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David Norris' presidential bid at risk?

  • 31-05-2011 4:37pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,201 ✭✭✭


    http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/breaking/2011/0531/breaking27.html.

    I'm not even sure if I was going to vote for David Norris if he secured the nomination (even though I have utmost respect and admiration for him) as I want to weigh up all the pros and cons of the final list of eligible candidates before I make my decision. However, the attached article saddens me as I can't help thinking there is a whiff of homophobia about the intentions of the journalist in question. Would it even have come up as an issue if a straight interviewee made such comments?

    Would be interested to here other posters views.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 638 ✭✭✭Endymion


    Yes it would have come up if a straight public figure had made the comments he made. You're being very disingenuous to suggest otherwise, and it's extremely weak to try and dismiss this as homophobic. The quotes are accurate, he said what he said. The only thing up for debate was the contents and what was extrapolated from the comments. I read the article years ago and was wondering when it would come up in his campaign. This combined with his defence of Cathal O'Searcaigh and various talks I've been to has lead me to believe the man exists on another planet were everything is an academic debate with zero thought ever given to how it might be perceived.

    For this reason, I won't be voting for the senator. Not because I believe he genuinely supports incest (I'd imagine he has no concept of the realities of it all) but because his mouth is an absolute liability.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,089 ✭✭✭✭hotmail.com


    Why is this being posted in the LGBT section? This isn't an LGBT issue.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 638 ✭✭✭Endymion


    Why is this being posted in the LGBT section? This isn't an LGBT issue.

    Denial, it isn't just a river in Egypt. The first openly gay presidential candidature of the country, is an LGBT issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,089 ✭✭✭✭hotmail.com


    Endymion wrote: »
    Denial, it isn't just a river in Egypt. The first openly gay presidential candidature of the country, is an LGBT issue.

    This has nothing to do with LGBT issues.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 638 ✭✭✭Endymion


    Says you... ?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Why is this being posted in the LGBT section? This isn't an LGBT issue.

    Gay presidential candidate being discussed, therefore it is suitable for discussion in here.

    Back on topic please.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,986 ✭✭✭✭mikemac


    Don't play that card OP

    It was always going to come up, every candidate will be asked questions over their history.

    And probably best for him it happens now and not on live TV in a debate and he wasn't expecting it. He had all last night to compose a response for Pat Kenny Show.
    But realy it's a side issue

    He has even more explaining to do over rushing to defend Cathal O'Searcaigh. He needs an response to the inevitable questions here.
    The media will ask in the coming months and no, it isn't homophobic to ask why he did it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3 WarnerT


    Have to agree with Endymion here, unfortunately.
    I think David Norris is of an age and class of gay man who saw themselves as following in the lineage of what they saw as the misunderstood but ancient tradition of man boy love.
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pederasty

    I too remember my dismay at hearing David being quoted as saying
    In the article, Mr Norris is reported as saying: "I cannot understand how anybody could find children of either sex in the slightest bit attractive sexually ... but in terms of classic paedophilia, as practised by the Greeks, for example, where it is an older man introducing a younger man to adult life, there can be something said for it. Now, again, this is not something that appeals to me.

    "Although, when I was younger, I would have greatly relished the prospect of an older, attractive, mature man taking me under his wing, lovingly introducing me to sexual realities, treating me with affection, teaching me about life."

    His defence of Cathal O'Searcaigh further convinced me that neither David nor Cathal understood that people were objecting to the abuse of power with these youths and not to homosexuality itself.

    I think the love of youth and the abuse of power needs to be talked about in Gay circles.
    I think there is a lot of denial and defensiveness around the subject but I do believe pederasty needs to be addressed.
    There is a line from young man and boy and perhaps more importantly there is sometimes just an imbalance of power.
    But where is that line and often the person holding the power sees themselves as a benign benafactor protesting loudly and crying at how misunderstood they are.
    So how young is too young, how big an age difference is too much, or is it a combination of age and priveledge.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,148 ✭✭✭✭KnifeWRENCH


    This has nothing to do with LGBT issues.

    If he was just a gay man who happened to be running for president, I'd agree. But given his record of campaigning for civil rights and LGBT issues, I think it's quite relevant.

