Picking up men!?

Cormb

shellyboo wrote: »

That'd be where you're going wrong. You seem confident and assured in your sexual needs - why are you waiting to be chatted up? Do the chatting up yourself.

+1
I agree - from my own experience, a chap would appreciate this (well, I would anyway ).

GiftofGab

Cormb wrote: »

+1
I agree - from my own experience, a chap would appreciate this (well, I would anyway ).

Yeah guys love being chatted up. Girls even if you are shy you don't even have to make it look like your trying to chat them up. Just accidentally bump into them and start a random conversation and act like your only interested in them since you started talking. That way it looks natural. It happened to me a few times and i only ever realize the next day that girl must have purposely approached me.

Liam Byrne

Unregistered wrote: »

walking into pubs (smallish pubs) alone, looking great, tits hanging outta my top, great face and curvey body! seriously,

The "tits hanging outta my top" would put me off, for a start. Great face and curvy body sounds good, but even the way you phrased the other part sounds tacky, let alone visualising it......it sounds like the type of look that most guys would say "would you look at yer wan" but would go back to their match, etc after a few mins gaping.

As stated by others, some men just go for a classier, more sophisticated/understated look.

Unregistered wrote: »

are men just afraid to chat up women?

As asked above - are you afraid to chat THEM up ? They're not chatting you up, and you're not chatting them up, so if you think that that means that they're scared, then it obviously means you are too.

Going into a pub during a match and "feigning interest" is a complete no-no......agree with everything above that chatting up comes second to a match, unless someone is actually interested and ye can talk about it.

Also, still no word as to what "in this city" means.......unless we know which city (and there are 6 in this country) then we can't answer that.

professore

shellyboo wrote: »

Joey the lips wrote: »

I never suggested how she picks up a guy I simply applied a bit of logic. If I like cleaning windows I would be a window cleaner. If I like sex with no meaning I would be a male hooker! simple logic!
No I am dumbfounded that she has a problem finding someone to accomadate.

I apologise if I have offended you shelly and any other women I understand any women like a man wanting NSA sex but if you have 10 women and 10 men you can bet the divide will not be the same.

Sex with no strings does not mean sex with no meaning. Sex with no strings means having sex with someone you like and fancy, just for the sex.

So she's looking for NSA sex that means something to her. From the guys perspective the NSA sex is not different to sex with a hooker except for the ego boost of not having to pay and that she is actually into him. OP if there was a male prostitute you liked and fancied (think 10/10) would you pay for it? A serious question.

silverharp

^^

yiz picking up zombies at this stage

lifeandtimes

professore wrote: »

So she's looking for NSA sex that means something to her. From the guys perspective the NSA sex is not different to sex with a hooker except for the ego boost of not having to pay and that she is actually into him. OP if there was a male prostitute you liked and fancied (think 10/10) would you pay for it? A serious question.

That's male hooker would have aged something teeeible by now and is probably a strong 5 at best,op I hope you got your nsa as waiting this long would have killed me

kylith

shellyboo wrote: »

Hang on a wee minute there... just because a woman wants NSA sex doesn't mean she wants to be a hooker. There's a world of difference between picking up a guy in a bar and a guy picking you up on a street corner or off a website. I know you weren't trying to be offensive, but that's pretty bloody offensive to me!!

Why are you so dumbfounded that a woman could want and enjoy sex for the sake of sex? It's really not all that mad a concept. The OP is certainly not an exceptional case.

She may not want to be a hooker, but if she's hanging around pubs on her own with her tits hanging out it's a fair bet that men assume that she is a hooker.

OP, try the internet. You'll find plenty of guys on Tinder or AFF.

hairyslug

How did you find this thread, it's been dead for 8 years

dudara

Closing this thread due to its age.

@professore - I'm not sure how you managed to dig up this thread, but please pay attention to dates in future so as to avoid resurrecting very old threads.

dudara