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Mother, Mummy, Mum, Mammy, Mam, Ma, Mama . . . .

  • 16-09-2010 8:59am
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,078 ✭✭✭✭


    Hello all you lovely Mum's, so just for a bit of lighthearted fun, what term term do you use in your house? By what term do your children call you? What do you call your Mother?

    Its just a bit of fun, enjoy . . . .

    Hopefully most (if not all) permutations are included this time! Vote away . . .

    What term do you use in your family? 164 votes

    Mother
    0% 0 votes
    Mummy
    0% 0 votes
    Mum
    3% 5 votes
    Mammy
    17% 29 votes
    Mam
    17% 28 votes
    Ma
    35% 58 votes
    Mama
    6% 11 votes
    Mommie/y
    4% 8 votes
    Mom
    2% 4 votes
    1st name
    9% 16 votes
    Other
    3% 5 votes


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,242 ✭✭✭mariaf24


    My daughter calls me 'Mom'. It's obviously not in the American sense but rather the irish pronounciation 'Maim'.
    I never told her or asked her what to call me, she started herself when she was about 2 :)

    Personally I can't stand 'Mum' (Very British).

    I call my mother 'Mam' We all do :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    My little fella calls me mam, which I quite like:)

    I called mine Mother - but she was elderly and it was seen as respect (I think) to call her that. My pals at the time, all called theirs Ma or Mam and called me really old fashioned for referring to her as Mother. But everyone called her that in our house...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    Mommie. Because he is small. As he gets older this will probably change to mom.

    We are Americans, not Irish people trying to be American btw.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    What about mamo my youngest use to call me that when she was small


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,214 ✭✭✭cbyrd


    I get called mammy and ma by my husband!! :eek: as in go tell your mammy blah blah.. or if we're having a tiff and he needs to ask me something.. he'll use the child phone(i wonder will mammy go/do/need :rolleyes:)

    The girls call be mam, mammy if they're trying to wheedle something out of me..

    My eldest will call me mother when i embarrass her which is more and more frequent now that she's a tween..the baba just calls me ahh or waaaahhhhhhh for now.. in various different tones pitches and volumes depending on his needs at the time:pac::D


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    my daughter calls me mammy, with varying acoustics depending on what has happened/what she wants! :P


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 10,885 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hellrazer


    Our 4 always use Mam and Dad but as long as I remember Ive always called my dad by his first name.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 458 ✭✭Boxoffrogs


    I use Mam but my little guy calls me Mum


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 905 ✭✭✭StompToWork




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    MOM

    I call my mom MOM and my kids call me Mommie or MOM, or Mooooooooooooom

    (I'm English by parentage, Irish by birth)

    My husband (Irish) calls his mom MUM.

    my kids have to call his mom Mamie (not granny or nan)


    Found this in wiki Turns out thats where my parents are from the west midlands- i only spent 7 years there.

    Mother. Mom is sporadically regionally found in the UK (e.g. in West Midlands English). Some British dialects have mam[19], and this is often used in Northern English, Irish English, and Welsh English. In the American region of New England, especially in the case of the Boston accent, the British pronunciation of mum is often retained, while it is still spelled mom. In Canada, there are both mom and mum; Canadians often say mum and write mom.[20] In Australia and New Zealand, mum is used.


    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_and_British_English_spelling_differences


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,214 ✭✭✭cbyrd



    that's hilarious !!!! :pac::pac::pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    Incase anyone s interested

    The proverbial "first word" of an infant often sounds like "ma" or "mama." This strong association of that sound with "mother" has persisted in nearly every language on earth, countering the natural localization of language.

    Familiar or colloquial terms for mother in English are:

    Mom and mommy are used in the USA, Canada, South Africa, Philippines, and the West Midlands of England.
    Mum and mummy are used in the UK, Canada, Singapore, Australia, New Zealand, and Ireland.
    Ma, mam, and mammy are used in Netherlands, Ireland, the Northern areas of the UK, and Wales; it is also used in some areas of the US.
    Maa,aai, amma, and mata are used in India and sometimes in neighboring countries, originating from the Sanskrit matrika and mata

    The Hindu mother goddess Parvati feeding her son, the elephant-headed wisdom god GaneshaIn many other languages, similar pronunciations apply:

    mamá, ma, and mami in Spanish language
    mama in Polish, German, Russian and Slovak
    māma (妈妈/媽媽) in Chinese and Japanese
    máma in Czech and in Ukrainian
    maman in French and Persian
    ma, mama in Indonesian
    mamma in Italian, Icelandic and Swedish
    mamãe or mãe in Portuguese
    Ami in Punjabi
    mama in Swahili
    em (אם) in Hebrew
    ima (אמא) in Aramaic
    má or mẹ in Vietnamese
    mam in Welsh
    eomma (엄마, pronounced [ʌmma]) in Korean
    In many south Asian cultures and the Middle East, the mother is known as amma or oma or ammi or "ummi", or variations thereof. Many times, these terms denote affection or a maternal role in a child's life.