    On topic, there is definitely a smear campaign out there against him. Supposedly he is now in favour of incest, paedophilia, joining the Commonwealth and regards the men of the Easter Rising as terrorists. :rolleyes:

    Norris' biggest problem is his inability to see when people are out to get him; he will wax intellectual to anyone about any subject, and he is certainly a man who knows a lot on almost every subject under the sun, but he never seems to realise that his words will be twisted, taken out of context and used against him.

    I will still (almost certainly) vote for him. Alas, I'm not as optimistic about his chances anymore. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 638 ✭✭✭Endymion


    Not only that, he doesn't realise how someone could be offended when his words are taken in context and without twisting. I have absolutely not doubt that he saw nothing overly wrong with the MacGill article until after it blew up in his face.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,033 ✭✭✭thebullkf


    interesting in that he didn't retract them. I also heard he naver actually said the men of 1916 were terrorists (obviously a sticking point come the centenary). His defense of O'Searcaigh is also a concern.
    As someone else said before,an excellent radio guest but not an excellent candidate... i wonder- if he wasn't Gay would he have less or more support:confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,905 ✭✭✭Aard


    Endymion wrote: »
    Not only that, he doesn't realise how someone could be offended when his words are taken in context and without twisting. I have absolutely not doubt that he saw nothing overly wrong with the MacGill article until after it blew up in his face.
    Yeah. He should learn to differenciate between "mass media interview" and "niche ivory-tower-ing on Greek history".


    I don't think there was anything wrong with his comments per se, it just was a case of wrong place, wrong time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 47 jamijary


    He is pretty stupid to think this interview wouldn't be dragged up? all candidates will have to face up to things they said/did in the past, that's politics.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,220 ✭✭✭Ambersky


    In the early 80s I attended a workshop run by the men of MANBLA or the man boy love association, at a conference in Canada organised by the NLGF or National Lesbian and Gay Federation.
    The men were looking for the legalisation of sex with children who they saw as being intrinsicly sexual and having a right to express that sexuality.
    They also saw their struggle for recognition to be alligned with the struggle for Lesbian and Gay rights and were seeking support from the NLGF. I think they were looking for affiliation.
    To be giving an official workshop at the conference in the first place showed that they did have some support, but the women of the Lesbian Mothers Defense Fund organised to be at the workshop and oppose the men of MANBLA.
    It became a highly controversial event and effectively split the community at the time.
    Im bringing this up to show that the issue of attitude to under age sex is not a new controversy and to say that there are many in the gay community who defended sex with minors as a right, or as not that serious a problem.
    I also want to say how familiar the explanations and excuses are, the crying and the indignation and far from showing innocence, denial and and inability to see the seriousness of the issue appears to be common among those who engage in man boy love and their supporters.

    All of the men spoke about their experiences of sex with minors ranging in age from babies to teens.
    They spoke about how the particular practices they took pleasure in were of no harm to the children and were in fact liberating and loving for them.
    None of the men saw any harm in anything they did.
    They were also, all able to give examples of how they thought others went too far or were damaging to children but were very adamant that what they themselves did was different.
    One would say he was ok because he never went for children under 10, another would say he never forced anyone, another that he didnt engage in penetrative sex and another would say he never locked the door or never actually tied anyone up.
    All of these excuses and carefully drawn lines designed to make the perp feel like its ok.

    Innocence and purity were charachteristics I heard the men say they found attractive in children.
    They seemed to also see themselves as pure and good somewhat at a remove from the tarnished world of adulthood.
    Anyone I have ever heard being accused of child abuse or pederasty has always protested that anything he ever did was done in the spirit of love.
    He is usually astonished that others are saying otherwise and are making his gentle pure experience seem sully or dirty somehow.
    He protests his goodness and says look at my reputation.

    Even if David is saying he himself is not attracted to children, his language is simular to the men I heard justifying man boy love.
    As I said all the men I heard said they were ok, they werent like the bad pedophiles you hear about because they knew where to draw the line, Davids line seems to be penetration, children shouldnt be penetrated, but the rest in negotiable.

    If this is what he is saying he needs to cop onto himself and it doesnt matter that he has an excellent record in ever other regard.
    This issue, this regard - the sexual abuse of children - has damaged the lives of so many, so deeply, that anything that offers support or justification for it needs to be challenged immediately.
    In my opinion if the comments attributed to David Norris below are accurate it should have caused more of a controversy at the time of publication nine years ago.
    It is coming up now again in light of a Presidential race but maybe it has taken this length to develop a better understanding of the seriousness of sexual abuse of minors.
    Are the quotes from this article an accurate account of where David stands.
    I have read his explanation and it sounds like he is only saying penetration is wrong but "fiddling around" is not so bad.
    http://sites.google.com/site/norrisarticle/

    Senator David Norris, Magill Article 2002
    Magill Magazine, January 2002, pp34-36

    David Norris: The Free Radical.
    Interview by Helen Lucy Burke.

