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23 year old man, 15 year old girl.

  • 06-01-2010 2:50pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭


    My Brother in law has started 'dating' a schoolgirl. If she was your Daughter, would you be comfortable with this?


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 27,315 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    If he was my brother in law I wouldn't be comfortable with it, let alone if she was my child.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,272 ✭✭✭✭Max Power1


    no.. but i'd look more from the "giggidy" perspective if your the guy involved! Grass onn the field and all that of course :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    If she was my daughter your brother in law would be getting beat up and down the country.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,460 ✭✭✭✭The_Kew_Tour


    Ill be honest. NO


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    I wouldn't be too happy about it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 850 ✭✭✭SoulTrader


    No. I wouldn't want her dating a 23 year old, and I certainly wouldn't want her 'dating' a 23 year old.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    spurious wrote: »
    If he was my brother in law I wouldn't be comfortable with it, let alone if she was my child.

    Why would I care who he shags?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,347 ✭✭✭si_guru


    It's wrong.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    I'd report him, the sick fúck!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,272 ✭✭✭✭Max Power1


    si_guru wrote: »
    It's wrong.
    .. in all the right ways :P


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  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 23,207 ✭✭✭✭beertons


    pics?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Probably not.

    Age differences are not a big deal, once you reach a certain age. Theres and 8 year gap there, and that would be fine if she was about 18 or 20. But not 15. It just doesnt sit right with me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    Nope but when I was at school it was quite common for girls of about 16 to be dating men in their 20s. There is no way I would allow it though. One thing I always noticed about these men was that none of them would have gotten girlfriends their own age and they were generally losers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    I'd be ecstatic.


  • Posts: 8,647 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Trolly mc Trollerson


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,347 ✭✭✭si_guru


    Is he a priest?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    Why would I care who he shags?

    Because there is something not quite right about wanting to shag a barely pubescent child.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    Kiera wrote: »
    I'd report him, the sick fúck!

    To who & for what?And apparently she is 16 in two months


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 161 ✭✭Blacey


    No, I would not be comfortable. I've been in that situation (from the teen's perspective) and I regret every single minute of it. I grew up too fast. Of course at the time, I thought I knew exactly what I was doing, which is why someone needs to talk to your brother in law and get him to end it. Even if this pair are meant for each other, the guy needs to back off for a couple of years at least, before someone gets hurt (or her folks call the police)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,889 ✭✭✭tolosenc


    If a 15 year old guy was riding a 23 year old girl, what would your reactions be then?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    To who & for what?And apparently she is 16 in two months

    Thats still underaged genius.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,262 ✭✭✭Buford T Justice


    Not a fuckin chance would I let either of my daughters do something like that


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Toulousain wrote: »
    If a 15 year old guy was riding a 23 year old girl, what would your reactions be then?

    Nice.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,421 ✭✭✭major bill


    im 22 but wouldnt even touch a 15 year old feels kinda perverted mate been honest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Toulousain wrote: »
    If a 15 year old guy was riding a 23 year old girl, what would your reactions be then?

    First, Legend,

    Then, WTF is she playing at, sick hoor.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    To who & for what?And apparently she is 16 in two months
    16 is still not legal. I'd report him to the guards thats who. Do you think he will wait until she is 17 to have sex with her?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Boston wrote: »
    Thats still underaged genius.

    OP is the brother in law, trying to see if we will agree with what he is up to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,565 ✭✭✭thebouldwhacker


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    My Brother in law has started 'dating' a schoolgirl. If she was your Daughter, would you be comfortable with this?

    If comfortable means ringing the Gardí to report potential child rape... then maybe. though stripping the pedo, chucking him into the back of a van covered in oil and broken glass and introducing him to 2 attack dogs would probably make me more comfortable....

    Seriously though, if he touches her he qualifies top of his class as a pedophile, will be arrested and probably jailed and 'shown a good time' by his new prison buddies. While she may think all is fun atm nothing to say in five years she doesnt bring charges against him... you may want to tell your brother in law this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Kiera wrote: »
    16 is still not legal. I'd report him to the guards thats who. Do you think he will wait until she is 17 to have sex with her?

    17 for buttsecks! :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,178 ✭✭✭✭NothingMan


    When I was in school a 16 year old friend of mine was going out with 22 year old guy. I know the guy now (he's almost 30) and he's really nice, but at the time I just thought he was a perv.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    Kiera wrote: »
    16 is still not legal. I'd report him to the guards thats who. Do you think he will wait until she is 17 to have sex with her?

