is sex overated???

shezzie

dont get me wrong i have a great gorgious partner and the sex is absolutely fantasitc - but just wondering to both male and females here

if you could choose a great looking partner - sexy as hell but not great in bed or a partner who is absolutely dog ugly but great in bed - which would you choose - i am thankful to have a great looking partner who is great to ...

this is just a discussion ...so mods its AH let the discussion begin:):)

4zn76tysfajdxp

There's no place for me in here, but I shall reply regardless. Like a lot of people here too, I'd wager.

orestes

If it's not good, you're not doing it right

yerayeah

The looker.

Gummy Panda

Question: which one would be willing to lie in the damp spot after sex?

StopNotWorking

Ah good god! a hand just came out of the screen and rubbed something really hard in my face!

I always said people who never or dont get it often say its over rated. I never heard of it as over rated though, its fun and all but other stuff is too! Like scrabble.. or boggle..

Tar.Aldarion

SOmebody I love, doesn't matter.

upmeath

Who the hell reckons a good looking partner is more important than a good love life? The sexually abstinent? Nope, even priests place love of God over the devilishly handsome Jesus.

K-9

Some people over rate it and will put up with anything to get it. In those cases, it's over rated, though the problem is them, not sex!

yerayeah

upmeath wrote: »

Who the hell reckons a good looking partner is more important than a good love life? The sexually abstinent? Nope, even priests place love of God over the devilishly handsome Jesus.

Well practice makes perfect so the good looking one would eventually become good in bed but the dog will always be a dog.

Joey the lips

Your daft if you expect a good topical answer to this question. Yes it's over rated I only want it once every 12 years I must be wearing my green socks and the moon must be intersecting with mars.

The way I see it sex and choclate are simular to little you want more to much you get sick and once a week just never seems enough

Local-womanizer

Everybody will see the ugly thing hanging off your arm and laugh,regardless of how good in bed they are wheras people will look on in jealously at the model partner and will just assume they are good in bed.

My advice:Keep an ugly in the closet for sex and the hottie for outside use:pac:

Snowie

your doing something wrong......


wrong hole perhaps

tony1kenobi

Who gives a sh1t about the partner?? I look awesome and I always orgasm...

...OP has to be a woman.....thinking we care?

liah

Sometimes. I'm not sure. I've only really had sex with virgins or while drunk.. that makes me sound really bad, doesn't it?

Anyway, maybe I've just had horrible sex partners, but I tend to prefer kissing to actually doing the deed.

I'm probably just weird, but there's nothing like a good shift.

StopNotWorking

Shift? Is that what they're calling it now?

liah

StopNotWorking wrote: »

Shift? Is that what they're calling it now?

People 'round Mullingar, anyway, no idea about anywhere else, only been using it since I got here.

pikachucheeks

Hmm.

I'd chose the person who was good in bed! If you have a connection like that, there must be an attraction... therefore, they would, in some way, be good looking in your eyes

A-ha!

4zn76tysfajdxp

liah wrote: »

Sometimes. I'm not sure. I've only really had sex with virgins or while drunk.. that makes me sound really bad, doesn't it?

Makes you sound really good if anything...

bronte

In a word...No !

shezzie

tony1kenobi wrote: »

Who gives a sh1t about the partner?? I look awesome and I always orgasm...

...OP has to be a woman.....thinking we care?

me is a woman - just having a discussion - me is lucky to have a good looking guy who is great at it and the rest


and you know you do care cause ya posted - that and your wrist must be very sore all that w***ng you do _ great wrist strap is it - ha ha

Snowie

liah wrote: »

People 'round Mullingar, anyway, no idea about anywhere else, only been using it since I got here.

I like kissing friend :pac:

Professey Chin

THe only people who say sex is over-rated are people who can get it anytime they like but are trying to make people who cant get it feel better.
And to these people I would just like to say, FCUK YOU!!!!!

Fizman

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

THe only people who say sex is over-rated are people who can get it anytime they like but are trying to make people who cant get it feel better.
And to these people I would just like to say, FCUK YOU!!!!!

Or....its people who get absolutely zero sex..........they post the question....hoping to get some negative responses.....somehow making them feel more comfortable in the fact that they are not missing out on much!

Sorry lads, you're missing out!

upmeath

yerayeah wrote: »

Well practice makes perfect so the good looking one would eventually become good in bed but the dog will always be a dog.

Couldn't agree more, but the OP was giving off the vibe that being with someone on the basis of their looks alone was more important than enjoying intimacy with them, and that to me is bullsh!t, I'm not a fly to sh!te!

shezzie

upmeath wrote: »

Couldn't agree more, but the OP was giving off the vibe that being with someone on the basis of their looks alone was more important than enjoying intimacy with them, and that to me is bullsh!t, I'm not a fly to sh!te!

no no no i am asking ye what ye think is more important - cant beat being intimate with someone - i am just lucky i have a great looking partner and am greatly intimate with and the rest - though i am sure there are those who may say he aint great looking to me he is

i am asking your points

Bottle_of_Smoke

Sex is just more enjoyable with a hot girl. No matter how good the ugly one is you're always just going to have more pleasure with an attractive girl.

Don't really see how either is related to is sex overrated.