    ...I found some of his views on sexual matters deeply disturbing - notably on sex with minors...

    "In terms of classic paedophilia, as practised by the Greeks for example, where it is an older man introducing a younger man or boy to adult life, I think there can be something to be said for it. And in terms of North African experience this is endemic.
    Now again, this is not something that appeals to me, although when I was younger it would most certainly have appealed to me in the sense that I would have greatly relished the prospect of an older, attractive, mature man taking me under his wing, lovingly introducing me to sexual realities, and treating me with affection and teaching me about life - yes, I think that would be lovely; I would have enjoyed that."...

    "But I think there is complete and utter hysteria about this subject, and there is also confusion between ... paedophilia and pederasty..."[David Norris clarified this later, explaining that genital sexual penetration of juveniles of either sex would be inappropiate and harmful]...

    "In my opinion, the teacher, or Christian Brother, who puts his hand into a boy's pocket during a history lesson, that is one end of the spectrum. but then there is another: there is the person who attacks children of either sex, rapes them, brutalises them, and then murders them. But the way things are presented here it's almost as if they were all exactly the same and I don't think they are. and I have to tell you this -- I think that the children in some instances are more damaged by the condemnation than by the actual experience."

    The right of unfettered sexual activity guided by the principle of mutual consent would be Norris's perception of the way things should be, with a bar only on intimidation, bullying or bribery. He did not appear to endorse any minimum age or endure any protest that a child was not capable of informed consent. "The law in this sphere should take in to account consent rather than age". When I asked about incest, he hesitated, and concluded that in the case of girls a case could be made for a ban, as possible resulting pregnancy might be genetically undesirable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,158 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    mikemac wrote: »
    Don't play that card OP

    It was always going to come up, every candidate will be asked questions over their history.

    And probably best for him it happens now and not on live TV in a debate and he wasn't expecting it. He had all last night to compose a response for Pat Kenny Show.
    But realy it's a side issue

    He has even more explaining to do over rushing to defend Cathal O'Searcaigh. He needs an response to the inevitable questions here.
    The media will ask in the coming months and no, it isn't homophobic to ask why he did it
    Ah but it's clear that it's people with an anti-gay agenda who are jumping on this bandwagon. I don't necessarily think HLB was motivated by homophobia but a lot of others area

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Johnnymcg wrote: »
    Ah but it's clear that it's people with an anti-gay agenda who are jumping on this bandwagon. I don't necessarily think HLB was motivated by homophobia but a lot of others area


    No it isn't at all clear. A lot of people are on this bandwagon because incest and child abuse isn't an academic topic for them. He's entitled to his opinions, but they are his opinions and he has to stand by them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    endy151 wrote: »
    No it isn't at all clear. A lot of people are on this bandwagon because incest and child abuse isn't an academic topic for them. He's entitled to his opinions, but they are his opinions and he has to stand by them.
    And he can stand by his opinions without my vote.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,986 ✭✭✭✭mikemac


    Johnnymcg wrote: »
    Ah but it's clear that it's people with an anti-gay agenda who are jumping on this bandwagon. I don't necessarily think HLB was motivated by homophobia but a lot of others area

    Ask a candidate for the highest office in the state to explain himself

    Scream homophobia and become defensive
    I think he's a better politician then that


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,158 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    mikemac wrote: »
    Ask a candidate for the highest office in the state to explain himself

    Scream homophobia and become defensive
    I think he's a better politician then that

    You clearly didn't read what I said and I'm not screaming anything.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,220 ✭✭✭Ambersky


    The catholic churches defense is
    • Its a media campaign against us
    • They are all anti church
    • We are the actual victims here

    Sound familiar?
    Just insert homophobic instead of anti church
    So why dont we learn from the churches past mistakes and not go down that route of defenseveness and denial.
    It doesnt matter who is doing the criticising and of course it is a homophobe field day, but lets not make it any worse.
    Why dont we just show our maturity and face the issue head on.

