opinions please!

evogirl

hi everyone... just looking for peoples opinions(guys & gals) on this

would you consider flirting/chattin to members of the oppisite sex online as cheating?
i am in a 18 month relationship with my boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time online chatting up girls.
just wondering what your thoughts on this are..
thanks

AnonoBoy

evogirl wrote: »

hi everyone... just looking for peoples opinions(guys & gals) on this

would you consider flirting/chattin to members of the oppisite sex online as cheating?
i am in a 18 month relationship with my boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time online chatting up girls.
just wondering what your thoughts on this are..
thanks

PI is thataway

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Rob_l

evogirl wrote: »

hi everyone... just looking for peoples opinions(guys & gals) on this

would you consider flirting/chattin to members of the oppisite sex online as cheating?
i am in a 18 month relationship with my boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time online chatting up girls.
just wondering what your thoughts on this are..
thanks

those are not girls there men your boyfriend is gay!
if you need some comfort contact me on 087*******

Adam

depends....what are you wearing?

dSTAR

Maybe she wants the opinion of the great unwashed and not some wannabe agony aunt.

For what its worth a little bit of flirting can actually enhance a relationship but once a certain invisible line has been crossed and it becomes a distinct possibility that something may happen a certain degree of trust has gone out the window.

Ron DMC

Anyone else misread the thread title.

Here ya go!

Mark200

evogirl wrote: »

hi everyone... just looking for peoples opinions(guys & gals) on this

would you consider flirting/chattin to members of the oppisite sex online as cheating?
i am in a 18 month relationship with my boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time online chatting up girls.
just wondering what your thoughts on this are..
thanks

I wouldn't call it "cheating" but more being unfaithful. Not a huge difference, but there is a difference

Kiera

Is he actually flirting? He could just be friendly, like me?

Plug

evogirl wrote: »

hi everyone... just looking for peoples opinions(guys & gals) on this

would you consider flirting/chattin to members of the oppisite sex online as cheating?
i am in a 18 month relationship with my boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time online chatting up girls.
just wondering what your thoughts on this are..
thanks

you can flirt with me if you like. email is in your pm.

javaboy

Rob_l wrote: »

those are not girls there men your boyfriend is gay!

I second that. Everyone knows there are no girls on the internet.

Rob_l

Kiera wrote: »

Is he actually flirting? He could just be friendly, like me?

It stops being "friendly" when you start mailing people your underwear

Doc

javaboy wrote: »

I second that. Everyone knows there are no girls on the internet.

Therefore OP is a man which means they are in gay relationship therefore the original concern is still valid as he is talking to men on the internet (as there are no girls).

biko

evogirl, have a look in Personal Issues forum
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=127
Lots of similar threads there

Plug

Maybe her user name should be emogirl?

javaboy

Rob_l wrote: »

It stops being "friendly" when you start mailing people your underwear

Or when she boils your pet. Damn you Kiera! Fluffy was like one of the family.

javaboy

javaboy wrote: »

I second that. Everyone knows there are no girls on the internet.

Or at least any girls are secretly men. Or any kids are secretly adults

Kiera

Rob_l wrote: »

It stops being "friendly" when you start mailing people your underwear

But he said he just wanted to check the stitching?

javaboy

Deleted User wrote: »

Or at least any girls are secretly men. Or any kids are secretly adults

Internet Rules:

• All men are men
• All women are men
• All kids are FBI agents
• All internet FBI agents are men
• The internet is a sausage fest

Mint Sauce

ah poor girl, first post on boards, makes it in AH, you guys are cruel,

PI that way

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Kiera

javaboy wrote: »

Or when she boils your pet. Damn you Kiera! Fluffy was like one of the family.

But but but...... MEH, dogstew is yum!

Mint Sauce

javaboy wrote: »

Internet Rules:

• All men are men
• All women are men
• All kids are FBI agents
• All internet FBI agents are men
• The internet is a sausage fest

full off men

Kiera

Oh and another thing OP. Subaru's are way better than Evo's!

Radharc na Sleibhte

Ronny Mitchell wrote: »

Anyone else misread the thread title

Yeah.
Could've sworn it said onions.
As a result, this thread disappoints.

Turd Ferguson

This isnt your b/f, is it?

Radharc na Sleibhte

javaboy wrote: »

Or when she boils your pet. Damn you Kiera! Fluffy was like one of the family.

Stewed pussy?

marzic

evogirl wrote: »

hi everyone... just looking for peoples opinions(guys & gals) on this

would you consider flirting/chattin to members of the oppisite sex online as cheating?
i am in a 18 month relationship with my boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time online chatting up girls.
just wondering what your thoughts on this are..
thanks

So, what do you think so far? Can you draw anything from any of the replies?

