I Just Got Rejected

estadio

I am an 18 year old male. I liked this girl for over 2 years. Don't know why though!. Finally after all these months i made the move and got rejected. I don't know why and to be honest don't really care why.
Its the first time I had the balls to ask the girl out, but it wasn't meant to be. She was not out of my league (come to think of it she was a bit lower) but after all this waiting i got rejected.
On the bright side i will probably never see her again. Now i regret ignoring all the advice my friends gave me.

So after hours cheer me up.! Did you get rejected once and end up with some one better? I know rejection is a part of life but i am disappointed. Any advice on moving on?

Thanks

jimmycrackcorm

thanks for sharing

Saila

come again

Rented Mule

Looks like it's a night of cheap whiskey, razor blades and Country and Western music.

AckwelFoley

Rejection is a part of life.

Get used to it.

Rejection makes acceptance that much more special

squod

tl;dr etc..........

spider guardian

i'm no advocate of self-harming but the cool touch of the steel is...

actually no, just be glad you are so young and have plenty more girls to fall in love with and have your heart broken by!

El Horseboxo

Had an arsehole reject me once. Ended up going home with a pussy instead.

Wossack

Better that you asked and know then not and never...




probably a dyke anyway

Kettle316

Dont move on, stay single its awesome!!

citizen_p

No....Never
I dont think what your describing is common

SamSamSammy

probably held on too long and got into the friend zone.

AckwelFoley

What ever happened to "dont take no for an answer"?





..ooh yea.. the law.

Princess Peach

estadio wrote: »

Did you get rejected once and end up with some one better?

No

alwaysadub

Well, I've got rejected for loads of jobs... :pac:


I can't remember the last time i got rejected by a man though..... probably cos i can't remember the last time i made a move on a man!


Anyway OP,it obviously wasn't meant to be. You'll get over it and find someone else better.

PerrinV2

Check out the "you laugh you lose " section on boards
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=838

if that doesn't cheer you up I dunno what will.

finnezzia

pornography always helps.

estadio

SamSamSammy wrote: »

probably held on too long and got into the friend zone.

quiet the opposite tbh! we went to the same secondary school and i didn't become friends because of the friend zone factor.

themadchef

Awww bless.

You need to find a new faptastic woman to fixate on, one who wont let you down, reject you,or turn you away.

Nah, we're all bítches. You'll learn to love us all the same

Diapason

Light some candles, run a hot bath, throw on some soothing music, then fap until you tear the stomach out of yourself.

stovelid

Better to knocked back than to wonder what might have been.

Fair play to you. Courage will always get its reward in the end.

finnezzia

or just be a man about it and bottle it up.

TheZohanS

It happens to us all at some stage estadio, don't let it put you off though. Every knockback you get just means you're one step closer to meeting someone that you're meant to be with.

darragh16

18 year old + Rejection = 6 pack of Dutch in a field with mates!

stovelid

darragh16 wrote: »

18 year old + Rejection = 6 pack of Dutch in a field with mates!

That's just the aperitif.

Micky Dolenz

Don't worry about it man, you are only 18. When I was that age I got rejected a few times.

As you get older and more experienced, you will rarely get openly rejected as you will be able to read the signs and gauge your chances better.

So chin up son, and It's great to see you are not bitter about it.

Wagon

estadio wrote: »

I am an 18 year old male. I liked this girl for over 2 years. Don't know why though!. Finally after all these months i made the move and got rejected. I don't know why and to be honest don't really care why.
Its the first time I had the balls to ask the girl out, but it wasn't meant to be. She was not out of my league (come to think of it she was a bit lower) but after all this waiting i got rejected.
On the bright side i will probably never see her again. Now i regret ignoring all the advice my friends gave me.

So after hours cheer me up.! Did you get rejected once and end up with some one better? I know rejection is a part of life but i am disappointed. Any advice on moving on?

Thanks

**** it, you had the balls to try. And fair play! You'll be fine in a few days.

Millicent

TheZohan wrote: »

It happens to us all at some stage estadio, don't let it put you off though. Every knockback you get just means you're one step closer to meeting someone that you're meant to be with.

This is sound advice, OP.


Although I did just throw up my mouth a bit -- Zohan, ye auld romantic!

stovelid

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Don't worry about it man, you are only 18. When I was that age I got rejected a few times.

Davy Jones and Mike Nesmith always got the chicks?

alwaysadub

stovelid wrote: »

Davy Jones and Mike Nesmith always got the chicks?

Well,they were the cool ones..

Dudess

I understand it feels crap and it's difficult not to take personally - especially when you're young (not meaning to sound like a know-it-all old fogey, just that you're not as equipped to deal with it, it's a brand new quite devastating experience, etc) but it doesn't make her a bad person (unless she was a right bitch about it?) or "lower than your league" (in what way?) She's just not into you, which hurts, but she's not under any obligation to be, and she can't help how she feels, even if you were waiting that long (which won't make a difference to her). It's not a ploy to upset you - better than leading you on.

Do as others say and view it as a valuable life lesson - you'll be fine, it's a mere glitch. Promise...

stovelid

alwaysadub wrote: »

Well,they were the cool ones..

