meaningful kiss

murreemurree

ok guys and girls which is more meaningful and romantic to you when you kiss the person you love: (and i mean with your mouths open, not a peck) an intimate kiss using your lips only or an intimate kiss using your tongues?

Hersheys

Personally I like a good auld snog. I think that kissing can be more intimate than sex, but maybe I'm the strange one on that one. I just really, really, really like kissing. It can mean so much!

krudler

Its all good

Raze_them_all

theres no guide. Everyone is different.

murreemurree

Hersheys wrote: »

Personally I like a good auld snog. I think that kissing can be more intimate than sex, but maybe I'm the strange one on that one. I just really, really, really like kissing. It can mean so much!

i completely agree. kissing is more intimate than sex. when you say a snog do you mean using your tongue?

Asphyxia

Does it really matter whether tongues are used or not? Everyone is different and I'm sure some people have had meaningful kisses with tongues and some have meaningful kisses without them.

murreemurree

Asphyxia wrote: »

Does it really matter whether tongues are used or not? Everyone is different and I'm sure some people have had meaningful kisses with tongues and some have meaningful kisses without them.

well i don't think a kiss is romantic without using tongues. i mean people kiss their parents with lips. a real kiss with someone you love is different

Raze_them_all

murreemurree wrote: »

well i don't think a kiss is romantic without using tongues. i mean people kiss their parents with lips. a real kiss with someone you love is different

People have different styles of kissing. I thought that was a well known fact.

Asphyxia

murreemurree wrote: »

well i don't think a kiss is romantic without using tongues. i mean people kiss their parents with lips. a real kiss with someone you love is different

In my own personal opinion I prefer kisses without tongue, I have a few memorable kisses that were so romantic that didn't involve tongue. I really think it depends on the person itself. I agree that a kiss with a partner or lover is different than a peck on the cheek of a parent but that doesn't necessarily mean it's better and more romantic with tongue.

squeakyduck

Many of my most meaningful kisses have been proper kisses (with tongues) first kisses, or welcome back or I've missed you kisses!

I much prefer kisses with tongue!

High Hopes

I like a slow teasing kiss... When you are not sure where the other person is going to focus on next... sometime they could give your lip a little bite stuff like that is nice

Caraville

Kissing is definitely more intimate than sex when it's with someone you really love.

I mean I could kiss a randomer on a night out and it wouldn't really mean a whole lot, but when you kiss someone you've been crazy about for ages, I think it's more exciting and meaningful than the first time you sleep with them.

With tongue, without tongue- as long as it's with the right person and they're good at it, it's all good!

I love good kisses

In The Sticks

murreemurree wrote: »

ok guys and girls which is more meaningful and romantic to you when you kiss the person you love: (and i mean with your mouths open, not a peck) an intimate kiss using your lips only or an intimate kiss using your tongues?

It depends on a lots of diffrent things to be honest.....
A: The lenght of her tongue
B: If she has hair on her lip
C: Cold sores
If she has her own teeth

All the above are a big no no, what were we talking about again!!!!

starlit

Lock lips but without using tongues is more meaningful for me but I do like a passionate kiss with tongues too! If there is a spark and chemistry then its more meaningful for that moment in time.

baby and crumble

What's a 'meaningful' kiss?

newbee22

Any wow kiss I've had is without tongues, nothing worse than some fella shoving his tongue down your throat!!:P:P

Howard the Duck

All kisses are meaningful if they are with someone you really like. The best kiss i ever had was with tongues. It was with some girl i met in a club, we just kissed and that was the end of it , i forget her name but won't forget the kiss!

x Purple Pawprints x

Howard the Duck wrote: »

All kisses are meaningful if they are with someone you really like. The best kiss i ever had was with tongues. It was with some girl i met in a club, we just kissed and that was the end of it , i forget her name but won't forget the kiss!

That's so true. If you love someone every kiss means something. Personally I really love when a little peck progresses into a kiss you never want to end..

Novella

Tongue doesn't make a kiss meaningful. If you are kissing someone you really wanna kiss, that's what makes it matter.

