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Would you......?

  • 19-02-2010 9:25pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 326 ✭✭


    Would you go out with a girl who didn't believe in sex before marraige?

    Well would ya? 139 votes

    Yes
    0% 0 votes
    No
    26% 37 votes
    I'd give it a shot.
    73% 102 votes


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,228 ✭✭✭bluto63


    Just give your virginity up to a guy already :rolleyes:


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,425 ✭✭✭FearDark


    She screams of religious nut.

    Been there, done that, wouldnt advise it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Maybe if she promised to have one shag, she wouldnt be long changing her mind then the duuurty little tramp


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Sex before marriage could make you late for the wedding.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,159 ✭✭✭✭phasers


    Divorce is quick and easy nowadays


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    This is nothing to do with belief.

    But no, I would not even date a girl who wanted to wait until marriage, sex is a major part of any relationship I think. We are biologically pre-disposed to it, so why would I want to wait?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4 HairlessReborn


    If she was alrite at the oul hand jobs it wouldnt be too bad...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,460 ✭✭✭✭The_Kew_Tour


    as person who does not want get married i have say no.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    phasers wrote: »
    Divorce is quick and easy nowadays
    As one that has been thru one, I'd personally have to disagree. Sorry. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,462 ✭✭✭MaybeLogic


    A pig in a poke?
    No thanks.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,314 ✭✭✭sink


    I wouldn't, but for other reasons. If she has that strong a religious conviction we'd be unlikely to get along. That plus no sex means there would be little point.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Animo wrote: »
    Would you go out with a girl who didn't believe in sex before marraige?

    Would you? :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,349 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    Definately. I love a challenge.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 810 ✭✭✭Fear Uladh


    Get your mate to pretend marry you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Chillaxe wrote: »
    Get your mate to pretend marry you.

    In an English case of R v Papadamalcous (sp?) the ingenius young man held a fake wedding ceremony to get her into the sack.

    She tried to have him prosecuted for rape due to lack of consent. She Failed.:cool:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 326 ✭✭Animo


    Abitar wrote: »
    Would you? :)

    I already am!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 64 ✭✭tomdeere


    ya i would if she had land and a lot of money coming with her and of course da handjobs and blowjobs


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    Well i am a woman but i wouldn't be able to date a fella who wanted to wait till we were married. Sex is a big part of a relationship (well,it is for me) and i'd wanna know that we were compatible in every way before agreeing to spend the rest of my life with him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 810 ✭✭✭Fear Uladh


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    Well i am a woman but i wouldn't be able to date a fella who wanted to wait till we were married. Sex is a big part of a relationship (well,it is for me) and i'd wanna know that we were compatible in every way before agreeing to spend the rest of my life with him.


    I think im gonna cry, these onions are really strong.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Animo wrote: »
    I already am!

    Is she or has she ever been a man?



    Sorry dude... these questions have to be asked :o


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Technical virgin ftw ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    No i wouldn't because i don't believe in marriage. I've nothing against people getting married, i wish them luck, but its not my cup of tea.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 279 ✭✭1071823928


    i went out with a guy who didnt believe in sex before marraige. definatly wouldn't do it again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    I would go out with her ok


    Not sure if she's coming back with me though :pac:











    I iz joking


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,276 ✭✭✭Alessandra


    Interesting thread. I have friends who want to wait(religous reasons) and I can tell you they find it very hard to find men who are willing to wait. I find it hard to talk with them about it because I feel it's highly unrealistic to expect people to wait these days. Fairplay though they stick to their guns.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,893 ✭✭✭Davidius


    If she was doing it for religious reasons, I'd probably be too uncomfortable anyhow. I can't think of many other reasons why she'd want to wait but I wouldn't mind as long as I was sure that there isn't and never was a penis down there.

    Of course "just checking" would just make it awkward. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,227 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    Magnus wrote: »
    Technical virgin ftw ;)

    That's virgin on the ridiculous.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    super-rush wrote: »
    No i wouldn't because don't believe in marriage. I've nothing against people getting married, i wish them luck, but its not my cup of tea.

    Some women are like that too, I know because I'm one of them. I dont get what paper proves. Sadly old skool Ireland dictates that this is something a woman has to do.

    You're right, don't let anyone dictate what you should do :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Are we talking no orgasm before marriage? Or no penetration?

