Analyse this?

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 10:57pm #1

Ok need opinions etc!

Girl and Guy A in love a year ago - They break up and cut complete contact -

Girl wakes up a year later and cant stop thinking of Guy A for days.

So much so she is desperate to know how he is.
She considers fb mailing his best friend(that he spoke of before) : Guy B, to see how Guy A is because she is terrified to contact Guy A directly
Is emailing his bestfriend inappropriate? What would you think ?

Opinions?

Sardonicat · 15-10-2010 10:58pm

She should mail guy A and ask him.

dubtom · 15-10-2010 10:59pm

I'd go with option C.

Kimono-Girl · 15-10-2010 11:00pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Is emailing his bestfriend inappropriate?

yes, girl should leave it alone and walk away, because in 5 years time she will not be thinking about Guy A at all and will be so much happier if she just walked away!

just my opinion!

FearDark · 15-10-2010 11:00pm

She should not contact Guy A for her own sanity.

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:00pm

Sardonicat wrote: »

She should mail guy A and ask him.

too risky though?
Girl feels like Guy A will either ignore her, hurl abuse at her or be actually great ,thus, letting her old feelings resurface!

:P Option C is well in

Absurdum · 15-10-2010 11:00pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Opinions?

get over him, turn lezzer, post pics

Pauleta · 15-10-2010 11:00pm

Guy B is gonna tell Guy A anyway so i say go straight to Guy A.

Tchaikovsky · 15-10-2010 11:01pm

dubtom wrote: »

I'd go with option C.

A poem in our native Irish tongue.

alwaysadub · 15-10-2010 11:01pm

Girl realises she hasn't found anybody better so wonders can settle for guy A.

Don't live in the past-ye broke up for a reason.

starlit · 15-10-2010 11:01pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Ok need opinions etc!

Girl and Guy A in love a year ago - They break up and cut complete contact -

Girl wakes up a year later and cant stop thinking of Guy A for days.

So much so she is desperate to know how he is.
She considers fb mailing his best friend(that he spoke of before) : Guy B, to see how Guy A is because she is terrified to contact Guy A directly
Is emailing his bestfriend inappropriate? What would you think ?

Opinions?

She should let it go and move on! If she wants to find out how he is best to ask his best friend in person better doing that ask its more genuine and friendly. Cause Guy A will find out and may or may not decide to contact the girl in question.

ya-ba-da-ba-doo · 15-10-2010 11:02pm

Guy A has crabs

Cheap Thrills! · 15-10-2010 11:02pm

Dont do it!!!

Step away from the PC !!!

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:02pm

Pauleta wrote: »

Guy B is gonna tell Guy A anyway so i say go straight to Guy A.

He would? But isnt that a bit.....bitchy out of a guy to do something as petty to run back to the friend???

Sardonicat · 15-10-2010 11:03pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

too risky though?
Girl feels like Guy A will either ignore her, hurl abuse at her or be actually great ,thus, letting her old feelings resurface!

:P Option C is well in

If there is any likelihood of him doing this why should she care how he is?

galwayrush · 15-10-2010 11:04pm

I have so much wine dran k, that confused me.

funk-you · 15-10-2010 11:05pm

Just hurl your fanny at him. Fool-proof.

-Funk

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:06pm

Sardonicat wrote: »

If there is any likelihood of him doing this why should she care how he is?

I dunnoo... "Girl" has no idea what the reaction would be - this is the scariest bit
It ended badly ..

TouchingVirus · 15-10-2010 11:06pm

Personal Issues? The Ladies Lounge?

Anywhere but After Hours

I vote for Atari Shaguar, or get with his friend to make him jealous and work your way back in there.

littlefriend · 15-10-2010 11:07pm

Put down your drink and GET AWAY FROM YOUR PC.

Unless you are 8 this is the worst idea I ever heard. If the guy was interested he'd be in touch with you. Its over, you've had a year to get used to that, you need to start being tough with yourself and move on with things.

Biggins · 15-10-2010 11:07pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

...Opinions?

