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was it Me??

  • 06-11-2010 2:46am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭


    ok so I've been tryin to see a girl she is a teacher, and I've went 5 weeks without seeing her, she was out tonight where I was an she took 2 mins to say hello, and before this it was 4 weeks before I seen her, tonight I finally told her I've had enuf and I can't take it no more,

    Would you put up with it or what is ur opinion? She has shown no interest in me for weeks, but keeps tellin me that she wants Me??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    Yes / No / Dunno *

    * = delete as appropriate.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,053 ✭✭✭PanchoVilla


    I don't think teachers are allowed to date their students.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,806 ✭✭✭✭KeithM89_old


    On a scale of 1 to Holy Shit, how hot is she??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,967 ✭✭✭Pyr0


    Balfie wrote: »
    ok so I've been tryin to see a girl she is a teacher, and I've went 5 weeks without seeing her, she was out tonight where I was an she took 2 mins to say hello, and before this it was 4 weeks before I seen her, tonight I finally told her I've had enuf and I can't take it no more,

    Would you put up with it or what is ur opinion? She has shown no interest in me for weeks, but keeps tellin me that she wants Me??

    Tell her to F*ck off already.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    she's not interested. Probably just leading you on because she can.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    Yeh that's what friends have been sayin but I keep goin back cause the chase but I've had more than enuf she's not bother,s and its annoying cause I turned down someone else for her an now I'm stuck alone


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,053 ✭✭✭PanchoVilla


    Balfie wrote: »
    Yeh that's what friends have been sayin but I keep goin back cause the chase but I've had more than enuf she's not bother,s and its annoying cause I turned down someone else for her an now I'm stuck alone

    Don't worry mate, adolescence can be tough at the best of times. Just don't worry about it and things will happen on their own.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,333 ✭✭✭bad2dabone


    time for an in flight **** i think mate.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    youll be fine, someone else will come along. and its nice to hear you turned the other one down, you didnt try and juggle them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    I don't think teachers are allowed to date their students.

    I'm 22, she's 25, I don't think I Wud post it her if I was her student


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Nicccccccccce.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    This other one you turned down is there no chance in getting back in contact le ther know you are available now?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    Leelaa22 wrote: »
    youll be fine, someone else will come along. and its nice to hear you turned the other one down, you didnt try and juggle them

    Yeh thanks I'm not that kinda guy, one girl is enuf for me till I see where it is goin, and I feel bad now cause the other girl told me she was mad about me but she wasn't ready cause she just had a kid, and I went wit the one that has no interest, and now the girl I told no to is in a happy relationship, so I'm just fuked, I feel like such a loser


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Balfie wrote: »
    Would you put up with it or what is ur opinion? She has shown no interest in me for weeks, but keeps tellin me that she wants Me??

    Take ownership of your balls.

    In this case just forget about her or if you're into playing games (because it sounds as if she is) I'd advise you to treat her mean to keep her keen; chill out don't text/call her all the time and wait and see what happens nd in the meantime see other girls.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,305 ✭✭✭DOC09UNAM


    Balfie wrote: »
    Yeh thanks I'm not that kinda guy, one girl is enuf for me till I see where it is goin, and I feel bad now cause the other girl told me she was mad about me but she wasn't ready cause she just had a kid, and I went wit the one that has no interest, and now the girl I told no to is in a happy relationship, so I'm just fuked, I feel like such a loser
    If the one that wanted you, wanted you so badly, she wouldn't be in a very happy relationship right now tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    sounds like a lucky escape, you didnt get stuck with a b1tich and this girl was your second choice do you really want to be stuck with second best, youll always been looking for someone better, congrats to her having a kid but maybe thats good you dont have to be a part time dad.
    what im trying to say is maybe things have worked out for the best.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    TheZohan wrote: »
    Take ownership of your balls.

    In this case just forget about her or if you're into playing games (because it sounds as if she is) I'd advise you to treat her mean to keep her keen; chill out don't text/call her all the time and wait and see what happens nd in the meantime see other girls.

