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  • Registered Users Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    Well there's a lot of money in porn. Some men in gay porn get around $3,000 for one video.



    At the end of the day, you may say that women are dehumanized in the videos but you have to remember that it's just acting and the parties involved know this.
    (And by the way, the women in this videos isn't addressing the debasement of men in gay porn).


    One more point, if people are worried about showing teenagers graphically sexual images on the internet, shouldn't they be even more concerned about graphic violence on TV.



    What is more a danger to society, being taught how people have sex, or, being taught how to carry a gun?

    That's just it.
    Why isn't she complaining about men being blasted in the ass?


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    Could give up Porn no bother.

    Although, if you search for 'Hot Fabinne Spears' on xHamster, the first video up is one with a girl I'm addicted to.

    She is from Dublin (only ever did one movie) and as the scene goes on, she just gets wilder and wilder .. yup, I'm addicted to her alright :)

    Do you think there might be work for aspiring Irish porn stars?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,918 ✭✭✭✭orourkeda


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    Could give up Porn no bother.

    Although, if you search for 'Hot Fabinne Spears' on xHamster, the first video up is one with a girl I'm addicted to.

    She is from Dublin (only ever did one movie) and as the scene goes on, she just gets wilder and wilder .. yup, I'm addicted to her alright :)



  • Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭MrSir


    Is it crazy that I'm a dude who doesn't like porn? I don't think it's the base of all evil and all my friends watch it but I just feel sorry for the people involved even if they make a lot of money. Also I get really distracted by the poor storytelling.
    They don't make sense!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    At the end of the day, you may say that women are dehumanized in the videos but you have to remember that it's just acting
    No it ain't! :D
    Yeah I agree, the way men are treated should be addressed too - although my friend who's a gay guy finds gay porn very egalitarian, whereas he finds hetero porn ridiculously misogynistic. Guess it depends on the individual too.
    daithimac wrote: »
    It's interesting that the op got so condecending with everyone who disagreed with him. Not really doing much for your argument there mate.

    Looking at porn is not particularly a problem. Adults making porn is not a problem. People becoming oanists is a problem and there are support groups for people who have allowed porn to become a substitute for real relationships.

    I have to admit that very hardcore stuff like the videos max hardcore makes are not to my taste and there is no way that I would not partially judge anyone who said that they are. However the same can be said for the twilight movies.

    Op you need to back off and stop trying to creep your way into peoples bedrooms. What people do in there own time is none of your business. That goes for actors and audience.
    Think he was a bit irritated by the way some people were downright attacking him, not simply because they disagreed with him - it's a bit much to be considered unreasonable for finding some really hardcore porn unpleasant and degrading. Don't get how just because it's adult porn it's somehow beyond criticism.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    MrSir wrote: »
    Is it crazy that I'm a dude who doesn't like porn? I don't think it's the base of all evil and all my friends watch it but I just feel sorry for the people involved even if they make a lot of money. Also I get really distracted by the poor storytelling.
    They don't make sense!
    I think you're missing the point.
    The story isn't really the part you should be watching. Just get to the bit after the pizza is delivered.


  • Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭MrSir


    Terry wrote: »
    I think you're missing the point.
    The story isn't really the part you should be watching. Just get to the bit after the pizza is delivered.

    Why what happens then?


  • Registered Users Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    MrSir wrote: »
    Why what happens then?

    You eat da poo-poo pizza.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,700 ✭✭✭fonecrusher1


    MrSir wrote: »
    Is it crazy that I'm a dude who doesn't like porn?

    Pervert.:mad:


  • Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭MrSir


    Pervert.:mad:

    I know my Mother once caught me not watching porn. She's so disappointed in me.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    Watched some of the video. Bitch bitch bitch. Feminism bollocks. Degrading to women etc...

    I also know women who like that stuff. Whats that say?

    your one is just another bored housewife.


  • Registered Users Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    Wagon wrote: »
    your one is just another bored housewife.

    Oh yeah, love those kind of pornos, bored housewife, son's friend calls over, son is out, hammer time!!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,700 ✭✭✭fonecrusher1


    Whos up for turning this into a porn appreciation thread?

    I'l start....porn, its fantastic.:)


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,082 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    kfallon wrote: »
    Oh yeah, love those kind of pornos, bored housewife, son's friend calls over, son is out, hammer time!!!

    Even better when th son calls over

    <_<


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Novella wrote: »
    Couldn't anybody pretty much give up anything if they really wanted to, and really tried?

