what do women think of big men?

CorkMan

http://content3.catalog.photos.msn.com/ft/share0/8f97/0/MichaelClarkeDuncan_350x435.jpg

Its weird how in the hollywood movies all the main actors are 12 to 12 and a half stone, while any big men are bodyguards/tough men. What do the ladies think?

landsleaving

Damn, LL Cool J's body be bangin' yo.

x PyRo

They think you should keep dreaming.

red herring

All the above men would scare me off!! :eek::(
I like a man not a boy, but I'm not attracted to the men in those pictures. They're just too big and scary.

MrStuffins

Holy sh1tballs!

I'm a hetro-sexual man........ so why can't i close the tab with the LL Cool J picture?

(ps. Girls think all guys are dicks, everyone knows that!)

Darlughda

Not really my scene. I much prefer real men with ordinary bodies.

miss5

I don't have a particular preference but wouldn't like a guy who could crush me.

Cianos

You can't look like that without dedicating yourself to looking like that. So it's a question of whether women want a man who is totally obsessed with how ripped and toned he is. Most probably wouldn't???

Darlughda

Cianos wrote: »

You can't look like that without dedicating yourself to looking like that. So it's a question of whether women want a man who is totally obsessed with how ripped and toned he is. Most probably wouldn't???

No. Much rather he was obsessed about how to please me!:pac:

landsleaving

Darlughda wrote: »

No. Much rather he was obsessed about how to please me!:pac:

But both are so much effort.

And the footy's on, make me a sammich there luv. Cheers.

Darlughda

landsleaving wrote: »

But both are so much effort.

And the footy's on, make me a sammich there luv. Cheers.

You know football is banned in my house. Don't slam the door on the way out.

Midnight_EG

I'm also male, and LL Cool J's body is just ridiculous.


There's the reason he's called Mr.Six-Pack!

KevinVonSpiel

MrStuffins wrote: »

Holy sh1tballs!

I'm a hetro-sexual man........ so why can't i close the tab with the LL Cool J picture?

Try using one of your feet or your nose, if your hands are otherwise occupied.

landsleaving

Darlughda wrote: »

You know football is banned in my house. Don't slam the door on the way out.

:eek: Nazi!

MrStuffins

KevinVonSpiel wrote: »

Try using one of your feet or your nose, if your hands are otherwise occupied.

If?

Novella

Hmm, I respect the effort and dedication it takes to look like that... But it just isn't my cup of tea!

MrStuffins

Novella wrote: »

Hmm, I respect the effort and dedication it takes to look like that... But it just isn't my cup of tea!

Do girls actually like guys with a bit of meat (fat as normal people call it)

Or is that a myth?

Stench Blossoms

I think they're all massive.

Darlughda

[QUOTE=MrStuffins;65864440Do men actually like girls with a bit of mean (fat as normal people call it)

Or is that a myth?[/QUOTE]

FYP, and within that is the answer to your question

Novella

MrStuffins wrote: »

Do girls actually like guys with a bit of mean (fat as normal people call it)

Or is that a myth?

Not too fat, not too thin! I dunno, yeah, a little bit of fat is fine! As long as he's not so big that he's gonna crush me, or so small that he makes me feel big, I'm cool! :pac:

MrStuffins

Darlughda wrote: »

FYP, and within that is the answer to your question

Whoops!

Fixed

(ps... OH THE IRONING)

MrStuffins

Novella wrote: »

Not too fat, not too thin! I dunno, yeah, a little bit of fat is fine! As long as he's not so big that he's gonna crush me, or so small that he makes me feel big, I'm cool! :pac:

*Gets off treadmill

Cool, cool :cool:

landsleaving

Looks like a lot of posters in that exercise thread are shooting themselves in the foot so

Darlughda

MrStuffins wrote: »

Whoops!

Fixed

(ps... OH THE IRONING)

Yes, stuffins sweetie, the ironing does need to be done. now. thank you. I do like how you try to please me.:)

The_B_Man

lol so whats the question? Do women like big black fellas??

MrStuffins

Darlughda wrote: »

Yes, stuffins sweetie, the ironing does need to be done. now. thank you. I do like how you try to please me.:)

I'm not sure if you were having a go at me.........

........ or being nice...............

....... but i'm turned on now!

Darlughda

LOL! I'm outta here, boys are too predictable!!:D

If yez hang around for abit Abigayle will be about soon...

MrStuffins

Darlughda wrote: »

LOL! I'm outta here, boys are too predictable!!:D

If yez hang around for abit Abigayle will be about soon...

Predictable?







Nah, can't think of anything random to do!

landsleaving

MrStuffins wrote: »

Predictable?


Nah, can't think of anything random to do!

Teach a lobster to dance?

MrStuffins

landsleaving wrote: »

Teach a lobster to dance?

Daglughda knew you were gonna say that!

landsleaving

Ah forget it then, I'm gonna be a typical male and go...

um...

look at cars and boobs?

carboobs?

Yeah, me and the lobster, lookin' at carboobs.

MrStuffins

landsleaving wrote: »

Ah forget it then, I'm gonna be a typical male and go...

um...

look at cars and boobs?

carboobs?

