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what do you think

  • 06-07-2011 11:27am
    #1
    ruby101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4 ✭


    this may be the wrong forum for this but your opions would be
    welcome

    what do you consider cheating?

    kissing someelse and then text them a few time afterward
    not telling your partner and them finding out by gut.
    a 1 off and stop contact before g/friend found out

    is this a deal breaker?


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  • #2
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    personally, i consider kissing cheating. In the above example though while the kissing would hurt, it's nothing compared to the texting and lying to a partner about it. Kissing can be (just about) forgiven in my book, providing that's where it ended. But the texting would be the deal breaker for me, not the kissing.


  • #3
    G86
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,660 ✭✭✭G86


    Kissing is cheating. Texting afterwards makes it worse, but either way it's still cheating.


  • #4
    ruby101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4 ✭ruby101


    even though it was a 1 off and they only sent 3 texts afterwards.
    also text girl to say they were more or less cutting contact,when caught out regetted doing it and was so sorry in tears


  • #5
    G86
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,660 ✭✭✭G86


    ruby101 wrote: »
    even though it was a 1 off and they only sent 3 texts afterwards.
    also text girl to say they were more or less cutting contact,when caught out regetted doing it and was so sorry in tears

    Why were they caught? - because they were cheating.
    Why did they regret it? - because they were cheating.
    Why were they sorry? - because they were cheating.
    Why were they in tears? - because they were cheating.

    It's pretty black and white OP. Is this a personal issue?


  • #6
    Malari
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    ruby101 wrote: »
    this may be the wrong forum for this but your opions would be
    welcome

    what do you consider cheating?

    kissing someelse and then text them a few time afterward
    not telling your partner and them finding out by gut.
    a 1 off and stop contact before g/friend found out

    is this a deal breaker?

    Is this what you did OP? Only your girlfriend can answer if that's the case.

    It depends on the relationship. If my boyfriend was going off all the time and having coffee with another woman that I didn't know about I would consider that cheating.


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  • #7
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    OP, as per the forum charter, The Ladies Lounge does not exist to answer polls on what women think. There is no hive-mind, everyone will have different opinions. In terms of what is considered cheating, only the opinions of those in the relationship in question are relevant.

    If you want advice on an issue, please post in Personal Issues or it's subforum, relationship issues.

    Cheers.


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