Himmm... they need better names?

starlit · 15-10-2010 11:07pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

I dunnoo... "Girl" has no idea what the reaction would be - this is the scariest bit
It ended badly ..

If the relationship ended badly I'd suggest she avoid all contact with Guy A and Guy B!

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:08pm

littlefriend wrote: »

Put down your drink and GET AWAY FROM YOUR PC.

Unless you are 8 this is the worst idea I ever heard. If the guy was interested he'd be in touch with you. Its over, you've had a year to get used to that, you need to start being tough with yourself and move on with things.

LOL "Girl" is not drinking at all!!

littlefriend · 15-10-2010 11:09pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

LOL "Girl" is not drinking at all!!

Thats worse!

dubtom · 15-10-2010 11:10pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

LOL "Girl" is not drinking at all!!

\there's your option C so,Girl should drink.

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:10pm

littlefriend wrote: »

Thats worse!

I know!

"Girl" is píssed at "Guy A" for not caring enough to check in and see how shes doing etc! Also, "Girl" feels like she suffered more from the break up than Guy A

alwaysadub · 15-10-2010 11:12pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

I know!

"Girl" is píssed at "Guy A" for not caring enough to check in and see how shes doing etc! Also, "Girl" feels like she suffered more from the break up than Guy A

You broke up a year ago!! Why should he "check in"?

Seriously,get over it.

Kimono-Girl · 15-10-2010 11:12pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

I know!

"Girl" is píssed at "Guy A" for not caring enough to check in and see how shes doing etc! Also, "Girl" feels like she suffered more from the break up than Guy A

ill bet guy A will feel he suffered more from break up then girl...and i'll bet guy A will be pissed if girl makes contact...

girl should drink....:D

TheZohanS · 15-10-2010 11:13pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

I know!

"Girl" is píssed at "Guy A" for not caring enough to check in and see how shes doing etc! Also, "Girl" feels like she suffered more from the break up than Guy A

"Girl" sounds like a nutjob tbh.

Gran Hermano · 15-10-2010 11:13pm

Two pieces of advice:

- get a blog
- buy a dildo

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:13pm

alwaysadub wrote: »

You broke up a year ago!! Why should he "check in"?

Seriously,get over it.

Because...I will come up with a reason in 2 minutes!:rolleyes:

littlefriend · 15-10-2010 11:14pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

I know!

"Girl" is píssed at "Guy A" for not caring enough to check in and see how shes doing etc! Also, "Girl" feels like she suffered more from the break up than Guy A

Honestly, the chances of anything good coming from this are really minimal. If you are going to do anything at all then don't involve the friend - its juvenile to say the least.

Scuid Mhór · 15-10-2010 11:14pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Ok need opinions etc!

Girl and Guy A in love a year ago - They break up and cut complete contact -

Girl wakes up a year later and cant stop thinking of Guy A for days.

So much so she is desperate to know how he is.
She considers fb mailing his best friend(that he spoke of before) : Guy B, to see how Guy A is because she is terrified to contact Guy A directly
Is emailing his bestfriend inappropriate? What would you think ?

Opinions?

guy c is cooler.

MrStuffins · 15-10-2010 11:15pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Because...I will come up with a reason in 2 minutes!:rolleyes:

WAIT................ "Girl" is........ YOU???

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:16pm

littlefriend wrote: »

Honestly, the chances of anything good coming from this are really minimal. If you are going to do anything at all then don't involve the friend - its juvenile to say the least.

"Girl" is consumed with revenge/hate/love and feels "Guy A" turned his feelings off like a light switch
Plus "Girl" misses the connection she had with "Guy A" but she'd much prefer to have it with someone else but fears he was the one....
Meanwhile Guy B is chilling with a pint, waiting

Scuid Mhór · 15-10-2010 11:17pm

MrStuffins wrote: »

WAIT................ "Girl" is........ YOU???

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

don't be surprised - we're in after hours, after all.

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:17pm

MrStuffins wrote: »

WAIT................ "Girl" is........ YOU???