Maple

One of the most lovely and meaningful kisses I've ever had the pleasure to receive was a kiss on the cheek.

It was one of those swoon moments, I was hooked.

x Purple Pawprints x

Maple wrote: »

One of the most lovely and meaningful kisses I've ever had the pleasure to receive was a kiss on the cheek.

It was one of those swoon moments, I was hooked.

So true, doesn't even have to be on the lips. My bf sometimes kisses my forehead and my hands and I love that.

Asphyxia

Jane_LS_88 wrote: »

So true, doesn't even have to be on the lips. My bf sometimes kisses my forehead and my hands and I love that.

You're so right After not seeing my fella for a few days we were cuddled up on the couch and I had my back to him and he lightly kissed me on the shoulder... I actually felt like I was flying :rolleyes:

I'm not sure how to explain 'meaningful' as all kisses between yourself and the person you love are meaningful but some just have more of an impact. There is an intensity there that makes them stick in the back of your head :D

Contessa Raven

I think any kiss with someone you are deeply in love with is meaningful. Although some stick in your head more than others.

A few weeks ago I was sleeping and my boyfriend leaned in and kissed me really gently on the tip of my nose. It woke me up but it was really sweet. He looked so happy to see me. Wasn't a particularly passionate kiss but it stuck in my head because it was so lovely.

jenny111111

A meaningul kiss can have nothing to do with the kiss itself, it can all be about timing, location (where you are not where the kiss is :pac:) the meaning behind that kiss that you can both feel.

Hersheys

murreemurree wrote: »

i completely agree. kissing is more intimate than sex. when you say a snog do you mean using your tongue?

I don't have a "set guidelines" for a snog - whatever happens, happens.

My favourite/most meaningful kiss was when myself and my ex said goodbye to each other. That was no tongues, just incredibly passionate.

I don't like biting, but I think it's really shexy if someone nibbles on my lip mid kiss.

Maple

Jane_LS_88 wrote: »

So true, doesn't even have to be on the lips. My bf sometimes kisses my forehead and my hands and I love that.

Himself was once cooking dinner and I was faffing about the kitchen getting in his way, he leaned down and kissed my shoulder. I remember just beaming as I was so happy, A because he was so beautiful and B I was getting my dinner handed up to me.

squeakyduck

I like silly kisses like sometimes if I'm sad or going off on a rant he will kiss my nose (I just stopped and giggled!)

I love if you are really groggy and you just randomly wake up in the middle of the night for a few seconds or so and you get a kiss on your back or your forehead and groggy cuddle.....

Neyite

The most electric moment in our relationship ever, we didnt kiss or touch at all. We had been friendly for years and one night a bunch of us ended up at a mates house for a few drinks after the pub shut. Did that, then everyone started bunking down for the night. 3 of us ended up in the living room - one lad got the sofa cushions on the floor, I got the sofa base, and my soon to be boyfriend got the armchair.

at some point during the night, we both woke up, and his neck was sore from the way he was drooped on the armchair, so I told him to share the sofa with me. Instead of spooning, we ended up face to face, our noses millimeters apart and every nerve ending in my body was twanging, and I was dying to kiss him, but kept bottling it, thinking that we had known each other for years and he would have made a move by now if he found me attractive in that way. We dozed for a few hours, face to face.

In the morning we all went our own way. I dropped him off at home, and a few hours later I got a text from him saying "I wish I kissed you last night"

It was the most meaningful non-kiss I have ever had.
. We are 7 years together next month.

We kiss all the time - pecks, proper snogs, neck nibbles and if he wants to really annoy me, he licks my face. The are all meaningful.

x Purple Pawprints x

Asphyxia wrote: »

You're so right After not seeing my fella for a few days we were cuddled up on the couch and I had my back to him and he lightly kissed me on the shoulder... I actually felt like I was flying :rolleyes:

Contessa Raven wrote: »

I think any kiss with someone you are deeply in love with is meaningful. Although some stick in your head more than others.

A few weeks ago I was sleeping and my boyfriend leaned in and kissed me really gently on the tip of my nose. It woke me up but it was really sweet. He looked so happy to see me. Wasn't a particularly passionate kiss but it stuck in my head because it was so lovely.

