That magical kiss

illiop

I'm usually more of a lurker around here but last night I kissed a guy I've really liked for quite a while but when I kissed him there was nothing. Normally I'm the sort of girl who ends up kissing someone I don't really like because...well because of lots of thing but thats not the point; the point is that when I kiss them I always get that feeling but last night there was nothing. Maybe I just watch way to many romcoms but when I'm kissing an amazing, handsome and incredibley sweet guy outside in a thunder storm (which I think is a kinda romantic setting) I'd expect to feel something...granted he wasn't a great kisser and I don't think I am either but...Anyway what do you think? Do you normally get that feeling? Would you expect it? Do you think it means anyhting?

iMax

First time I saw my wife, let alone kiss her, I knew that was it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhzEzaYXxdo

The minutes that we missed
The idle lips that should've kissed
Are now gently together
The first kiss lasts forever

Wibbs

As a bloke I would expect to feel it. It can happen where you don't, no matter how attractive they are. Happened to me more than once. One in particular the woman was gorgeous. I don't mean the average gorgeous either. I mean :eek: bloody hell! gorgeous. She would have raised the dead with her looks. Fancied her rotten. Kissed her and nothing. Nada. Zip. Pheromone mismatch or some such, but yep it happens.

Jules

But then you can kiss someone have an electric attraction and well things just dont work out, its really is a hit or miss kinda world!

Wibbs

Never had that one funny enough. If the wow moment was there it ended up as a longtermer.

CathyMoran

I have found that a first kiss is not a good measure of weather things can work out or not, maybe that is just me. I have gotten amazing goose bumps from someone that was nice to kiss but nothing else at first...plus, over time if you got goose bumps every time it would get boring.

RxQueen

same dont base things on the 1st kiss, maybe he was nervous or whatever

imo , our minds have been filled with unrealistic idea's from watching romantics films and what not

Nervous Wreck

I remember the first time I got that feeling... Felt like my head was melting and my heart was about to explode. Best thing I've ever felt. And I don't think I've had it with anyone else since....

banshee_bones

yeah first time could be nerves but if someones a good kisser i tell you thats half the battle won... :pac:

Jules

Wibbs wrote: »

Never had that one funny enough. If the wow moment was there it ended up as a longtermer.

Oh i agree a with they are generally longtermer, but not forever!

Censorsh!t

First time I got that feeling, I was reaaaaly drunk. But it was great. I had fancied him for a few months, and it just felt like my head was a new level of dizziness, apart from the alcohol, and I felt like I had all the energy in the world. And now we've being going out almost 8 months.:)

tatabubbly

Got that feeling after we'd been dating, kinda miss-matched around each other.. one night after a concert where sitting outside my friends house for 2 hours talking and then we kissed... it was magical... then i knew...

Happily going out for 1 and half years now

LittleEve

Aw nothing worse that a bad or awkward kiss when you really like someone, that puts me off them (well i try and give the benefit of the doubt for a while in case it was nerves )
A good kiss is great though

mental07

The best kiss I've had was probably also the most meaningless! Which is very strange.

Latchy

What's in a kiss ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmXzWqWsqno

Luisella

Isn't it true that girls are not made to be kissed but to be collected?

Nervous Wreck

Latchy wrote: »

What's in a kiss ?

It!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMYmTSpMp6w

ZzubZzub

I had one of those magical straight outta the movies type kiss. My boyfriend came over to visit me, so had this amazing kiss in the arrivals hall of Stansted and I actually had goosebumps! I felt a little dizzy after
I wouldn't like every kiss like that, as someone already said it would get boring. All his kisses are amazing, but the ones after I haven't seen him in a while are extra phenomenal!

Snowie

i once had this happened and i was really gutted, we where pulling away then she threw me a curve I never saw coming, she did that seductive lip bite thing........

I was not expecting that at all ....

krudler

I love the first kiss with someone, as a general rule I dont like meeting people in nightclubs as a drunk snog means nothing, but meeting someone you like and spending an evening together, then waiting for the chance to kiss is great, Im gonna sound like a big sap now but theres something magical about leaning in and having a great kiss at just the right time, you get that goosebump feeling and the flutters in your stomach

now I have to go do something manly like benchpress a log or something, excuse me..

Twee.

I had amazing kissing chemistry with a guy recently, like wow, every time! It was great. But then our personalities just clashed, didn't work out! Probably the best kissing I've ever had, but sure I wouldn't be telling him that

As above, that first kiss, leaning in, little bit nervous. Great feeling!

misswex

Its such a pity that you didn't get that instant, OMG this is amazing / butterfly tummy thing going on. But as some of the guys have said, maybe ye were both just nervous and maybe you had it built up so much in your head that you didn't just relax and get lost in the moment. I say one more kiss is in order and see then.

