one night stands

we'llallhavetea_old

hiye,

so, men and wimminz of AH, would you be put off dating/going out with someone who is known to have a lot of one night stands?

personally, i wouldn't, if anything i'd be more attracted to a lad that obviously enjoys sex frequently.

i don't understand why people frown upon others who enjoy flings/one night stands. people like to have sex (shocking i know) and when you're single why are you expected to go without?

i'm of the opinion that if you wanna sleep with someone and they wanna sleep with you, why not? whats with this whole waiting game?

if a man/woman sleeps with you on the first date, does that put you off them, if so, why? if the person is "easy", why is it a bad thing?

Wurly

/gets popcorn.

Continue...:)

4zn76tysfajdxp

What brought this on?

StereoLove

I wouldn't mind. I mean if it's a one night stand and it means nothing then why conplain.

we'llallhavetea_old

Atticus Salty Beak wrote: »

What brought this on?

i drank your tea and you never called

K-9

If it's for the right reasons with the right person (I fancy a cup of tea:cool:), knock yourself out or whatever your preference is!

If it's because, "well that is what everybody does", no.

KeithM89_old

This is far too serious for AH so il just make a witty remark.
ahem....

"best thing about one night stands is i can fuck a women, never have to buy her anything or listen to her nag..."

OutlawPete

Wouldn't put me off, heck: I'd even marry a pornstar, if I were to fall in love with one.

Did you hear that Belladonna, Bobbi Starr, Brianna Love et al? I love you all, just for being you

HellFireClub

StereoLove wrote: »

I wouldn't mind. I mean if it's a one night stand and it means nothing then why complain MOAN.

:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

Wurly

KeithM89 wrote: »

This is far too serious for AH so il just make a witty remark.
ahem....

"best thing about one night stands is i can fuck a women, never have to buy her anything or listen to her nag..."

Not much witty about that, Keith. More like 'true to life'.. ...:P

MyKeyG

It wouldn't bother me from a so-called 'moral' point of view because sex is fun and I think people should have as much of it as they can get but I would wonder if they might have picked something up along the way.

I was a very irresponsible one night stander when I was younger (I know, bold boy) in fact there's only one situation I can remember where a girl insisted on a condom and that's only because the maths were in favour of the act resulting in pregnancy.

davebloggs

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

hiye,

so, men and wimminz of AH, would you be put off dating/going out with someone who is known to have a lot of one night stands?

As regards going out no not in the slightest, in fact im all for it, it's good to know you will be getting your hole before setting off, you can save some money on otherwise expensive entertainment, just buy her a big mac and take her home.

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

if a man/woman sleeps with you on the first date, does that put you off them, if so, why? if the person is "easy", why is it a bad thing?

as regards long term, yes, I don't want to marry a whore, if she will spread her legs at the snap of a fingers then she will cheat , also she will have std's and be stretched out, I prefer my women tight.

Wurly

davebloggs wrote: »

As regards going out no not in the slightest, in fact im all for it, it's good to know you will be getting your hole before setting off, you can save some money on otherwise expensive entertainment, just buy her a big mac and take her home.





as regards long term, yes, I don't want to marry a whore, if she will spread her legs at the snap of a fingers then she will cheat , also she will have std's and be stretched out, I prefer my women tight.

So you can act like a whore but the girl cant??

And if a girl has one night stands, it makes her a whore?

And if she has one night stands, she'll cheat??

Sorry but....:pac:

we'llallhavetea_old

davebloggs wrote: »

as regards long term, yes, I don't want to marry a whore, if she will spread her legs at the snap of a fingers then she will cheat , also she will have std's and be stretched out, I prefer my women tight.

er... where did you hear this lunacy?

just because a woman has lots of one night stands does not mean they will cheat in a relationship :rolleyes:

MyKeyG

davebloggs wrote: »

if she will spread her legs at the snap of a fingers then she will cheat

An intense desire for sex doesn't make someone a gauranteed cheat.

Wolfe Tone

Because I am extremely insecure, religious and old fashioned I would not be too keen on dating a woman who partook in frequent one night stands with random blokes.

Darlughda

davebloggs wrote: »

I don't want to marry a whore, if she will spread her legs at the snap of a fingers then she will cheat , also she will have std's and be stretched out, I prefer my women tight.

