how do i ask her out?

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:00am #1

Well this is awkward but just dawned on me to ask it here. I'm a fairly attractive man, mid thirties, I have been in many serious relationships.
Anyways a few months ago, just random, saw this girl most stunning girl I've seen about 21 5'8 slim, killer body, long hair I could go on all day..........assuming she's a student. Would it be wrong to walk up to her?

I have seen her a few times since, shes noticed my staring like a prat what should I do? assuming shes single probably wouldn't be interested, too young?:(

minidazzler · 04-01-2010 2:01am

You offer her money. She's a student, she probably needs it!

peanuthead · 04-01-2010 2:02am

Really depends on a lot of things!!

You could ask her out but if she says no then you should probably stop the staring. That will freak her out

Jesus Wept · 04-01-2010 2:03am

'My genitles want to high-five your genitles.'

sugardan wrote: »

hair way down her back

I'd find that quite off putting tbh!

deaddonkey · 04-01-2010 2:04am

You should print off this thread and show it to her.

AlmightyCushion · 04-01-2010 2:05am

Just go straight up to her on the street and tell her how you feel. If she rejects you then whip out your cock and jizz on her face as she turns away. Win, win situation.

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:05am

peanuthead wrote: »

Really depends on a lot of things!!

You could ask her out but if she says no then you should probably stop the staring. That will freak her out

I agree but believe me i've seen loads a fellas gawping
wanted 2 hit them.................dont wanna freak her out
she looks gentle all the more alluring...........

xw2lj9uspm1eyh · 04-01-2010 2:06am

Ah sure most women like an older man you say your in your mid-30s surely you realise by now that life is full of missed opportunities are you gonna add this one to the list the worst thing she can say is no but least you know where you stand.

minidazzler · 04-01-2010 2:07am

sugardan wrote: »

I agree but believe me i've seen loads a fellas gawping
wanted 2 hit them.................dont wanna freak her out
she looks gentle all the more alluring...........

Yeah, if you are getting jealous of random guys when you don't even know her name, I think it's a bad idea you go near her....or women.....ever.

TheZohanS · 04-01-2010 2:07am

OP in future use your full keyboard, no "txt spk".

Midnight_EG · 04-01-2010 2:12am

What's the crack with all the 30-somethings tonight?

peanuthead · 04-01-2010 2:14am

Midnight_EG wrote: »

What's the crack with all the 30-somethings tonight?

just checked outside, its not a full moon

xw2lj9uspm1eyh · 04-01-2010 2:15am

Midnight_EG wrote: »

What's the crack with all the 30-somethings tonight?

Classic Rock forum of course!

Midnight_EG · 04-01-2010 2:15am

mendusa wrote: »

Classic Rock forum of course!

I expected that, but I'd have called Classic over 40, so we have AC for that

3hn2givr7mx1sc · 04-01-2010 2:16am

sugardan wrote: »

Well this is awkward but just dawned on me to ask it here. I'm a fairly attractive man, mid thirties, I have been in many serious relationships.
Anyways a few months ago, just random, saw this girl most stunning girl I've seen about 21 5'8 slim, killer body hair way down her back I could go on all day..........assuming she's a student. Would it be wrong to walk up to her?

I have seen her a few times since, shes noticed my staring like a prat what should I do? assuming shes single probably wouldn't be interested, too young?:(

Show-off.:P

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:16am

minidazzler wrote: »

Yeah, if you are getting jealous of random guys when you don't even know her name, I think it's a bad idea you go near her....or women.....ever.

no didnt mean to come across all stalker
but she looks unnerved by them (never mind
what she would think of me) dunno this is
very strange for me.....................

Midnight_EG · 04-01-2010 2:17am

baz2009 wrote: »

Show-off.:P

I suppose you're mid 30's then too :mad:

:pac:

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:17am

TheZohan wrote: »

OP in future use your full keyboard, no "txt spk".

sorry about that

stripysocks85 · 04-01-2010 2:18am

sugardan wrote: »

killer body hair way down her back

Ahhhh give her a razor quick, or a voucher for a wax??

Jax Teller · 04-01-2010 2:18am

Kidnap her an hope she gets Stockholm syndrome

Stargazer7 · 04-01-2010 2:19am

Plenty of girls in their early 20s would find a confident, attractive guy in his mid thirties tempting. I say go for it. Better to do it and get turned away rather than wondering.

TheZohanS · 04-01-2010 2:21am

sugardan wrote: »

no didnt mean to come across all stalker
but she looks unnerved by them (never mind
what she would think of me) dunno this is
very strange for me.....................

She was probably just playing hard to get.

You should try and find out her interests etc., maybe see what she likes to do with her day, restaurants she likes to go to, where she likes to shop etc. It will give you a better idea of the sort of girl she is.

When you eventually go up chatting to her you'll have more to talk about.

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:21am

Stargazer7 wrote: »

Plenty of girls in their early 20s would find a confident, attractive guy in his mid thirties tempting. I say go for it. Better to do it and get turned away rather than wondering.

never bothered me asking out women before just
shes become a fantasy would be fairly upset if/when
she said no

BluesBerry · 04-01-2010 2:22am

Ahem!

jd007 · 04-01-2010 2:23am

sugardan wrote: »

Anyways a few months ago, just random, saw this girl most stunning girl I've seen about 21 5'8 slim, killer body hair way down her back I could go on all day..........assuming she's a student. Would it be wrong to walk up to her?

Hairy back? I'd steer well clear.

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:25am

TheZohan wrote: »

She was probably just playing hard to get.

You should try and find out her interests etc., maybe see what she likes to do with her day, restaurants she likes to go to, where she likes to shop etc. It will give you a better idea of the sort of girl she is.