    David Norris has to listen to the reaction to his comments on underage sex.
    He may be surprised to find them challenged.
    But they may look different to him now and he may need to change and dare I say apologise.
    His bid for the Presidency is gone in my opinion anyway but he still needs to change.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 510 ✭✭✭CdeC


    HE says that it was an academic discussion on ancient greece, it is documented that young boys were taken in by older men who acted as teachers and brought them into adulthood. This involved some sexual contact.
    While this is historic fact it does not mean that we live in this type of society. I don't think anything that Senator Norris said suggests that he finds this type of practice acceptable in modern Irish society. I think he should just release a statement and leave it at that. Hopefully our educated population can make their own mind up to what he meant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,905 ✭✭✭Aard


    I think anyone who takes 10 seconds to process what he said will realise that, CdeC. It's the red-tops and Chinese whispers that he should worry about.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 170 ✭✭Ms.Odgeynist


    The tapes need to come out.
    There are certain things he said that are certainly being construed differently due to the fact that he is a gay man.
    I am straight, and if I said that as a young man I would have liked and older woman to teach me about sex, no problem.

    However certain other things that were said need explaining.
    It is stating the obvious to say that there is a spectrum when it comes to the sexual abuse of children. That is not to say that any of it is ok. It is all heinous, but even the law discriminates between the seriousness of various offenses.

    Regarding HLB, I think she should be obliged to produce these tapes. It is very easy to make allegations and have them stick. Its an age old story. All I would say is that Norris seemed happy to stand by what he said, and himself called for the tapes to be released.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,073 ✭✭✭littlemac1980


    Well I believe Senator Norris's campaign is at risk, and has always been at risk, and I won't be voting for him simply because he is too volatile. He's a damn good politician, but in my opinion he's not suited to the role of the president as it currently exists in Ireland.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,220 ✭✭✭Ambersky


    If the Magill article is so different from what David actually believes why didnt he take a court case against them.

    If someone printed an article saying I believed sex with minors wasnt so bad
    or any of this http://sites.google.com/site/norrisarticle/ as I have already quoted I would be hopping mad and everyone would know that a terrible thing was done to me.
    I wouldnt just be issuing denials now, nine years later.

    If the statements are so contrary to what David believes why did he defend
    Cathal O’ Searcaigh http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fairytale_of_Kathmandu
    a man who was having sex with young men he was buying school books for.
    That goes beyond an intellectual discussion on the ancient greeks.

    I think we need to face it David has some dangerous thinking around sex with minors.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,158 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Ambersky wrote: »
    If the Magill article is so different from what David actually believes why didnt he take a court case against them.

    If someone printed an article saying I believed sex with minors wasnt so bad
    or any of this http://sites.google.com/site/norrisarticle/ as I have already quoted I would be hopping mad and everyone would know that a terrible thing was done to me.
    I wouldnt just be issuing denials now, nine years later.

    If the statements are so contrary to what David believes why did he defend
    Cathal O’ Searcaigh http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fairytale_of_Kathmandu
    a man who was having sex with young men he was buying school books for.
    That goes beyond an intellectual discussion on the ancient greeks.

    I think we need to face it David has some dangerous thinking around sex with minors.


    Was Cathal O Searchaigh found guilty of something?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 905 ✭✭✭easychair


    Well I believe Senator Norris's campaign is at risk, and has always been at risk, and I won't be voting for him simply because he is too volatile. He's a damn good politician, but in my opinion he's not suited to the role of the president as it currently exists in Ireland.

    Maybe he shoudl change his name to Mary to be assured of the job?

    Seriously, the presidents "job" is very simple and consists of appoint and dismissing a governments, and, eh, thats about it. That the last two presidents have had bigger ego's than that and wanted to be seen as huggers and kissers was all very well, but it's nothing to do with the role.

    I expect Norris will be as good as anyone else in the role.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,073 ✭✭✭littlemac1980


    I'd be concerned he wouldn't be able to maintain a required degree of diplomacy when required.

    He is very outspoken, and very capable of voicing his opinions and views. Such characteristics don't readily suit the post in my opinion, for the simple reason, as you suggest, that the 'job' is more simple than that.

    I'm sure you left out the ';)' after your comment re 'Mary', both of whom have been exceptional representatives of our country.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,148 ✭✭✭✭KnifeWRENCH


    easychair wrote: »
    Seriously, the presidents "job" is very simple and consists of appoint and dismissing a governments, and, eh, thats about it. That the last two presidents have had bigger ego's than that and wanted to be seen as huggers and kissers was all very well, but it's nothing to do with the role.

