Female Fantasy

soclassy

I am a little uneasy about a fantasy I have been having. I am a woman in my 30s, have had a few sexual partners and am in a relationship now with my current partner for 8 years. Our sex life is healthy and enjoyable. I have on (very) few occasions pictured another man during sex but only very seldom and I presume my husband does the same from time to time with women.

But for the past few weeks when lovemaking a picture of a woman keeps coming into my head. It is not a woman I know, it is a celebrity but I am a little uneasy with it because I am not sure why it is happening. I have never before felt any inclination to be with a woman.

Has this happened to anyone else? Appreciate any feedback.

Ickle Magoo

It's a fantasy tho - surely by it's very nature it is different to an actual desire?

Without getting graphic, I have fantasies about all manner of things; often things I would have zero interest in trying in real life. Perhaps it is precisely because of the taboo nature or that fact I wouldn't want to do such a thing in real life that gives the fantasy it's added eroticism?

I think it's just your imagination stretching and exploring possibilities, just embrace and enjoy them. :cool:

Asphyxia

I think the majority of women go through this, I know that I have fantasies that I can't see happening in real life. I wouldn't worry about it much to be honest because it seems natural for the mind to explore and go beyond a barrier, it doesn't have to mean that your now attracted to women.

You should enjoy it

Up-n-atom!

I'd say this is fairly normal, and very probably doesn't mean you actually want to sleep with women. If it turns you on just enjoy it!

flowerchild

I have a complete worked up fantasy about King Arthur and Lancelot that is the mental equivalent of a 12 volume science fantasy series.

They are both lovely to me although fierce warriors still. I am married to them both (amusingly important to me, even in my fantasies) and it is all out in the open, so secret behind the scenes stuff for me/us.

It doesn't mean I am going to rush to a medieval dress-up reenactment and look for a real-life Arthur. Because it's a fantasy.

From my point of view, make sure you really flesh out your fantasy to get the most benefit. How tall is she? What colour hair does she have? Does she dye it? Is she pale and creamy or dark and interesting? Does she keep her body hair or whisk it away? Large gorgeous breasts or small dainty titbits? You get the picture. Let go the self-doubt and run with it. You can have enormous fun, particularly on public transport.