretty... all about the pole :rolleyes:


    oh yeah not many know but its not a secret - who cares what someone watches really?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    We watch together and separately. I never understand this inability to find "good porn" - the internet is chock full of the stuff, you can't fail but find something/some site that does it for you...or maybe I'm just not that fussy! :o :pac:

    We go through cycles of watching porn and then not really watching it at all for a while. I'm going through a stage of making up erotic fantasies for us rather than us watching porn at the mo - it's great fun, I highly recommend it! :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,316 ✭✭✭✭amacachi


    Don't get me started (again) on my rant about lesbian porn made for men. :pac:

    I'm not familiar with it, go on.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Gibson Wide Planetarium


    krudler wrote: »
    I knocked that out in 30 seconds, gimme some time and I could spin a yarn of erotic wonderment :pac:

    There is a very good site for it already so don't worry :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Yeah we've watched it together and separately too. And sometimes online at the same time :P

    I have a mad thing for super weird porn. I've sent links to people that left them unable to close their eyes for a few days, but I found it hilarious. I'll go on a site to find something sexy but I often get bored so try and find something funny.

    If you ever want something unreal crazy, you come to me :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,584 ✭✭✭TouchingVirus


    I'm as familiar with pornography as the next person, but I will that the promise of something weird that will leave me unable to close my eyes for days intrigues me Princess Peach

    Edit: Sorry mods, didn't notice this thread started with "Ladies:" :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭SheFiend


    Aishae wrote: »
    wheres the 'i occasionally do but its not a state secret' option? :pac:
    Whoops! Sorry about that! But I was kind of gearing the question towards girls in relationships.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    amacachi wrote: »
    I'm not familiar with it, go on.

    Let's just say that there are certain places that long fingernails should never go. :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭Aishae


    SheFiend wrote: »
    Whoops! Sorry about that! But I was kind of gearing the question towards girls in relationships.

    oddly when ive been in a relationship it was kept separate....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭SheFiend


    Hmm. Yeah my poll is lacking so.

    Can't seem to edit it either. Oh well


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Definitely, it's no big secret. My GF watches with me sometimes, sometimes I just watch on my own for inspiration and to help me along occassionally. (I have a rubbish imagination! :P:P:P)

    I don't like the big production stuff, especially because it's nearly always told from a purely male perspective, and tbh it's often a bit... gross, or something. And there are definitely questions about the ethics of the studios. But I love me some amateur porn, real folks who get a thrill out of uploading videos and other people watching them. Way hotter than the fake crap that comes out of America.

    And like others ave said, it's very difficult to get decent quality lesbian porn that isn't just ridiculous. I know lesbian sex, and it sure as hell doesn't look like THAT. :cool:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Yep - not extreme/weird/nasty stuff though. Although a tiny bit of nasty/weird, I likes...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 90 ✭✭@rti-shm@rti


    I've watched it with exes and on my own. I don't see the harm in getting a bit of inspiration, particularly if on your own!!!!

    Wouldn't be a very regular thing though. To be honest once in a blue moon I'll get the urge and then it won't happen again for ages!

    I think porn is stereotyped as a male thing, and while they may indulge more often, I reckon there are a lot more women out there who indulge too and wouldn't be as quick to admit it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,468 ✭✭✭Ectoplasm


    Yes I've watched it and enjoyed it but it wouldn't be my go-to turn on. I'd be a much bigger fan of erotic fiction.

    And I'd absolutely second what Ickle said about coming up with some erotic fantasies yourself. This has led to some excellent results. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 695 ✭✭✭yawha


    And like others ave said, it's very difficult to get decent quality lesbian porn that isn't just ridiculous. I know lesbian sex, and it sure as hell doesn't look like THAT. :cool:
    I wouldn't say it's very difficult to find decent quality lesbian porn at all. I mean, depending on where you look, you might have to filter through a lot of unrealistic crap targeted at a particular male demographic, but tbh, no more than you have to filter through any other genre of porn (I'm a straight male, and can't stand the painfully contrived, generic, mainstream stuff).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    No way. I have used it in the past, and I enjoyed it quite a lot. That was before I read about the abuses in the industry. Now I couldn't really enjoy it even if I wanted to.

    Not all porn comes from the industry though (although some "amateur" sites are probably linked to the industry too). I have never understood the attraction of the stereotypical porn star.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,716 ✭✭✭LittleBook


    I haven't voted because I don't like the emphasis in the "No way!" option. Maybe it's just me but that reads like "No I don't and I never would because I don't like it or agree with it!!" :)

    Personally I don't watch porn but it's simply because I prefer reading erotica. If there was an adult film on TV I wouldn't switch it off and I would no doubt enjoy it, certainly have in the past.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,055 ✭✭✭Emme


    No because there are too many abuses of people in the industry. It's like buying clothes or shoes you know were made by 10 year old children working 90 hours in a sweatshop or eating eggs laid by battery hens who never see the light of day.

