Would you go to a stripclub

xzanti

So a friend of mine came back from a weekend in Prague last week and she was telling me her and her bf went to a lapdancing club and he bought HER a lapdance.. kind of suprised me as this girl doesn't come across as the 'adventurous' type but it got me wondering what the general consensus was with these places.. would you (straight women) go in for the craic? (scuse the pun)

I personally would love to go into one, just out of curiousity.. I know most of the clubs in Dublin have a no women policy on the door but if I went to the likes of Vegas or somewhere I definately go in..

This

The BF hates strip clubs etc so I wouldnt go with him.... but a group of friends yeah

Gary ITR

My ex used to but me lapdances. I miss that ex

Riverpineapple

xzanti wrote: »

So a friend of mine came back from a weekend in Prague last week and she was telling me her and her bf went to a lapdancing club and he bought HER a lapdance.. kind of suprised me as this girl doesn't come across as the 'adventurous' type but it got me wondering what the general consensus was with these places.. would you (straight women) go in for the craic? (scuse the pun)

I personally would love to go into one, just out of curiousity.. I know most of the clubs in Dublin have a no women policy on the door but if I went to the likes of Vegas or somewhere I definately go in..

I recently bought my girlfriend a few lapdances ( yes a few, she wanted more) in America. She would be your typical nice daddy's girl. But she loved it, one stripper dropped her head and sniffed and licked her pussy. I couldn't believe what I was witnessing. Such a turn on. She told me she's never been wetter. The stripper told her she would have the best sex ever when she went home with me, and it's true. I had to forcibly stop her from raping me in the taxi and lift on the way home. I'd highly recommend it to any couple. Just make sure its a good stripclub.

xzanti

Riverpineapple wrote: »

I recently bought my girlfriend a few lapdances ( yes a few, she wanted more) in America. She would be your typical nice daddy's girl. But she loved it, one stripper dropped her head and sniffed and licked her pussy. I couldn't believe what I was witnessing. Such a turn on. She told me she's never been wetter. The stripper told her she would have the best sex ever when she went home with me, and it's true. I had to forcibly stop her from raping me in the taxi and lift on the way home. I'd highly recommend it to any couple. Just make sure its a good stripclub.

Thanks for sharing

Acoshla

Heya,

Yeah I'd go into one, I've been to a male strip club and got a dance I went to a burlesque club in Vegas, we tried to go to a strip club but one of our friends was under 21 (so annoying!) so couldn't go. Some of my friends did go to the club and all the guys just sat staring like morons at the girls while my two female friends got lapdances and chatted to the girls (they were told that if somebody didn't pay for something soon they were getting kicked out, and they said the girls were hot so why not )

I went to a sex show in Amsterdam with my boyfriend, that was hilarious, and the dominatrix said I had great boobs and invited my boyfriend to touch hers with his hands or face (:eek:) but I put a stop that I can tell you...she wasn't hot at all, no way was he doing it!

But yeah I totally would go to one, dunno about the lapdance, I was all set to get an almost fully nekkid dance from the guy stripper but I chickened out when he was just down to his jeans, when he unzipped them I nearly ran away! :P

rannerap

I went to one when i was in amsterdam,was a bit crap,I was made leave because my gay friend was freaked out at all the naked ladies:(

xzanti

Sarannewrap wrote: »

I went to one when i was in amsterdam,was a bit crap,I was made leave because my gay friend was freaked out at all the naked ladies:(

Gotta love Amsterdam freaks' playground.. truly an experience

Fago!

Sarannewrap wrote: »

I went to one when i was in amsterdam,was a bit crap,I was made leave because my gay friend was freaked out at all the naked ladies:(

I assume the situation panned out like this:

rannerap

xzanti wrote: »

Gotta love Amsterdam freaks' playground.. truly an experience

ive been a few times,my cousins are dutch and live there so always an excuse to go over:D

Fago_25 wrote: »

I assume the situation panned out like this:

thats pretty much EXACTLY how it went,biggest waste of fifteen euro ever

Nervous Wreck

A few months ago, allllllllll the lads in work went down to a strip-club for the last night of one of the shows. When they asked if I was coming, I replied "I'm getting paid at midnight; I'd like that money to still be there when I wake up." I went home. The lads spent an average of €400 each. When I asked why they'd spent that kinda money, one replied "I got 4 dances!" I think I'd prefer the €400.....

