When you think about your ex's.....

How Soon Is Now

What comes to mind??

Just had this taught. Now i am in a happy relationship best i have ever been in but i do every now and again think about girls i was with in the past for various reasons.

What do people think about with theres ?? Is it ok to think about them or even still talk about them??

d.anthony

angerfist2009 wrote: »

What comes to mind??

Just had this taught. Now i am in a happy relationship best i have ever been in but i do every now and again think about girls i was with in the past for various reasons.

What do people think about with theres ?? Is it ok to think about them or even still talk about them??

Still in love with mine. I'm an a*sehole and it's the biggest mistake I've ever made.

cosanostra

I think about my ex's all the time when i'm playing darts

thehairyelbow

Jesus, I'd rather stick needles in my eyes instead of think of that.

alwaysadub

angerfist2009 wrote: »

What comes to mind??

Just had this taught. Now i am in a happy relationship best i have ever been in but i do every now and again think about girls i was with in the past for various reasons.

What do people think about with theres ?? Is it ok to think about them or even still talk about them??

Depends on what you're doing at the time. If you're thinking of them while shagging your current partner there is something wrong somewhere!

Abi

angerfist2009 wrote: »

What comes to mind??

Just had this taught. Now i am in a happy relationship best i have ever been in but i do every now and again think about girls i was with in the past for various reasons.

What do people think about with theres ?? Is it ok to think about them or even still talk about them??

A shovel and a bag of lime springs to mind.

themadchef

Ex's are always ex's for very good reasons.

Experience, learn and move the fúck on. Plenty of time for thinking when im a pensioner

How Soon Is Now

Abi wrote: »

A shovel and a bag of lime springs to mind.

Go on........

Giselle

I avoid thinking about my ex. Mostly because when I do, I'm choked up with what ifs and regrets.

The heartbreak is too vivid to revisit.

7sr2z3fely84g5

Dont understand how some can be friends with them whilst in another relationship,i just find it too akward..

Asphyxia

Different things to different ones

1. Look what you're missing out on!
2. I miss you
3. Haven't spoken to you in ages I miss our friendship
4. You are a d!ck

Knex*

angerfist2009 wrote: »

What comes to mind??

Just had this taught. Now i am in a happy relationship best i have ever been in but i do every now and again think about girls i was with in the past for various reasons.

What do people think about with theres ?? Is it ok to think about them or even still talk about them??

Who taught it to you?

Mickeroo

Fap.

Kojak

I don't think about them - in fact they should be thinking about me!!

strobe

d.anthony wrote: »

Still in love with mine. I'm an a*sehole and it's the biggest mistake I've ever made.

Giselle wrote: »

I avoid thinking about my ex. Mostly because when I do, I'm choked up with what ifs and regrets.

The heartbreak is too vivid to revisit.

Awwww.

How Soon Is Now

Asphyxia wrote: »

Different things to different ones

1. Look what you're missing out on!
2. I miss you
3. Haven't spoken to you in ages I miss our friendship
4. You are a d!ck

Do often think i have same situation meself. One girl i cant stand no more one if fell out with but regret it happening cause we were good mates.

I guess if i was single id probley care more but fact i have bigger and better things to think bout with someone else now covers up memorys i had before.

Still though my ex s tend to be in my face alot thanks to them being mates with my mates infact knowing my luck one has already found me on here and i dont know yet :P

Professey Chin

Giselle wrote: »

I avoid thinking about my ex. Mostly because when I do, I'm choked up with what ifs and regrets.

A couple of mine have this effect on me.(1 more then the rest especially with the what ifs)

Abi wrote: »

A shovel and a bag of lime springs to mind.

Others deserve this with an extra serving of headkick :mad:

How Soon Is Now

Knex. wrote: »

Who taught it to you?

Dont understand?

Knex*

angerfist2009 wrote: »

Dont understand?

No worries, was being a knobish grammer natzi tbh

ascanbe

angerfist2009 wrote: »

What comes to mind??

Just had this taught. Now i am in a happy relationship best i have ever been in but i do every now and again think about girls i was with in the past for fapping reasons.

What do people think about with theres ?? Is it ok to think about them or even still talk about them??

FYP

PeterIanStaker

when I think about certain ex's I'm glad that I dodged the bullet.

Mr. CooL ICE

I usually end up fapping

Abi

angerfist2009 wrote: »

Go on........

stolen car, pre-dug hole in the wicklow mountains?





I've said too much..

krudler

one I'm completely meh about. one I hope is happy as we split on amicable terms and I see her fairly regularly on nights out, was a short term thing,didnt work out, no harm done to either of us so can chat away plus it was about a decade ago. and one I have the "what ifs" for, didnt help I met her out a few weeks ago and we got on like we never broke up, was some major sparkage going there but nothing came of it and I doubt anything will.

thanks op, now I'm going to go drink my own weight in whiskey.

Aishae

1. 'thank feck thats in the past'
and the others im pretty 'ah well' about - didnt end badly, or well. not people i wanted to stay friends with

its pretty natural to occasionally wonder about then and maybe go so far as to wonder what if. so long as a spot of memory lane rambling is all youre doing

ascanbe

krudler wrote: »

one I'm completely meh about. one I hope is happy as we split on amicable terms and I fap to her fairly regularly on nights in, was a short term thing,didnt work out, no harm done to either of us so can fap away plus it was about a decade ago. and one I have the "what ifs" for, didnt help I met her out a few weeks ago and we got on like we never broke up, was some major fappage going there but nothing came of it and I doubt anything will.

thanks op, now I'm going to go drink my own weight in whiskey.