    :eek:
    Oh, you did NOT just insult Mary Robinson....


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,220 ✭✭✭Ambersky


    At the beginning of this and whenever the connection between homosexuality and child abuse are brought up there is an immediate cry that child abuse and homosexuality are two different issues.

    I imagine all the younger posters here are well versed in this as almost a knee jerk counter argument at this stage.
    However I wonder how much thought has gone into it.

    All the organisations working for child welfare have a basic tenent too and that is we need to learn to, think of and see things, from the point of view of the child first.
    That is the basis of the Children first Campaign

    Every past experience involving any organisation and dealing with any gender or sexual orientation, from the church to the family have first attacked the victim and then defended the accused.
    It has taken ages for stories to get out, be listen to and taken seriously, perhaps, but not always, leading to court cases
    We as a society dont seem to be able to see things from the point of view of the victim or the child or young minor taken advantage of.
    This discussion has focused on David as a very nice man, someone we owe a debt of gratitude to, someone who opens his mouth and just says what he is thinking unaware of the consequences.
    Im not concerned about David.
    I am concerned about the youths and children who have been and are being sexually exploited.
    I am concerned that what David has said and believes could help justify the actions of abusers and put children and youths in danger.

    I had hoped the LGBT community at this stage would be more mature and be capable of saying
    it is against our basic principles that our young people be taken advantage of, by older privileged men offering books, education, food, clothing, travel and other neccessary and luxury items not normally available to these youths particularly in poorer countries.

    This is part of the reason we have organisations here like BeLongTo so that our youth have the chance to develop with others of a simular age and be able to learn about life and love, in relationships with an equal power balance.

    We can not be saying to society that Homosexuality has nothing to do with child abuse and at the same time find it acceptable that middle aged gay men habitually sleep with sixteen year old youths and younger.
    It appears that seventeen is the legal age here ( is it) but some gay men travel to countries like Morocco, Nepal and Tailand where they can legally sleep with sixteen year olds but have admitted to sleeping with younger.
    That is unethical in my opinion and why are gay people so reluctant to condem this behaviour.
    Do the readers and posters of this forum find this behaviour acceptable?

    The quotes from the Magill article saying
    The right of unfettered sexual activity guided by the principle of mutual consent would be Norris's perception of the way things should be, with a bar only on intimidation, bullying or bribery. He did not appear to endorse any minimum age

    I need to hear David say he does not agree with the above statement.
    It is not enough to say it is taken out of context.
    No context would be ok to say the above.
    I would like him to contradict the statement and say what he does find unacceptabe in sexual contact with children and minors.
    It is not good enough to say go find the tapes if he does believe the general spirit of the statement in quotes.

    So I am asking posters here directly, do you think habitual sexual activity between middle aged men and youths seventeen and younger is ok.

    I am specifically saying sexual activity because I am not drawing lines like, yes if you dont do anal or if there is no penetration and unlike David I am not saying a Christian Brother fumbling in a boys pocket is at a lower scale, Im talking about any sexual activity between older men and youths seventeen and younger, is it ok or not?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    It is Not ok at any time or level! it is at best sexual assault and at worst rape. Afaik it is even a crime to converse with a minor in a sexual manner for the purposes of grooming or preparing them for other sexual activity.

    The offering of books or other "favours" may be misconstrued by people who think the perpetrator is misguided and acting in the best interests of the child but it is purely to make the child feel endebted to the adult so it will be easier to have their way with them, these men are seeing the children as nothing more then prostitutes it means nothing to them and they can go home and play with their own sons nephews and view them in a different way to the boys they abuse.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,199 ✭✭✭twinQuins


    Ambersky wrote: »
    [...]So far there doesnt seem to be a rush for posters to distance themselves from such thinking.[...]