Professey Chin

Riverpineapple wrote: »

I recently bought my girlfriend a few lapdances ( yes a few, she wanted more) in America. She would be your typical nice daddy's girl. But she loved it, one stripper dropped her head and sniffed and licked her pussy. I couldn't believe what I was witnessing. Such a turn on. She told me she's never been wetter. The stripper told her she would have the best sex ever when she went home with me, and it's true. I had to forcibly stop her from raping me in the taxi and lift on the way home. I'd highly recommend it to any couple. Just make sure its a good stripclub.

Am I the only one who smells something here

Nervous Wreck

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

Am I the only one who smells something here

Don't be gross. :pac:

Professey Chin

Nervous Wreck wrote: »

Don't be gross. :pac:

What do you think im smelling? :pac:

SeekUp

I went to my first strip club a few months ago. The vibe in there was very . . . interesting, to say the least. I mean, I'd go back with a group of people if they wanted to go, although not sure if I'd get a lap dance. Might be kind of weird. *shrug*

Riverpineapple

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

Am I the only one who smells something here

Keep smelling, I sh1t you not.

Stella777

Sure, I would just for something different, but probably wouldn't make a hobby out of it. I'm surprised about the "no women" policy at the Dublin strip clubs. An old friend of mine goes to them in Las Vegas sometimes with her husband and mentioned that women are very welcome in them and the employees are told to be friendly to female guests. I have been in a Hooter's and the waitresses made a point to make me feel welcome.

krudler

Stella777 wrote: »

Sure, I would just for something different, but probably wouldn't make a hobby out of it. I'm surprised about the "no women" policy at the Dublin strip clubs. An old friend of mine goes to them in Las Vegas sometimes with her husband and mentioned that women are very welcome in them and the employees are told to be friendly to female guests. I have been in a Hooter's and the waitresses made a point to make me feel welcome.

Hooters aint a strip club though, I was there when i was in the states last year and there were families eating there, granted they were rednecks but still

helimachoptor

Riverpineapple wrote: »

I recently bought my girlfriend a few lapdances ( yes a few, she wanted more) in America. She would be your typical nice daddy's girl. But she loved it, one stripper dropped her head and sniffed and licked her pussy. I couldn't believe what I was witnessing. Such a turn on. She told me she's never been wetter. The stripper told her she would have the best sex ever when she went home with me, and it's true. I had to forcibly stop her from raping me in the taxi and lift on the way home. I'd highly recommend it to any couple. Just make sure its a good stripclub.

A friend of mine had a similar experience !

Rayne

I would def go to a female strip club, not a male tho! I'd want the works too, lapdance, strip etc!
I wanted to go to one for my 21st but it never really fell into place! I'm def gonna go to one tho, maybe for this years birthday!

I can't wait!

kenbrady

Stella777 wrote: »

I'm surprised about the "no women" policy at the Dublin strip clubs.

I haven't been in a while, but anytime I've ever been in a strip club in Dublin they're full of woman, who go there like any pub.
These are groups of woman who go to meet guys not with their boyfriends/male friends.

stovelid

Been to strip show, lap-dancing club and sex show. Only with men in a stag context. Always found it initially a turn-on (as in there is a nice naked woman) before it rapidly started feeling antiseptic and a little boring. I think its the way I'm wired. If I can't touch after a while I get bored.

Silverfish

I think the OP looking for a female point of view, not for lads to regale us with tales of strip clubs.

Alessandra

I went to my first in the summer with a gang of people and I guy I was seeing. Wasn't a big deal to be honest. It was a male and female strip club. I didn't think the men were that great to be honest as they were just to physically perfect and very camp to talk to which is a turn off. The women were Body of baywatch, face off crimewatch but they were really sound! Drinks were expensive, good night overall though.

Fago!

Think like a woman. If I was a woman, I wouldn't go into a stripclub for men.

Just like if I was a man, I wouldn't go to a stripclub for women.

I'd only go if it was like a stag night or something like that. Never on me toblerone.

EDIT: I can't believe I just said "If I was a man" ha

minidazzler

If I want to be cock-teased, I will go to a Night cliub I think!!

