Lonely in Lucan

mandy30

I am a 31 year old female in Dublin.

I don't have any friends here and don't know how to make new ones. I did not go to college here in Dublin, and have drifted out of contact with friends from college and school. I work alone so can't make friends at work

I have tried using websites like meetup but its not really working

My boyfriend doesn't have any close female friends and my relationship is getting worse because I am bored and depressed.

Any idea how to make some female friends my own age?

BengaLover

Go out and get into a Zumba class or a book group or join something?

KeithM89_old

Prostitution - youll meet loads of other women.

Terry

I can't remember the stock answer, so I'll just say this:
I would like to have sex with you.

-Corkie-

KeithM89 wrote: »

Prostitution - youll meet loads of other women and men

FYP.:)

mandy30

BengaLover wrote: »

Go out and get into a Zumba class or a book group or join something?

I have tried that A lot of girls turn up with friends of their own and I find it hard to break into a circle like that. They seem to be interested in having their own fun :rolleyes:

HungryJoey

I would imagine your inbox will be full within minutes posting this here. AH is a home for... some of the more, unusual type For your own sake I'd post this over in Personal Issues or try have it moved over. Plenty of people in similar situations.

mandy30

HungryJoey wrote: »

I would imagine your inbox will be full within minutes posting this here. Boards.ie is a home for... some of the more, unusual type For your own sake I'd post this over in Personal Issues or try have it moved over. Plenty of people in similar situations.

Will re post. Thanks

Oranage2

Boards is not your friend!

Terry

HungryJoey wrote: »

I would imagine your inbox will be full within minutes posting this here. AH is a home for... some of the more, unusual type For your own sake I'd post this over in Personal Issues or try have it moved over. Plenty of people in similar situations.

Shhhhhh!

In fairness to the OP, I've already reported it and asked for it to be moved there.
We can still have fun in the mean time.

orourkeda

mandy30 wrote: »

I am a 31 year old female in Dublin.

I don't have any friends here and don't know how to make new ones. I did not go to college here in Dublin, and have drifted out of contact with friends from college and school. I work alone so can't make friends at work

I have tried using websites like meetup but its not really working

My boyfriend doesn't have any close female friends and my relationship is getting worse because I am bored and depressed.

Any idea how to make some female friends my own age?

Do you fancy a ride?:D

mandy30

Thanks for offering! But am not short of a ride or two!

If things are starting to look scarce on that side of things, I will be sure to look you up

hinault

try getting involved in local organisations.
Drama group, musical societies. You could join a sports club.

Team participation pursuits are an excellent icebreaker.

Gummy Panda

Maybe post in a section of boards that interests you and join their meet ups when you feel comfortable.

Also there is The Ladies Lounge. I think they do Girls Only Beers every so often.

FlutterinBantam

:eek:

FatherLen

join a martial arts club, they are the best way of makin friends cause everyone is always nice. not like those knitting circle assholes!

orourkeda

mandy30 wrote: »

Thanks for offering! But am not short of a ride or two!

If things are starting to look scarce on that side of things, I will be sure to look you up

Hope you didnt take it too personally.

Nodin

FatherLen wrote: »

join a martial arts club, they are the best way of makin friends cause everyone is always nice. not like those knitting circle assholes!

Yeah...they go for the eyes with them needles too.

mandy30

orourkeda wrote: »

Hope you didnt take it too personally.

Not at all

Know what to expect on Boards :P

orourkeda

FatherLen wrote: »

join a martial arts club, they are the best way of makin friends cause everyone is always nice. not like those knitting circle assholes!

Those bad ass knitting motherf*ckers.

Creative writers have some hardass tendencies too

The Davestator

Tag rugby is a great place to meet people seemingly.

Nodin

orourkeda wrote: »

Those bad ass knitting motherf*ckers.

Creative writers have some hardass tendencies too

"wracked within" the lot of them. At least when they were on the absinthe they'd eventually jump into something.

davrho

Get yourself to the Penny Hill every Sat afternoon. Loads of single men. Hope yer interests include Premiership football, Celtic, rugby and horse racing.

You will have a rare time;):pac:

Caoimhín

FlutterinBantam wrote: »

:eek:

dDid it hurt when you put it up this weekend?

UglyBolloxFace

mandy30 wrote: »

I am a 31 year old female in Dublin.

I don't have any friends here and don't know how to make new ones. I did not go to college here in Dublin, and have drifted out of contact with friends from college and school. I work alone so can't make friends at work

I have tried using websites like meetup but its not really working

My boyfriend doesn't have any close female friends and my relationship is getting worse because I am bored and depressed.

Any idea how to make some female friends my own age?

You would have had so many offers..up until the "boyfriend" part.

mattjack

Lucan...eh ? dem people out dere made dem Jedward ppl

cml387

Dump the boyfriend.
Change your lifestyle.
I wish I was 31 in Lucan.
Or 31 anywhere come to think of it.
Except maybe Libya or North Korea

Im Only 71Kg

buy a puppy. bring it for walks. you'll meet loads of other saps with dogs.

mattjack

Lucans a quiet place...have ya tried killing a local ?

