Friends with benefits

fluffyotaters

Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

Genuine question by the way

Sykk

Well she got some fairly deep feelings.. I do recall taking some sort of viagra that night tho

alwaysadub

I used to. We both knew from the off what we were. Would've killed each other if we'd tried having a proper relationship! Just drifted apart eventually.
It can happen though where one person develops feelings and the other person doesn't-that's when things get awkward!

Bolag_the_2nd

Friends with benefits =

Kiera

Nope, never had one. Its just not something i was ever into. Ann summers invented toys for those kinds of things

Midnight_EG

fluffyotaters wrote: »

Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

Genuine question by the way

Yep, yo're ma.






How did it work for me? Take a look in the mirror Son.








:pac:

stovelid

It's all sounds a bit modern to me.

What happened to stringing women along with yarns about staying together forever until you squeeze every last bit of sex out of them?

alwaysadub

Kiera wrote: »

Nope, never had one. Its just not something i was ever into. Ann summers invented toys for those kinds of things

Ah,good old BOB :pac:

amiable

In my experience it usually ends up that one of the two agrees to it in the first place in the hope it will end up going further

seamus

fluffyotaters wrote: »

Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

That's not a friend with benefits, that a fnckbuddy.

A friend with benefits is someone that you otherwise treat as a friend, but ride everytime you're bored or drunk and think nothing of it the next day.

Einhard

fluffyotaters wrote: »

Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

Genuine question by the way

My girlfriend. Wrecks my head, but godammit, she's good for the ride!!

Micky Dolenz

seamus wrote: »

That's not a friend with benefits, that a fnckbuddy.

A friend with benefits is someone that you otherwise treat as a friend, but ride everytime you're bored or drunk and think nothing of it the next day.

I'll take one of each please.

AgileMyth

stovelid wrote: »

It's all sounds a bit modern to me.

What happened to stringing women along with yarns about staying together forever until you squeeze every last bit of sex out of them?

Ah the good old days, you romantic you.

Dudess

stovelid wrote: »

squeeze every last bit of sex out of them?

Ew... messy!

AnonoBoy

Once or twice.

It's better if they don't ask you for money at the end.

minidazzler

Kiera wrote: »

Nope, never had one. Its just not something i was ever into. Ann summers invented toys for those kinds of things

Will a toy hold you tight at night...then leave the second it gets what it wants?
Will it fart silently and not warn you?
Will it tell you everything you want to hear...then do the deed leave?
Will a toy text at 3 am asking "Wot u up 2?"


Those yokes a fcuking useless!

Rented Mule

I have had a few over the years and it was great. We were generally too busy to put any effort into a relatoinship, but got the 'benefits' that we were looking for. Very up front. Very honest. Very much fun.

blueshark22

Yeah, i used to have this guy, i knew him from home but wouldn't have ever been friends with him. Met him out one night and ended up sleeping with him the next time i met him out again and several nights after that, i'd broken up with someone about a year previous to this and it was the first time i'd actually slept with someone since , it was what it was - we never txted, called , it was just if we met out ... we were on the same wavelength thank chri#t , i'd imagine it would be really messy if ye weren't:)

Tail Wagger

Friends with benefits?

Well I have one mate who gets rent allowance?

another who's on sick benefit's

Bet, I never get a banging allowance?

efb

Christ yeah. It's great when your not straight!

Mr Benevolent

fluffyotaters wrote: »

Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

Genuine question by the way

Tried it with a girl at work, we're together four years now.

minidazzler

Confab wrote: »

Tried it with a girl at work, we're together four years now.

Fail.

Mr Benevolent

minidazzler wrote: »

Fail.

Perhaps it's a fail on the planet you come from. It's a win for me.

antodeco

Do imaginary friends count?

My name is URL

It's never as starightforward as just boinking them and leaving.

Mr Benevolent

antodeco wrote: »

Do imaginary friends count?

Is her name Pa(l)m?

Columbia

Yes, once, a good few years back.

I also had a girlfriend without benefits.

Not excusing my sins, but you can't tell me those things weren't related...

ejmaztec

Confab wrote: »

Tried it with a girl at work, we're together four years now.

I'm sure that someone will eventually un-jam the lock of the archive store-room.

Thibor

Had a couple of them over the last few years, they are great when they work and the other person doesn't want anything more from it, can be a right pain when it goes pear shaped though.