    Such thinking only makes sense if you are of the opinion that David Norris speaks for all gay men.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,905 ✭✭✭Aard


    If bookies are anything to go by, Norris has just slipped from pole position into second over the past few days. He fell from 2.62 to 3.00, while Pat Cox rose from 4.00 to 3.00.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,220 ✭✭✭Ambersky


    Your right twinQuins there has been quite a lot of criticism of the remarks.
    I was getting a bit over heated there. Whew!
    Will edit appropriately


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    Mr Norris was on the Pat Kenny show the other morning and he explained EVERYTHING .He came across as articulate and a true gent that he is .Anyone who gives credence to this 10yr old article needs to listen to the PK show .Many things that were supposedly said by him in the Magill article were not ,it was the so called journalist who "interperted" and implied he meant such and such ...
    Judge the man on his actions ,not some incorrect 10yr old article
    I for one hope he will get the nomination and if he does I will vote for him


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 905 ✭✭✭easychair


    Ambersky wrote: »

    I am specifically saying sexual activity because I am not drawing lines like, yes if you dont do anal or if there is no penetration and unlike David I am not saying a Christian Brother fumbling in a boys pocket is at a lower scale, Im talking about any sexual activity between older men and youths seventeen and younger, is it ok or not?

    There are two issues here. One is the illegal sexual contact between over age and under age males, which is against the law.

    The other is age inappropriate relationships, where older men seek out young lads for sexual purposes, which is quite legal. Personally, I was often shocked when I see middle aged men on sites like gaydar seeking out young lads. While not illegal, I find such age inappropriate relationships distasteful.

    Gay men are often very sexually driven, and the types of sex they have and the number of partners is stil something the rest of society is not at al comfortable with.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    easychair wrote: »
    There are two issues here. One is the illegal sexual contact between over age and under age males, which is against the law.

    The other is age inappropriate relationships, where older men seek out young lads for sexual purposes, which is quite legal. Personally, I was often shocked when I see middle aged men on sites like gaydar seeking out young lads. While not illegal, I find such age inappropriate relationships distasteful.

    Gay men are often very sexually driven, and the types of sex they have and the number of partners is stil something the rest of society is not at al comfortable with.
    The comments attributed to senator Norris related to much older and socially powerful men much like himself having sex with underage males afaik saying that the boys/teens got some kind of. Experience out of it is just describing them as prostitutes because they have been paid for sex by having their school/college paid for or maybe brought on holidays etc.... We all know this goes on and we all know it is not limited to lads who are 18+


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    easychair wrote: »

    Gay men are often very sexually driven, and the types of sex they have and the number of partners is stil something the rest of society is not at al comfortable with.

    Thats quite a sweeping statement and ver stereotypical and I might add untrue.

    Men be they gay or straight are sexually driven ,look at the amount of "straight" guys who go out on a weekend night hoping to get laid and lots do.

    As for your last part where you say "the types of sex and the number of partners a gay man has ect ect ...Again I have to say your comment is sweeping and a huge generalisation.Many many gay men DO NOT have numerous partners ,Im also baffled by what you mean by "types of sex" as well


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 638 ✭✭✭Endymion


    Johnnymcg wrote: »
    Was Cathal O Searchaigh found guilty of something?

    Neither was Charles J haughey. You've made an extremely snipping comment here and are we to take it you support what O'Searchaigh was doing? That you would endorse it?

    Norris supported O'Searchaigh, and found nothing immoral in his actions, nothing wrong in them since they were not illegal in that particular country. Now Norris has indicated repeatedly that he has no desires or designs towards young men/boys. That it is wrong because it is illegal. However, he see's nothing inherently evil or wrong in those who do desire it.

    I do not support his morality, and nothing posted so far has indicated I'm wrong in that. The fact that he's given ammuniation to homophobes is of no concern.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 638 ✭✭✭Endymion


    easychair wrote: »
    Gay men are often very sexually driven, and the types of sex they have and the number of partners is stil something the rest of society is not at al comfortable with.

    You've taken your samples from Gay dating sites. Nuff said.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    I dunno lads. In my personal experience with gay men, there does seem to be a sizable number of winter-spring couples. I am not saying it is the norm, I am not saying it is wrong. But it definitely does happen, and in my personal experience it occurs more frequently than within the straight couples i know.


    I think it is a little wierd to not talk about it.


    (and also, i think my comment here is not too far gone from what norris is being strung up for either.)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 47 jamijary


    I find his whole attitude to the O'Searchaigh thing creepy! if O'Searchaigh was a priest and was going over there doing what he was doing would norris be so charitable but because he was an artist he was treated differently! as regards this interview if he felt he was misrepresented sue, it's a serious issue. I would!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    Endymion wrote: »
    Neither was Charles J haughey. You've made an extremely snipping comment here and are we to take it you support what O'Searchaigh was doing? That you would endorse it?

