Dont take your little babies to noisy shops!

softmee

I was in a popular shop with ladies clothes yesterday when I saw those little scared eyes in a pram. The baby was absolutely horrified when mother was searching for clothes in shopping trance. Music there was much to loud even for adult - not to mention maybe three months old baby! Young babies have very fragile nervous systems and its much to much for them to be surrounded by so much sounds, people and colours! If you dont want your child to be half deaf and have some developmental problems try leave him/her with somebody while shopping! Not to mention sooo many prams in small shops are annoying..

Biggins

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

(You have a point though!)

decisions

Was someone abused as a child...?

mattjack

IN fact keep your children in your wombs....p.s. whats a fragile nerve system..?

phasers

Single mothers need to get their bacardi breezer and rob from penneys too you know, how are they meant to do that if their dole won't stretch to a babysitter? They can't stay home alone until they're 3!

Uncaring monster.

mattjack

did you look into the pram......?

Biggins

mattjack wrote: »

....p.s. whats a fragile nerve system..?

Jedward.

Abi

softmee wrote: »

I was in a popular shop with ladies clothes yesterday when I saw those little scared eyes in a pram. The baby was absolutely horrified when mother was searching for clothes in shopping trance. Music there was much to loud even for adult - not to mention maybe three months old baby! Young babies have very fragile nervous systems and its much to much for them to be surrounded by so much sounds, people and colours! If you dont want your child to be half deaf and have some developmental problems try leave him/her with somebody while shopping! Not to mention sooo many prams in small shops are annoying..

You should have offered her your baby-sitting services. How loud is loud exactly?



Tip: Babies also cry when they're hungry, tired, need winding, or feeling unwell also.

Celly Smunt

i don't like new age parenting,babies aren't that fragile mentally

softmee

Abi wrote: »

You should have offered her your baby-sitting services. How loud is loud exactly?



Tip: Babies also cry when they're hungry, tired, need winding, or feeling unwell also.

This one wasnt crying -it was looking around scared and dont tell me its immpossible to find somebody once a month to stay with a baby.

electrobanana

The music only up loud to drown out the sounds of crying babies:p

alwaysadub

Maybe the baby had those little scared eyes cos some stranger was gawping into the pram at them?

softmee

pmcmahon wrote: »

new age parenting

:pac: what?

Celly Smunt

softmee wrote: »

:pac: what?

supernanny crap,you know,taking advice on parenting from a person who doesn't have a children

artanevilla

Fύck that shίt, when I was his age I was out cutting turf.

Abi

softmee wrote: »

This one wasnt crying -it was looking around scared and dont tell me its immpossible to find somebody once a month to stay with a baby.

Did you ask her that, or were you too busy standing back judging her?


And another thing, mothers are only allowed out once a month to find some clothes? Let me guess, childrens allowance day? I'd like to see you post this drivel over in the parenting forum.

Not to mention sooo many prams in small shops are annoying..

You're totally right. They should form an orderly que outside the door and let only one in at a time - so you can fire the evuls at them all individually.

flutterflye

softmee wrote: »

If you dont want your child to be half deaf and have some developmental problems try leave him/her with somebody while shopping

This is actually more ridiculous than any other comment I have read on here to date!

wild_cat

Abi wrote: »

You're totally right. They should form an orderly que outside the door and let only one in at a time - so you can fire the evuls at them all individually.

My shins and the calves of my legs would love that. No more pain.

stovelid

softmee wrote: »

Not to mention sooo many prams in small shops are annoying..

The brass tacks of the matter.

softmee

stovelid wrote: »

The brass tacks of the matter.

No its not. I really felt sorry for this baby and its wasnt the first I've seen confused like this. I just hate this stupid life style when poor kinds are dragged to shops few days a week like there is nothing better to do! Sad

stovelid

softmee wrote: »

No its not. I really felt sorry for this baby and its wasnt the first I've seen confused like this. I just hate this stupid life style when poor kinds are dragged to shops few days a week like there is nothing better to do! Sad

That's certainly clarified things for me anyway.

superfish

ffs its just a bit of music unless the kid was bleeding from its ears id say it would be just fine it probably looked in distress because some strange woman was staring into the pram and taking down note to post up on boards

softmee

superfish wrote: »

ffs its just a bit of music unless the kid was bleeding from its ears id say it would be just fine

sooo ignorant ......