When you eventually go up chatting to her you'll have more to talk about.

shes with friends most of the time and have seen her in gym
gear so that could be a start
seriously though lads shes BEAUTIFUL its always
worse approachin those girls

Midnight_EG · 04-01-2010 2:27am

sugardan wrote: »

shes with friends most of the time and have seen her in gym
gear so that could be a start
seriously though lads shes BEAUTIFUL its always
worse approachin those girls

Run up to her with your mickey in your hand and shout LA LA LA LA LA LA LA, then run away giggling and throw water at her best friend, she'll be ready to drop the cacks in no time!

peanuthead · 04-01-2010 2:27am

sugardan wrote: »

never bothered me asking out women before just
shes become a fantasy would be fairly upset if/when
she said no

Well if she does say no you're in the same boat as you are right now, so what have ya to lose?

Ridley · 04-01-2010 2:29am

jd007 wrote: »

Hairy back? I'd steer well clear.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jzYzVMcgWhg

3hn2givr7mx1sc · 04-01-2010 2:32am

Midnight_EG wrote: »

I suppose you're mid 30's then too :mad:

:pac:

No, I'm 15.:D

El Siglo · 04-01-2010 2:33am

TheZohan wrote: »

She was probably just playing hard to get.

Here's the cure for that...

You should try and find out her interests etc., maybe see what she likes to do with her day, restaurants she likes to go to, where she likes to shop etc. It will give you a better idea of the sort of girl she is.

You'll need one of these though...

When you eventually go up chatting to her you'll have more to talk about.

Quite...:D

TheZohanS · 04-01-2010 2:37am

sugardan wrote: »

shes with friends most of the time and have seen her in gym
gear so that could be a start

Join her gym.

Do you know where she lives?

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:40am

if/when she says no would mean couldnt really look at her
when i see her.......................

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:40am

TheZohan wrote: »

Join her gym.

Do you know where she lives?

i'd assume one of the student places trouble is
i'd say if she hasnt got a boyfriend she'd prefer
a younger fella....................

Alicat · 04-01-2010 2:41am

TheZohan wrote: »

You should try and find out her interests etc., maybe see what she likes to do with her day, restaurants she likes to go to, where she likes to shop etc. It will give you a better idea of the sort of girl she is.

When you eventually go up chatting to her you'll have more to talk about.

"So, I see you like eating pasta..."

Yeah that won't freak her out

fuelinjection · 04-01-2010 2:41am

as a fellow 30-something man i would suggeest you keep your dignity

21 year old girls are just interested in other 21 year old boys that look like a surfer from Australia.

but not to be negative, she is a looker, so mammy could be a MILF ? :pac::pac::pac:

El Siglo · 04-01-2010 2:43am

Alicat wrote: »

"So, I see you like eating pasta..."

Yeah that won't freak her out

No, saying: "I'd like to eat you out" might freak her out instead.

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:44am

fuelinjection wrote: »

as a fellow 30-something man i would suggeest you keep your dignity

21 year old girls are just interested in other 21 year old boys that look like a surfer from Australia.

but not to be negative, she is a looker, so mammy could be a MILF ? :pac::pac::pac:

Have to agree with ya shes in college with fellas
her own age and i'd say she gets chatted up
all the time

El Siglo · 04-01-2010 2:47am

sugardan wrote: »

Have to agree with ya shes in college with fellas
her own age and i'd say she gets chatted up
all the time

Troll.

Alicat · 04-01-2010 2:53am

MizzLolly wrote: »

What about men?

How can a girl subtly let a guy know she's interested?

Not for me obviously, for, eh, my friend. :cool:

Smile MizzLolly

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:53am

any womens opinions what do ye think?

sugardan · 04-01-2010 2:59am

right know im gonna sound like a prick but i'm
reasonably wealthy do ye think that might influence her

TouchingVirus · 04-01-2010 2:59am

sugardan wrote: »

right know im gonna sound like a prick but i'm
reasonably wealthy do ye think that might influence her

Do you live under a bridge?

Midnight_EG · 04-01-2010 3:00am

sugardan wrote: »

right know im gonna sound like a prick but i'm
reasonably wealthy do ye think that might influence her

Oh come on!

Just fuck off for that :mad:

Subtle troll, anyone?

Alicat · 04-01-2010 3:01am

sugardan wrote: »

right know im gonna sound like a prick but i'm
reasonably wealthy do ye think that might influence her

Definitely not something to be pushing....unless you're looking for a gold-digging whore....

sugardan · 04-01-2010 3:01am

not like that just the stability thing

Ridley · 04-01-2010 3:01am

sugardan wrote: »

right know im gonna sound like a prick but i'm
reasonably wealthy do ye think that might influence her

Tiger?

El Siglo · 04-01-2010 3:02am

Midnight_EG wrote: »

Oh come on!

Just fuck off for that :mad:

Subtle troll, anyone?

4 pages in, fucking hell that was quick. I think we've a trolly-wolly.:D

Saibh · 04-01-2010 3:03am

sugardan wrote: »

any womens opinions what do ye think?

Honestly if I heard that you wanted to hit some random fella for just looking at her and you don't not even known her, I think I would be advising her to say no to you if you asked her out.

Alicat · 04-01-2010 3:03am

sugardan wrote: »

not like that just the stability thing

That's not required to ask someone out on a date. MAYBE if you're talking about getting married but you only want to talk to the girl so far!

Just tell her you think she's attractive and that you'd love to chat some more to her, then hand her your number and leave it at that.

People asking straight out for dates is a bit much.

TheZohanS · 04-01-2010 3:03am

sugardan wrote: »

right know im gonna sound like a prick but i'm
reasonably wealthy do ye think that might influence her

Yup. Saying stuff like that will make any normal girl run a mile.

how do i ask her out?

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