racial query regarding indian men

murreemurree

i'm dating an indian man. i've gotten deeply in love with the guy and he loves me deeply also. however i have no idea anything about indian culture and upon googling indian men dating white women, i found this>>>>
"Indian men are not allowed to have "love" marriage.Whatever you think you may have with an Indian man, he will marry whoever he is TOLD to marry. Forget them, and date men who are free to choose their OWN bride. Added...they often "pretend to love" you to have sex, because Indian virginity in women is PRIZED. Don't be his "release"..."

i felt disheartened reading this and hope it's not true. could he be pretending to be in love with me? do indian guys typically marry within their race? how can i be sure that he is truly in love with me and not using me for sex..

LegacyUser

Ask him!!! Nobody else is going to be able to answer this question but him. He may have a future mapped out for him, or he may not. Only he knows. So ask him, show him the article you found and good luck.

Count Duckula

You're questioning the relationship because of a poorly written, terribly articulated piece of rubbish you found on the internet? I suppose you believe that aliens run the USA and that our water supplies are poisoned too?

Cop on, woman, and enjoy what you've got.

John Mason

wow, i must go and tell my indian friends to leave their white wives immediately. :rolleyes:

OP, i can only assume you are young. why dont you ask your bf this and get his honest answer?

LegacyUser

OP - believe it or not it is their culture, but thats in their home place and only in the working middle and lower poor classes
example in India at a young age
a boy is forced to be married to a women/girl hes never met
the father of the family is the one who choses the girl for him , even sometimes the boy never sees her face til after the wedding

but heres some good news thats in India and it is not as common anymore as its not a strong faith in their religion anymore
i have plenty of indian friends who are married and even have children with their wifes who are Irish,

in ireland its a different story their basicly Irish with irish rights to love and to marry anyone they want
but i also have an indian mate who his father bannished from the family for marrying a white irish girl
it really depends on your bf and his family
are his family deeply religious with their faith? have you met his father does he greeth you openly or warm, or does he give you looks ?
and the same with your bf does he believe in his religion about his father picking his wife?
these are things you could all find out with your bf
and to be honest id say hes in love with you if he broke his religious vows to be with you
sounds romantic doesnt it ha
good luck OP

Otis Driftwood

OP,this is your 3rd or 4th thread on pretty much the same subject.This forum is not your own personal blog.

Do not start a thread like this again.