    I think my worry would be that no sex before marriage could actually be a cover for 'not that into sex' - ie not much sex after marriage either.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,838 ✭✭✭✭3hn2givr7mx1sc


    Yep. Definately.
    They're usually hawtt.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,227 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    baz2009 wrote: »
    Yep. Definately.
    They're usually hawtt.

    Yeh, when they remove their musty tweed longjohns on the night of the wedding, they're a sight to behold. Chances are though, that if it doesn't go too well, they'll take off to a lesbo commune the next morning, never to be seen again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭jd007


    super-rush wrote: »
    No i wouldn't because i don't believe in marriage. I've nothing against people getting married, i wish them luck, but its not my cup of tea.
    Abitar wrote: »
    Some women are like that too, I know because I'm one of them. I dont get what paper proves. Sadly old skool Ireland dictates that this is something a woman has to do.

    You're right, don't let anyone dictate what you should do :)

    It's a match made in heaven!;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 913 ✭✭✭Ronan Keating


    Obviously it's not all about the sex but what would we do if on the wedding night we found her soggy vagina. I'd rather have seen it beforehand and been able to get out of the situation easily. Just a thought.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,857 ✭✭✭✭Dave!


    I don't make a rule of avoiding them, but my instinct would be to assume that they are either religious nuts, ditsy idealists or naive romantics, and that'd probably lead to a personality clash, and I'd end up spending my time rolling my eyes when I'm with them.

    So, no. Unless they give amazing head.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Dave! wrote: »
    I don't make a rule of avoiding them, but my instinct would be to assume that they are either religious nuts, ditsy idealists or naive romantics, and that'd probably lead to a personality clash, and I'd end up spending my time rolling my eyes when I'm with them.

    So, no. Unless they give amazing head.

    +1

    Maybe if it was Heather Brook but thats about it


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭Thomas828


    Yes, because I also don't believe in sex outside marriage. I don't care about anybody else's view on fornication, and I'm not on some moral high horse, it's just not for me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35 the_rovers_one


    Would try... Untill she found out I done the dirt on her..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,555 ✭✭✭Gillington


    Whats the difference,once you get married she'll never put out either! :mad:














    Disclaimer :I am not married.....Ladies,call me ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    Obviously it's not all about the sex but what would we do if on the wedding night we found her soggy vagina. I'd rather have seen it beforehand and been able to get out of the situation easily. Just a thought.


    Well that would mean you were doing it right


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,325 ✭✭✭ItsAWindUp


    Not a chance!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,783 ✭✭✭Hank_Jones


    This depends, is she going to do other stuff?

    Or am I going to be getting a peck on the cheek until we are married?


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 93,563 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    MaybeLogic wrote: »
    A pig in a poke?
    No thanks.
    Actually the point in question was not poking a pig.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 93,563 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    There are quite a few who don't believe in sex after marriage either


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,169 ✭✭✭rednik


    Roide her, dump her and move on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,072 ✭✭✭PeterIanStaker


    If some girl said to me that she didnt believe in sex before marriage, in this day and age when we know the full scale of the horrific church abuse, I wouldnt know whether to laugh or pity her. She's either a holy joe or very sheltered. Avoid.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    I wouldn't go out with a guy who doesn't believe in sex before marriage - not because I'm judging him, just because it would affect me too, and it's not something I subscribe to.


  • Site Banned Posts: 2,719 ✭✭✭DB10


    Maybe if the marriage was quick in the relationship. And she promised to have sex with me every single day for as long as I wanted.

    Of course she would have to be smokin hot as well. Then I might think about it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    i wouldn't date a man who wanted to wait til marriage. whats the point?

    also i don't want to get married ever.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Dudess wrote: »
    I wouldn't go out with a guy who doesn't believe in sex before marriage - not because I'm judging him, just because it would affect me too, and it's not something I subscribe to.

    Qft.


    Women have had generations of this need man to survive shyte mentally planted in them, its patronizing. The only thing thats needed to a hetrosexual female these days is a big fuck off vibrator, and gawd forbid the batteries go.. maybe a man.


    /hides spoon behind back


    :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 793 ✭✭✭vicecreamsundae


    if i reallllly liked someone, i might give it a shot for a while, but i don't really think i could be with someone who values virginity more than sexual expression.

    i am all for waiting until you are ready, hell i did more than my fair share of that. but for marriage? no thanks.


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