Dangerous Man

mandy30 wrote: »

Thanks for offering! But am not short of a ride or two!

If things are starting to look scarce on that side of things, I will be sure to look you up

orourkeda wrote: »

Do you fancy a ride?:D

You're in.

orourkeda

cml387 wrote: »

Dump the boyfriend.
Change your lifestyle.
I wish I was 31 in Lucan.
Or 31 anywhere come to think of it.
Except maybe Libya or North Korea

Does Kim Jong Il allow ****

hondasam

mandy30 wrote: »

I am a 31 year old female in Dublin.

I don't have any friends here and don't know how to make new ones. I did not go to college here in Dublin, and have drifted out of contact with friends from college and school. I work alone so can't make friends at work

I have tried using websites like meetup but its not really working

My boyfriend doesn't have any close female friends and my relationship is getting worse because I am bored and depressed.

Any idea how to make some female friends my own age?

Are you looking for a female friend for Yourself and your Bf ?

Dangerous Man

A martial arts club isn't a bad idea actually. You'll meet all types of people; you'll get fit; you'll learn to defend yourself and you'll be socializing.

Or a night course in cookery?

mgmt

mattjack wrote: »

Lucans a quiet place...have ya tried killing a local ?

Where's Lord Luncan these days.

Terry

mattjack wrote: »

Lucan...eh ? dem people out dere made dem Jedward ppl

dem dere ppl?
I don't understand what you are saying.
Is that some sort of code?

Mammanabammana

UglyBolloxFace wrote: »

You would have had so many offers..up until the "boyfriend" part.

Why, what difference does that make?

mattjack

Terry wrote: »

dem dere ppl?
I don't understand what you are saying.
Is that some sort of code?

dats lucan code

FlutterinBantam

Head up to Hillcrest to Creeping Death's big 4 bedroomer.

Get yourself a good nailing up there , so he says.

Kevin Duffy

mandy30 wrote: »

I am a 31 year old female in Dublin.

My boyfriend doesn't have any close female friends and my relationship is getting worse because I am bored and depressed.

You had me at "Well hung sexual tiger wanted for threesome. Must know way to Lucan".

parker kent

There's a thread in The Ladies Lounge Forum for women who make friends with other women. I've no funny one liners, so had be actually helpful instead!

hondasam

Kevin Duffy wrote: »

You had me at "Well hung sexual tiger wanted for threesome. Must know way to Lucan".

I think the OP is looking for another female to spice up her boring sex life with here BF. if she goes MFF then he should go FMM.

Neyite

ask one of the mods in the ladies lounge for access to the private meet up forum. there are always meetups in dublin being organised- cinema, coffee, drinks- there is something this weekend as far as I know. But there are also threads to get to know other girls there too.

Plenty of boardsies have made new friends on here.

Mammanabammana

hondasam wrote: »

Are you looking for a female friend for Yourself and your Bf ?

Saucy!!! I love your way of thinking. It matches my way of thinking!

Kevin Duffy

hondasam wrote: »

I think the OP is looking for another female to spice up her boring sex life with here BF. if she goes MFF then he should go FMM.

Maybe she's just a great GF on that score and looks after him well. Or maybe, just maybe, she'll arrive home with another bloke, all "sorry" like, telling him she did try to get a woman, but there just weren't any and, well, she didn't want to dissapoint him, so she got the next best thing....

Gummy Panda

FlutterinBantam wrote: »

Head up to Hillcrest to Creeping Death's big 4 bedroomer.

Get yourself a good nailing up there , so he says.

I want to hear Degsy's views on that :pac:

Gummy Panda

hondasam wrote: »

I think the OP is looking for another female to spice up her boring sex life with here BF. if she goes MFF then he should go FMM.

no no! never go FMM!

All sorts of things could go wrong e.g. crossing swords, splash soiling on the guys, spit roast tearing, etc

hondasam

Mammanabammana wrote: »

Saucy!!! I love your way of thinking. It matches my way of thinking!

filthy minds think alike

Kevin Duffy wrote: »

Maybe she's just a great GF on that score and looks after him well. Or maybe, just maybe, she'll arrive home with another bloke, all "sorry" like, telling him she did try to get a woman, but there just weren't any and, well, she didn't want to dissapoint him, so she got the next best thing....

or maybe she wants a female partner for herself !!

hondasam

Gummy Panda wrote: »

no no! never go FMM!

All sorts of things could go wrong e.g. crossing swords, splash soiling on the guys, spit roast tearing, etc

speaking from experience

now I think I'm missing out on something and will have to try it:p

Mammanabammana

Gummy Panda wrote: »

no no! never go FMM!

All sorts of things could go wrong e.g. crossing swords, splash soiling on the guys, spit roast tearing, etc

Don''t knock it til you try it!

I've had quite the few educational experiences involving the above and believe me, they're not the horrorfests you make them out to be...

*drifts off into terribly bold dreams*

Mammanabammana

hondasam wrote: »

speaking from experience

now I think I'm missing out on something and will have to try it:p

Oh do. You definitely should. Can't recommend it highly enough!

Nom!

cml387

Mandy,did you used to be CC in a Major Airline (maybe still are)?