-have you ever heard about something called decybels? There is a limit of how many your inner ears can take and -younger you are lower the limit!
-and there if no bleeding when your hearing is damaged!

cesc77

softmee wrote: »

No its not. I really felt sorry for this baby and its wasnt the first I've seen confused like this. I just hate this stupid life style when poor kinds are dragged to shops few days a week like there is nothing better to do! Sad

Softmee,you may have erred in posting here.

Sympathy and understanding within AH is quite hard to achieve.

Ps...stop using the word "much".I read it so many times that it didnt sound like a proper word,much.:pac:

jimthemental

artanevilla wrote: »

Fύck that shίt, when I was his age I was out cutting turf.

That's nothing, I was forking bales of hay up on to trailers from the pram. They used put a calf and the dehorning iron into the playpen with me and let me work.

superfish

softmee wrote: »

sooo ignorant ......

-have you ever heard about something called decybels? There is a limit of how many your inner ears can take and -younger you are lower the limit!
-and there if no bleeding when your hearing is damaged!

ha ha ha ha im posting this response because this is after hours and I can


Also because im ignorant.......................popcorn time :pac:

Abi

''The poor poor babies.. god love their poor little ears... who do they think they are bringing their buggies into shops!! how dare they do this to me!!''





/jumps through window

Elmidena

Abi wrote: »

''The poor poor babies.. god love their poor little ears... who do they think they are bringing their buggies into shops!! how dare they do this to me!!''





/jumps through window

Will you be using your store card to pay for that?

Standard Toaster

Stranger Danger!!

Acoshla

softmee wrote: »

sooo ignorant ......

-have you ever heard about something called decybels? There is a limit of how many your inner ears can take and -younger you are lower the limit!
-and there if no bleeding when your hearing is damaged!

I'd be more worried about a child being taught about decybels (hint, it's i, not y) and having poor grammar, punctuation, and general comprehension skills than of the damage a bit of music might do in a shop for a few minutes.

And OP unless you've been systematically following this woman how do you know she's bringing the baby to the shops all the time because she has nothing better to do?

cesc77

Acoshla wrote: »

I'd be more worried about a child being taught about decybels (hint, it's i, not y) and having poor grammar, punctuation, and general comprehension skills than of the damage a bit of music might do in a shop for a few minutes.

And OP unless you've been systematically following this woman how do you know she's bringing the baby to the shops all the time because she has nothing better to do?

More worried about spelling than ear damage?:confused


And maybe people should give the OP a break,she was concerned about the kid.

softmee

Acoshla wrote: »

I'd be more worried about a child being taught about decybels (hint, it's i, not y) and having poor grammar, punctuation, and general comprehension skills than of the damage a bit of music might do in a shop for a few minutes.

And OP unless you've been systematically following this woman how do you know she's bringing the baby to the shops all the time because she has nothing better to do?

I would like to read your bit of text in German/French or whatever other language you know apart from english - if any! I am not english native speaker, so maybe a little more tolerance?
The issue is not this particular baby but as I mentioned before this "lifestyle". After reading this I think you are all this kind of people... feeding yourselfs and your kids in mcdonalds, watching tv and not thinking too much in general. Good luck with your empty lifes! No wonder kids are more and more stupid.

superfish

softmee wrote: »

I would like to read your bit of text in German/French or whatever other language you know apart from english - if any! I am not english native speaker, so maybe a little more tolerance?
The issue is not this particular baby but as I mentioned before this "lifestyle". After reading this I think you are all this kind of people... feeding yourselfs and your kids in mcdonalds, watching tv and not thinking too much in general. Good luck with your empty lifes! No wonder kids are more and more stupid.

German

Ich würde mehr Sorgen um ein Kind zu decybels gelehrt und mit schlechter Grammatik, Zeichensetzung und allgemeine Leseverständnis als der Schaden ein wenig Musik in einem Geschäft für ein paar Minuten tun könnte.

Und OP sei denn, Sie haben systematisch nach dieser Frau wie Sie wissen, sie bringt das Kind in die Läden die ganze Zeit, weil sie nichts Besseres zu tun hat?

french

Je serais plus inquiet qu'un enfant soit enseigné au sujet decybels et ayant la mauvaise grammaire, la ponctuation et les capacités de compréhension générale que des dégâts un peu de musique peut faire dans une boutique pour quelques minutes.

