Help =[

Broken-Glass

Okay right so im 18 im a guy and i came here cos i always thought well girls get me more and are more understanding so erm ok ive been with my girlfriend for about 4 nearly 5 months my longest ever im very proud of that ok and basically she wants too have sex but i dont and the reason is is cos shes only 14 now i dont want yous calling me a pedo cos keep in mind im not pressuring her i havent asked her she's asked me completly of her own accord but ive heard that like if i did have sex with her id get arrested or sumtin like im not well up on the legal system and stuff so could someone please help x x x x

BKtje

This should really be in PI.

You are 18 which means you are an adult. Unfortunately since your gf is 14 she is still counted as a child.
I'm going to quote the information on the citizens information website.

Defilement of a child aged under 15 years

The Criminal Law (Sexual Offences) Act 2006 makes it a criminal offence to engage or attempt to engage in a sexual act with a child under the age of 15 years. This is what is meant by the term ‘defilement’. The maximum sentence for this offence is life imprisonment.

http://www.citizensinformation.ie/categories/justice/criminal-law/criminal-offences/law_on_sex_offences_in_ireland

Is it worth it? I'm sorry to be so cold but i imagine this is the response you'll get from most.

Broken-Glass

If you read my post like i aint had sex with her or anything ive done nothing with her i wanna wait until its legal like i have kissed her a few times but thats not sexual according too most sites its considered a greeting

Zaph

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