    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,617 ✭✭✭Cat Melodeon


    We all called my mother mam, rarely mammy once we hit the teens. My lad calls me mama when he can be bothered putting a name to me (he's only 13 months) and I'm guessing this will become mam too, although I quite like being mama. My husband refers to me as mummy when he's talking to our son ("where's mummy" etc) and I deck him every time he does it, it just sounds so wrong. He calls his own mother 'mum' so I guess that's where it comes from (he's Scottish).

    Like mariaf24, our pronunciation of mam is closer to maim/mom than 'maahm'. It's a short 'a', not a drawn out one. Makes all the difference to your sanity when you have a toddler swinging out of you repeating it 20 times a second.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 344 ✭✭Chuchu


    + 1 for Mama...
    I adore it, but imagine that in time it'll turn into Mam which is what we used, Mama is a bit cutsie as they get older. I just melt when she says it but she's just 1 so it's not very often yet:o we use it and Dada when referring to each other. Short 'a' like Cat said not like the posh 'Mamawh' that Prince Charles uses:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,078 ✭✭✭✭LordSutch


    Its always been 'Mum' in our family, or Mummy when I was very little, and now with our little ones growing up its the same again with 'Mummy' being the choice, and I guess in time that will change into Mum when they grow up, each to their own I suppose.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 554 ✭✭✭Wantobe


    I called my mother - 'Mom', we were brought up in the West with no american influences so I don't know where that came from. My children call me 'Mom' or 'Mommy' or 'Mooooooom' ( LOL) or Mama or Maman ( French dad). Basically I will answer to anything.:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,458 ✭✭✭CathyMoran


    My son calls me "mama" but I hope that he will use the term mummy, as I do with my mummy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,912 ✭✭✭I Was VB


    Auld one. Ma
    Auld fella. Da


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,585 ✭✭✭lynski


    we always used mom too, growing up in west. I am mommy, mom, mama, honey, or sometimes even my firstname if they are cheeky and my 2 are under 4!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 403 ✭✭madbev90210


    me , my brother and sister call our parents maso or daso.. dont know where we got that from!! Other than that its ma, or da.. never been mam or mammy for us!
    I get called mam or mammy myself though :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,503 ✭✭✭smelltheglove


    Mine call me mammy mainly sometimes mam, I call mine mam or ma but no way would I let them call me ma, I hate it and its just a habit I try not to say ma.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    I always used Mum.

    Our two year-old says Mammy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 709 ✭✭✭belongtojazz


    I'm Mammy, even now that she's 13 she still calls me that :D

    Used to confuse the life out of her friends when we lived in the UK, but I hate Mummy, sounds like an egyptian thingy lol :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 314 ✭✭LashingLady


    When my two-year old was a baby I referred to myself a mummy or mommy quite a bit, but neither of them got through and I am now "mam". Not "mammy" or mamma which I think is rather funny as I kinda view "mam" as for older kids when they realise that mammy sounds a but babyish. But I call my mam mam so I think that's where it strengthens...

    He has two Gran's: Grandma (himself's mam) and Granny (my mam). Hubby and his brother's call their mam "Ma" and that's what my little fella calls her too! And he seems to realise that the two grannies are the same kinda thing cos he calls my mam "ma" too - although she's never been called Ma by any of us.....

    It never ceases to amaze me just how much these little people like saying (whatever word they use for) "mam". My little fella sits there looking at me at the breakfast table/in the car/out in the buggy:

    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes Baby
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes Baby
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes Baby
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes Baby
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes Baby
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes?
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes
    Him: Mam
    Me: Yes
    Him: Mam
    Me: What?
    Him: Mam
    Me: What?
    Him: Mam
    Me: Aaaaahhhhh!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭mymo


    I get called mum or when she was younger mummy, but I was bought up in the UK and mum was the norm.
    Husband and wife calling each other mum and dad to me is a no no, my parents always referred to each other by name and we called them mum and dad.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 322 ✭✭EraseAndRewind


    im 'mam' to my two anyways

    i use mam for my mother too


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,731 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    We're 'Mama(n)' and 'Daddy'. My own parents where Mammy (later Mam) and Daddy (later Dad).

    We use these names to refer to one another when talking to the children but not to one another; that would be a bit creepy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 888 ✭✭✭magicray


    Mam here too !

    Often its Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam !


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 100 ✭✭lisao80


    My little fella is 3 and nearly always calls me mamma .. unless he is cross then its moooom. i call my parents mom and dad.
    my little fella calls his grandparents nana and granda and his great grandparents he calls Mop and Pop.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    I call my parents mam or ma and dad or da...