FYP

Asphyxia

angerfist2009 wrote: »

Do often think i have same situation meself. One girl i cant stand no more one if fell out with but regret it happening cause we were good mates.

I guess if i was single id probley care more but fact i have bigger and better things to think bout with someone else now covers up memorys i had before.

Still though my ex s tend to be in my face alot thanks to them being mates with my mates infact knowing my luck one has already found me on here and i dont know yet :P

I can't stand two of them! The other two I became really good friends with sadly one of them past away!

Diddler82

As it went in the film (500) Days of Summer - you generally only remember the good parts and block out the bad parts.

I think about mine occasionaly but then try and remember why you broke up... Regardless though... Sex with an Ex can be enjoyable!!!

Giselle

strobe wrote: »

Awwww.

Ah no, its not like I'm incapable of happiness again, just that the good times were really good. The bad times are what gets me past the regrets.:)

How Soon Is Now

Asphyxia wrote: »

I can't stand two of them! The other two I became really good friends with sadly one of them past away!

****!

I am still bitter about one or two of mine and how it worked out with them lets just say i came out the worst until now.

I think id rather never see any of them around any more its to bloody awkward cause its never the same u dont even know what to be saying.

d.anthony

Asphyxia wrote: »

Different things to different ones

1. Look what you're missing out on!
2. I miss you
3. Haven't spoken to you in ages I miss our friendship
4. You are a d!ck

To me, this is the one person!

Princess Peach

Mostly I feel sorry for them. Cause if they treat all girls the way they treated me they are going to be alone for the rest of their lives.

krudler

Princess Peach wrote: »

Mostly I feel sorry for them. Cause if they treat all girls the way they treated me they are going to be alone for the rest of their lives.

Sad thing is they probably wont, sucks how dickheads are usually the ones who have no problem getting women

How Soon Is Now

krudler wrote: »

Sad thing is they probably wont, sucks how dickheads are usually the ones who have no problem getting women

Used to think bout that one constantly then i taught to meself well god knows what kinda women they more then likely will attract!!

Saying that ive never been anything but nice to girls and i ended up going out with a coke head so there ya go lol.

Princess Peach

krudler wrote: »

Sad thing is they probably wont, sucks how dickheads are usually the ones who have no problem getting women

Weirdest set of thought went through my head when I read this!

First I thought I want to get in contact with them all and tell them all the things I never told them in a bid to make them realise where they went wrong so they may be happy in the future.

Then I thought about how much they hurt me and how they made me feel yet here I am wanting good things for them now.

I've become too nice for my own good. I want bitchy bitter Peach back :pac: She was a lot more fun, because she was crazy.

7sr2z3fely84g5

Girls love psychos and cheaters..

How Soon Is Now

Crazy thing about the internet and this site being so popular in Ireland is that i can imagine at least one my ex s is on here under a screen name and ive no idea. I can imagine more then half of us on here would be in same situation.

Ffs theres probley a few just posting in this thread :pac:

tommyhaas

A bit weird but, I used to hate seeing 'Sex and the City' on the Sky listings, cos used to always watch it with my ex and it reminded me of her. I'm with my gf now a few years, still don't like to see it though

It's strange how little things like that can remind you of people who are largely irrelevant to your life now

ball

I think my last gf is one of the loveliest, nicest people I know. But I'm still glad I ended it. We weren't meant to be

d.anthony

On a serious note.

If anyone here is with someone they remotely care about and might think they could be a keeper. DON'T **** them about, in any way shape or form.

Best advice you'll ever get.

krudler

Princess Peach wrote: »

I've become too nice for my own good. I want bitchy bitter Peach back :pac: She was a lot more fun, because she was crazy.

That why you kept sending Mario to all those empty castles :pac:

krudler

tommyhaas wrote: »

A bit weird but, I used to hate seeing 'Sex and the City' on the Sky listings, cos used to always watch it with my ex and it reminded me of her. I'm with my gf now a few years, still don't like to see it though

It's strange how little things like that can remind you of people who are largely irrelevant to your life now

Definitely, a certain movie or place or song or whatever, you cant help but think of someone if it reminds you of them

Mickeroo

krudler wrote: »

That why you kept sending Mario to all those empty castles :pac:

He shoots he scores!!:pac:

Professey Chin

krudler wrote: »

That why you kept sending Mario to all those empty castles :pac:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_eNzLKuxxpE

I think of this more

ascanbe

The dearth of thanks/recognition for my hilarious FYP/fap efforts here is the real tragedy..

pragmatic1

Rarely think about them. When I do its mostly regret about being such a prick. But theres one who I genuinely hate.

Lady Chatterton

That song by Garet Brooks "Thank God for unanswered prayers" springs to mind. Sometimes, it is better that certain relationships don't work out. I'm on very good terms with my ex's but I'm so glad that I didn't marry any of them.

Abi

Laney Tall Video wrote: »

Girls love psychos and cheaters..

Bizarrely enough, they tend not to mention that bit when you meet them first. Weird.

kfallon

MrsD007 wrote: »

I'm on very good terms with my ex's but I'm so glad that I didn't marry any of them.

Cos you have your eye on that Tesco Delivery guy? :pac:

smugchik

Looking at my ex relationship is like looking at a mangled train wreck and wondering how the hell I got out in one piece. When I look back, I realise that he was crazy and among other things, had obsessive compulsive disorder. My 'new' relationship is with a wonderful funny guy who is the nicest but also untidiest man in the world. Sometimes I miss the obsessive compulsive...;)

fee fi fo fum

I'll never get over the disapointment if i don't find a way back to a very special one.