A better question would be "would you prefer a really hot celibate partner or an unattractive one who has sex with you?"

seanybiker

i was with an ok looking young one for just over 7 years. The sex was crap. Broke up with her and picked up a huge one and it was good. Done another fat one and it was nasty cos she was really fat but wore a thong . That put me off. Now im with a gorgeous young one who has the best personality ever and is bloody great. Im so lucky. I only chatted her up cos me brother told me she was way outta my league. Almost 4 years later and Im still with her.

Tar.Aldarion

She sounds like a lucky lady..

Agent Smith

seanybiker wrote: »

i was with an ok looking young one for just over 7 years. The sex was crap. Broke up with her and picked up a huge one and it was good. Done another fat one and it was nasty cos she was really fat but wore a thong . That put me off. Now im with a gorgeous young one who has the best personality ever and is bloody great. Im so lucky. I only chatted her up cos me brother told me she was way outta my league. Almost 4 years later and Im still with her.

Bleedin rapid....

Gummy Panda

seanybiker wrote: »

Broke up with her and picked up a huge one and it was good. Done another fat one and it was nasty cos she was really fat but wore a thong . That put me off.

LMAO

this gets my vote for post of the day :pac:

JOM34

A ride's a ride n' a joke's a joke...but no ride is no joke!

JOM34

Old school...

aodhank

I need a answer on a gas boiler ?

taken a cold shwoer. might have an answer for your ? later.

sorry for !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

SRFC90

aodhank wrote: »

I need a answer on a gas boiler ?

taken a cold shwoer. might have an answer for your ? later.

sorry for !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

Thank you, so much.

Damo1174

I always thought (and still do) that sex for guys isnt over-rated(not unless shes a virgin or somebody who doesnt know what shes at)

But I think for girls maybe it is overrated. Something small can turn a girl right off and then if its too far into the sex act its hard to stop it and then it just turns out crap for her.

Example: 2 months back me and my girl are building up to the business... just think dry humping.. but anyway ****ing doorbell rings... Im happy to keep going but she completely changed mood and wants to stop. In the end we did end up doing it but I know she didnt enjoy it. And similar things have happend me before with girls... they find out someones looking in the window and straight away they want to stop...

BTW I aint a psychologist so dont start dissing my ideas... if ther wrong just tell me what you think. I dont claim to be an expert so dont attack my ideas.

Gary ITR

If you think sex is overrated you're doing it wrong

seanybiker

Gummy Panda wrote: »

LMAO

this gets my vote for post of the day :pac:

Why thank you my good man . Got in some trouble over it aswell. I was 23 and she just turned 18. Her mother tried to get off with me about a year before that.
She wasnt happy when i got drunk and told her i broke in her daughter. He he.

TestTransmission

liah wrote: »

Sometimes. I'm not sure. I've only really had sex with virgins or while drunk.. that makes me sound really bad, doesn't it?

Anyway, maybe I've just had horrible sex partners, but I tend to prefer kissing to actually doing the deed.

I'm probably just weird, but there's nothing like a good shift.

Yes,you are weird

blinding

Damo1174 wrote: »

I always thought (and still do) that sex for guys isnt over-rated(not unless shes a virgin or somebody who doesnt know what shes at)

But I think for girls maybe it is overrated. Something small can turn a girl right off and then if its too far into the sex act its hard to stop it and then it just turns out crap for her.

Example: 2 months back me and my girl are building up to the business... just think dry humping.. but anyway ****ing doorbell rings... Im happy to keep going but she completely changed mood and wants to stop. In the end we did end up doing it but I know she didnt enjoy it. And similar things have happend me before with girls... they find out someones looking in the window and straight away they want to stop...

BTW I aint a psychologist so dont start dissing my ideas... if ther wrong just tell me what you think. I dont claim to be an expert so dont attack my ideas.

You need to find women that are genuinely interested in dogging and not just wishful thinking on your behalf.

TerrorFirmer

I didn't realise it was possibly to have penis-ache until my current girlfriend...take from that what you will!

Schism

shezzie wrote: »

... i am thankful to have a great looking partner who is great to ...

He's reading this thread isn't he?

No sex isn't over-rated but I can genuinely say that sometimes the 'cuddling option' can be just as good.

joes girls

me likes the cuddlin option....with me fluffy teddy........:)

Wibbs

It's over rated with a crap lover, with a good one it's not. Good looking makes it better.

Damo1174 wrote:

Something small can turn a girl right off

And no one picked up on this? AH for shame, for shame. True though.

Rented Mule

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

your doing something wrong......


wrong hole perhaps

Depends on which end you are at.

themadchef

Looks are what may initially attract you to a partner (if you are not familiar with their personality). What floats your boat may not float theirs though. People have lots of different ideas though of what good sex should be.

I think if there's no physical attraction i dont see how you could end up having good sex. When you're with someone youre attracted to and compatible with, their pleasure is paramount and vice versa.

I'd rather be celibate that shag someone i wasint attracted to.

Over rated? Hell no. With the right man, you think of little else. It's a case of quality, not quantity though.

SoupyNorman

Crap sex is good.

Good sex is great,

and great sex makes me black out.


As was said, if you think it's over rated then you're doing it wrong add/or you're crap.

Hagar

There's nothing as over-rated as bad sex or as under-rated as a good shyte.

joes girls

when i gets me some will come back and post!

Mr. CooL ICE

Damo1174 wrote: »

And similar things have happend me before with girls... they find out someones looking in the window and straight away they want to stop...

Yeah, sorry about that

sam34

imo, no sex is better than crap sex.

but good sex, can never be over-rated