Do girls think it's easy for guys to get laid at clubs?

elpipe

I am talking about an average guy going to a club, chat up a stranger, taking her home and have sex with her. Do you think that is easy to do?

And please say if you are a guy or a girl if you answer.

Oryx

How is this a PI for you?

elpipe

Oryx wrote: »

How is this a PI for you?

Well, girls seem surprised at how few girls I have slept with and I sense that they think "hmm, I wonder what's wrong with him".

Or do you know somewhere else I should post this?

kronsington

a lot of girls i know complain that guys dont approach them- i hate how its "expected" that the bloke should do this. i dont know about others but ive always found it quite difficult to try chat up complete strangers. varying degrees of success. i find a lot of girls just arent approachable and some can be complete b*tches even if youre completely friendly and polite and then go off an complain. it takes balls to approach strangers and is no easy thing to do (for me anyway)

if girls think you have a problem cos you havent slept with many, in their eyes, they are the ones with the isse. sound like a bunch of skanks to me

IrishEyes19

Speaking from a girls perspective, I'd be far too shy to chat up a guy, admitately I always let him do the approaching, merely because I'd be freaked by rejection if Im being honest, and secondly because I'd feel really silly doing it. Having said that Ive made eye contact before to look more friendlier, but thats about it really with strangers. Obviously if Im at a house party or whatever Id strike up conversation if it was a group setting or one on one. But I guess it shyness really.

Sykk

IrishEyes19 wrote: »

Speaking from a girls perspective, I'd be far too shy to chat up a guy, admitately I always let him do the approaching, merely because I'd be freaked by rejection if Im being honest, and secondly because I'd feel really silly doing it. Having said that Ive made eye contact before to look more friendlier, but thats about it really with strangers. Obviously if Im at a house party or whatever Id strike up conversation if it was a group setting or one on one. But I guess it shyness really.

Pics or GTFO

This sounds suspiciously like the "How do you get laid" bloke. The one that wanted a 10 step program..

IrishEyes19

Sykk wrote: »

Pics or GTFO

What?

sorry mods if thats off topic, but I actually dont know what the above poster means?

opinion guy

Ah. Welcome to After Hours.
You may assume the position........now.

Black Swan

Depends upon the girl. Everyone is different. I'm not into one night stands with randomers. When I go to pub, club, or bar, its to be with friends, and if there's a good DJ or live band, then to dance. So if they are like me, save your one-liners and free drinks for someone else.

stovelid

I often find myself laid in nightclubs. Especially if sambuca or aftershock is involved.

RockinRolla

In general, Ive found Irish women very unapproachable.

Perhaps its the culture or whatnot but talking to a foreign girl is so much more comfortable as they are not so quick to shoot you down because of the ego game etc. They are very welcoming and will have a great conversation with you even if theyre not interested...as opposed to the Irish way of making you feel like a right tit to inflate their own worth.

Ive traveled and lived in all corners of the globe and take it from me, Irish women, for the most part, are nothing but dolls. Some are beautiful to look at but hallow inside. There is no sex appeal whatsoever and the longer you stay in Ireland, the more you start to see this self-righteous, holier than thou attitude attractive.

I suggest you approach a foreign woman, OP. Much happier girls.

Professey Chin

opinion guy wrote: »

Ah. Welcome to After Hours.
You may assume the position........now.

Ive been here yonks.You said I wouldnt have to do that anymore

Sykk

IrishEyes19 wrote: »

What?

sorry mods if thats off topic, but I actually dont know what the above poster means?

Was a joke, your post wasn't off topic :cool:

Gunsfortoys

RockinRolla wrote: »

In general, Ive found Irish women very unapproachable.

Perhaps its the culture or whatnot but talking to a foreign girl is so much more comfortable as they are not so quick to shoot you down because of the ego game etc. They are very welcoming and will have a great conversation with you even if theyre not interested...as opposed to the Irish way of making you feel like a right tit to inflate their own worth.

Ive traveled and lived in all corners of the globe and take it from me, Irish women, for the most part, are nothing but dolls. Some are beautiful to look at but hallow inside. There is no sex appeal whatsoever and the longer you stay in Ireland, the more you start to see this self-righteous, holier than thou attitude attractive.

I suggest you approach a foreign woman, OP. Much happier girls.

Prepare for an onslaught of misogynist claims.

opinion guy

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

Ive been here yonks.You said I wouldnt have to do that anymore

And who exaclty said you could take off your gimp mask ????

Back in the spanking box for an hour with you!!! :mad::mad:

alwaysadub

IrishEyes19 wrote: »

Speaking from a girls perspective, I'd be far too shy to chat up a guy, admitately I always let him do the approaching, merely because I'd be freaked by rejection if Im being honest, and secondly because I'd feel really silly doing it. Having said that Ive made eye contact before to look more friendlier, but thats about it really with strangers. Obviously if Im at a house party or whatever Id strike up conversation if it was a group setting or one on one. But I guess it shyness really.