Et OP sauf si vous avez été systématiquement après cette femme comment savez-vous qu'elle porte le bébé dans les magasins tout le temps parce qu'elle n'a rien de mieux à faire?

How ya like them apples op boo ya!!

softmee

superfish wrote: »

German

Ich würde mehr Sorgen um ein Kind zu decybels gelehrt und mit schlechter Grammatik, Zeichensetzung und allgemeine Leseverständnis als der Schaden ein wenig Musik in einem Geschäft für ein paar Minuten tun könnte.

Und OP sei denn, Sie haben systematisch nach dieser Frau wie Sie wissen, sie bringt das Kind in die Läden die ganze Zeit, weil sie nichts Besseres zu tun hat?

french

Je serais plus inquiet qu'un enfant soit enseigné au sujet decybels et ayant la mauvaise grammaire, la ponctuation et les capacités de compréhension générale que des dégâts un peu de musique peut faire dans une boutique pour quelques minutes.

Et OP sauf si vous avez été systématiquement après cette femme comment savez-vous qu'elle porte le bébé dans les magasins tout le temps parce qu'elle n'a rien de mieux à faire?

How ya like them apples op boo ya!!

a) I didnt ask you
b) yes, I can use google translator too.

cesc77

softmee wrote: »

I would like to read your bit of text in German/French or whatever other language you know apart from english - if any! I am not english native speaker, so maybe a little more tolerance?
The issue is not this particular baby but as I mentioned before this "lifestyle". After reading this I think you are all this kind of people... feeding yourselfs and your kids in mcdonalds, watching tv and not thinking too much in general. Good luck with your empty lifes! No wonder kids are more and more stupid.

Sympathy gone.

Too much tolerance shown to the newbie.

Castigating a nation as they dont believe in your posts doesnt help your understanding of this country.

I agree with some of your parting shot post but......


If you dont like it......leave.

Both the forum and the country.

No-one forces you to stay.

cesc77

softmee wrote: »

a) I didnt ask you
b) yes, I can use google translator too.

a)yes you did

b)no you cant

softmee

cesc77 wrote: »

Sympathy gone.

Too much tolerance shown to the newbie.

Castigating a nation as they dont believe in your posts doesnt help your understanding of this country.

I agree with some of your parting shot post but......


If you dont like it......leave.

Both the forum and the country.

No-one forces you to stay.

Castigating a nation??? :pac: Dont be ridiculous! I didnt say I dont like the forum or the country! I dont like ignorance!
-and I dont care about your sympathy -sorry!

Thanks god in real life people are not so dull like here!

Elmidena

softmee wrote: »

I would like to read your bit of text in German/French or whatever other language you know apart from english - if any! I am not english native speaker, so maybe a little more tolerance?
The issue is not this particular baby but as I mentioned before this "lifestyle". After reading this I think you are all this kind of people... feeding yourselfs and your kids in mcdonalds, watching tv and not thinking too much in general. Good luck with your empty lifes! No wonder kids are more and more stupid.

Well gosh, what did I do to invoke that response?

1] There is no McDonalds anywhere near where I live, until last year or so there was no McDonalds in the COUNTY I live in.

2] I do not have a TV.

3] I do not have children. My partner lives in a different county altogether, so this is a good thing in terms of stable childhood development (according to Piaget, whom I have studied).

4] I tend to overthink, if anything.

5] My life is quite empty, thank you for hurting my feelings and giving me the cold hard slap of reality. My day had been going quite well before that.

