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So what am I ?

  • 21-03-2010 12:12PM
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,489 ✭✭✭


    Baptised a Catholic, stopped going to church in my teens, only went at Christmas & possibly easter, more for the athmosphere than anything.

    Haven't been in a church (apart from weddings or funerals) for years. Recently came to the conclusion that I don't believe in a God or the Bible or anything which I may have learned in school etc. & "Came Out" absolutely to my parents as a non believer. By that I mean I told them what I've just posted above. They understood & are open to individual beliefs.

    I believe there has to be something, an energy if you will, but without the rules & regulations & mumbo jumbo.

    Here's the rub, I'm flip-flopping over the final stages (count me out) because I have kids. They're baptised because my wife is a catholic (non practising, but has her beliefs). They'll go to the local catholic school (because it's the only one around) & get their biased religous education there. However we will be instructing them about all other religions (& non religions) as they grow up.

    I'm a member of a gym who never goes but they still count me as a member. I believe in something but not religion. What am I ?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    You believe there has to be something but not the RC god? Theism just means belief in a god, it doesn't specify which, you could label yourself theist, deist or spiritual...but do you really have to put yourself in a box?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39,019 ✭✭✭✭Permabear


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,555 ✭✭✭antiskeptic


    iMax wrote: »
    I believe there has to be something, an energy if you will, but without the rules & regulations & mumbo jumbo.

    You'd agree that there should be rules - because you wouldn't/couldn't agree with a society where everyone does as they please. Mumbo Jumbo is a bit non specific: perhaps you mean RC Religious incantation and machine-gun issued HailMarys and the like?

    Christianity (the non-religious variety) doesn't involve rules you must obey (if saved you'd be going to 'heaven' quite aside from how you live w.r.t. God's law). Rather, God's indwelling let's you see the beauty of the law (eg: love others) and the ugliness of sin (murder others) and enables you to follow same.
    I'm a member of a gym who never goes but they still count me as a member. I believe in something but not religion. What am I ?

    It sounds to me like you're a lost nominal Catholic whose about to become a lost nominal agnostic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,718 ✭✭✭The Mad Hatter


    Christianity (the non-religious variety) doesn't involve rules you must obey (if saved you'd be going to 'heaven' quite aside from how you live w.r.t. God's law).

    Yeah, I was amused when some of this spam came through my letterbox once. Christianity isn't a religion because there are no rules. All you have to do is accept Christ as your saviour and live according to his will.

    Cognitive disconnect much?


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,453 Mod ✭✭✭✭robindch


    iMax wrote: »
    I believe in something but not religion. What am I ?
    If you believe there is a non-specific conscious agent out there somewhere who is actively guiding things, but one that does not match the description of any deity you're aware of, then you're probably a deist. However, be aware that there's a cognitive issue amongst many people in which an agent is perceived, despite the agent not actually existing. The issue extends from the completely normal and benign mistake of, say, seeing human faces in ink-blots or toast, through mild religious beliefs, into schizotypal disorder and finally into full blown schizophrenia. The issue has been identified relatively recently and hasn't quite developed a consistent name yet, but try googling for "intentional misattribution", "agency misattribution" or hyperintentionalism to get an idea of what this is.

    Alternatively, if you believe that there are abstract principles out there, and ones to which we can freely choose to adhere (ie, "I believe in the power of co-operation, law, etc"), then you're probably a straightforward atheist.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,489 ✭✭✭iMax


    Thanks for the replies guys.

    I'm not really wanting to be in a box. I do believe in a person's right to religion (as long as they don't try to force it on me), I believe in be nice to others. I just don't buy into the whole organised thing.

    Some diety created everything & then sat around for fourteen million years before putting man there ? Doesn't work for me. I guess it's the whole "Why are there no dinosaurs in the bible" arguement.

    Does anyone know if me defecting is going to make things arkward for my kids in terms of schooling & events in their lives in the future ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,555 ✭✭✭antiskeptic


    Yeah, I was amused when some of this spam came through my letterbox once. Christianity isn't a religion because there are no rules. All you have to do is accept Christ as your saviour and live according to his will...

    Cognitive disconnect much?

    Who said "have to.. live according to his will"? I didn't.

    Read what's written much?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,555 ✭✭✭antiskeptic


    iMax wrote: »
    Does anyone know if me defecting is going to make things arkward for my kids in terms of schooling & events in their lives in the future ?

    I can't really see the point of defecting to be honest. You're not a believer but happen to have membership in an organisation that smooths out the path for your childrens education. If I was you, I'd simply play the game to your best advantage. Nobody asked to be placed in the game but seeing as we're all in it we might as well keep going.