Salome

My first kiss with my OH wasn't exactly thunderbolt-city. After several lovely and memorable dates, the chemistry kicked in and we haven't looked back and two and a half years on, it's pretty damn fabulous.....

honey79

My best kiss was with some random fella outside a niteclub
seems a bit strange but after about 10 years still remember it

amacachi

I have to admit that films etc. seem to put a lot on a first kiss and a "spark".

Only once did I ever get that feeling from kissing a girl, and of course it had to be a one-off with her being annoyed because her friend fancied me. :pac: But it was the only time I ever felt that real excitement kissing a girl, like this was something properly good and right and everything else faded away. And then she ran away. :pac:

Dragan

It seems there was too much of an air of expectancy.

You don't tend to get swept of your feet when your mind is sitting there thinking "Right, sweep me off my feet".

allabouteve

Latchy wrote: »

What's in a kiss ?

Bacteria.:)

Latchy

allabouteve wrote: »

Bacteria.:)

Some Bacteria's sweeter than others

LittleEve

Had a nice (but maybe not magical) kiss last night with someone i liked *yay*

Dave147

My first kiss with my current girlfriend was on her 21st birthday on our first date, talk about high expectations.. I had fancied her for about 8 months and finally plucked up the courage to ask her out while I was in America and she accepted We spent two hours of the night flirting and holding hands, at first I wasn't sure what to expect but when she reached out and motioned for my hand I felt butterflies like never before.

We went to a night club and got drinks etc, (there were 4 of us) and I just looked into her eyes and leaned in for the kiss.. I can still remember exactly where it was, the taste of her lips and her chewing gum, and I remember afterwards I was in disbelief I had kissed the girl of my dreams and it was absolutely exhilarating, I was floating for the rest of the night and am very much in love with her 8 months on

banshee_bones

LittleEve wrote: »

Had a nice (but maybe not magical) kiss last night with someone i liked *yay*

OMG! so weird me too!!!! been a verry long time since iv kissed someone iv had a crush on!

battser

I met a girl i used to like a lot in college on sat! She was flirting with me and me with her but a friend of hers who works with me was all over me and I think she ruined my chances in the end. Wanted to kiss her and had high expectations of it! In the end I left without a kiss and no number cause my battery went dead!

It COuld have been magical

Femelade

Me and My boyfriend still talk about our first kiss nearly 3 yrs on.
We had been flirting for a few weeks if we met eachother out, he went for the kiss one night but i was seeing someone else. I finished with the guy i was seeing about 2 days later and was looking forward to seeing him out the following weekend, but he was gone to dublin for a match, was gutted, the following week i met him out, i thought he had lost interest as he didnt seem too keen. turns out he was just nervous and he had actually left his friends and came to the club i was in on his own cos he heard i was there. We ended up getting seperated at the end of the night, still no kiss...decided to go to a house party, my friend who was friends with him rang him and told him to go to the party, so he did (with the guy i had finished with the week before actually) and we finally had our first kiss over the breakfast counter of some strangers house.
It. was. pure. bliss...
Still get flutters in my stomach when i think about it.

Vinny-Chase

First kiss with somone you like has to be one of the best feelings. That nervousness, that "electricity".

I wouldn't discount someone on the basis of a bad first kiss but definitely after a 2nd or 3rd kiss, if you don't find some sort of momentum together, you're probably at nothing.

I don't think I could stay with a girl that was a bad kisser. I still remember the worst kiss I ever had, and that was as a teenager! Even now I still think, what the hell was she thinking?!

honey79

wrote here about my best kiss
well also just had my worst it was awkard clumsy and very disapointing
worse part it was with a very good friend who ive avoided all contact with since

G86

The first kiss is everything for me, if it sucks then its bye bye, you can't create chemistry if its not there to begin with.

There's nothing like the moments before a first kiss

Vinny-Chase

G86 wrote: »

There's nothing like the moments before a first kiss

Here, here

jojobrad

All this talk of kissing just makes me want to kiss someone for a full hour..........like I did when I was 16, ya know when your jaw is killing you and your mouth goes dry but you dont care coz you're in heaven with the guy you've been pining after for months

Vinny-Chase

It has to be accompanied by some friends shouting "Here! Ye Two! Come up for air will ye?!"