    No! I'll never give up lesbian vamp porn!!


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,082 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    Why are those stakes so phallic, ooooooooh


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,562 ✭✭✭scientific1982


    If you're in a relationship its easy to give up. If you're single it is possible but very frustrating. Was in a very bad mood for a month when my computer broke.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,559 ✭✭✭blaze1


    this could turn into a mass debate


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    MrSir wrote: »
    Why what happens then?
    This.
    Slightly NSFW, even thought it's wikipedia. A couple of pictures that you wouldn't want your boos catching you looking at.


  • Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭MrSir


    Terry wrote: »
    This.
    Slightly NSFW, even thought it's wikipedia. A couple of pictures that you wouldn't want your boos catching you looking at.

    See where people might think 'That's so hooooooooooot' I think 'She really should get a towel'


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 242 ✭✭FlashGordon1969


    All men look at porn at some stage-those who say they never have are just lying. Its the amount that is key . Time to time-a few times a year no harm more than that say weekly it prob will affect your view of sex unless its something you do with your partner. If you are single you are prob more likely to look it up but again weekly or daily is a bad idea.


  • Registered Users Posts: 499 ✭✭padz


    daithimac wrote: »
    It's interesting that the op got so condecending with everyone who disagreed with him. Not really doing much for your argument there mate.

    Looking at porn is not particularly a problem. Adults making porn is not a problem. People becoming oanists is a problem and there are support groups for people who have allowed porn to become a substitute for real relationships.

    I have to admit that very hardcore stuff like the videos max hardcore makes are not to my taste and there is no way that I would not partially judge anyone who said that they are. However the same can be said for the twilight movies.

    Op you need to back off and stop trying to creep your way into peoples bedrooms. What people do in there own time is none of your business. That goes for actors and audience.


    again, i reely have to stress you refer to the opening post, i never was condesending to anyone nor am i tryin to creep my way into anyones bedroom as this was so creeply mentioned above.,.. i asked a very simple question& i will ask it again,..

    is it the case that pornography is infact so intergrated into life today that if one were to say they were giving it up &actually admit they have an addiction,would they be able to do it sucsessfully?with the ammount of porn around nowadays, its quite astounding, in music videos its basically porn,.. it would be like somebody giving up facebook, as it is known that some people are addicted to facebook&are unable to give it up, so i would consider the two simular in some ways (very meaningless and adictive)... would HE even bat an eylid if YOU told them they watch too much porn...?? girls?

    i attached gail dines as she has been lecturing on about porn and its exponential growth in the past years, discribing new hardcore elements as gonzo porn or ass to mouth & simularites to child porn,by gettin femail sex recpticles to dress in pyjamas etc to look like young girls, it is my own belief that as people are becomming so consumed with getting off with themselves as much as possible thru porn, without actually thinking about pornograhy as a destructive force to themselves and the people involved.


  • Registered Users Posts: 29,294 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    Terry wrote: »
    This.
    Slightly NSFW, even thought it's wikipedia. A couple of pictures that you wouldn't want your boos catching you looking at.

    never found that during random article searches

    :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    irish-stew wrote: »
    never found that during random article searches

    :D
    I googled "sexual food fetish". Wiki was the only result that wasn't a porn site. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,072 ✭✭✭PeterIanStaker


    Giving up porn huh? Wonder is it hard?


  • Registered Users Posts: 29,294 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    Terry wrote: »
    I googled "sexual food fetish". Wiki was the only result that wasn't a porn site. :)


    and what made you decide to search that? research?


  • Registered Users Posts: 29,294 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    Giving up porn huh? Wonder is it hard?

    *groans*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,778 ✭✭✭Pauleta


    I find it hard to crack one off without porn. Before i just used my imagination but that only takes you so far. When i wake up in the morning i usually turn on my xbox and go on facebook to hammer one out to some pics of a girl i used to go to school with. Halloween 2009 is my personal favourite photo album. It gets the job done but would rather some Latina videos.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Dudess wrote: »
    What's the female equivalent of fap?

    Fap = Men

    Flick = Women


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  • Registered Users Posts: 29,294 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    Pauleta wrote: »
    I find it hard to crack one off without porn. Before i just used my imagination but that only takes you so far. When i wake up in the morning i usually turn on my xbox and go on facebook to hammer one out to some pics of a girl i used to go to school with. Halloween 2009 is my personal favourite photo album. It gets the job done but would rather some Latina videos.


    classy

    ;)


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