Is she too young for me??

RedDevil1878

Hi der,

Im 20 years old, and currently kinda seeing a girl who is 16. Nothing too serious or anything but we do really like each other. I have knowin her roughly a year and a half but just recently i have started seeing her. I turn 21 now in january, and she will still be 16. She does turn 17 a month later in feb so that makes it just about 4 years that im older than her. So is she too young for me? I dont usually go after girls at that age btw, as my last girlfriend was 19. Please let me know what you think.

Much appreciated.

brummytom

Of course she's not, if you love each other.






















Nah I'm kidding, you're a pervert

Novella

She isn't legal so yeah, she's too young for you.

Leeg17

Títs or GTF... You're not a cop are you?

rainbowdrop

If there's grass on the pitch, lets play.........

Duggy747

Ask this guy

gogo

If you have to ask then the answer is probably yes

michael999999

dont worry theres another certain red devil who likes the older women!!!

Micky Dolenz

Personal issues forum?

immature ejaculation

rainbowdrop wrote: »

If there's grass on the pitch, lets play.........

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and if not roll over and lets play in the dirt!

Dr_Phil

RedDevil1878 wrote: »

Im 20 years old, and currently kinda seeing a girl who is 16.

As long as it's legal I wouldn't worry about it... Remember, time flies...

RedDevil1878

But when im 21 she basically turns 17, and that dont sound as bad. If i was 25 and she was 21 no one would complain so why is it so pervey?

Jaxxy

RedDevil1878 wrote: »

But when im 21 she basically turns 17, and that dont sound as bad. If i was 25 and she was 21 no one would complain so why is it so pervey?

Because the age of consent in this country is 17.

abouttobebanned

If you can't trust DR Phil OP, who can ya trust?


Seriously though...where are the fcuking pics. Does the word vicariously mean anything to you? Course not, you're 20

Novella

RedDevil1878 wrote: »

But when im 21 she basically turns 17, and that dont sound as bad. If i was 25 and she was 21 no one would complain so why is it so pervey?

Because she is a child and you are an adult?

alwaysadub

When i was 17, i was going out with a 21 year old.
Didn't do me any harm... i think.

Johnny Bitte

AH answer: get in there!

Serious answer: If you really care for here then sticck with it. But bare in mind, its gonna be hard a **** with others. If you and her can put up with that and especially her family, then at least try!

VampiricPadraig

When I was 18...

I dated a 14-year-old girl

*...Didn't last long.


Go for eet mate, what's the worst that can happen!

*She was the only girlfriend that I have had. *sadface*

Naos

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Personal issues forum?

That or Parenting

anniehoo

RedDevil1878 wrote: »

But when im 21 she basically turns 17, and that dont sound as bad. If i was 25 and she was 21 no one would complain so why is it so pervey?

When you're 91 and shes 87...now thats where you'll be gettin into problems OP, in more ways than one

SeaFields

VampiricPadraig wrote: »

When I was 18...I dated a 14-year-old girl*...Didn't last long.

:eek:

starbelgrade

VampiricPadraig wrote: »

When I was 18...I dated a 14-year-old girl*...Didn't last long.


Go for eet mate, what's the worst that can happen!

*She was the only girlfriend that I have had. *sadface*

Still in prison then, I take it?

phasers

The rule is half your age plus seven, so yes.


Perv.

RedDevil1878

Tbh she's quite mature for her age. If she was immature trust me i would have nothing to do with it. Maybe if im gonna stick this out ill take it slow and at least till she turns legal. I know many people in relationships who have a few year's gap and they seem happy.

VampiricPadraig

starbelgrade wrote: »

Still in prison then, I take it?

Nope...I just am unlucky with the women

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starbelgrade

RedDevil1878 wrote: »

Tbh she's quite mature for her age. If she was immature trust me i would have nothing to do with it. Maybe if im gonna stick this out ill take it slow and at least till she turns legal. I know many people in relationships who have a few year's gap and they seem happy.

Technically, that's called "grooming".

RedDevil1878

phasers wrote: »

The rule is half your age plus seven, so yes.


Perv.