    My little one calls me Mammy and it's sooo cute... going to have to record it one day but it's exactly like LashingLady's description of it!!

    Addison: Mammy?
    Me: Yes baby?
    Addison: Mammy
    Me: What honey?
    Addison: My mammy
    Me: What?
    Addison: My mammy! (while giving me a huge hug).

    So cute...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 285 ✭✭Knit wit


    My 2 call me mam or mommy. As a teenager myself and my siblings called my mother 'mother' which was eventually shortened to mo ... Now my kids call my mother nana mo!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,160 ✭✭✭Kimono-Girl


    i always used mum, i was hoping Emma would do the same, but unfortunately my sister grew up on Barney, American tv shows and now the Disney channel and she calls my mum 'mom' and my brother then copied her, and Emma's now copying her too so 'mom' it is i guess :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,390 ✭✭✭The Big Red Button


    I tend to call them "mammy" and "daddy" if talking to them, or "my mam/mum and dad" if talking about them, most of my family just call them "mum" and "dad" though! Although I do have one sister who sometimes calls my mother "mummy" - I always think it sounds very English or something! Also I sometimes call them "mother" and "father", if I'm annoyed at them ... and all of us often call my father by his first name ... they get called pretty much anything really! I don't think they mind though. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 67 ✭✭cmrm


    i voted 'other' as my little one calls me 'Ba' or 'Ba-he' - he cant pronounce his m's! i actually love it!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,078 ✭✭✭✭LordSutch


    Was watching Heartbeat last night, (set in Yorkshire in the 60s), and I heard 'Mam' used in relation to the characters Mother at least twice during the episode, interesting that Mam is common in the North of England too!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭mohawk


    My 14 month old calls me mamam. I really don't like mammy so I usually refer to myself as mommy to him.


  • Site Banned Posts: 5,904 ✭✭✭parsi


    Here in Cork it seems to be viewed as a class thing :

    "Do they call their mother Mum or Mam ?" is often used to figure out what side of the river or road they come from.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,503 ✭✭✭smelltheglove


    cmrm wrote: »
    i voted 'other' as my little one calls me 'Ba' or 'Ba-he' - he cant pronounce his m's! i actually love it!


    lol my youngest used to call hubbie bab.

    Seriously though, once upon a time mammy was the cutest name I have ever heard from my childs mouth, nowadays I wish it was never invented:D you know those days when you've heard it a thousand times and all you want is a moments silence.:(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    My mother is mum, my mother-in-law is mam and I get mummy, mummy, mummy, mummy, mummy. :cool:


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My mam is mam.
    I was momma (more a softer version of mamma) but recently that's changed to mummy or mum - not sure why but I'm not too bothered!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,595 ✭✭✭The Lovely Muffin


    I call my mother ma, mam and mammy (not all at once obviously lol).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,231 ✭✭✭Fad


    My mum alternates between mum/mom/mother in my mind, it was mom predominantly for a long time, then it shifted mainly to mum and then mother occasionally when I was 15 or so.

    I have no idea where I got it from :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,731 ✭✭✭alex73


    Mamo!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    alex73 wrote: »
    Mamo!

    My partner is Dado!! haha


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 413 ✭✭Tipsygypsy


    Im mommy, or mom to my older fella, although I always tried to encourage 'momma':D. I was brought up in the West and spent a few years in the States. My own mother was Dublin, she hated being called 'mam' and was always called mom. My mother in law refers to me as 'mammy' to my kids and it does my head in, but we've enough to disagree about without me bringing up that too!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 321 ✭✭MrsA


    Mummy here, I call my own mother Mum. I hate the sound of Mammy, it sounds very hard or something.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,078 ✭✭✭✭LordSutch


    The empty child; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01EQZ0d4Qb4&feature=related

    Mammy just wouldn't sound the same :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,363 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Funny how different people hate the different terms... "Ma" and "Mom" were utterly forbidden in our house growing up. It was 'Mammy' until we got older and started using 'Mum' which became 'Mam' at some point in our teens.

    My partner is 'Mama' or 'Mammy' in our house or occasionally "mammy my mammy" which she absolutely adores...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 945 ✭✭✭Squiggler


    Growing up my Dad insisted that we called my mother "Mother" as he though Mam and Mammy sounded harsh and "Mummy" should only be used to describe preserved human remains. He was "Daddy".

    As we got older it turned into Mom and Dad.

    Our first child is due in March and we're still trying to decide. I don't want to be "Mammy" or "Mummy" so it's probably going to be "Mommy", as I think "Mother" sounds very formal and properly partners "Father", rather than "Daddy".

    But ultimately I think that it's going to come down to what the child can pronounce at an early age :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 455 ✭✭diarmuid05


    Mammy: when we were young.....
    Find myself saying Mom more often than not nowadays


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