Nodin

evogirl wrote: »

hi everyone... just looking for peoples opinions(guys & gals) on this

would you consider flirting/chattin to members of the oppisite sex online as cheating?
i am in a 18 month relationship with my boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time online chatting up girls.
just wondering what your thoughts on this are..
thanks

As long as both hands remain on the keyboard or are clearly visible on the desk, you may presume its harmless.

Tigger

she has a thread in pi at the moment




thought you wern';t post cross fora/

any way as i said in pi its pribably a man

evogirl

marzic wrote: »

So, what do you think so far? Can you draw anything from any of the replies?

yeah, getting a lot of good advice here lads. cheers! :D

marzic

Well, look on the bright side, you're up to 2 posts now and all the better for it!

evogirl

Kiera wrote: »

Is he actually flirting? He could just be friendly, like me?

well, id call it flirting. telling them what he'd like to do to em and stuff.
if he was just been 'friendly' i wouldnt mind at all. nothing at all wrong with that

Radharc na Sleibhte

evogirl wrote: »

telling them what he'd like to do to em and stuff.

:D
That ain't flirting......that's fo sho!!!!

Smart Bug

Where the hell are the onions? I want onions, dammit.

AnonoBoy

evogirl wrote: »

well, id call it flirting. telling them what he'd like to do to em and stuff.
if he was just been 'friendly' i wouldnt mind at all. nothing at all wrong with that

Face it your boyfriend is a manwhore.

Time to throw this fishy back me thinks!

marzic

evogirl wrote: »

well, id call it flirting. telling them what he'd like to do to em and stuff.
if he was just been 'friendly' i wouldnt mind at all. nothing at all wrong with that

and what does he want to do to them?

Radharc na Sleibhte

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Face it your boyfriend is a manwhore

+1
Tell him what you'd like to do to him and dump his white ass.

*clicks fingers hmmm hmmm you go sister

evogirl

Smart Bug wrote: »

Where the hell are the onions? I want onions, dammit.

mmmm... me too. onions are less confusing lol

Radharc na Sleibhte

Did the thread title say onions, how can so many people make the same mistake?

Smart Bug

MikeySligo wrote: »

Did the thread title say onions, how can so many people make the same mistake?

Mass hypnosis by a roving band of onions intent on world domination.

Rob_l

evogirl wrote: »

mmmm... me too. onions are less confusing lol

well not really onions can be very confusing all those layers and all and then they make you cry why onion why

marzic

evogirl wrote: »

mmmm... me too. onions are less confusing lol

Actually, this is a good analogy,
*in Dr. Anthony Clare voice, but like his voice when he was alive, not dead, as it would probably be more echo-y, i'd say*
"your BF has, like many men, numerous layers to his personality, similar let us say, to an onion in terms of the layering, but obviously each layer being different that might be where the onion analogy struggles a bit but... sure you know what I mean"

Radharc na Sleibhte

Smart Bug wrote: »

Mass hypnosis by a roving band of onions intent on world domination.

Ha ha sussed Mr Onion.

javaboy

You know what else has layers? Cake!

Radharc na Sleibhte

javaboy wrote: »

You know what else has layers? Cake!

Depends on the cake to be fair.

Smart Bug

marzic wrote: »

Actually, this is a good analogy,
*in Dr. Anthony Clare voice, but like his voice when he was alive, not dead, as it would probably be more echo-y, i'd say*
"your BF has, like many men, numerous layers to his personality, similar let us say, to an onion in terms of the layering, but obviously each layer being different that might be where the onion analogy struggles a bit but... sure you know what I mean"

"your boyfriend is like an onion. He has many layers, makes you cry and burns your throat with his juices"

marzic

Smart Bug wrote: »

"your boyfriend is like an onion. He has many layers, makes you cry and burns your throat with his juices"

Onion analogy still in play, lets keep it going now!

AnonoBoy

MikeySligo wrote: »

Depends on the cake to be fair.

Layer Cake?

Radharc na Sleibhte

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Layer Cake?

:rolleyes: duh, obviously.

evogirl

Smart Bug wrote: »

"your boyfriend is like an onion. He has many layers, makes you cry and burns your throat with his juices"

omg im dating an onion :eek:

Rob_l

evogirl wrote: »

omg im dating an onion :eek:

not a smart move, potataos are more caring, but a lot of women seem to prefer the cucumber most of all!

marzic

evogirl wrote: »

omg im dating an onion :eek:

:eek:well if you ever feel like changing over to a cucumber, give me a shout!;)