6] If I did have baby goats, I am sure that they would not be STUPIDER than baby goats from a generation ago. In fact, as a child my family had two baby goats. Mine was called Brownie and my sister's was called Susie. They were quite amicable. I loved looking after Brownie (who, incidentally, was brown). I used to like bringing her to her shed at night. This changed when I was four years old, holding her rope to take her up the field and she pulled me over, skinning me from forehead to my ankles. I got blood all over the pretty new dress that my Dad had sent from a recent visit as he lived in England. This happened during the Sunday night finals of Italia 90. I was very sad five years later when we had to give them away as they were too difficult for my mother to cope with.

superfish

softmee wrote: »

Castigating a nation??? :pac: Dont be ridiculous! I didnt say I dont like the forum or the country! I dont like ignorance!
-and I dont care about your sympathy -sorry!

well if you dont like ignorance why the feck did you come to ireland sure all us paddys do is sit round eating mc donnalds and forcing our kids to listen to loud music whilst we perv on all the foreign ones

Standard Toaster

This thread gives me lulz

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nh2iyPmucFk

softmee

superfish wrote: »

well if you dont like ignorance why the feck did you come to ireland sure all us paddys do is sit round eating mc donnalds and forcing our kids to listen to loud music whilst we perv on all the foreign ones

There is just as many or more people like that in my own country and everywhere else, what I said has nothing to do with beeing irish or not irish, I was talking about some kind of people and thats it...

cesc77

softmee wrote: »

Castigating a nation??? :pac: Dont be ridiculous! I didnt say I dont like the forum or the country! I dont like ignorance!
-and I dont care about your sympathy -sorry!

Thanks god in real life people are not so dull like here!

Fair enough.What started as an observation pretty much ended with your opinion on our country,lifestyles,eating habits and child rearing skills.

What country are you originally from,if you dont mind me asking?

You are quite defensive.If you feel people in real life are not so dull,why did you raise initial issue here?

superfish

softmee wrote: »

There is just as many or more people like that in my own country and everywhere else, what I said has nothing to do with beeing irish or not irish, I was talking about some kind of people and thats it...

I hear how all you foreign ones talk about the irish when we are not round you may think we are all stupid and useless lay abouts but your quite happy to work in our shops

softmee

cesc77 wrote: »

Fair enough.What started as an observation pretty much ended with your opinion on our country,lifestyles,eating habits and child rearing skills.

What country are you originally from,if you dont mind me asking?

You are quite defensive.If you feel people in real life are not so dull,why did you raise initial issue here?

No, it has nothing to do with my opinion about this country at all!
I'm from Poland.
-and I started this thread because I just felt it's wrong to expose newborns to so much noise too many times. I know it not possible to avoid it completely, but as so many people are doing it almost on a daily basis -it must affect those children somehow and by posting this I was hoping maybe to speak to few and make them think about it and maybe try not to do this too many times -that's it!

softmee

superfish wrote: »

I hear how all you foreign ones talk about the irish when we are not round you may think we are all stupid and useless lay abouts but your quite happy to work in our shops

No, I dont think you are all stupid, just the opposite.
I dont work in a shop and I wouldnt be happy to work in one.
-and I think you are slightly paranoid. :rolleyes:

superfish

softmee wrote: »

No, I dont think you are all stupid, just the opposite.
I dont work in a shop and I wouldnt be happy to work in one.
-and I think you are slightly paranoid. :rolleyes:

OH now your too good to work in our shops you will leave the crap jobs to the Irish is it ???


im gonna stop now your too easy to wind up an im starting to feel mean so no hard feelings softmee just remember if you post in after hours people will take the piss

softmee

superfish wrote: »

OH now your too good to work in our shops you will leave the crap jobs to the Irish is it ???


im gonna stop now your too easy to wind up an im starting to feel mean so no hard feelings softmee just remember if you post in after hours people will take the piss

:rolleyes: Yes, I am too good and qualified to have a different one.
I dont care about people "taking piss" :pac: or whatever, I just wanted few mothers to read it!
Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Abi

Thread.

Shosh

softmee wrote: »

:rolleyes: Yes, I am too good and qualified to have a different one.
I dont care about people "taking piss"
Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

she wants to take piss!:eek:
Somebody blast her!:D

Aoifey!

Sunshine! wrote: »

Well gosh, what did I do to invoke that response?

1] There is no McDonalds anywhere near where I live, until last year or so there was no McDonalds in the COUNTY I live in.

You're from Wexford, aren't you?

Jumpy

Abi wrote: »

You should have offered her your baby-sitting services. How loud is loud exactly?



Tip: Babies also cry when they're hungry, tired, need winding, or feeling unwell also.

Dont be silly. Babies are battery powered now, they havent needed to be wound for years.

Pfft ... Granny *rolls eyes*