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Whos the most important person in your life?

  • 17-04-2009 9:08pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭


    Who is the person that you could least do without in your life?

    For me it has to be my fiance, followed by my father.

    Shes someone that will go out of her way to do things that serve my best interests, without seeking acknowledgement.

    She thinks of me before herself and when i have a spanner attack because of the preassure ive being under lately she has the calming words and advice i need to get focused again.

    Honestly shes a person i couldnt be without.

    My father seemed to hand over the role to her because during my darkest days when i was hospitalised with depression he was the one single person that kept practically alive

    Whos that person for you? Or are you a a sole warrior, someone who needs nobody?!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Wife and kids - no heisatation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,815 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    Wife ;)( well she is standing behind me looking over my shoulder)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    Sounds like someone just got some anal for the first time - well done big man!.

    :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    snyper wrote: »
    Shes someone that will go out of her way to do things that serve my best interests, without seeking acknowledgement.

    She thinks of me before herself and when i have a spanner attack because of the preassure ive being under lately she has the calming words

    Was she expensive? :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    My girlfriend, no question.
    Shes someone that will go out of her way to do things that serve my best interests, without seeking acknowledgement.

    She thinks of me before herself and when i have a spanner attack because of the preassure ive being under lately she has the calming words

    Is she inflatable? :D;)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    There's no single person really, I'm bit of a lone wolf. There's a few people who are very important-as in I feel I'd be able to turn to them with anything, and I'd help them with anything they came to me with, and I'd be devestated if anything happened to them. But there's no one single person, different people from that group are important to me in different ways.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,700 ✭✭✭✭holly1


    Isuffered from depression years ago,and the person who was there for me and the children was my husband and (thank god)is still there for me,MY ROCK!!.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,024 ✭✭✭Redpunto


    My fiance and 2 kids, i would die and kill for them


  • Posts: 31,118 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Biggins wrote: »
    Wife and kids - no heisatation.
    Same here.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,080 ✭✭✭✭Random


    I am. After all if I'm not right then it's going to affect everyone and everything around me that I interact with.


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  • Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,641 ✭✭✭✭antodeco


    Just my daughter. Without her I dont know where my live would have ended up. She's my everything :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,905 ✭✭✭misty floyd


    Redpunto wrote: »
    My fiance and 2 kids, i would die and kill for them

    when I read this for some reason I left out the word 'for'. Been hanging around after hours for too long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,209 ✭✭✭✭JohnCleary


    My Boat.



    followed by my GF :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 Dundrummer


    My ma


  • Posts: 14,344 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Not sure. Brother and Father probably. I know very few people, all of whom have different roles in my life and help me in different ways. There's no essential person.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,081 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    I's a mess atm. The most important person in my life is me =(

    *cuts self


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    Password.
    Sorry, I mean my godchild Heather and my cousin's son, Shane. Followed closely by their mothers.

    Unconditional love is a great thing and something I really missed after my parents died.
    That has now been replaced by the above.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 747 ✭✭✭all_smilz


    my wonderful bf Noel.......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,591 ✭✭✭✭Aidric


    My dealer.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,815 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    Stella... Hic...............


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,477 ✭✭✭phelixoflaherty


    Hank Williams and Chaka Kahn.
    We are (were) peons in their world


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,753 ✭✭✭fitz0


    galwayrush wrote: »
    Stella... Hic...............
    Better tell the wife to watch out:pac:

    Don't honestly know who, probably myself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,258 ✭✭✭Numina


    Me. Without me, I don't have a life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,815 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    fitz0 wrote: »
    Better tell the wife to watch out:pac:

    Don't honestly know who, probably myself.

    It's ok, she only read page one, i've earned a lot of brownie points already.:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    My grandad. He is actually the coolest person in the whole world. He's gonna be 84 next month and he still drives and stuff. He's brilliant, actually do not know what I'd do without him. He is my best friend and has been since like.... forever!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 444 ✭✭ZzubZzub


    My parents, and my boyfriend. The parents are bascially funding me studying in England, even though mam doesn't work, and Dad is facing redundancy.
    My boyfriend helps out alot too, and always can reassure me when I'm doubting myself and my decisions. He has a very calming effect on me! And when we started going out, I had zero faith in myself, from how I looked to what I can accomplish, mainly due to past influences. He's always there, whenever I need him. Ahhhh young love :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,626 ✭✭✭shezzie


    absolutely the boyfriend just recently engaged and wouldnt be without him- was injured in a car accident a few years ago and he helped me through everthing then to now he does everything for me at home - when i am not well that is - and he never complains - he is my heart my soul my everything - we are best friends / partners and best of the fun stuff - we are very close and complement each other - he makes me wanna be a better person and thats the est compliment i think you can give some one

    of course my family are totally important too - would kill and die for em too


    (sorry if post is abit mushy but its ssssoooooo true - bestest oh):):)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,815 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    Numina wrote: »
    Me. Without me, I don't have a life.

