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If you could give one piece of advice to a youngwan or a youngfella...

  • 22-03-2011 6:51pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,252 ✭✭✭


    What would it be?
    I'm 20, and would love to hear some! :)


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  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Regional South Moderators Posts: 6,854 Mod ✭✭✭✭mp22


    Sunscreen!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,761 ✭✭✭chucken1




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,761 ✭✭✭chucken1


    mp22 wrote: »
    Sunscreen!!

    SNAP :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,640 ✭✭✭✭OldGoat


    Advice I wish I knew back then would be:
    Think for yourself. Don't live your life by your friends views, thoughts and reactions. Their ideas are as sketchy as yours are so you might as well please yourself.

    I'm older than Minecraft goats.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,597 ✭✭✭WIZE


    learn a second European language fluently


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 796 ✭✭✭Johnnio13


    Listen to your mother!!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭djk1000


    The leaving cert is not a big deal, there are lots of second chances in life.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,080 ✭✭✭foxinsox


    Your job/career: what you do is not who you are!

    Do things you love to do..

    If you can make one of these things your job/career, you will be happy..

    Maybe not immensely ri€h but happy..

    :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 81 ✭✭galwegians


    stay out of mountjoy its a ****hole.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,555 ✭✭✭Gillington


    Never pass up an oppurtunity to go to the bathroom


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,443 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    Don't pass your life waiting for something to happen.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 88,968 ✭✭✭✭mike65


    Keep your freinds close. You may well need them at some point - if only to chat to :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 656 ✭✭✭Bearhunter


    Whatever you do in life be happy doing it. Don't get stuck in a job simply because it's a source of income. Don't marry someone because all your mates are doing it. Find what you want to do and find a way to make a living doing it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,790 ✭✭✭up for anything


    Don't ever say I will never do that. The chances are you will.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,361 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Dr. Baltar wrote: »
    What would it be?
    I'm 20, and would love to hear some! :)

    As OldGoat said, think for yourself.
    Know yourself, be confident in yourself.
    Understand that you are beautiful and care not about how others perceive you. You cannot have everyone like you, at least if you be yourself, you will automatically surround yourself with the right people for you.

    foxinsox is correct regarding work. I never ask people what they do, I don't care. It's not what makes the wo/man.
    Whatever you do in life, be happy.

    If you want something, do your best to make it happen.
    Don't waste time by putting stuff off.
    I can be a bit of a hedonist at times but I believe we should live in the now.
    Could be dead tomorrow, so why put the fun stuff off? ;)


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,421 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Always challenge yourself. You are capable of so much more than you think you are.

    Everything bad thats happening to you now will end.

    Your body ages past the age of 17, but your mind never really does. :)

    Travel.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,361 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Drink fine wines.


    In moderation


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    galwegians wrote: »
    stay out of mountjoy its a ****hole.

    I Lol's ^

    my advice is pretty much along the lines of what others have said and here's a few more ..

    no matter how hard it is and much you hate a job , hang on in there until you have something else lined up because it's much easier to go from job to job, than dole to job .

    Dont be afarid of hard work but dont be anybodys doormat either

    Remember , mistakes are made so we can learn from them .

    Be open minded and not to judgemental of people and situations until you have all the facts .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38 martinmcdonnell


    Emirgrate!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Oh yeah , Emirgrate .


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 sharon.imeraj


    I second the learning another language idea....

    Make as many new friends as you can - get different points of view, and hear about lots of life experiences..!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,204 ✭✭✭FoxT


    lots of the above, plus...

    1. Figure out who you are, what are the important things in life for you, and what are the negotiables. Pursue the important things vigorously.