    God i hate all them mind games and BS, to me its just time wasting


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    Leelaa22 wrote: »
    This other one you turned down is there no chance in getting back in contact le ther know you are available now?

    she is with a guy now, and I want her to be happy, I'd rather not bring it up,? Once she is happy then I am happy, I made the wrong decision and I have to live with it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    Balfie wrote: »
    she is with a guy now, and I want her to be happy, I'd rather not bring it up,? Once she is happy then I am happy, I made the wrong decision and I have to live with it

    im not so sure you made the wrong decision. why do you need to be with someone right now anyway. your 22 enjoy being single, you have plenty of time to be in a relationship and married and all that. enjoy being young free and single.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,359 ✭✭✭ldxo15wus6fpgm


    Niccccceeeeee.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    whats with the random "nice"? am i missing something


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,053 ✭✭✭PanchoVilla


    TheZohan wrote: »
    Take ownership of your balls.

    In this case just forget about her or if you're into playing games (because it sounds as if she is) I'd advise you to treat her mean to keep her keen; chill out don't text/call her all the time and wait and see what happens nd in the meantime see other girls.

    Amateur.

    OP what you need to do is walk right up to her, slap her in the face, then spit on her. Just walk away before she can say anything. Chicks love that kinda stuff. If that doesn't work just pull her hair and call her a bitch. That should get the juices flowing if you know what I mean. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    Leelaa22 wrote: »
    whats with the random "nice"? am i missing something

    Sweeeeeet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    Sweeeeeet.


    duuuude


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    well to be honest my last relationship was over a year ago, single life isn't good to me, I was waiting on the second girl for a long time, was basically 11, to 12, months, she wanted to wait and I respected that, told her someone else came along, and then someone came along for her, so now in left wit nothing cause the decision I made was the wrong one an I feel like ****e


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    Amateur.

    OP what you need to do is walk right up to her, slap her in the face, then spit on her. Just walk away before she can say anything. Chicks love that kinda stuff. If that doesn't work just pull her hair and call her a bitch. That should get the juices flowing if you know what I mean. ;)

    dont forget to wear shades in doors, they will make you look mysterious and b1tches love a mysterious man!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    Balfie wrote: »
    ok so I've been tryin to see a girl she is a teacher, and I've went 5 weeks without seeing her, she was out tonight where I was an she took 2 mins to say hello, and before this it was 4 weeks before I seen her, tonight I finally told her I've had enuf and I can't take it no more,

    Would you put up with it or what is ur opinion? She has shown no interest in me for weeks, but keeps tellin me that she wants Me??

    She sounds like a bitch-you're better off out of it.

    You and HardLuckWoman should hook up....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,367 ✭✭✭Rabble Rabble


    Leelaa22 wrote: »
    whats with the random "nice"? am i missing something

    its either family guy, or southpark. thats all that is ever watched in these parts. Just assume one, or t'other.

    I'd say the teacher didn't like the OP's grammar.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Balfie wrote: »
    well to be honest my last relationship was over a year ago, single life isn't good to me, I was waiting on the second girl for a long time, was basically 11, to 12, months, she wanted to wait and I respected that, told her someone else came along, and then someone came along for her, so now in left wit nothing cause the decision I made was the wrong one an I feel like ****e

    Burn all their houses down...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭jd007


    I heard teachers like guys that wear leather jackets


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,367 ✭✭✭Rabble Rabble


    also why is taking 2 minutes to say hello, in a crowded space, a bad thing? And guys approach girls.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    its either family guy, or southpark. thats all that is ever watched in these parts. Just assume one, or t'other.

    I'd say the teacher didn't like the OP's grammar.

    south park!!! when Ike dates his teacher!!! thank you that was buggin me
    good episode btw


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,367 ✭✭✭Rabble Rabble


    sweeet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    TheZohan wrote: »
    Burn all their houses down...

    ok dont do that... but really look at it in the big pic. they didnt work out and thats for a reason. Someone better who is available and not leading you on will come into your life you just need to sit tight and chill.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    sweeet.

    duuude


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    also why is taking 2 minutes to say hello, in a crowded space, a bad thing? And guys approach girls.