    That makes so much sense after 2 bottles of wine.:cool:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,264 ✭✭✭✭jester77


    Probably my girlfriend,
    and then my wife!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,160 ✭✭✭✭banshee_bones


    another lone wolf here.... no one person but one or two special people i would turn to for any given reason...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    shezzie wrote: »
    absolutely the boyfriend just recently engaged and wouldnt be without him- was injured in a car accident a few years ago and he helped me through everthing then to now he does everything for me at home - when i am not well that is - and he never complains - he is my heart my soul my everything - we are best friends / partners and best of the fun stuff - we are very close and complement each other - he makes me wanna be a better person and thats the est compliment i think you can give some one

    of course my family are totally important too - would kill and die for em too


    (sorry if post is abit mushy but its ssssoooooo true - bestest oh):):)
    Fair play to your boyfriend. They're aren't too many people out there who would do the same.

    I have a cousin who has been sick (back trouble, skin cancer and many more) since the birth of her first child (30 years ago) and her husband has stuck with her all these years.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 85 ✭✭Pete P Peterson


    The leader.

    That last brainwashing was quite thorough.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,716 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    There's no single person really, I'm bit of a lone wolf. There's a few people who are very important-as in I feel I'd be able to turn to them with anything, and I'd help them with anything they came to me with, and I'd be devestated if anything happened to them. But there's no one single person, different people from that group are important to me in different ways.

    Yeah, I agree.

    It's like there's this group of really important people in my life and I don't see the point in choosing favourites. They're all up there and there's quite a lot of them too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 179 ✭✭JessieJames


    cant believe no one said "yore ma" yet lol

    would have to say my bf and a handful of friends :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,043 ✭✭✭Leprachaun


    Myself. Anyone who says the most important person in their life isn't themself is lying. ;)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,815 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    It's not my ****ing bank manager anymore.:mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,821 ✭✭✭RxQueen


    my boyf without a doubt, he has helped me through lots and i care about him heaps :)
    would say more but dont want to embarrass him ha!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 70 ✭✭misssaucie


    Eh probably my puppy...

    Who else would love me enough to lick the freshly applied smelly fake tan off my arms...who else would lick the water off my legs when I get out of the shower...who else jumps for joy when I walk into the house...who else thinks my feet at any stage of any day are worth licking, who else thinks my dirty underwear is just the perfect toy to play with and drag around with him, who else would follow me and want to sit and watch me on the loo.....?????


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,123 ✭✭✭stepbar


    misssaucie wrote: »
    Eh probably my puppy...

    Who else would love me enough to lick the freshly applied smelly fake tan off my arms...who else would lick the water off my legs when I get out of the shower...who else jumps for joy when I walk into the house...who else thinks my feet at any stage of any day are worth licking, who else thinks my dirty underwear is just the perfect toy to play with and drag around with him, who else would follow me and want to sit and watch me on the loo.....?????

    You need a man (or a woman if that's what you like) :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,461 ✭✭✭Queen-Mise


    absolutely has to be my husband. He is a rock and by god has he been battered by so much stuff i have went through.
    My kids i adore but i wouldnt be where i am only for my husband.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    stepbar wrote: »
    You need a man (or a woman if that's what you like) :D

    or both and a camcorder + youtube.

    instant fame


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 70 ✭✭misssaucie


    :D my other half is on the other side of the world at the mo, he's working abroad, the recession has a lot to answer for!!! :( Never thought a puppy would play a such an improtant role in my life... the little sh*t machine is fab company... But you are right, I do need a man, MY man ;) xxx:D
    stepbar wrote: »
    You need a man (or a woman if that's what you like) :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 359 ✭✭jigglywoo


    My Mam.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 779 ✭✭✭papajimsmooth


    Master chief


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,597 ✭✭✭anniehoo


    Being..ahem.. serious in AH it would be my Dad! I really am amazed why people become parents at all, when it takes 25+ years for us to eventually have the craic/appreciation/understand them.

    He wrecks my head, makes me think, laugh,question things, argue until i get a pain in my head but i would be lost without him. Its only recently ive realised how much hes done for me...and hes my friend..probably my best. I have loads of friends, none like my dad who knows instantly when ive had a crap week in work, somethings not right or im just not myself!

    If you have had a child..and they get to my age(29) and your kid still likes you, you've done a feckin good job ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,191 ✭✭✭✭Shanotheslayer


    My Ma:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    my lovely horse


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,716 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    my lovely horse

    Aw, cheers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,487 ✭✭✭banquo


    My hot gf.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,249 ✭✭✭✭Kinetic^


    Same here.

    Hey buddy, that is Biggins' family, go get your own!


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