    Norris supported O'Searchaigh, and found nothing immoral in his actions, nothing wrong in them since they were not illegal in that particular country. Now Norris has indicated repeatedly that he has no desires or designs towards young men/boys. That it is wrong because it is illegal. However, he see's nothing inherently evil or wrong in those who do desire it.

    When did he ever say such a thing.The man has said repeatly that he abhors child abuse and paedohpilia yet you are making accusations in your above piece ,that Mr Norris never said


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    jamijary wrote: »
    I find his whole attitude to the O'Searchaigh thing creepy! if O'Searchaigh was a priest and was going over there doing what he was doing would norris be so charitable but because he was an artist he was treated differently! as regards this interview if he felt he was misrepresented sue, it's a serious issue. I would!

    What Mr Norris has said was he thinks Mr O Searchaigh deserved justice and proper right of reply .
    He (O Searchaigh) was found "guilty" of something by some carefully edited documentary and the usual rent a moans on Liveline.........
    With regard to his own "interview" if you read any of his replies to the Magill atricle ,you will see he answered everything ,So enough of the insinuations ,and speculations .Mr Norris has answered all and any questions related to the article .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,220 ✭✭✭Ambersky


    I would really like to hear David Norris say he is against all of the statements
    attributed to him in the Magill article.
    I would even like to hear him say that yes nine years ago he use to believe some of them but in light of the revelations around sex abuse that have come up since, he has changed his mind.

    This morning I decided to listen to the Pat Kenny interview
    Osindoyle says
    Mr Norris was on the Pat Kenny show the other morning and he explained EVERYTHING.
    That sounded promising.

    Now I’m listening very carefully because I want to hear David state his position on
    • Pederasty.
    • The spectrum argument. Is all sexual contact with minors wrong or is it just wrong if there is penetration.
    • What does he think is the minimum age of consent or should there be a minimum age.
    • Is incest wrong, in all cases and involving all kinds of sexual contact.

    I’m listening very carefully because I know from previous experience that wording is very important and without the right questions the truth of the issue can be evaded.
    Think of the Bill Clinton statement “I did not have sexual relations with that women”
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSDAXGXGiEw
    Again a very nice charasmatic man you would want to believe and I think he even made the statement under oath.
    He was only able to do that because he didn’t consider himself to have had sexual relations without penetration. Therefore in his own mind he wasnt lying.

    It seems that for some men the question of penetration or not in sexual relations is a very important distinction.
    If a person did not believe that just "fumbling around in a boys pocket" was sexual abuse because it didnt involve penetration but instead considered it to be a lower class of misdemeamor that could have serious consequences.
    A quote attributed to David from the Magill article brings up this very issue
    "But I think there is complete and utter hysteria about this subject, and there is also confusion between ... paedophilia and pederasty..."[David Norris clarified this later, explaining that genital sexual penetration of juveniles of either sex would be inappropiate and harmful]

    David himself draws an important distinction between pederasty and paedophilia; he has said he does not consider them to be the same thing.
    Therefore in the wording of his explanation to those concerned about the Magill article he needs to state specifically where he stands on pederasty.
    If you listen David always says he is against the abuse of children sexual emotional and physical, I havent heard him yet say he is against pederasty.
    Davids defence of Cathal O'Searchaig would appear to be supportive of those engaging in such relationships.

    Pederasty is not about relationships between older and younger adults.
    Many people are in healthy older/ younger relationships.
    This is more about someone who regularly seeks out relationships with immature youths seventeen years or younger.
    In such relationships there is often a power imbalance whereby the older man can offer money, clothes, education, travel and other necessary and luxury items not normally available to the younger person.

    Listening to the Pat Kenny interview David makes a very powerful emotional appeal, he asks us to think about how we would feel if we woke up one day to find ourselves the subject of such speculation.
    Now I wouldn’t like it, no one would, but I would quickly stop questioning his intentions if only he would answer the things I am concerned about.

    On the spectrum quote Pat Kenny says isn’t this what got Ken Clarke into trouble recently the issue of the spectrum and David says it might be but its still true.
    "In my opinion, the teacher, or Christian Brother, who puts his hand into a boy's pocket during a history lesson, that is one end of the spectrum. but then there is another: there is the person who attacks children of either sex, rapes them, brutalises them, and then murders them. But the way things are presented here it's almost as if they were all exactly the same and I don't think they are. and I have to tell you this -- I think that the children in some instances are more damaged by the condemnation than by the actual experience.
    David goes on to say how he is pro life (?) and how he is sure if he were that child he would rather stay alive. etc ...