Why pay money for something that a drunk girl will do for free! :P

Faith

I'd go. I'd say it would be a fun experience!

Cupcake_Crisis

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

Am I the only one who smells something here

No! The stripper did too :pac:

Ive never been to one, but id like to. Id say it would be a good laugh if you went with the right group of people

SheRa

Yip went to one when I was in Oz. The girls looked fab, I was chatting away to one of them. The blokes that were there were all seemed to be there on their own and just seemed, I dunno, pathetic and a bit mortified that I was there:D.

damone

went to a sex club in amsterdam,it was pathetic ,we ended up goin into the bar and shouting abuse at the "performers" who looked as if they were goin to fall asleep they were so bored ,the bloke "performer"" loved the fact we were messin ,but the geezer who was out on the street doin the"comon in here for the best..........." wasnt so amused ,"anymore shouting and youll end up in the canal with youre throat slit"said in a slimey south african accent,needless to say we left!

shellyboo

Oh I totally would, it'd be sexy to go with a partner and get all het up

SeekUp

Alessandra wrote: »

The women were Body of baywatch, face off crimewatch . . .

Hahahahaha!

stovelid

Silverfish wrote: »

I think the OP looking for a female point of view, not for lads to regale us with tales of strip clubs.

If you think that is "regaling with tales of strip clubs", you're joking or trying to score easy points of a easy male target - I strongly suspect the latter.

I also take exception to being called a "lad".

And I would finally suggest that you apply this obviously strict criterion to any other thread in here that garners replies from male posters.

Cheers.

Silverfish

stovelid, the point of this thread being in the ladies lounge is the OP is looking for female responses on whether females would go to a stripclub. If the OP wanted to know if men go to stripclubs, they would have posted in AH or the Gentlemen's club.

You seem unclear overall on the point of the ladies lounge, could you re-read the charter.

Also, if you have an issue with moderation of this forum, please use the correct channels to complain and do not drag threads off topic to debate it.

This is a warning.

stovelid

Silverfish wrote: »

stovelid, the point of this thread being in the ladies lounge is the OP is looking for female responses on whether females would go to a stripclub.

Fair enough. I have read the charter before. I was replying to you as a user. I won't post again and I'm sorry if my post was off-topic.

I, however, respectfully assume that other males cannot post in the thread from this point. And that the other male posts have contravened the charter too.

Just so misunderstanding can be avoided from this point.

Thanks.

Silverfish

stovelid wrote: »

Fair enough. I have read the charter before. I was replying to you as a user. I won't post again and I'm sorry if my post was off-topic.

I, however, respectfully assume that other males cannot post in the thread from this point. And that the other male posts have contravened the charter too.

Just so misunderstanding can be avoided from this point.

Thanks.

Yes, you can assume that, which is why a general warning was posted on the thread.

The point is the thread is looking for the perspective of women.
These may be also people posting giving the perspective of wives, girlfriends, sisters etc, has has been done.

stovelid

Silverfish wrote: »

which is why a general warning was posted on the thread.

To me, it looked like user-to-user censure that morphed into a moderator response when questioned.

Silverfish wrote: »

The point is the thread is looking for the perspective of women.

Cool. Sorry, I was off-topic.

Silverfish wrote: »

These may be also people posting giving the perspective of wives, girlfriends, sisters etc, has has been done.

I can see at least one post that is not so.

Kya1976

I would definitely go to a strip club, never been to one and none of my mates ever wanted to go with me to one either.

Smallbit

Must admit I'm verrrry curious, and even suggested it to my b/f!

Surprisingly enough he was not into it! He said, and I quote!!

"the whole thing is just a bunch of saddos concealing erections while trying to look like classy players"

I was sort of reassured by that until he followed up with :

"they haven't the balls to just go an spend the hundred euros they'll waste in the club on a hooker..."

Of course he reassured me that he wasn't into that either :eek:, but I just though it was an interesting position - he reckons a lapdancing bar is like getting all revved up with no place to go!

pikachucheeks

Faith wrote: »

I'd go. I'd say it would be a fun experience!

+ 1.

I think it would be a laugh and I'd like to see it with a bunch of friends.

Kudos to women who have the confidence and skill to strip like that!