MD was my favourite. Kinda like Ringo but with a better mop-top

alwaysadub

stovelid wrote: »

MD was my favourite. Kinda like Ringo but with a better mop-top

Prefered Mike myself,then Micky. Davy was just a bit full of himself, and Peter was just nah.

thebigbiffo

would i be the first to say its extremely possible that you will never get over this OP? some rejections and relationships will still make your stomach lurch after 15 years of trying to get over them. best to just get on a plane to thailand with some money robbed at gunpoint from your local spar, get loaded on heroin and shag 6 different hookers name lou in one sitting in a cheap hotel in pat pong.

it's like the solution women have for getting over that s'hite except less chocolate and more aids...

Deus Ex Machina

I was rejected in an unutterably painful and drawn out fashion the first time I told a girl I liked her. I won't get into the whole story, but I was treated very badly. Looking back on it, it was actually a big moment for me because I saw how I could have dealt with it (if I were to go down an immature road) and instead I thought about it logically for a time and I accepted it like an adult, and in my opinion, I gained a lot from the experience.

Sometimes it seems like every but you gets the girl, and maybe sometimes that might even be true, but don't let it harden you up, that can potentially ruin something a lot better which could be coming your way further down the line.

4zn76tysfajdxp

estadio wrote: »

She was not out of my league (come to think of it she was a bit lower)

I'm finding it difficult to see why she turned a winner like you down.

estadio

Susan Panicky Gentleman wrote: »

I'm finding it difficult to see why she turned a winner like you down.

I don't mean to say i am better than her. The point i was trying to make was that all my friends told me i could have done much better in terms of looks but it was her personality that won me over. I am not bitter just disappointed. I wish her all the best.

Micky Dolenz

Susan Panicky Gentleman wrote: »

I'm finding it difficult to see why she turned a winner like you down.

Ah leave the lad alone. He is still a bit raw. we have all thought the same thing when we didn't get the ride.

alwaysadub

estadio wrote: »

I don't mean to say i am better than her. The point i was trying to make was that all my friends told me i could have done much better in terms of looks but it was her personality that won me over. I am not bitter just disappointed. I wish her all the best.

Least you're not bitter bout it which is good. Hope she didn't reject you in a totally bitchy way! Anyway you seem to be handling it really well.
And as has been said, it gets easier to read the signs with age

2 years? That all? I once fancied a 16 year old girl and didn't ask her out until she was 23. Got rejected too but was still happy I did it.

DB10

At least you asked her out OP. How many gutless people never do it or only when extremely pissed.

Me being one of those.

orourkeda

estadio wrote: »

I am an 18 year old male. I liked this girl for over 2 years. Don't know why though!. Finally after all these months i made the move and got rejected. I don't know why and to be honest don't really care why.
Its the first time I had the balls to ask the girl out, but it wasn't meant to be. She was not out of my league (come to think of it she was a bit lower) but after all this waiting i got rejected.
On the bright side i will probably never see her again. Now i regret ignoring all the advice my friends gave me.

So after hours cheer me up.! Did you get rejected once and end up with some one better? I know rejection is a part of life but i am disappointed. Any advice on moving on?

Thanks

HAAAAAAAAAA Loser

DB10

Karsini wrote: »

I once fancied a 16 year old girl and didn't ask her out until she was 23.

Did you watch her every move?

Are you the guy One Hour Photo is based on?

:eek:

DB10

orourkeda wrote: »

HAAAAAAAAAA Loser

First immature post in the thread.

New record for AH.

Eircom_Sucks

Karsini wrote: »

2 years? That all? I once fancied a 16 year old girl and didn't ask her out until she was 23. Got rejected too but was still happy I did it.

im hoping you were young too and not a gary glitter

Eircom_Sucks

Eircom_Sucks wrote: »

im hoping you were young too and not a gary glitter

Yep, I was 20 when I asked her. Part of the reason I took so long was I believe a 16 year old girl would have no interest in a 13 year old boy.

DB10 wrote: »

Did you watch her every move?

Are you the guy One Hour Photo is based on?

:eek:

Haha, nope. Though my brother claimed for a while that he saw her naked through her bedroom window... :eek:

Eircom_Sucks

Karsini wrote: »

Yep, I was 20 when I asked her. Part of the reason I took so long was I believe a 16 year old girl would have no interest in a 13 year old boy.

good man

orourkeda

DB10 wrote: »

First immature post in the thread.

New record for AH.

Says the bloke who asks girls out when he's extremely sloshed.

Giggernaut

My advice is to listen to some Kenny Rogers while crying into your cornflakes and doing some sit ups!!!

Works for me in times of woe! :cool:

AAAAAAAHHH

estadio wrote: »

She was not out of my league (come to think of it she was a bit lower)

I can't go out with a girl unless she's as intelligent, or slightly less intelligent, than I am.

i got rejected there recently.sucked ass
really liked him for around a year.properly obsessed with him.:pac:he led me on.
i moved off back to college then and found out he made a new girlfriend within a week.
so i decided to get full.and shift the face off his best friend.
yup.classy lady i am.:pac:
gladly it pissed him off..


do sumthing along those lines.although it might cost u your dignity!yay!