Oh LOL! It only took 12 posts for the first of the knuckledraggers to appear.
Gosh you are some catch. :pac:

tigger123

davebloggs wrote: »

As regards going out no not in the slightest, in fact im all for it, it's good to know you will be getting your hole before setting off, you can save some money on otherwise expensive entertainment, just buy her a big mac and take her home.





as regards long term, yes, I don't want to marry a whore, if she will spread her legs at the snap of a fingers then she will cheat , also she will have std's and be stretched out, I prefer my women tight.

wow. just, wow, such an amazing understanding of men, women, sex and relationships.

davebloggs

Trí wrote: »

So you can act like a whore but the girl cant??

And if a girl has one night stands, it makes her a whore?

And if she has one night stands, she'll cheat??

Sorry but....:pac:

yes a girl who has one night stands is a whore, guys who do are not, regardless of gender ' equality' guys can't get pregnant, therefore a woman who spreads is taking greater risks, not to mention std's.

Also a guy can shag as many woman as he wants and his penis isn't going to change shape , however the vagina will loosen up - especially if you are taking one or two fists into it.

HellFireClub

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

er... where did you hear this lunacy?

just because a woman has lots of one night stands does not mean they will cheat in a relationship :rolleyes:

Haha get up out of that!!! Just like there are men who cannot say no when it is put in front of them, there are women who are the same if not worse. In my view, anyone who goes through a string of one night stands without being able to try a bit of commitment and a bit of dating, whether they be male or female, they have either maturity issues, or commitment issues and they are not really relationship material, speaking of some women I've met as a guy anyway.

Wurly

davebloggs wrote: »

yes a girl who has one night stands is a whore, guys who do are not, regardless of gender ' equality' guys can't get pregnant, therefore a woman who spreads is taking greater risks, not to mention std's.

Also a guy can shag as many woman as he wants and his penis isn't going to change shape , however the vagina will loosen up - especially if you are taking one or two fists into it.

This thread is about to get interesting, folks. Brace yisser selves..:D

ardinn

MyKeyG wrote: »

An intense desire for sex doesn't make someone a gauranteed cheat.

Yes it does - I fully endorse this bandwagon and would like a subscription to your newsletter.

MyKeyG

davebloggs wrote: »

a woman who spreads is taking greater risks, not to mention std's.

Not that I believe you're being serious but the male ejaculatory function is much more capable of transmitting an STD than a womans.

MyKeyG

HellFireClub wrote: »

In my view, anyone who goes through a string of one night stands without being able to try a bit of commitment and a bit of dating, whether they be male or female, they have either maturity issues, or commitment issues and they are not really relationship material, speaking of some women I've met as a guy anyway.

Would you ever grow up. People don't commit because they haven't found someone to commit to. Nothing wrong with playing the field and enjoying yourself until meeting that special one, or are we all supposed to marry the first person that gives us the eye?

we'llallhavetea_old

HellFireClub wrote: »

Haha get up out of that!!! Just like there are men who cannot say no when it is put in front of them, there are women who are the same if not worse. In my view, anyone who goes through a string of one night stands without being able to try a bit of commitment and a bit of dating, whether they be male or female, they have either maturity issues, or commitment issues and they are not really relationship material, speaking of some women I've met as a guy anyway.

who says people who have a string of one night stands haven't been in a committed relationship before?

not everyone is willing to settle for whatever comes along, and in between relationships why can't people have as many one night stands as they wish without being thought of as having "maturity issues or commitment issues"!?

Procasinator

MyKeyG wrote: »

Not that I believe you're being serious but the male ejaculatory function is much more capable of transmitting an STD than a womans.

I don't know if you were counteracting his point or not, but it is true that Women on a whole are more susceptible to contracting STIs then men (that is, in typical heterosexual sexual encounters) and many STIs effect women worse than men.

davebloggs

MyKeyG wrote: »

Not that I believe you're being serious but the male ejaculatory function is much more capable of transmitting an STD than a womans.

thats the point I was making- a woman is more likely to contract std's from whoring about than a man

Wolfe Tone

*wonders who will first accuse the women defending one night stands of being whores*

MyKeyG

Procasinator wrote: »

I don't know if you were counteracting his point or not, but it is true that Women on a whole are more susceptible to contracting STIs then men (that is, in typical heterosexual sexual encounters) and many STIs effect women worse than men.

That's the point I was making. It's more common for a man to transmit to a woman (or another man) thus making women more susceptible to contraction in a hetero encounter.

johnn

Has the OP come here fishing for the Ride

ardinn

OP - your some tramp!! Posting your pussy on your profile n all! :rolleyes:

mikom

http://www.getreligion.org/wp-content/photos/2010/06/dont-ask.jpg

HellFireClub

MyKeyG wrote: »

Would you ever grow up. People don't commit because they haven't found someone to commit to. Nothing wrong with playing the field and enjoying yourself until meeting that special one, or are we all supposed to marry the first person that gives us the eye?