    Some of Anais Nin's writing is good but it can go over the edge at times. Arthur Miller is also interesting but anything that even faintly borders on paedophilia/incest makes me very uncomfortable so I avoid him.

    Even so erotic fiction is the better of the two options.


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  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,731 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    bluewolf wrote: »
    There is a very good site for it already so don't worry :pac:

    /scans literotica.com for perfectly spellchecked, grammar-sound tales of carnal adventure.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Gibson Wide Planetarium


    /scans literotica.com for perfectly spellchecked, grammar-sound tales of carnal adventure.

    lol yes that one, and they exist! Ones with bad spelling and grammar are definitely bypassed by myself though :pac: Kills the mood :pac:


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,731 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    There's some comedy gold on there, I can tell you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    I'm not really into porn personally so no, I don't. Imagination does me fine!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,884 ✭✭✭Eve_Dublin


    I do yeah but nothing extreme or where I know the woman (or me) wouldn't enjoy it in real life because it looks too painful or extreme. I see a lot of porn with women in extreme situations moaning and screaming with supposed pleasure when I know myself she's probably having a horrible time for the sake of male titillation and just thinking of the $$$$$. I find as a woman myself I've a bit more empathy as to what she would realistically enjoy, if ye get me.

    Edit: I usually watch it when I'm lazy and couldn't be arsed reading a story on Literotica.com and want t get my kicks asap.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    bluewolf wrote: »
    lol yes that one, and they exist! Ones with bad spelling and grammar are definitely bypassed by myself though :pac: Kills the mood :pac:

    You never know, bad spelling and grammar might be kinky for a particular demographic of Grammarphiles :pac:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 793 ✭✭✭vicecreamsundae


    I didn't answer the poll because there was no "yes i do, and it's not a secret, and it's not with a partner" option.

    I watch lots of porn, and while I wouldn't talk about it with my family, it's certainly no secret between my friends. I just go for the usual online sites, sometimes it can take me a few minutes to find something i'm into, but really not committed enough to pay for it. Am quite fussy about the porn I watch though. I *have* to find the actors at least somewhat attractive, and thankfully production companies are finally starting to realise women watch it and using hotter guys.(or at least, guys with faces... always fear the worst when they dont show faces..).

    For ladies who like hot men in their porn I have two words for you.
    James. Deen.
    (i have such a fangirl crush on him).(this includes following him on twitter.)
    also noticed some new guy recently called xander something who's quite cute.

    I do appreciate a good ol' imagination 'bation every now and then, it's a bit more effort but can be more rewarding i find!
    a bit off topic but i would find it problematic if a boyfriend-type couldnt get himself off without porn.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,966 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    Loving this thread.
    I have a mad thing for super weird porn. I've sent links to people that left them unable to close their eyes for a few days, but I found it hilarious.

    Please PM if you have a minute. Its early on Monday morning. Anything to assist in the keeping open of eyes is welcome.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,737 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    I watch it without my partner, but he knows I watch it.


  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 8,490 Mod ✭✭✭✭Fluorescence


    bluewolf wrote: »
    lol yes that one, and they exist! Ones with bad spelling and grammar are definitely bypassed by myself though :pac: Kills the mood :pac:

    Yeah the poor spelling can be quite offputting sometimes :(

    Don't watch movies myself, but quite fond of the aul' storytelling :pac:. Mostly because any porn I've seen is rubbish. There is still a huge stigma around women watching it though, which is ridiculous. Perhaps why there's not much tailored to female audiences - because they think no one will watch it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭SheFiend


    What exactly IS porn that's tailored to females? What's the difference? From what I've seen, it's more plot / storyline / character building?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    Yeah the poor spelling can be quite offputting sometimes :(

    It can be hard to type with one hand. :D

    I was actually reading something about the negative impact of Romantic Novels on females perception of healthy relationships and safe sexual practices a couple of months ago.

    Damn you Mills and Boon!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,185 ✭✭✭tatabubbly


    Watch it with the OH but he's good enough to pick out one's that wouldn't freak me out or have people who are decent looking

    IE Mister 60 porn man, i'm looking at you!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,595 ✭✭✭Stealthirl


    Sorry to butt in but i had to post this clip.Its safe but you may not wont to have the volume loud if ur in awork/a public place



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