As long as the women were there by choice and there was no illegal stuff going on, I'd be more than happy to watch and have a fun time!

minidazzler

I doubt I would go TBH, and even if I did I wouldn't but a lapdance for myself.


I would love to work as a male stripper though, some money in that game and less rules at certain Parties!

Kooli

Nope I would not be interested in going to a strip club.

I find the idea of them sleazy and degrading, and I wouldn't have any particular urge to be a contributor to the further reduction of women to sexual objects.

krudler

My missus has suggested going a few times, i dont know if she means jokingly or is being serious, i wouldnt get a lapdance while i was going out with someone tbh, but id love to get her one if she was up for it

Lady A M

Went to a sex club in Amsterdam with bf at the time. Thought it was absolutely hilarious.. Def not sexy! More sex appeal in a bucket of wet fish.. The guy in the show made it so funny, as I was the only girl there at the time apart from workers, he kept winking at me and gesturing for me to come up. Even got to take off the girls bra, much to the amusement and maybe even jealousy of the other half.. Wouldnt go to a lapdancing club here though, too expensive. Maybe Las Vegas or somewhere

Dudess

Kooli wrote: »

Nope I would not be interested in going to a strip club.

I find the idea of them sleazy and degrading, and I wouldn't have any particular urge to be a contributor to the further reduction of women to sexual objects.

Something only degrades a person if they are forced into it. There is nothing wrong with using your body to make money by choice. Many strippers want to work in the industry - it pays extremely well, for one.

MizzLolly

Yup I personally have no issues with them whatsoever, I wouldn't mind going with a group of friends! I reckon it'd be good fun

southsiderosie

I went to a male strip club in Texas for a friend's bachelorette party, and it was, um, an experience. The whole vibe felt slightly crazed, and I actually feared for the safety of some of the male strippers given how excited the women were. That, and as I walked by the stage on my way back from the bar, a male dancer shot across the floor, used his legs to grab me in a scissor lock, and did some kind of floor writing/gyration/centipede dance while my friends howled and I tried not to spill my martini.

All in all, it was probably the least sexy thing I have ever experienced.

krudler

Something I've never quite understood is the difference between male and female attitudes to strippers, you go to a lapdancing club and you look,touch and you get thrown out and probably a hiding from the bouncers, but go to a male strip show and women are tearing their clothes off, smearing baby oil on them and and simulating sex, yet most women would see this as "just a bit of fun" If you did any of that as a man you'd probably be arrested, both are objectifying men and women as sexual objects yet have radically different versions of the same thing, its odd, a guy I work with worked as a male stripper for a few months and the stories he has from hen parties would shock you

Kooli

Dudess wrote: »

Something only degrades a person if they are forced into it. There is nothing wrong with using your body to make money by choice. Many strippers want to work in the industry - it pays extremely well, for one.

I'm not talking about any individual woman or her personal choices, that's a different topic really. I'm talking about an industry where women parade as sex objects, men turn up to get aroused by it. women fake being aroused as they dance for them. That's not something I would ever want to support by attending or giving my money to. It's sleazy.

Cathmandooo

Kooli wrote: »

I'm not talking about any individual woman or her personal choices, that's a different topic really. I'm talking about an industry where women parade as sex objects, men turn up to get aroused by it. women fake being aroused as they dance for them. That's not something I would ever want to support by attending or giving my money to. It's sleazy.

Plenty of people fake things in their jobs everyday. Actually I'd say most people do it. Faking arousal is what they're willing to do for their job. Nothing wrong with that.

I wouldn't mind going to one in a different country sometime. I say different country because I would be mortified to accidentally find a friend of my parents or my boss in there or something!

minidazzler

krudler wrote: »

Something I've never quite understood is the difference between male and female attitudes to strippers, you go to a lapdancing club and you look,touch and you get thrown out and probably a hiding from the bouncers, but go to a male strip show and women are tearing their clothes off, smearing baby oil on them and and simulating sex, yet most women would see this as "just a bit of fun" If you did any of that as a man you'd probably be arrested, both are objectifying men and women as sexual objects yet have radically different versions of the same thing, its odd, a guy I work with worked as a male stripper for a few months and the stories he has from hen parties would shock you

Very true, look at video's of Male strippers in England and such......the things that happen!!! To be fair, I wouldn't mind being one, but women tend to go crazy at these things!!!