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

who says people who have a string of one night stands haven't been in a committed relationship before?

not everyone is willing to settle for whatever comes along, and in between relationships why can't people have as many one night stands as they wish without being thought of as having "maturity issues or commitment issues"!?

You can have as many one nighters as you want, I just wouldn't touch a girl who is a one nighter type character with a bargepole because to me there are obvious issues there with commitment or maturity or both...

To the pair of you, I'm single, have a very high sex drive, but I can actually control myself and go without it! I'm not that pathethic or insecure where I have to go out to a night club and pull some girl and ride her just to remind myself I have a c*ck... I'd rather the chemistry, the company, the getting to know a girl, the texting, the dating AND the dynamite sex than just some stupid half arsed drunken ride that you'll end up regretting in the morning...

fonecrusher1

HellFireClub wrote: »

You can have as many one nighters as you want, I just wouldn't touch a girl who is a one nighter type character with a bargepole because to me there are obvious issues there with commitment or maturity or both...

To the pair of you, I'm single, have a very high sex drive, but I can actually control myself and go without it! I'm not that pathethic or insecure where I have to go out to a night club and pull some girl and ride her just to remind myself I have a c*ck... I'd rather the chemistry, the company, the getting to know a girl, the texting, the dating AND the dynamite sex than just some stupid half arsed drunken ride that you'll end up regretting in the morning...

You masturbate like a mad man don't you?

Procasinator

davebloggs wrote: »

Also a guy can shag as many woman as he wants and his penis isn't going to change shape , however the vagina will loosen up - especially if you are taking one or two fists into it.

You got to be trolling. A girl that has had say 15 one night stands in a year is more likely had less sex than a girl that was in a relationship for one year. So, it is the "slut" who will be tighter by your reasoning.

we'llallhavetea_old

HellFireClub wrote: »

You can have as many one nighters as you want, I just wouldn't touch a girl who is a one nighter type character with a bargepole because to me there are obvious issues there with commitment or maturity or both...

fcuking hell...

To the pair of you, I'm single, have a very high sex drive, but I can actually control myself and go without it! I'm not that pathethic or insecure where I have to go out to a night club and pull some girl and ride her just to remind myself I have a c*ck... I'd rather the chemistry, the company, the getting to know a girl, the texting, the dating AND the dynamite sex than just some stupid half arsed drunken ride that you'll end up regretting in the morning...

why do you think you have to control yourself?

i'm not insecure or pathetic, i don't have sex to remind myself i have a pussy, i have sex because i want to and because it feels good

OutlawPete

davebloggs wrote: »

yes a girl who has one night stands is a whore, guys who do are not, regardless of gender ' equality' guys can't get pregnant, therefore a woman who spreads is taking greater risks, not to mention std's.

So, a street walking prostitute who has had a hysterectomy is not whore, but a girl who likes regular one night stands and uses condoms is?

davebloggs wrote: »

Also a guy can shag as many woman as he wants and his penis isn't going to change shape , however the vagina will loosen up - especially if you are taking one or two fists into it.

What bullshit.

If that was the case, pornstars would work for one year and never work again due to the fact that their pussy now would then be useless.

Also, according to that logic, vibrators should carry the following warning on the box:

May cause severe loosening of the vagina if used excessively.

HellFireClub wrote: »

Haha get up out of that!!! Just like there are men who cannot say no when it is put in front of them, there are women who are the same if not worse.

So?

That does not mean that just because there are women that want and crave regular sex, that they would then cheat when in a relationship.

HellFireClub

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

fcuking hell...




why do you think you have to control yourself?

i'm not insecure or pathetic, i don't have sex to remind myself i have a pussy, i have sex because i want to and because it feels good

I put quality over quantity baby!

Wolfe Tone

Ive been thinking about this today, it depends on your attitude to sex. If you are like me and have caught the ghey you may view sex as more than a mere physical act and would like to be with a partner who views it the same way.

MyKeyG

HellFireClub wrote: »

To the pair of you, I'm single, have a very high sex drive, but I can actually control myself and go without it! I'm not that pathethic or insecure where I have to go out to a night club and pull some girl and ride her just to remind myself I have a c*ck... I'd rather the chemistry, the company, the getting to know a girl, the texting, the dating AND the dynamite sex than just some stupid half arsed drunken ride that you'll end up regretting in the morning...