Thats a month in the difference like come on haha

Gummy Panda

RedDevil1878 wrote: »

Tbh she's quite mature for her age. If she was immature trust me i would have nothing to do with it. Maybe if im gonna stick this out ill take it slow and at least till she turns legal. I know many people in relationships who have a few year's gap and they seem happy.

you must wait longer before using the marriage sack.

Shanotheslayer

Paedophile win.

audi4444

i'm jealous:D no mortgage young girlfriend life does not get better man enjoy give her a kiss from me

Jaxxy

This thread scares me.

star-pants

Gaps in ages are different depending on the age of the people.
yeah 21 - 25 isn't seen as bad, why? because both parties have reached a more mature level.
16-20/21? Massssive difference, if I'd a 16yr old sister and a 20 year old guy had an interest, I know which knees would be getting smashed in.

Novella

RedDevil1878 wrote: »

Tbh she's quite mature for her age. If she was immature trust me i would have nothing to do with it. Maybe if im gonna stick this out ill take it slow and at least till she turns legal. I know many people in relationships who have a few year's gap and they seem happy.

I don't have an issue with age gaps, I doubt many people do. My boyfriend is a few years younger than me. The problem here is the fact that she is a sixteen year old, she's a kid. It doesn't matter if she's mature. If you have sex with her now, you will be breaking the law. If you like her so much, sure, wait. It's not that a three/four year age gap is a big deal, it isn't. It's that she is a child.

My name is URL

I don't see the big deal myself.. age is only subjectively relevant. If you like each other and you're not taking advantage of the fact that she's younger than you then what's the harm? Just don't do anything until it's actually not illegal

Black Swan

I've always dated lads a bit older, which is not all that unusual, so other than she being jail-bate (under 17), what's the issue?

RedDevil1878

My name is URL wrote: »

I don't see the big deal myself.. age is only subjectively relevant. If you like each other and you're not taking advantage of the fact that she's younger than you then what's the harm? Just don't do anything until it's actually not illegal

Yes I dont think i will be doing anything until she's the legal age. We get on like a house on fire like, I think it would be a shame too waste something so good. I think I should probably talk to her too, to see what she thinks. Cheers

starbelgrade

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ncD0miHJIbA

TheZohanS

This thread smacks of:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4W5tpbTJ7V8

There's a math formula for that.

(Minimum age of partner)=[(Your age)/2]+7

You're almost 21

21/2+7 = 10.5 + 7 = 17.5

So right now, keep it sekret.

Working it backwards, you'll be safe with her when you're 23.

Although, in fairness, I've been to a wedding where the gap was 20 years.

longhalloween

Half your age plus 7 is the rule. And that rule can never be broken.

btard

longhalloween wrote: »

Half your age plus 7 is the rule. And that rule can never be broken.

Oh yeah ? ...and why would that be?

Tigger

because its trhe peado rule an that makes yer man a peado

Capt'n Midnight

off topic
but what would the legal situation be if someone crossed the boarder for sex with a 16 year old ?

does the it's legal there rule apply or does the Irish citizens breaking Irish laws even if abroad law apply ?

Tigger

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

off topic
but what would the legal situation be if someone crossed the boarder for sex with a 16 year old ?

does the it's legal there rule apply or does the Irish citizens breaking Irish laws even if abroad law apply ?

is he breaking the (/2)(+7) rule?

starbelgrade

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

off topic
but what would the legal situation be if someone crossed the boarder for sex with a 16 year old ?

That's a sterling idea.

Fizman

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

This thread scares me.

Me too! All text and no pics. AH has changed man.

btard

Tigger wrote: »

because its trhe peado rule an that makes yer man a peado

Bollox. She's way too old for a paedo. The guy is just a normal red blooded male.

Tar.Aldarion

Tis grand, sex at 17(on the books >_>)

Tigger

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

Tis grand, sex at 17(on the books >_>)

tar your looking at a spanking

Tar.Aldarion

Tigger wrote: »

tar your looking at a spanking

I'm jsut a bit of a http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/39/0NKOdAFuEirrixytqw0s985ho1_500.jpg



No, not a red panda :pac:

kylith

Just hold off the naughty stuff till she's off age and you'll be grand. The older ye get the less of a gap 4 years will seem.