Pretty much exactly the same as this! I'm really quiet at the best of times, so i literally wouldn't be able to go chat to some random bloke in a pub.
If a fella came up to me and started chatting though, i'd definitely try make the effort at some decent conversation. But usually when i'm out, there's just as many,if not more, men in the group than women so it's not too often i get someone come up to talk to me.

alwaysadub

IrishEyes19 wrote: »

What?

sorry mods if thats off topic, but I actually dont know what the above poster means?

It means pics or get the fcuk off. Once you mention you're a woman here, expect it to happen

mikom

You can find me in the club, bottle full of bub
Look mami i got the X ,if you into takin drugs
Im into havin sex i aint into makin love
So come give me a hug if you into getting rubbed

Logical Fallacy

Gonna go out on a limb here and say if people are shy about talking to a bloke they maybe might not be interested in sex with him after the club.:D

Sykk

alwaysadub wrote: »

It means pics or get the fcuk off. Once you mention you're a woman here, expect it to happen

PI mod stamped me with an infraction... Behind enemy lines.. ALL TO THE PI FORUMS! :pac:

opinion guy

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

Gonna go out on a limb here and say if people are shy about talking to a bloke they maybe might not be interested in sex with him after the club.:D

You are forgetting the effects of 17 zambucka's taken for dutch courage after the shyness sets in and before the goinghomeness sets in

BOHtox

I don't mean to impress you but I'm Batman!

Sykk

BOHtox wrote: »

I don't mean to impress you but I'm Batman!

http://toomuchfreetime.eu/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/im-batman.jpg

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5

RockinRolla wrote: »

In general, Ive found Irish women very unapproachable.

Perhaps its the culture or whatnot but talking to a foreign girl is so much more comfortable as they are not so quick to shoot you down because of the ego game etc. They are very welcoming and will have a great conversation with you even if theyre not interested...as opposed to the Irish way of making you feel like a right tit to inflate their own worth.

What utter bull. If a man comes up to a woman and starts talking to her in a club or pub setting, it's fairly obvious that he would like this to potentially lead to sex at some point. If the woman isn't interested in having sex with him, it doesn't mean she isn't interested in having sex with anyone, it's perfectly likely that she's there for the same reasons he is, so why the fuck should she waste her time talking to him rather than try and achieve her end of having sex with someone she finds attractive. Even if she's not there to have sex, she's probably not there to talk to strangers who stare at her tits. And maybe she's not in the mood to make small talk with someone she finds boring, or stupid, or anything else.

I suggest you approach a foreign woman, OP. Much happier girls.

It might be a cultural thing, it might be a confidence thing (not being brave enough to tell a local to eff off). It might be that they didn't grow up with leery, beery, generally ugly Irish men everywhere and the novelty of the accent hasn't worn out enough for them to be sick of it. It might be that not every country has a culture of going out to get laid, some people do it just to socialise generally, so she mightn't make the (usually correct) assumption that a guy who's talking to her wants to sleep with her.

Gunsfortoys wrote: »

Prepare for an onslaught of misogynist claims.

Happy to oblige, there's a few other terms I'd throw out but I'm not in the mood for a ban.

alwaysadub

Sykk wrote: »

PI mod stamped me with an infraction... Behind enemy lines.. ALL TO THE PI FORUMS! :pac:

Oh, was this originally in PI? Ya can't be sayin stuff like that in there sure,you need to be in a cool forum like AH! :pac:

Orizio

Roy Greasy Oaf wrote: »

What utter bull. If a man comes up to a woman and starts talking to her in a club or pub setting, it's fairly obvious that he would like this to potentially lead to sex at some point. If the woman isn't interested in having sex with him, it doesn't mean she isn't interested in having sex with anyone, it's perfectly likely that she's there for the same reasons he is, so why the fuck should she waste her time talking to him rather than try and achieve her end of having sex with someone she finds attractive. Even if she's not there to have sex, she's probably not there to talk to strangers who stare at her tits. And maybe she's not in the mood to make small talk with someone she finds boring, or stupid, or anything else.

Bloody hell.

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5

Orizio wrote: »

Bloody hell.

Misogynist! :pac:

AAAAAAAHHH

Roy Greasy Oaf wrote: »

What utter bull. If a man comes up to a woman and starts talking to her in a club or pub setting, it's fairly obvious that he would like this to potentially lead to sex at some point. If the woman isn't interested in having sex with him, it doesn't mean she isn't interested in having sex with anyone, it's perfectly likely that she's there for the same reasons he is, so why the fuck should she waste her time talking to him rather than try and achieve her end of having sex with someone she finds attractive. Even if she's not there to have sex, she's probably not there to talk to strangers who stare at her tits. And maybe she's not in the mood to make small talk with someone she finds boring, or stupid, or anything else.

I think you've just proved his point.

darragh16

Ah Coppers...

Merzbow

Roy Greasy Oaf wrote: »

What utter bull. If a man comes up to a woman and starts talking to her in a club or pub setting, it's fairly obvious that he would like this to potentially lead to sex at some point.

And Irish girls wonder why guys are afraid to chat them up ?