I think you've more than proved that you're pathetic. One night standing and mature commitment are not mutually exclusive. Having sex with a girl you met in a bar has nothing to do with insecurity or refusal to commit. She turns you on, you have sex it's a bit of fun. If I didn't pull a girl in a club it wouldn't bother me one bit. I'd go home and play a bit of Xbox instead of herbox.

If I met someone I connected with on an emotional level I would have no problem committing. You shouldn't be so narrow minded.

HellFireClub

OutlawPete wrote: »

So, a street walking prostitute who has had a hysterectomy is not whore, but a girl who likes regular one night stands and uses condoms is?



What bullshit.

If that was the case, pornstars would work for one year and never work again due to the fact that their pussy now would then be useless.

Also, according to that logic, vibrators should carry the following warning on the box:

May cause severe loosening of the vagina if used excessively.



So?

That does not mean that just because there are women that want and crave regular sex, that they would then cheat when in a relationship.

I means that to me, that they just can't say no to a micky, just like a lot of guys can't say no when it is put in front of them... It doesn't have to mean the same thing to you...

we'llallhavetea_old

HellFireClub wrote: »

I put quality over quantity baby!

so if you were in a relationship you would keep the sex to a minimum? right...

davebloggs

Procasinator wrote: »

You got to be trolling. A girl that has had say 15 one night stands in a year is more likely had less sex than a girl that was in a relationship for one year. So, it is the "slut" who will be tighter by your reasoning.

A girl in a committed relationship is more probably on the straight and narrow so to speak, if you are shagging 15 or 20 random guys you are probably pushing the sexual envelope so to speak, looking for the next thrill, mmmf action, DADV , anal and vaginal fisting, watersports , scat and vomit, probably some beasty action or torture in there too, thats what i have found with loose woman, more often than not they want to peg me too, thats why I avoid them like the plague.

HellFireClub

MyKeyG wrote: »

I think you've more than proved that you're pathetic. One night standing and mature commitment are not mutually exclusive. Having sex with a girl you met in a bar has nothing to do with insecurity or refusal to commit. She turns you on, you have sex it's a bit of fun. If I didn't pull a girl in a club it wouldn't bother me one bit. I'd go home and play a bit of Xbox instead of herbox.

If I met someone I connected with on an emotional level I would have no problem committing. You shouldn't be so narrow minded.

I'm not narrow minded ye little ginnet, I expect a girl I want to be with to be a lady and have a bit of respect for herself and a bit of class, not some tramp that has to keep names written down in her diary in case her pill fails.

Wolfe Tone

davebloggs wrote: »

A girl in a committed relationship is more probably on the straight and narrow so to speak, if you are shagging 15 or 20 random guys you are probably pushing the sexual envelope so to speak, looking for the next thrill, mmmf action, DADV , anal and vaginal fisting, watersports , scat and vomit, probably some beasty action or torture in there too, thats what i have found with loose woman, more often than not they want to peg me too, thats why I avoid them like the plague.

"fcuk regular sex, I've a horse outside?"

we'llallhavetea_old

davebloggs wrote: »

A girl in a committed relationship is more probably on the straight and narrow so to speak, if you are shagging 15 or 20 random guys you are probably pushing the sexual envelope so to speak, looking for the next thrill, mmmf action, DADV , anal and vaginal fisting, watersports , scat and vomit, probably some beasty action or torture in there too, thats what i have found with loose woman, more often than not they want to peg me too, thats why I avoid them like the plague.

LOL

wtf?

davebloggs

OutlawPete wrote: »

What bullshit.

If that was the case, pornstars would work for one year and never work again due to the fact that their pussy now would then be useless.

Also, according to that logic, vibrators should carry the following warning on the box:

May cause severe loosening of the vagina if used excessively.

regular use of anal/vaginal passages does cause loosening
check out goatse

OutlawPete

HellFireClub wrote: »

I means that to me, that they just can't say no to a micky...

In fairness, Mickey moderates the forum and so we have all learned not to say No to him.

El Horseboxo

I love one night stands. Just back from one in fact. Shower time.

psycho-hope

ok sane answer for a change on this thread. Nah dosent bother me, my current oh was a complete manwhore for about 2yrs before he met me and dosent bother me, aslong as he is faithful, who cares about his past.

KeithM89_old

El Horseboxo wrote: »

I love one night stands. Just back from one in fact. Shower time.

It musnt have went very well if your home so early...