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Multitasking+frustration!!!

  • 17-12-2009 4:07pm
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    So Saturday is gonna be a long busy day. I will leave the house at 7. work 2 different jobs and meet people for dinner then straight out for drinks with other people

    told a friend who is home from oz I would go out with her and her bf(who is over from england) on saturday night before all the other stuff came up. I have seen her everyday since she has been back and have told her she can come with while I meet the other people for drinks have a few then the 3 of us will move on. but she is not happy because she doznt know the other people.

    I feel like I am being pulled in so many ways and I dont wanna piss her off.


    i hate it when there is nothing for weeks then Bam its all on one day!

    how do I solve this?!


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  • #2
    NothingMan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,178 ✭✭✭✭NothingMan


    Tell her that meeting new people is fun and interesting and she should come along with you like you suggested!

    If she doesn't want to then feck her. I don't see your other friends making you choose.


  • #3
    Zainal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27 ✭Zainal


    Sounds like you are doing all you can with your time. You've already spent time with her and have tried to continue to involve her in your plans. Unless your friend plans to segregate herself from everyone she doesn't know it's not really a reasonable attitude. Have you explained just how busy you are to her?


  • #4
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    yep. she said 'but you said you would go out with me'

    Reckon I will just leave it at come with me if you want other wise I will meet you later on.

    My OH is not even going out so Im gonna be the 3rd wheel and I didnt complain about that once!!!

    ha ha life o life!


  • #5
    Malari
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    Annoying. There are only a limited number of days and lots of people trying to organise nights out over the next week. Your solution sounds fine OP, if she doesn't like it, tough, she can go out with her boyfriend on her own!

    I've worked it on a first come first serve basis! I've made arrangements with some people and others have contacted me to go out with them. Anyone else, sorry I'm booked up :D You go crazy otherwise and don't enjoy your nights out with anyone.


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