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Sexy dancing

  • 16-03-2009 5:54pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 7


    First of all sorry in advance if i am posting this in the wrong place

    My bf's 30th is coming up amd he said he'd love if I did a dance for him.

    I am A little shy and dont know where to start,anyone know of any good website that have video I could watch or any tips Plesae?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,262 ✭✭✭✭Joey the lips


    Sorry I spotted this looking in on something else. I have to say from my perspective. You dont need to do any special dancing just be provoctive with a normal dance and reveal a little at a time. Its the way men in general work. My oh does it and I feel the best part of it is her confidence in believing she is good. Regardless of what she is or does this is a real turn on.

    Do only what you enjoy and make sure your showing your enjoying it and I promise he will love you that bit more


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,497 ✭✭✭✭Dragan


    Bum & Tums wrote: »
    First of all sorry in advance if i am posting this in the wrong place

    My bf's 30th is coming up amd he said he'd love if I did a dance for him.

    I am A little shy and dont know where to start,anyone know of any good website that have video I could watch or any tips Plesae?

    I assume your boyfriend is aware you won't have a lot of experience of that type of thing, that's not why he is asking.

    It's not the technicalities of a good dance he is after, but rather the fact that it's you doing it. That will be what turns him on.

    Don't get caught up in that aspect of it, do what you are comfortable doing because you discomfort will be picked up on by him.

    He is asking you to do this because he finds you sexy and attractive, remember that and enjoy it for yourself as well and i imagine a great time will be had by both of you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,541 ✭✭✭Heisenberg.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 105 ✭✭lorr3


    hi there. try ivillage.com in the love/sex section, its ages since i saw it but a little bit of searching should find it. does a step by step thing. hope it helps:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,796 ✭✭✭MJOR


    Just get some nice underwear too ... that'll make you feel sexy... and will make you look sexy also!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9 MintyLynzey


    i used to be really shy like that, untill about 4 years ago my sister bullied me into goint to a belly dancing class with her. after a week or two my confidence soared. my boyfriend noticed it and it livened thing up in the bedroom. ive done a few dances for him since but i wouldnt do anything your not comfortable with. different pepole have different comfort zones,and if your not comfortable with wat your doing then it'll take away from the dance!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,537 ✭✭✭Gyalist


    Videojug has the answer.


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