So, my father died on saturday.

Karl Hungus

He was only 68, and now he's gone. I still don't know how I feel about it, but I'm certainly not feeling good right now. I don't know why I'm posting this here, but I feel it's just something I need to say out in the open. It's very upsetting for my family, and I think I'm more upset for them right now. I'm thankful that I've got friends who are here for me. We'll be burying him on Wednesday morning, and I just don't know how I'm going to cope with that, I'm afraid to be honest, but I am very thankful for all my friends and family who are supporting me right now.

That's all I guess.

MagicMarker

I'm sorry to hear about that man. My condolences.

RIP

cowzerp

Sorry to hear that. R.I.P

Silverfish

So sorry, man.

Don't know what else to say that you won't hear a million times over the next while.

Hagar

Sorry to hear of your loss Karl.

Chong

Sorry for your loss Karl.

Xavi6

Really sorry to hear that mate.

My condolences to you and yours.

watna

Karl - my heart goes out to you, I'm so so sorry to hear that. I know what is said here probably won't make you feel any better but if it helps to talk about your dad and talk about it here than that can only be a good thing.

Zadkiel

You have my deepest sympathies Karl,
I'm sorry for your loss.

RIP

quad_red

Sorry man. RIP.

Go easy on yourself, be open and let your friends be there for you.

Karl Hungus

Thanks to everyone who's posted so far, I do appreciate it.

Quazzie

Sorry to hear that Karl .

My thoughts are with you and your family.

RIP

Fajitas!

Sorry to hear Karl, take care of yourself.

biko

Sorry to hear that KH.

Dancor

Sorry to hear that. Stay strong.

Wibbs

Really sorry for your loss. I know what you mean about not being sure how you're feeling at the moment. I had the same with my father. Numb mixed with being practical is how it was for me. Let others take the weight if and when you need them to.

RIP

Sanjuro

My condolences, man. I lost my own father suddenly this time last year. With the help and support of your family and friends, you will get through this difficult time.

So sorry to hear that karl.. Thoughts go out to ya

Delirium

Sorry to hear about your loss, Karl.

mr_angry

When my fater died, I definitely found that telling people was the hardest part for me. I hope this goes some way to easing the grief for you. My condolences to you and the rest of your family.

spurious

Sorry for your loss.

Sharpshooter

So sorry for your loss,Karl.
Condolences to you and yours.

sweetie

Sorry for your loss, Karl. Been enjoying your movie reviews and posts for a while and you seem like a decent person. Can't imagine what it's like to be in your situation but try and talk and not hold things in.

MonicaBing

I'm so sorry about your loss Karl, my sympathies to you and your family.

forbairt

Very sorry to hear of your loss Karl

I lost my mom 9 years ago today and the only advice I can give you is to talk to your family and remember the good times.

I know it hurts like hell.

Talk with and hang out with your friends just knowing they care can be a great comfort

Gummy Panda

Sorry to hear about your loss karl. Take care of yourself mate.

TequilaMockingBird

I'm sorry Karl. Mind yourself.

gyppo

Sorry for your loss.

gernon

Deepest condolences KH , remember the good times.

gunny

Karl Hungus wrote: »

He was only 68, and now he's gone. I still don't know how I feel about it, but I'm certainly not feeling good right now. I don't know why I'm posting this here, but I feel it's just something I need to say out in the open. It's very upsetting for my family, and I think I'm more upset for them right now. I'm thankful that I've got friends who are here for me. We'll be burying him on Wednesday morning, and I just don't know how I'm going to cope with that, I'm afraid to be honest, but I am very thankful for all my friends and family who are supporting me right now.

That's all I guess.

