WHY????

thesituation51

So I met this guy on fri night, we hit it off, went out last night. Cinema was good craic, then went for a coffee, had a bit of a kiss, then got to talking about next date etc. So he did that whole deep meaningful convo thing (which i HATE on first dates), and got to telling me his relationship history. He was in a longterm relationship 3 years ago (twas 4 years long), and it ended horribly so he's a commitment phobe, hasnt really dated anyone since n was pretty sure he'd end up messing me around n freaking out after a few months. We had quite a long chat about it (kinda in the abstract, not so much about the two of us), and it ended pretty amicably.

Now I'm in my early twenties, and in no way marriage-minded at the mo, so i know i'm not giving off crazy commitment vibes. But I seem to attract these commitment phobic guys to me, and I had never realised there were so many of them out there! And when I talk about commitment, I'm only talking about seeing me on a semi-regular basis, maybe meeting my parents after a few months, and getting to text or have a wee phone call each day! Not much to ask, I'm pretty easy going....so what I'm saying is, does anyone else have any experience with this?? Help??

ztoical

PI => This way

Maple

It's already been done http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055910042

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Maple.