    If you really felt that you should make a statement such as countmeout then you'd have to be weighing up the desire to publically express your convictions vs. advantages of game playing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,718 ✭✭✭The Mad Hatter


    Who said "have to.. live according to his will"? I didn't.

    Read what's written much?

    The spam that came through my letterbox did. But generally I find the suggestion that Christianity isn't a religion to be amusing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,555 ✭✭✭antiskeptic


    The spam that came through my letterbox did. But generally I find the suggestion that Christianity isn't a religion to be amusing.

    Retraction accepted.

    Perhaps you could elaborate(?)

    If Religion is considered a term to describe a belief system that centres around keeping g/God's laws in order to obtain a "favourable afterlife outcome" - and Christianity doesn't centre around keeping God's laws in order to obtain a favorable afterlife outcome, why would you be amused by the claim that Christianity isn't a Religion?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    It sounds to me like you're a lost nominal Catholic whose about to become a lost nominal agnostic.

    Explain.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭Erren Music


    iMax wrote: »
    Recently came to the conclusion that I don't believe in a God or the Bible

    You are an Atheist
    iMax wrote: »
    I believe there has to be something, an energy if you will, but without the rules & regulations & mumbo jumbo.

    Here you are talking about an energy that is over 13 billion years old, which has nothing to do with god, or religion or any form of deism.
    iMax wrote: »
    Here's the rub, I'm flip-flopping over the final stages (count me out) because I have kids. They're baptised because my wife is a catholic (non practising, but has her beliefs).

    Your wife is not catholic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭Erren Music


    iMax wrote: »

    Some diety created everything & then sat around for fourteen million years before putting man there ? Doesn't work for me. I guess it's the whole "Why are there no dinosaurs in the bible" arguement.

    billion years


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    billion years

    It's an irrelevant correction, considering that most modern interpretations of God have him existing in a timeless state.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,453 Mod ✭✭✭✭robindch


    iMax wrote: »
    I'm not really wanting to be in a box.
    Shouldn't have asked "What am I?" then :)
    iMax wrote: »
    I do believe in a person's right to religion (as long as they don't try to force it on me), I believe in be nice to others. I just don't buy into the whole organised thing.
    You're mixing up belief in abstract principles of societal living (laws, cooperation, money etc) and the (christian-derived) belief that some deity has created the universe, created the rules and demands group-admiration on a regular basis.

    Wouldn't get too upset at that though -- a lot of people get the two mixed up -- it's one of christianity's central claims that the two are the same. Which they are not.
    iMax wrote: »
    Does anyone know if me defecting is going to make things arkward for my kids in terms of schooling & events in their lives in the future ?
    I haven't done it yet, since I may have to get my kid into a school which is controlled by one religion or another. Once my kid does start school, I'll be filling out my form prontissimo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,555 ✭✭✭antiskeptic


    Explain.

    From the Christian perspective the OP sounds like he occupies the status of a lost person (as opposed to found). This might not be the case (antagonism against God is something lost people have and the OP might need to be probed a bit to cause this to surface, if he is indeed lost).

    But assuming he's indeed lost, all we've to deal with is worldy labels. He is clearly a Catholic considering exiting Catholicism (intellectually/spiritually at least). And he doesn't appear to have anything to provide concrete support to the notion of a god/energy. It's the kind of fuzzy, hazy belief that sounds like it will lead to agnosticm, to me.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,453 Mod ✭✭✭✭robindch


    It's an irrelevant correction, considering that most modern interpretations of God have him existing in a timeless state.
    ...which neatly nobbles his position as 'creator'. If one is "timeless", then how can one go from a state of something not-existing, to a state of existing? Makes no sense.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,453 Mod ✭✭✭✭robindch


    antagonism against God is something lost people have
    Antagonism?

    Not for me -- I find the the christian deity, as presented by christian believers, by turns weird, silly, menacing, homicidal and may other adjectives. But most frequently, it's just plan hilarious!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 471 ✭✭checkyabadself


    Q), So what am I?


    A)....worried about societies social pressure to not make a fuss and tow the PC line.

    You are also an Atheist and your wife is possibly Deist is not possibly an Atheist also.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    From the Christian perspective the OP sounds like he occupies the status of a lost person (as opposed to found). This might not be the case (antagonism against God is something lost people have and the OP might need to be probed a bit to cause this to surface, if he is indeed lost).

    But assuming he's indeed lost, all we've to deal with is worldy labels. He is clearly a Catholic considering exiting Catholicism (intellectually/spiritually at least). And he doesn't appear to have anything to provide concrete support to the notion of a god/energy. It's the kind of fuzzy, hazy belief that sounds like it will lead to agnosticm, to me.