Im so sorry to hear that Karl. You dont know me but I just logged on this morning and saw your post. My Dad died 3 years ago suddenly after a short illness, he was 79. I know how you feel at the moment and if I could make a suggestion...... sit down and write about your Dad, it will be hard but if you write it all down ( the good & not so good) and read it out on Wednesday so everyone knows how you felt and still feel about him it is a start to getting on with your day to day. Now dont start thinking Im a priest or a shrink, Im a normal guy still trying to get over my Dad, but it helped me . He was my Dad and without really knowing it at the time he was probebly my best friend too though I never went for a pint with him one on one. Talk about him with anyone who will listen..anyone... they dont even have to have known him, you just need to talk, all they have to do is listen. I hope this helps you , I will be thinking of you on Wednesday.

Dingatron

Sorry for your loss.

Tallon

Sorry to hear that man.
My father died there at christmas, still hurts, but hasn't hit me hard yet.
Its good to post your thoughts....stay strong


Talon

dade

sorry for your loss Karl. i lost my father 10 years ago and sometimes it still hurts. don't ever be afraid to talk about him. i was i did it for my mother's sake and it meant that i never dealt with his death for a very long time. it was then I realised i didn't know him that well but i made sure to change that.

he's not gone once you remember him. keep him alive in your heart and he will live forever.

star-pants

*hugs* & love to you and your family
xx

WindSock

My condolences Karl. When I lost my Father 8 years ago it seemed very surreal when it happened and I felt like was on autopilot for a while. I really did draw strength from others around me and it helped to talk to friends who have lost a parent themselves. Just do everything in your own time.

Dolbert

So sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you.

Chad ghostal

Condolences Karl, sorry for your loss.

LouOB

Im sure your father was v proud to have a son like you

Good luck on Wednesday
All our thoughts are with you and your family

frobisher

Thinking of you KH.

My name is URL

Sorry for your loss mate. Although it doesn't seem like it atm, things do get easier in time. Just let yourself grieve and allow those around you to help you.

My thoughts are with you

big b

Very sorry to hear of your loss, Karl.

Little comfort to you now, but, in time, it does get a little less painful.

RIP

6th

Sorry for your loss.
Condolences to you and yours.

Agamemnon

Sorry for your loss, Karl.

chillywilly

truly sorry for you and your familys lose.

Stay positive for your families sake and hopefully things will get better over time.

Dudess

My condolences dude.

Chin up and stay strong but allow yourself those moments to just grieve. Make sure you've got people you can talk to - rant, whatever. You won't fully get over it but you'll come to terms with it. It will just take time. Very best wishes...

Captain-America

Sorry to hear that Karl. He lived a long life, many don't make it to 68. I remember when my Grandfather died, that's what kept my Dad going.

Amazotheamazing

Sorry for your loss Karl, my own father died 10 years ago. It's a very tough thing to go through, I guess because most of us identify our fathers with a figure of security and authority.

Take some time to feel pretty bad about things and let your friends be there for you. In my experience, it's not something you get over, it's something you live with and learn from.

Queen-Mise

My condolences to you and yours.
Mind yourself, remember the good times, laugh and talk about him. Find out all the stories from his friends as him as a young man and what he got upto.

ibarelycare

Very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad when I was quite young. Obviously it's a lot harder when you're older but you're lucky to have had him in your life for as long as you did. Unfortunately he was taken away too soon but cherish all the time you did have together. Take care x

nedoo

Will be thinking of you on Wednesday Dude.

mike65

My condolences to you and your family, as WindSock notes it all feels a bit weird. I was somewhat disconnected from the immediacy of my dads death at 51 as it was just so sudden while my mum wasn't much better for prior warning! Still maybe better that way.

Its your family and friends who'll get you though the choppy seas ahead as you help them do likewise, while you may find that you (esp if you are the elder sibbling) rise to the occassion when all those bits and pieces need dealing with in the weeks and months to come.

I found the time between death and the funerals the hardest part - having to phone family and break news was the hardest thing, then dealing with the funeral directors and then the lull before the service. After that the fog starts to clear and domestic/practical matters come to hand.

Good luck, you'll get there.