GiftofGab

Yeah, used to have a **** buddy. No strings attached sex. It lasted a few months. Just tended to drift apart. Used to collect her every Friday, do her in the car then drop her home afterwards.

Funky Kingston

Thibor wrote: »

Had a couple of them over the last few years, they are great when they work and the other person doesn't want anything more from it, can be a right pain when it goes pear shaped though.

True say . I've had a couple of them , once i started to get proper realtionship feelings for someone ...so i ended it ! Aside from that if it works well and you both stick to the plan....fun!!:rolleyes:

Rented Mule

My name is URL wrote: »

It's never as starightforward as just boinking them and leaving.

Then one of you is doing is not sticking to the script.

Duggy747

I avoid that kind of carry on cuz that shìt usually gets messy with one of the two getting a bit clingy.

Then things turn vicious and they become worst enemies.................or a baby is then brought into the equation :eek:

sam34

never had a friend with benefits

have had a fcuk buddy though, for about a year

worked v well for us both

was all about the sex, nothing else, no emotions, no hassle

we never contacted each other outside of making plans to meet

it only ended when i met someone and i did not want to cheat on him.

The_Minister

GiftofGab wrote: »

Yeah, used to have a **** buddy. No strings attached sex. It lasted a few months. Just tended to drift apart. Used to collect her every Friday, do her in the car then drop her home afterwards.

Funnily enough, for a thread about emotionally-void sex, this is the first post that struck me as sordid.:p

corkcomp

never works.. she usually falls in love with ya and then the problem of getting rid far outweights the "benefits"

L.Jenkins

Not if you kick her out of the bed when you're down with her! Anyone do that when you're down with your friend with benefits?

Bazzy

sam34 wrote: »

never had a friend with benefits

have had a fcuk buddy though, for about a year

worked v well for us both

was all about the sex, nothing else, no emotions, no hassle

we never contacted each other outside of making plans to meet

it only ended when i met someone and i did not want to cheat on him.

How considerate of you to consider the needs of your fcuk buddy not wanting to cheat on him

Gold star for you!

L.Jenkins

Another one of those friends would come in handy again. I must make a phone call soon enough

Novella

corkcomp wrote: »

never works.. she usually falls in love with ya and then the problem of getting rid far outweights the "benefits"

:rolleyes: Don't flatter yourself!!

Bazzy

Novella wrote: »

:rolleyes: Don't flatter yourself!!

Ok well lets hook up and i'll be clingy with you just to even things out ?

L.Jenkins

Nothing like a Klingon. Impossible to ger rid of!

epgc3fyqirnbsx

It's all sh1ts and giggles till someone gets pregnant

InkSlinger67

Mandatory Seinfeld clip explaining the dangers!

Alan_007_

djhunter30 wrote: »

Nothing like a Klingon.

Whatever you're into I suppose

Giggity

MJOR

It's messy and I'd never do it again. It get complicated and you get stalked.

dsmythy

Keith Fierce Morning wrote: »

It's all sh1ts and giggles till someone gets pregnant

Wow. Whatever you're into.

Caoimhín

sam34 wrote: »

never had a friend with benefits

have had a fcuk buddy though, for about a year

worked v well for us both

was all about the sex, nothing else, no emotions, no hassle

we never contacted each other outside of making plans to meet

it only ended when i met someone and i did not want to cheat on him.

That is really lady like..

Bet your mother is proud of you............

Kasabian

seamus wrote: »

That's not a friend with benefits, that a fnckbuddy.

A friend with benefits is someone that you otherwise treat as a friend, but ride everytime you're bored or drunk and think nothing of it the next day.

My mate Tommy fcuking hates that part of our friendship

Blobby George

djhunter30 wrote: »

Not if you kick her out of the bed when you're down with her! Anyone do that when you're down with your friend with benefits?

Eh, wut?

xxlily87xx

yeah i had one years ago, we were friends and then became friends wit benefits and that went on for about 9 months and i was the one unfortunetely that ended up havin deep feelings for him and i told him i couldn do it anymore because of the feelings so we stopped seeing eachother bout two weeks later he rang me sayin how he was after realising that he had the same feelings for me and wanted a relationship, reluctantly i said no, still cant make out why i said no ha