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your brothers friends ?

  • 03-01-2010 7:07pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭


    I started a thread in the gentlemans lounge disscussing are mates sister's. now as womens i would like to here your thaughts on the subject....
    How do you feel about the kinda answers that are given ?
    can you understand them ?
    are they all a little matcho ?

    would like to here your opinions?


    Link http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055784475

    just curious to here the other side :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,953 ✭✭✭Vinta81


    Hell yes, well my 22 year old brothers friends, they're all a year or two older than me and gorgeousssss!

    I know it would put my brother in a weird situation but I'd only do it if I genuinely really liked the guy and saw it going somewhere other than phyiscal/a few months.

    At the end of the day, you can't help who you like.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,900 ✭✭✭rannerap


    my brother is only sixteen so its a problem il never have to face:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,062 ✭✭✭akamossy


    My brother's friends are all 7 years older than me and some of them ain't half bad :P so yes!! haha


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,488 ✭✭✭pikachucheeks


    My brother is sixteen, all his friends are of similar age ... so that's a definite no-go area for me! (I'm five years older)

    Funnily enough, one of his friends did try something on with me a few years ago though ... :pac:
    My brother got very angry and the "friend" never showed up at our house again...
    He's extremely protective of me.

    So, even if he (my brother) was that little bit older, I still think he'd have a problem with one of his friends chasing me / me chasing them ... in the same way I'd find it a bit awkward, if he was hitting on my friends / my friends were hitting on him.

    I can see how it's easily done though .. Falling for a friend of your brother / sister, someone who might be at your house often, spending time in your family's company.
    I think it really depends on each different situation... if a person's sibling is happy enough for them to be seeing a friend of theirs, then it's fine ... but if not, that should be considered and discussed before getting involved.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,878 ✭✭✭Rozabeez


    I get on with quite a lot of my brother's friends, and a few of them are attractive. Although I'll say no more, because far too many people know me on here. ¬_¬


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  • Posts: 0 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My brother is 18 next week. All is friends are little boy racers. They are very irritating.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    my brother is only sixteen so its a problem il never have to face:)


    Never say never!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Lia_lia wrote: »
    My brother is 18 next week. All is friends are little boy racers. They are very irritating.


    ask them can they do skids :D:pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,264 ✭✭✭Pretty_Pistol


    All my brothers friends would either be my age or older. I use to like a number of his friends but he only seems to bring around the not-my-type ones now. :( I probably wouldn't go there though. I think it would get awkward. Espiecially if it ends badly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,900 ✭✭✭rannerap


    Moonbaby wrote: »
    Never say never!

    its highly doubtful!if anything id have to worry about my little sisters lesbian friends taking an interest!its happened before!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,964 ✭✭✭ToniTuddle


    I thought that other thread was about men going after their mates sisters?
    If that's the case...I'm saying nothing about mates and their brothers >.>

    As for going out with any of my brothers friends...

    He actually never told any of his mates he had a sister...they never asked I suppose and he simply never offered the information up.
    I can understand why!
    They soon found out when I hit 14/15 and blody hell did they all make a play for me!!
    Them being a good few years older too.
    W*nkers! They weren't true mates of my brothers though when you look back on it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,689 ✭✭✭sky88


    id probaley want to kill my friends if they went near my sisters im too overprotective of them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,964 ✭✭✭ToniTuddle


    I know rightly that a few of those lads that made a play for me simply did it to piss off my brother and father.
    They knew rightly they would get a smack if they found out.

    Even recently I found out that my Dad put a lad up against the wall in the pub when he made a reference about what a nice girl I was :eek::mad:

    So there aint any hope of local lads getting near me! Which in a way is a very good thing :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 697 ✭✭✭chocgirl


    My brother is a couple of years younger than me and considerably more immature.

    I get on well with his friends but that's about it, they remind me a bit too much of him and therein lies the problem.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    I wouldn't consider my brothers friends off limits. I mean, you can't help who you fall in love with and all that jazz.

    I guess it might be a bit weird for my brother but if he knew the guy and liked him enough to be friends with him, then maybe he'd like him enough to let him date his sister!

    My brother is only seventeen though so it's doubtful I'll ever wanna be with one of his friends!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,264 ✭✭✭Cookie Jar


    A month or two ago I hooked up with my brothers mate randomly on a night out. He is a good friend of my brother who lives beside us and I know him years.
    Met up a few times since then, but he is terrified my brother would find out so don't think anything will come of it.

    My brother is very protective. He's just two years older so we hang round with some of the same people and they've all been warned not too touch me. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 136 ✭✭BDR


    I'm kissing my friends brother atm, she's fine with it. there's only a year between them though. We're 18 and he's 17.

    As for my brothers friends, they'd be 25. At the moment I wouldn't, kind of think they're too old but in a few years when I'm in college and stuff I'd probably consider it. My brothers are very protective though so I don't think they'd be happy.


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