    On the incest quote David says he hesitated answering it because anyone would hesitate when faced with such a question. "Once again I was looking for where was the greatest damage.. ..
    Incest is illegal, I am a legislator does anyone think I would condone what was illegal."
    Its not the same as saying its wrong, but ok, its illegal and he would not condone something that was illegal.
    Thats one for David.

    He goes on to say he never endorsed paedophilia or incest.
    Im still waiting for pederasty to be mentioned.
    Then David mentions the situation of two young people who are close together in age and says the law allows for discretion in these cases and he would agree with that.
    Pat asks but in terms of classic pederasty and quotes the Magill article.
    David answers I was not talking about paedophilia at all I was talking about pederasty ....among ancient Greeks... teasing out this subject referring to ancient classical Greece.....
    He goes on about ancient practices and an academic discussion, his support of women and children in Tailand and more about HLB

    I couldn’t keep up with notes, but I was listening and if anyone else can hear him say he is against pederasty in response to Pats direct question, do quote what exactly David says and I would be interested and relieved to hear it.
    have a listen to the podcast of the Pat Kenny Interview here
    http://www.rte.ie/podcasts/2011/pc/pod-v-31051128m34stodaywithpatkenny-pid0-1714224.mp3

    David seems to be saying his biggest regret is in giving an interview to a restaurant critic.
    Im more interested in the content of the article than on the circumstances of the article.
    Im more concerned about what all this says about the protection of children and youths, our attitudes to men travelling abroad for access to them.
    David does seem to have answered one of my questions on his position on incest, in that he says it is illegal and he could not support something that is illegal.
    I think he is against paedophilia where someone is clearly a child but Im not sure what age he thinks that ends or what exactly he considers sexual abuse outside of penetration.
    Im still not sure about his spectrum of seriousness in sexual abuse cases and I wonder why is he evading talking about his actual positon on pederasty.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 47 jamijary


    oisindoyle wrote: »
    What Mr Norris has said was he thinks Mr O Searchaigh deserved justice and proper right of reply .
    He (O Searchaigh) was found "guilty" of something by some carefully edited documentary and the usual rent a moans on Liveline.........
    With regard to his own "interview" if you read any of his replies to the Magill atricle ,you will see he answered everything ,So enough of the insinuations ,and speculations .Mr Norris has answered all and any questions related to the article .

    Well I think he hasn't!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    The fact that he has not come out and stated his absolute abhorrence of any type of sexual interaction between any man and any boy under 18 is enough for me! He should be investigated like that Cathal o searcaigh over his business in Thailand. Just how does he support women and children there as o searcaigh bought boys with school books it seems? But they were only paupers so he was doing them a favour.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 47 jamijary


    foggy_lad wrote: »
    The fact that he has not come out and stated his absolute abhorrence of any type of sexual interaction between any man and any boy under 18 is enough for me! He should be investigated like that Cathal o searcaigh over his business in Thailand. Just how does he support women and children there as o searcaigh bought boys with school books it seems? But they were only paupers so he was doing them a favour.

    Here here!! no better than a rich business man going over there throwing a few dollars/pounds/euros to a young girl! if Norris can not see the abuse in an older man or for that case woman throwing money at youngsters for sex he in needs a new moral compass!! (one not based in the anicent greeks)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 500 ✭✭✭who is this


    Ambersky wrote: »
    • What does he think is the minimum age of consent or should there be a minimum age.

    Bit of an unfair question if you ask me. The age of consent (just like any line in the sand ages) is inherently subjective - some people would not be sufficiently mature to give informed consent by 20 others by 15.

    I know plenty of people in their twenties who I don't believe are sufficiently mature or responsible to buy alcohol, yet they can. When I was underage I was certainly more responsible than they are now. I'm not saying that once you can responsibly buy alcohol you can give informed consent, just using it as an example to demonstrate the problem with absolute age-limits.

    I accept that one has to be somewhere, because there's few other workable ways to do it. I'm just saying I don't think it's fair to corner someone by asking them a question like that. If he says a number too high he'll be accused of being paternalistic, unrealistic and old-fashioned, if he says a number too low he'll be accused of endorsing paedophilia.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    It seems that no matter what,people just want to believe what they want ,regardless if the person in question (David Norris) answered all the accusations against him both on the PK show and on his website .


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