Yeah, me and the lobster, lookin' at carboobs.

Or............

CA-BOOBS!!!!!

Same thing, but it sounds like Kaboom... so is therefore more manly!

liah

I really don't like over-muscled or gym-built guys. I never have, and I think there's a lot of women who don't, either.

That six-pack is rotten.. it looks too contrived. They all look fairly contrived. I much prefer "natural" muscle, like the type you'd get from running or biking or boxing but without cutting, sculpting or drinking protein shakes, and a little layer of fat over it.. really defined muscles creep me the hell out!

I think there's far more men who like that gym-built look on other men than women tbh!

Scarinae

liah wrote: »

I really don't like over-muscled or gym-built guys. I never have, and I think there's a lot of women who don't, either.

That six-pack is rotten.. it looks too contrived. They all look fairly contrived. I much prefer "natural" muscle, like the type you'd get from running or biking or boxing but without cutting, sculpting or drinking protein shakes, and a little layer of fat over it.. really defined muscles creep me the hell out!

I think there's far more men who like that gym-built look on other men than women tbh!

I completely agree! If I say I'm not that keen on any of those pictures the OP posted, it doesn't mean I only go for chubby guys or anything, nothing wrong with a bit of 'natural' muscle but the over-defined body-obsessed look is a bit creepy. I mean, do their lives actually revolve around working out? And the veiny arms... Ugh!

m5ex9oqjawdg2i

liah wrote: »

I think there's far more men who like that gym-built look on other men than women tbh!

I think they prefer that look on themselves


Like everything really, too much or too little is not good, a compromise must be made

Hells Belle

I've always liked the big guys, I'm 5 foot nothing, oh is 6 6. He used to be a bit flabby but now he's going to the gym the ladies are swooning over him, I think its hilarious because he's really shy and he goes purple when wenches come up to him when we are out, I've actually been pushed out of the way more than once.....No shame some of them. I don't mind wobbly bits though, but it has to be in proportion - small and fat just don't do it for me, nor does tall and skinny.

walshb

CorkMan wrote: »

http://content3.catalog.photos.msn.com/ft/share0/8f97/0/MichaelClarkeDuncan_350x435.jpg

Its weird how in the hollywood movies all the main actors are 12 to 12 and a half stone, while any big men are bodyguards/tough men. What do the ladies think?

Why did you choose all black men?

Millie

Wrong, wrong, wrong, I don't like those beefcakes on any level.
I'd run a mile from them.

Black Swan

I'm not blonde.

stovelid

Think of the men involved too.

It gets tiring being objectified for your body, believe me.

Gone Drinking

walshb wrote: »

Why did you choose all black men?

See this thread

Kiera

Not my cup of tea. I like really tall guys but not meat heads. Tall and slim = yummy.

Dudess

Not attracted to those guys. I'd just admire a majorly sculpted physique the way I'd admire a good-looking woman.

WindSock

Not a fan of gym bodies. Prefer natural 'gardening' muscles

imo, I think gay guys seem to like the sculpted look more than women. /generalisation

SV

Kiera wrote: »

Not my cup of tea. I like really tall guys but not meat heads. Tall and slim = yummy.

So you'd prefer Peter Crouch to say.. LL cool J there?

It wasn't me!

Usain Bolt

Always thought an athletic physique was better than the slightly contrived gym bunny look. I would however be somewhat more muscularly built, and being only 6', athletic tends to look kinda stocky on me. Shame, really.

Kiera

SV wrote: »

So you'd prefer Peter Crouch to say.. LL cool J there?

Bodywise, yes.

Dudess

Myself I prefer just a guy with an average build - small bit of flab wouldn't bother me. Working out would be a bonus - a bit of definition is nice, but no need to go the whole LL hog. Looks poser-ish.

liah

It wasn't me! wrote: »

Usain Bolt

Always thought an athletic physique was better than the slightly contrived gym bunny look. I would however be somewhat more muscularly built, and being only 6', athletic tends to look kinda stocky on me. Shame, really.

See, his body does nothing for me, either.. it's still quite "cut," and very veiny (albeit that's from running!). I'm interested in the actual natural body shape (v-shape) moreso than the muscles on it.

I'd try and find an image example but it's surprisingly hard to find pictures of topless guys who aren't all.. muscley. As long as it's all rounded and not so angular/veiny, I'm happy.

anniehoo

Out of the 4 pics..LL Cool Js is the best. But..its all about the "V" for me. No six pack but toned and with a V would do me just grand The Irish Mr World Kamal Ibrahim is perrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect yum!

pookie82

I'm always bemused at finding women don't like big men. It seems strange to me to fancy a guy who could fit into the same jeans as you.

I can't think of anything I like more than a massive beefy guy. I love huge thighs and a really solid body. It doesn't have to be completely ripped, even the tubby look is kind of cute if the guy is big enough.

Most of the guys I've dated have been enormous (not fat but just huge guys). I did go out with a skinny guy once but I just couldn't get my head around putting my arms around him and there being nothing there but bone

I think for me a guy's masculinity is never more apparent than in his (overall) size and his hariness (sp?). I like hairy guys too. None of this metrosexual crap. But I'm a dying breed it seems