    It want a crowded place, the pub was actually empty and she made no effort to see me, maybe if u see a girl that ur seeing gives u 2 mins is good enuf for U, but Its not enuf for me,


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Balfie wrote: »
    It want a crowded place, the pub was actually empty and she made no effort to see me, maybe if u see a girl that ur seeing gives u 2 mins is good enuf for U, but Its not enuf for me,

    That's why the teacher dumped you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,305 ✭✭✭DOC09UNAM


    Balfie wrote: »
    It want a crowded place, the pub was actually empty and she made no effort to see me, maybe if u see a girl that ur seeing gives u 2 mins is good enuf for U, but Its not enuf for me,
    Balf, can I call you balf?

    I think you need to sit down and weigh up your options, sleep on it, and then make a decision tomorrow.

    And please, take no offence from this, but by jesus sort out the text speak thing, if she is a teacher, it could easily be a big annoyance if you text her like that.

    enuf is not a word, and 2 is not too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    DOC09UNAM wrote: »
    Balf, can I call you balf?

    I think you need to sit down and weigh up your options, sleep on it, and then make a decision tomorrow.

    And please, take no offence from this, but by jesus sort out the text speak thing, if she is a teacher, it could easily be a big annoyance if you text her like that.

    enuf is not a word, and 2 is not too.


    or maybe she likes it? maybe bad grammer is the kida thing that gets her going?;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,553 ✭✭✭✭Dempsey


    Sounds like you're beating yourself up over this, you took a chance with the person you wanted and she's being cold. Its not gone how you planned but at least you tried for what you wanted. Best dishing the ultimatum to her and getting a proper answer and knowing where you stand. Not easy but if its wrecking your head then speak your mind, you'll feel alot better for doing it, trust me on that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    DOC09UNAM wrote: »
    Balf, can I call you balf?

    I think you need to sit down and weigh up your options, sleep on it, and then make a decision tomorrow.

    And please, take no offence from this, but by jesus sort out the text speak thing, if she is a teacher, it could easily be a big annoyance if you text her like that.

    enuf is not a word, and 2 is not too.


    Sorry I am on my phone, when I am on the laptop I spell proper but when on the phone its habit, if I pissed any of u off I am sorry, but its just I am on my phone


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    Balfie wrote: »
    Sorry I am on my phone, when I am on the laptop I spell proper but when on the phone its habit, if I pissed any of u off I am sorry, but its just I am on my phone

    Dear Lord don't apologise to him, it's not like you slapped him in the face with a fish :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,305 ✭✭✭DOC09UNAM


    Leelaa22 wrote: »
    or maybe she likes it? maybe bad grammer is the kida thing that gets her going?;)
    Bod grammur gts nobdy goin, trst me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    Dempsey wrote: »
    Sounds like you're beating yourself up over this, you took a chance with the person you wanted and she's being cold. Its not gone how you planned but at least you tried for what you wanted. Best dishing the ultimatum to her and getting a proper answer and knowing where you stand. Not easy but if its wrecking your head then speak your mind, you'll feel alot better for doing it, trust me on that.
    and please don't call me balf my teachers done that in school and it as the worst ever, thanks pal :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,305 ✭✭✭DOC09UNAM


    Sorry about Mr Balf.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,725 ✭✭✭charlemont


    tell her where to go..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    DOC09UNAM wrote: »
    Bod grammur gts nobdy goin, trst me


    I don't know it's after getting mighty hot in here all of a sudden


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    so we are all agreed that I made the wrong decision?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Leelaa22


    I don't think you did. I think there is someone better out there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,137 ✭✭✭Balfie


    TheZohan wrote: »
    That's why the teacher dumped you.

    Yeh she didn't dump me, I didn't see her, thanks very much,


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