Stags & Hens

Kimia

Hi all,

So following on from a thread in RI, do you think that stag & hen parties are an excuse to cheat? Like for example, 'what happens at a stag stays at a stag'. I've been on a fair few hens and there's been no cheating, just a lot of drinks and a lot of laughs, but obviously being of the lady persuasion I've never been on a stag.

What do you all think? So do some men (and women for that matter) think that a stag or hen is just an excuse to get a bit of strange?

Nervous Wreck

There is no excuse for cheating.

ash23

Some people (male or female) think anything is an excuse for cheating.
Stags, hens, girls/boys nights out, OH being away, a lovers tiff, OH not understanding them, OH not wanting sex, lack of sleep from kids, lack of passion and on and on and on it goes.........

Some people cheat. They'll make up their own excuses to justify it regardless of what it is.

I'm sure there are men and women out there who think "no harm" when they are away and have an opportunity to cheat. But like I said, these are the ones who will take any opportunity and excuse.

minidazzler

It depends on who is on Stag TBH.

Some obviously do cheat or use prostitutes. Some don't.

TBH if someone is gonna cheat, they are gonna do it regardless of the stag/hen.

In saying that I have scored 2 girls who were at hen night before, I don't know if they were attached, but they were definitely old enough to be.

People do go a little wild at them, but TBH, Most don't cheat on them, because "what happen's on stag, stays on Stag" doesn't work in practice.

Fink Goddie

Too much drink can be a dangerous thing when it comes to cheating, and there's lots consumed at hens/stags

Nervous Wreck

Fink Goddie wrote: »

Too much drink can be a dangerous thing when it comes to cheating, and there's lots consumed at hens/stags

When you add it to a pre-existing willingness, yah.

Malari

minidazzler wrote: »

TBH if someone is gonna cheat, they are gonna do it regardless of the stag/hen.

I don't know if that's true, really. I mean sometimes in a stag situation where there is almost pressure to do something on your "last night of freedom" (despite the fact that if you are getting married it must have been some time since you were single) there are some people who would give in to that on one occasion and maybe not for the rest of their life.

Nervous Wreck

Malari wrote: »

I don't know if that's true, really. I mean sometimes in a stag situation where there is almost pressure to do something on your "last night of freedom" (despite the fact that if you are getting married it must have been some time since you were single) there are some people who would give in to that on one occasion and maybe not for the rest of their life.

Fully agree with this.

Fink Goddie

Nervous Wreck wrote: »

When you add it to a pre-existing willingness, yah.

Nah i think alcohol can make willingness!

Kimia

Fink Goddie wrote: »

Nah i think alcohol can make willingness!

But by that logic, surely every man / woman that drinks will cheat, yes?

ash23

I don't agree with the alcohol/pressure statements at all.

I abhorr cheating. I think it's the lowest of the low and it's such a waste for a few minutes pleasure.

If my "friends" were putting pressure on me to cheat on my hen night I'd tell them to fupp off, call my fianceé and get him to collect me.

When I'm drinking, I want the sexy time :P but I'd be more inclined to be found drunk in the toilet on the phone to my fella, or sending filthy texts and sneaking home early than shagging some stranger in a car.

If there are problems in the relationship then cheating is going to become a temptation. But it's only masking the real issue which is the problems that need to be worked on. It's a cowards way out. Much better that the person adresses the issues with their OH than throw it all away on a cheap thrill.