    2. You will change as you get older. Go back to 1, rinse, repeat.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 78 ✭✭Whynotme


    Follow your head not your heart!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 945 ✭✭✭loremolis


    Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 656 ✭✭✭Bearhunter


    And whatever you do, don't listen to ould wans and ould fellas giving you advice and projecting all their regrets and failures onto you...:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,138 ✭✭✭foxy06


    Stay away from the internet.....bad place that


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,144 ✭✭✭✭Cicero


    Dr. Baltar wrote: »
    What would it be?
    I'm 20, and would love to hear some! :)

    Watch Ferris Bueller's Day Off.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,899 ✭✭✭✭BBDBB


    Dont waste your time "trying to find yourself" you are there all the fecking time


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭littlemis


    No matter where you go,there you are.
    remember your manners and
    be respectful at all times to whom so ever you meet on your way through life,you'll be remembered kindly for it.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    Live like there’s no tomorrow,
    Love like you've never been hurt,
    And dance like no one's watching.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,144 ✭✭✭✭Cicero


    Don't listen to The Vincent Browne Late TV Show


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,551 ✭✭✭Rubecula


    Take some photo's as one day you will be just like your parents. You will want to look through occassionally and remember the good times.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,048 ✭✭✭vampire of kilmainham


    belive only your own eyes and not the voices of others


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,084 ✭✭✭dubtom


    Whynotme wrote: »
    Follow your head not your heart!
    Disagree, my head has got me into some serious **** over the years, it's a bit like being offered serious drugs for the first time, your head says yea,but something inside says,don't do that crap. Listen to that, it's never wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭racso1975


    Have more sex!
    Travel around ireland and for the love of god outside it.
    Hold on to good friends the rarely come along.
    Never ever let a relationship develop cause of looks.
    Have kids kids and more kids
    and lastly put down that smoke you fcukin idiot


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  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,361 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    racso1975 wrote: »
    Have kids kids and more kids

    In fairness now, that's not for everybody. Kids aren't the end all and be all of life. Sure, if you are hugely maternal, they are great if you have them.
    But If you'd rather not, no big deal, you will still have a fantastic life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭racso1975


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    In fairness now, that's not for everybody. Kids aren't the end all and be all of life. Sure, if you are hugely maternal, they are great if you have them.
    But If you'd rather not, no big deal, you will still have a fantastic life.

    Trust having the day from hell with them at the moment so i retract that comment


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,051 ✭✭✭Gaspode


    Do what you want to do, and dont put it off.
    Time is short.

    The world is full of fantastic beers and wines, try lots of them. Even the Blue Nun!

    Dont eat anything that has less than 2 feet or more than 4.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44 martin451


    stay single


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,316 ✭✭✭✭amacachi


    I may not be as old as the OP was hoping but I do have one bit of advice I could've done with 10 years ago: Chill the fcuk out. :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,761 ✭✭✭chucken1


    Gaspode wrote: »
    Do what you want to do, and dont put it off.
    Time is short.

    The world is full of fantastic beers and wines, try lots of them. Even the Blue Nun!

    Dont eat anything that has less than 2 feet or more than 4.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 494 ✭✭eco2live


    martin451 wrote: »
    stay single


    +10


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,358 ✭✭✭borderlinemeath


    Don't get that tattoo on your neck - if you must get one - get in on your arse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,055 ✭✭✭Emme


    Be nice to the people you meet on your way up because you might meet them again on your way down.

    Start saving as soon as you can with the aim of buying your own place as young as you can


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,001 ✭✭✭p1akuw47h5r3it


    chucken1 wrote: »

    I dunno I read this whole thread whilst listening this song, I'm 19 like...The song makes me reflect and stuff, was strange reading all the advice was good tho


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,473 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Don't get into debt.

    Save at least 10% of any money you make and keep it in your "escape fund" - a stash that gives you the freedom to decide to go travel, go back to education or just take a damn month off between jobs should you choose.

    Money isn't everything, it can't buy happiness but being careful with it definitely gives you more room to breathe and enjoy life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 387 ✭✭force majeure


    Dont get lippy when some one bemoans about the blues as some day you well bemoan them too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,670 ✭✭✭jonnny68


    Being an old fogey this is the only advice id give. ;)
    "Life is short, so live it up, drink it down, laugh it off, avoid the drama, take chances, and never have regrets, because at one point everything you did was exactly what you wanted"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,204 ✭✭✭FoxT


    Never purchase anything that flies, floats, or fornicates - rent it instead.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 227 ✭✭Paddysnapper


    Get to bed early!

    And if you don't, come home!:D


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