    Hmm, I think you are slightly disrespectful (underestimating?) of the agnostic position, to be honest. I am quite firm in my position that one cannot know whether a god/s exists, making the truth statements of the religious and (some) atheists alike, misguided at best, and at worst, outright dishonest.

    My schema was:

    Indoctrinated Catholic Child-->Atheist-->Agnostic

    Agnosticism isn't some waiting room for the bewildered.


    (I may have misread your meaning, apologies if I have)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭Erren Music


    It's an irrelevant correction, considering that most modern interpretations of God have him existing in a timeless state.

    Ah yes, but it is the big bang thats being referred too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,718 ✭✭✭The Mad Hatter


    Retraction accepted.

    Perhaps you could elaborate(?)

    If Religion is considered a term to describe a belief system that centres around keeping g/God's laws in order to obtain a "favourable afterlife outcome" - and Christianity doesn't centre around keeping God's laws in order to obtain a favorable afterlife outcome, why would you be amused by the claim that Christianity isn't a Religion?

    But Christianity does describe a belief system that centres around the supplication to and worship of a creator god, in most people's cases to obtain a favourable afterlife outcome. And if there are no rules, what are those ten whatyoumaycallits for?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭Erren Music


    Hmm, I think you are slightly disrespectful (underestimating?) of the agnostic position, to be honest. I am quite firm in my position that one cannot know whether a god/s exists, making the truth statements of the religious and (some) atheists alike, misguided at best, and at worst, outright dishonest.

    My schema was:

    Indoctrinated Catholic Child-->Atheist-->Agnostic

    Agnosticism isn't some waiting room for the bewildered.


    (I may have misread your meaning, apologies if I have)

    I think we need to sort this out once and for all.

    I believe religious teachings and stories about god are BS.

    This has no bearing on whether something created our universe 13.72 billion years ago. If something did we will never know.

    BUT it has nothing to do with the religious idea of god ok.

    Agnostic = sitting on a fence = ditherer's = can't make a decision


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭Erren Music


    But Christianity does describe a belief system that centres around the supplication to and worship of a creator god, in most people's cases to obtain a favourable afterlife outcome. And if there are no rules, what are those ten whatyoumaycallits for?

    As I said before

    slagging god off = commandment 2

    murder = commandment 5

    this tells you what god is worried about.

    also be thankful that we got rid of the jewish belief with their 600+ commandments


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 471 ✭✭checkyabadself


    My schema was:

    Indoctrinated Catholic Child-->Atheist-->Agnostic

    Agnosticism isn't some waiting room for the bewildered.

    Thats a great point. I often thought of that myself, but whilst I agree that nobody can know if there is a god/creator or not, I call myself an Atheist with regard to not believing in any of the god figures throughout history (abraham yaweh zeuz thor jesus etc).

    I technically agree with you about having to be considered agnostic so as to be impartial to any unknown possibilities, but I think the term Atheist covers the nonbelief in the "known" or publicly accepted versions of god.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,555 ✭✭✭antiskeptic


    robindch wrote: »
    Antagonism?

    Not for me -- I find the the christian deity, as presented by christian believers, by turns weird, silly, menacing, homicidal and may other adjectives. But most frequently, it's just plan hilarious!

    Antagonism takes many forms. It need not be naked and personally directed.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    I think we need to sort this out once and for all.

    I believe religious teachings and stories about god are BS.

    This has no bearing on whether something created our universe 13.72 billion years ago. If something did we will never know.

    BUT it has nothing to do with the religious idea of god ok.

    Agnostic = sitting on a fence = ditherer's = can't make a decision

    No offence, but based on what posts I have seen of yours, you just seem like one of those "angry atheists" who haven't truly thought much about their position, or anyone elses. For example, you think that agnosticism has something directly to do with religion. But it is merely a position on the existence of a creator/s. My suggestion is that you calm yourself down, take your mind off hating the Catholic Church so much and try to educate yourself on what atheism and agnosticism actually represent.

    Who knows, you might learn something.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    In order to be antagonistic towards god, people would first have to believe there is something to be angry or in conflict with. The opposite to faith in god isn't antagonism, it's apathy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭Erren Music


    robindch wrote: »
    Antagonism?

    Not for me -- I find the the christian deity, as presented by christian believers, by turns weird, silly, menacing, homicidal and may other adjectives. But most frequently, it's just plan hilarious!

    I find the idea of ANY religious deity hilarious


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭Erren Music



    Who knows, you might learn something.

    There are no religious gods.

    Religion is made up fictional fantasy.

    What else do I need to learn about this.


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