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Who has experienced MMF?

  • 20-07-2010 10:26pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I found a really hot guy on an adult dating site. Funny thing is we have both fallen for each other! However, I am still keen on getting another straight hot guy in on the action, I have one in mind. Been in email contact with him for a while, v hot, after I met new guy-drew the boundaries regarding e-sex.

    If new guy is up for experimenting with this kind of MMF activity, what are potential pitfalls can anyone advise me? Anything I should keep in mind?

    By the way, if you are reading this out of outrageous disgust with a determination to reply filthy! disgusting! no two people should want another in their sacred bed, well please move on to another thread please!


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  • #2
    28064212
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,906 ✭✭✭✭28064212


    "drew the boundaries regarding e-sex" - meaning you discussed it with hotguy1, and he was ok with you having e-sex with hotguy2? Have you discussed MMF with hotguy1 at all? If not, that's your first step. If he's not interested there's not much you can do

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  • #3
    Mancoach
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19 ✭Mancoach


    Hi OP

    It's not clear if your referring to a fantasy type mmf over the Internet ie web cams , no physical contact etc or your actually referring to meeting up with both guys for , what's known in the adult entertainment industry as "a four ball'r" ;)

    Please clarify as obviously both would have significantly different considerations.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    hi, i did it , i dont regret it , it was always a fantasy of mine , i enjoyed it , didnt have any issues afterwards , if you think youd like to try it , id say make sure the 2 guys are trustable and respectful , a bit of adult fun will do you no harm . good luck


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for your responses! Dying to try it irl. Goin to ask hotguy1 how he feels about it over the next while. Our feelings for each other have grown so much, maybe it would be best to wait awhile before embarking on this adventure. Its mad - I am quite happy just conventional for the now...but just am trying to get an idea if this is something that could screw up a nicely blossoming relationship..


  • #6
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    Whatever about fantasies, if I'd "met" someone on the net and they suggested actually doing it and hoping I'd be included, that would be the end of any interest on my part.

    So tread carefully, particularly as you say that "feelings have grown".


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  • #7
    muinteoir09
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 118 ✭✭muinteoir09


    If you are all keen to participate, go for it!

    You should however set some ground rules before you start - what you will and won't do, DP, etc... It may seem cliched but one man can easily over-power a typical female, never mind two who get carried away.

    Have fun!


  • #8
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Twomenandme wrote: »
    but just am trying to get an idea if this is something that could screw up a nicely blossoming relationship..

    It is possible that it could. Or he may be well up for it. Rather than asking him directly, over time discuss your fantasies and you could always at first bring is up as a hyptothetical situation to guage his reaction rather than just coming out and suggesting it. Take his reaction as your guide.


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