Maple wrote: »

Himself was once cooking dinner and I was faffing about the kitchen getting in his way, he leaned down and kissed my shoulder. I remember just beaming as I was so happy, A because he was so beautiful and B I was getting my dinner handed up to me.

Neyite wrote: »

The most electric moment in our relationship ever, we didnt kiss or touch at all. We had been friendly for years and one night a bunch of us ended up at a mates house for a few drinks after the pub shut. Did that, then everyone started bunking down for the night. 3 of us ended up in the living room - one lad got the sofa cushions on the floor, I got the sofa base, and my soon to be boyfriend got the armchair.

at some point during the night, we both woke up, and his neck was sore from the way he was drooped on the armchair, so I told him to share the sofa with me. Instead of spooning, we ended up face to face, our noses millimeters apart and every nerve ending in my body was twanging, and I was dying to kiss him, but kept bottling it, thinking that we had known each other for years and he would have made a move by now if he found me attractive in that way. We dozed for a few hours, face to face.

In the morning we all went our own way. I dropped him off at home, and a few hours later I got a text from him saying "I wish I kissed you last night"

It was the most meaningful non-kiss I have ever had.
. We are 7 years together next month.

We kiss all the time - pecks, proper snogs, neck nibbles and if he wants to really annoy me, he licks my face. The are all meaningful.

OMG those stories are all so cute!!!

My bf is coming to stay for the weekend so hopefully I'll have some more kisses to report.

jenny111111

Neyite wrote: »

The most electric moment in our relationship ever, we didnt kiss or touch at all. We had been friendly for years and one night a bunch of us ended up at a mates house for a few drinks after the pub shut. Did that, then everyone started bunking down for the night. 3 of us ended up in the living room - one lad got the sofa cushions on the floor, I got the sofa base, and my soon to be boyfriend got the armchair.

at some point during the night, we both woke up, and his neck was sore from the way he was drooped on the armchair, so I told him to share the sofa with me. Instead of spooning, we ended up face to face, our noses millimeters apart and every nerve ending in my body was twanging, and I was dying to kiss him, but kept bottling it, thinking that we had known each other for years and he would have made a move by now if he found me attractive in that way. We dozed for a few hours, face to face.

In the morning we all went our own way. I dropped him off at home, and a few hours later I got a text from him saying "I wish I kissed you last night"

It was the most meaningful non-kiss I have ever had.
. We are 7 years together next month.

We kiss all the time - pecks, proper snogs, neck nibbles and if he wants to really annoy me, he licks my face. The are all meaningful.

This should be in a really soppy romcom

LegacyUser

I always see threads like this, and really want to experience that amazing kiss that everyones on about..but im so afraid of kissing! I have done it before but always with randomers because Im afraid to kiss someone I know in case they tell people im a terrible kisser! Like what is the best way to kiss someone? I know everyones tecnique is different but there must be some similarities?
Like is it best to do little kisses in between using your tongue? Help!

Faith

Personally, the most romantic kisses are the ones without tongue. For me, when I kiss himself and it's a proper snog, it is a sexual kiss. It's an indication of sexual longing and desire and if the circumstances are right, it will lead to more. But when we kiss without tongues, it means more than just sex. It conveys all sorts of romantic stuff. If he snogged me in public, I'd probably just laugh or blush, but when he just presses his lips to mine, it can leave me weak at the knees .

Dublin141

Mine are when we're both in the kitchen doing stupidly mundane things, and he leans over as if to give me a peck on the mouth, except he holds on to me and lets it linger, and it never fails to make me feel loved. No tongues, but it feels very intimate; it's a knee wobble moment for me.

Of course, one of the kids are bound to ruin it with, "Daddy! What are you doing to Mammy?" :rolleyes:


I think the non-kiss wins the thread though.

Fluorescence

The amount of awful kisses with tongue I've had have made me really appreciate the excellent ones, both with and without tongue. Some people just lack the... finesse to weild their tongues properly :pac:. Besides, kisses can be very very sensual anyway when you just use your lips!