    Obviously I dont know what goes on when she stays in his house. I have said that she is not to be brought anywhere near my house.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,584 ✭✭✭PCPhoto


    to me it just screams ....nooooooo ...not good.

    you said it in the title "23 year old man, 15 year old girl"

    if it were ten years later (ie. 33 and 25...no problem) ....
    My logic....
    once you turn 18 (as a guy) .... you shouldnt really be with anyone younger than a year behind you,

    once you turn 20 .... 2yrs younger is ok

    turn 25 ..... once she's over 18 (even at that some 18yr old girls are not capable of an adult relationship ...so leaning more towards 21 on that)

    turn 30 .... you'll be lucky (if ya get any) .... you prob dont want anyone under 25 and no-one over 35.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,421 ✭✭✭major bill


    Toulousain wrote: »
    If a 15 year old guy was riding a 23 year old girl, what would your reactions be then?

    bit disturbed and would question why she wouldnt ride me if she was so desperate:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    Obviously I dont know what goes on when she stays in his house. I have said that she is not to be brought anywhere near my house.

    You know what goes on you are simply closing your eyes to it, facilitating his behaviour, well done to you, you still have your morals because you "don't know what goes on".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 286 ✭✭mr biazzi


    Pics/


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,228 ✭✭✭podgemonster


    Half your age plus 7 is the rule i am accustomed too.
    Shes 3.5 years too young for him according to that! I've no problem for a 40 yr to go out with a 20 yr old but the girls is still under the age of consent and cant even walk into a pub at night! Don't think Id be a happy Daddy!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,347 ✭✭✭Closed ac


    It's definately strange, but as long as they're not shagging I suppose it's okay..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Toulousain wrote: »
    If a 15 year old guy was riding a 23 year old girl, what would your reactions be then?

    The same!! What would a fully grown woman want with a 15 year old boy?? And vice versa!!


  • Moderators, Regional Midwest Moderators Posts: 11,183 Mod ✭✭✭✭MarkR


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    My Brother in law has started 'dating' a schoolgirl. If she was your Daughter, would you be comfortable with this?

    Nope, I don't think that anyone would really be comfortable with this.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    Obviously I dont know what goes on when she stays in his house. I have said that she is not to be brought anywhere near my house.
    You know for a fact that a 15yr old is staying over with a 23 yr old and havent told her parents or the cops?

    Troll much?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭stripysocks85


    If this is a genuine case, then I can't comprehend the silly "PICS, Wrong in all the right ways" etc comments that are being made. Have some cop on people.

    This is wrong, wrong wrong. What attraction would they have to each other? I can't see how they would have much, if anything, in common. A 23 year old has much more 'experience' than a 15 year old, and would expect more from a relationship than just holding hands/kissing.

    If I knew about this, I don't think I could keep quiet about it. It's far too much of an age difference, particularly when she's only 15.

    You'd think the 23 year old would have more sense.

    Did I mention it was incredibly wrong??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    You know what goes on you are simply closing your eyes to it, facilitating his behaviour, well done to you, you still have your morals because you "don't know what goes on".

    Thats not fair or accurate, I dont have much contact with the lad, Just heard about this at Christmas. He met her in Coppers apparently


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 286 ✭✭mr biazzi


    17 for buttsecks! :)

    Thanks i never knew that before..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,749 ✭✭✭tony 2 tone


    The bang of troll is shockin' in here.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    Kiera wrote: »
    You know for a fact that a 15yr old is staying over with a 23 yr old and havent told her parents or the cops?

    Troll much?

    I dont know anything for a fact, and this thread is about the general idea of the situation, rather than this specific case yeah


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 901 ✭✭✭EL_Loco


    There's always a "grown up" teenage girl in school who goes out with a "man". It's not right but it happens all the time. Anyone who's past 2ndary school can probably recall at least 1. I know I can.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭stripysocks85


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    Thats not fair or accurate, I dont have much contact with the lad, Just heard about this at Christmas. He met her in Coppers apparently
    A 15 year old girl, in Coppers? Yeah.... right.... I'd wonder about where the parents are to be honest.


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    It's wrong. End of.

    If he so much as touches her it's also illegal. And if caught he will be registered sex offender. Sick.


    Oh, and also, reported for PA on Minidazzler.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    if it was my daughter i would damage this mans testicles in a horrendous manner, so much so, that people would feel sorry for him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,710 ✭✭✭RoadKillTs


    Totally wrong! Any pics?


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