Would You Have Sex On A First Date

Motley Crue

:eek:

Straightforward question. Does it depend on the man or woman you go out with or does it depend on what you are looking for at the time. Does it depend on your morals - or your mood?

Just wondering what people's attitude are, as opposed to if they've actually done it or not

But yes, I have:cool:

BrianJD

As long as it didn't delay dinner!

Diabhal Beag

**** ya I would

Deus Ex Machina

Such a boring question, your soul is broken.

stevoslice

yes

no

yes

Wreck

Yes absolutely, and I wouldn't date anyone that rules it out.

Praetorian Saighdiuir

Yes,

Im a normal guy.....if im offered then im taking!!

moretothegirl

No

ibarelycare

I have, yes. I don't see a problem with it. It's not like I have intended to go out and do it, but there was a chemistry there and it just happened. Went out with the guy for nearly 2 years after that.

epgc3fyqirnbsx

May as well cos I dont do second dates they never want me

veryangryman

Personal issues is THAT away man... --->>>

You do realise that this site is 90% men and that we erm.... like sex.

At the risk of this thread descending into chaos, i have decided to change the topic to...Boxers or Briefs?

Me im a boxer man. Havent met anyone in ages whose briefs but then i dont go analysing my neighbours underpants too often either....

Jaxxy

If I felt like it.

Milky Moo

Yuppers I have,my current bf, nothing wrong with it but we have both said that we wish there had been a build up to it.

chillin_penguin

This is simply going to end up with all the guys saying yes all the girls saying no.

And if any girl does say yes her inbox will fill up pretty quick.

Praetorian Saighdiuir

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

If I felt like it.

Fancy going to the mooovies?

Il buy you a small popcorn!

Praetorian Saighdiuir

chillin_penguin wrote: »

This is simply going to end up with all the guys saying yes all the girls saying no.

And if any girl does say yes her inbox will fill up pretty quick.

Full inbox......eh?

Jaxxy

benwavner wrote: »

Fancy going to the mooovies?

Il buy you a small popcorn!

With a small hole in the bottom of it?

ibarelycare

chillin_penguin wrote: »

This is simply going to end up with all the guys saying yes all the girls saying no.

And if any girl does say yes her inbox will fill up pretty quick.

Um no. A few girls have already posted in the thread and said they would

/blocks incoming PMs, just in case

Novella

Sure, why not? If both people want to, it'd be silly not to. I don't see the point in waiting around. If you wanna do something, do it.

midlandsmissus

Ive slept with three people - boyfriends, and I slept with them all on the first or second date, and then went out for years with each of them.

I just HAD to have sex with them straight away, I fancied them so much.

So guys if some-one sleeps with you straight away it might just be that they really really fancy you, not that theyre doing it with everyone!

jd007

chillin_penguin wrote: »

This is simply going to end up with all the guys saying yes all the girls saying no.

And if any girl does say yes her inbox will fill up pretty quick.

ibarelycare wrote: »

I have, yes. I don't see a problem with it. It's not like I have intended to go out and do it, but there was a chemistry there and it just happened. Went out with the guy for nearly 2 years after that.

There goes your theory.

alwaysadub

Yeah,if it happened. I probably wouldn't set out to, but if it felt right i wouldn't not have sex just cos it's a first date.

veryangryman

midlandsmissus wrote: »

So guys if some-one sleeps with you straight away it might just be that they really really fancy you, not that theyre doing it with everyone!

Rarely is your theory true. Most guys know this

Novella

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Ive slept with three people - boyfriends, and I slept with them all on the first or second date, and then went out for years with each of them.

I just HAD to have sex with them straight away, I fancied them so much.

So guys if some-one sleeps with you straight away it might just be that they really really fancy you, not that theyre doing it with everyone!

Or they could be doing it with everyone, which is pretty much their own business and not something they should really be judged for. Having had sex with a small number of people doesn't make you a better person. If a woman wants to sleep with a lot of men, great. If she is respectful of herself, and of her partners, there is no real issue.

Praetorian Saighdiuir

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

With a small hole in the bottom of it?

Bo**ox...


...Im not splashing out for a small popcorn if im gonna loose some through a small hole in the...


Oh wait.........yes, reach down to the bottom, they are saltier down there!

uncle-mofo

Coming from an 18 year old male, yeah, I have done and I would again. Have to admit it's a little off putting getting it so easy though.

TheZohanS

God no....unless of course I though she was special...like we made a connection or something.

Although never say never. see how smooth I am? I hope someone is writing this down

midlandsmissus

veryangryman wrote: »

Rarely is your theory true. Most guys know this

or most guys jump to conclusions and love the slut word ?

ibarelycare

uncle-mofo wrote: »

Coming from an 18 year old male, yeah, I have done and I would again. Have to admit it's a little off putting getting it so easy though.

I wonder do they think the same about you?

