Guy looking for a female view about ex

OvertheNoon

Hi everyone, hope you can help,

26 year old guy and my gf of 4 years broke up with me just before easter, so about 6/7 weeks ago... and I would like some women's outlook on the situation...

Now I love her to bits, felt/feel that she is "the one", and I miss her loads..I don't hate her in anyway and understand why she broke up with me.. however a lot of things have happened before she broke up with me.. (I'll try keep it short)

In September/October I lost my job... Around halloween time she did say that she was thinkin that she might want time on her own but after talking things through she said that she was being stupid and that I should not worry about it...

Things kinda went downhill slowly from there and between christmas and new years she said she wanted to break up... but again after talking things through.. we agreed to take a break and were back together after about 2 weeks (I realize now we should have stayed broken up then). Her reasons for wanting a break is that she didn't feel the spark and that she wanted time on her own cos she hasn't been single since she was 16/17.. she is the same age as me.

Anyway the next few weeks, I stupidly thought, were going well. But then on a night out with her mates, she completed treated me like **** and ignored me the whole night..I got pissed off and left half way through.. again we talked and stayed together... (At this point I would like to point out that I was still unemployed and going through alot with trying to get a job, which I had numerous interviews but kept getting rejected, about 4 good chances and rejected from all)... Two weeks later she broke up with me.

I regret not having the balls to break up with her as I felt I was going through alot and was hoping she would be there for support. Since we broke up however I got a new job and felt I was getting back to my old self. Was kinda enjoying life on my own, however have had days/nights where I miss her loads and just want contact her and also to get back with her...

However, this morning I had a txt from her which was sent at 2.40am saying "God I miss you"

My question is... do I txt her back? Do you think it was just a drunk txt? Should I read anything into it? Help me, I need a womans perspective!!

Cheers
HC

Xiney

So first you're a 31 year old woman who wants our opinion on the MAP, both here and in PI, and now you're a 26 year old man wanting advice about your ex?

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