what do girlfriends think of their men watching porn?

moretothegirl

just wondering what girlfriends think of their boyfriends watching porn?
i know some people dont mind, and would even watch it with him, but is there anyone who is like me who just hates the thought of him watching other girls and getting turned on by that.
i know many will just say im insecure etc but i just hate the idea of him gettin turned on by other girls, even if its purely physical with no emotional attatchement.

TPD

Epic first post! Take it to Personal Issues

0ubliette

porn is brilliant

marti101

I dont mind tbh sometimes i even watch with him.You should try it you might like it.:D

SoupyNorman

There is no conviction in your post OP. Wheres the heart?

RacoonQueen

Offer to make your own porn with him.

moretothegirl

first time poster here, be gentle!!!

lol i think im just too jealous, cant get past the idea of him thinkin of other girls! if it was just men maybe it would be a dif story lol

jimmycrackcorm

Aren't those movies supposed to be tutorials?

SoupyNorman

mp1972 wrote: »

Offer to make your own porn with him.

The whole point of porn is to escape the mundane plain jane girlfriend/partner you're stuck with.

moretothegirl

mp1972 wrote: »

Offer to make your own porn with him.

hmmmm.... i like the sounds of that

I'd say I watch more than him

who cares tbh

midlandsmissus

I don't mind him watching it at all. But I watched it with him once, and it was a bad idea. What he likes, I just find disgusting. Men like very graphic close up images, which is just a huge turn off for me. women like soft porn. get your own! ann summers do videos tailored to women.

javaboy

Hi moretothegirl. Welcome to Boards. After Hours is probably not the place to get a serious answer to this if it is something really bothering you. I can moved it to the Personal Issues forum if you want.

Do you want me to move it?

Aidric

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Men like very graphic close up images,

Oh yes we do.

deadhead13

In a poll in the Uk 60% of the people surveyed admitted to getting broadband for the porn. Which may, or may not, confirm our long held conviction that our near neighbours are a complete bunch of ********.

marti101

midlandsmissus wrote: »

I don't mind him watching it at all. But I watched it with him once, and it was a bad idea. What he likes, I just find disgusting. Men like very graphic close up images, which is just a huge turn off for me. women like soft porn. get your own! ann summers do videos tailored to women.

Thats not true i like graphic porn.Dont like the girly girly approach at all.Not all women find it a turn off.

moretothegirl

javaboy wrote: »

Hi moretothegirl. Welcome to Boards. After Hours is probably not the place to get a serious answer to this if it is something really bothering you. I can moved it to the Personal Issues forum if you want.

Do you want me to move it?

hi there, i dont mind it staying here as it isnt really something that is bothering me, just wondering what people think about this. but if it is not suited to this board, or you feel it doesnt belong here you can work away, thanks

abi2007

I like watching it and wouldn't have a problem watching it with a boyfriend or knowning he was watching it. I think it's watched more for the act rather than the girls.

PirateShampoo

Just be happy its not man on man hes watching.

Abi

moretothegirl wrote: »

if it was just men maybe it would be a dif story lol

I dont think so. You might have a much bigger problem..

Poccington

Abigayle wrote: »

I dont think so. You might have a much bigger problem..

I was thinking the very same thing :pac:

John Mason

doesnt bother me in the slightest

whats good for gander is good for the goose

abi2007

marti101 wrote: »

Thats not true i like graphic porn.Dont like the girly girly approach at all.Not all women find it a turn off.

I agree

Berty

Women read too much into it anyway by thinking the man is unhappy in the relationship. How sad :rolleyes:

Men do not believe those women are real women. They are fvcking slags. Would we shag them? Hell yeah, but hardly for their personalities or "bring home to the mother" appeal.

Escape from reality really.

JennyAnt

I like porn, whether its with the bf or not! It can lead to some very satisfying nights

Valmont

I can't believe girls like porn! In retrospect, it was naive but I never knew this. *makes note on ideal girlfriend list*

abi2007

Berty wrote: »

Women read too much into it anyway by thinking the man is unhappy in the relationship. How sad :rolleyes:

Men do not believe those women are real women. They are fvcking slags. Would we shag them? Hell yeah, but hardly for their personalities or "bring home to the mother" appeal.

Escape from reality really.

You can be pretty and sweet, perfect to bring home to mammy but also be a little porn star for your boyfriend, as long as your not sleeping around no one has any reason to call you a slag

moretothegirl

JennyAnt wrote: »

I like porn, whether its with the bf or not! It can lead to some very satisfying nights

im ok with porn myself, just dont like the idea of him watchin it!!!!! lol

Abi

Im not wild about it tbph. Now this is just my opinion- its very false / staged / cheesey looking. But Im not disgusted by it, and wouldnt be angry or jealous about a guy watching.

I guess its a cross between boredom and having a full load that makes them watch it. Theres no need to be jealous or insecure, there is no emotion attached to it, that belongs to you.

If you catch him at it, why dont you help him out

abi2007

moretothegirl wrote: »

im ok with porn myself, just dont like the idea of him watchin it!!!!! lol

I doubt he's watching it cause he fancies the girls, more so that he's horny and in the mood of masturbating, it's the same as you masturbating and fantasising except he like's a clearer picture:D

ah porn can be fun.....redtube ftw (don't tell my husband tho :eek:)

abi2007

Deleted User wrote: »

ah porn can be fun.....redtube ftw (don't tell my husband tho :eek:)

ha ha women hiding it from men now:D

Biggins

Deleted User wrote: »

ah porn can be fun.....redtube ftw (don't tell my husband tho :eek:)

Meh pornhub better lol

Faith

I'm perfectly happy for him to look at porn. In fact, I'd love to watch it with him.

My other half only gets p1ssed off when I watch porn with her Mum in it

Prawo Jazdy

moretothegirl wrote: »

just wondering what girlfriends think of their boyfriends watching porn?
i know some people dont mind, and would even watch it with him, but is there anyone who is like me who just hates the thought of him watching other girls and getting turned on by that.
i know many will just say im insecure etc but i just hate the idea of him gettin turned on by other girls, even if its purely physical with no emotional attatchement.

I think a lot of young men and women delude themselves into thinking they are ok with it because it is cool, hip if you will. Bebo styleie!

But the reality is much different.

Inside their heads they start getting issues. Am I fat? Is he bigger than me? Is she better than me?


Can of worms OP.

Unless you are going fishing, I'd leave it well be.

abi2007

Prawo Jazdy wrote: »

I think a lot of young men and women delude themselves into thinking they are ok with it because it is cool, hip if you will. Bebo styleie!

But the reality is much different.

Inside their heads they start getting issues. Am I fat? Is he bigger than me? Is she better than me?


Can of worms OP.

Unless you are going fishing, I'd leave it well be.

that's only people with cofidence issues, I can enjoy porn with out comparing myself to every girl in it.