NothingMan

chillin_penguin wrote: »

And if any girl does say yes her inbox will fill up pretty quick.

FYP.

Pherekydes

Yes, of course I would (did ). Never again, though.

midlandsmissus

Novella wrote: »

Or they could be doing it with everyone, which is pretty much their own business and not something they should really be judged for. Having had sex with a small number of people doesn't make you a better person. If a woman wants to sleep with a lot of men, great. If she is respectful of herself, and of her partners, there is no real issue.

Hi Novella, that's true but that's a whole seperate issue. What Im really commenting on is it's hard for a girl to sleep with a guy straight away without him jumping to the conclusion that she's a slut. Girl's just have a lose lose situation in most dealings with sex.
Believe me - i wouldn't think less of a girl sleepng with a lot of people, I've just had it so ingrained in me that sleeping around makes you a slut, from men around me mostly bad mouthing women, that I just can't do it. The old f"cking catholic guilt :rolleyes:

Praetorian Saighdiuir

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Hi Novella, that's true but that's a whole seperate issue. What Im really commenting on is it's hard for a girl to sleep with a guy straight away without him jumping to the conclusion that she's a slut. Girl's just have a lose lose situation in most dealings with sex.
Believe me - i wouldn't think less of a girl sleepng with a lot of people, I've just had it so ingrained in me that sleeping around makes you a slut, from men around me mostly bad mouthing women, that I just can't do it. The old f"cking catholic guilt :rolleyes:

Im with my current GF for 7 years and we bumped uglies on the first "date".

It works for some people.

Nodin

BrianJD wrote: »

As long as it didn't delay dinner!

As long as the one you're shagging isn't the one making the chips, it should have no effect.

Lando Griffin

I dont believe in sex before marraige so it would be impossible for me to be sexual advanceual to any of there modern "loose women", my OH thinks the same.

Gummy Panda

Maybe not in her pooper on the first date

yank_in_eire

If it was a one-nighter, yes.
But not if I was looking for a relationship. Relationships that start with sex have nowhere left to go.

mojesius

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Hi Novella, that's true but that's a whole seperate issue. What Im really commenting on is it's hard for a girl to sleep with a guy straight away without him jumping to the conclusion that she's a slut. Girl's just have a lose lose situation in most dealings with sex.
Believe me - i wouldn't think less of a girl sleepng with a lot of people, I've just had it so ingrained in me that sleeping around makes you a slut, from men around me mostly bad mouthing women, that I just can't do it. The old f"cking catholic guilt :rolleyes:

You shouldn't never let people get away with calling someone a slut - men or women. It's not right and people sometimes need to be reminded.

Op, I would sleep with someone on a first date if I liked them enough and there was a lot of chemistry.

ibarelycare

yank_in_eire wrote: »

If it was a one-nighter, yes.
But not if I was looking for a relationship. Relationships that start with sex have nowhere left to go.

How??

Pherekydes

yank_in_eire wrote: »

If it was a one-nighter, yes.
But not if I was looking for a relationship. Relationships that start with sex have nowhere left to go.

Jeez you could have told me that 20 years ago!

Praetorian Saighdiuir

yank_in_eire wrote: »

If it was a one-nighter, yes.
But not if I was looking for a relationship. Relationships that start with sex have nowhere left to go.

I couldnt disagree with you anymore than I already do....There isnt an emoticon appropriate for how much I disagree with you!

ibarelycare

benwavner wrote: »

I couldnt disagree with you anymore than I already do....There isnt an emoticon appropriate for how much I disagree with you!

This?

Waterloo Sunset

yank_in_eire wrote: »

If it was a one-nighter, yes.
But not if I was looking for a relationship. Relationships that start with sex have nowhere left to go.

It's this kind of attitude that'd stop me ever going for it on the first date/first few dates. I'm curious is this an outdated stereotype by now or do most guys still feel this way?

starbelgrade

Lando Griffin wrote: »

I dont believe in sex before marraige so it would be impossible for me to be sexual advanceual to any of there modern "loose women", my OH thinks the same.

HOLY F*CK!!! :eek:

Sea Sharp

oh god no. She must be treated like a lady and be allowed to decide when she is ready. Grow up guys!!



(a cunning plan to make my in-box fill up with messages. muhahahaha)

starbelgrade

yank_in_eire wrote: »

If it was a one-nighter, yes.
But not if I was looking for a relationship. Relationships that start with sex have nowhere left to go.

I'd rather start a relationship with sex than end one without it.

stovelid

Not unless we were at least engaged. It's just wrong.

Celly Smunt

i always get sex on the first date, consensual or not

stovelid

pmcmahon wrote: »

i always get sex on the first date, consensual or not

You're a rent boy?

Brendog

all guys will answer yes...


all ugly girls will answer no...

Celly Smunt

stovelid wrote: »

You're a rent boy?

rentboys are always consensual...