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

NO ! thats a mistype! :rolleyes:

starlit · 15-10-2010 11:17pm

Scuid Mhór wrote: »

guy c is cooler.

Best option! Go out for some drinkies 'girl'!

Ehem why doesn't 'girl' go out with guy B?

Liam Byrne · 15-10-2010 11:18pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

I know!

"Girl" is píssed at "Guy A" for not caring enough to check in and see how shes doing etc! Also, "Girl" feels like she suffered more from the break up than Guy A

And if he had checked in, "Girl" would be even more pissed* that he wasn't leaving her alone to get over it, and was confusing her.

* It's pissed off, BTW - "pissed" means drunk

Gran Hermano · 15-10-2010 11:19pm

It's over a year, I'd say you are not even in his 'break glass in case of emergency' **** bank. Step back from the stove and release the rabbit.

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:20pm

snuggles285 wrote: »

Best option! Go out for some drinkies 'girl'!

Ehem why doesn't 'girl' go out with guy B?

Dont be complicating the storyline

littlefriend · 15-10-2010 11:20pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

"Girl" is consumed with revenge/hate/love and feels "Guy A" turned his feelings off like a light switch
Plus "Girl" misses the connection she had with "Guy A" but she'd much prefer to have it with someone else but fears he was the one....
Meanwhile Guy B is chilling with a pint, waiting

My analysis = you love drama plus ^^^ has been picked up from movies and stuff on tv you have seen over the years.

Scuid Mhór · 15-10-2010 11:20pm

so i was thinking maybe instead of talking from a ridiculous objective viewpoint we could maybe talk in first person or something.

MrStuffins · 15-10-2010 11:20pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

"Girl" is consumed with revenge/hate/love and feels "Guy A" turned his feelings off like a light switch
Plus "Girl" misses the connection she had with "Guy A" but she'd much prefer to have it with someone else but fears he was the one....
Meanwhile Guy B is chilling with a pint, waiting

You just completely wrecked the buzz.

Take it to Personal Issues!

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:20pm

Gran Hermano wrote: »

It's over a year, I'd say you are not even in his 'break glass in case of emergency' **** bank. Step back from the stove and release the rabbit.

TheZohanS · 15-10-2010 11:21pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

"Girl" is consumed with revenge/hate/love and feels "Guy A" turned his feelings off like a light switch
Plus "Girl" misses the connection she had with "Guy A" but she'd much prefer to have it with someone else but fears he was the one....
Meanwhile Guy B is chilling with a pint, waiting

Interesting....

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:22pm

TheZohan wrote: »

Interesting....

Poor lil bunny wabbit

alwaysadub · 15-10-2010 11:24pm

MrStuffins wrote: »

You just completely wrecked the buzz.

Take it to Personal Issues!

This. ^

If you still don't believe the many,many people who are telling you to leave it be, and are looking for actual advice, try PI. Or the Ladies Lounge..

littlefriend · 15-10-2010 11:25pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Poor lil bunny wabbit

Ah come on now, baby talk isn't cute or sexy.

Sardonicat · 15-10-2010 11:25pm

LC2010HIS wrote: »

"Girl" is consumed with revenge/hate/love and feels "Guy A" turned his feelings off like a light switch

Girl is obsessed and may need some help learning this is not a healthy or normal way to be. It's not making "girl" happy, is it?

LC2010HIS wrote: »

"Plus "Girl" misses the connection she had with "Guy A" but she'd much prefer to have it with someone else but fears he was the one...

Aint no such thing. Once you/girl accecpt that you might find you/girl stops obsessing

LC2010HIS · 15-10-2010 11:27pm

Sardonicat wrote: »

Girl is obsessed and may need some help learning this is not a healthy or normal way to be. It's not making "girl" happy, is it?

No its not. Girl has always had obsessive tendancies :eek:

Girl always hopes Guy A will turn up on her doorstep etc

Girl really would love to punch Guy A invisibly though!

Analyse this?

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