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To convert or not to convert??? How do you know?

  • 04-11-2008 7:36pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭


    I've been thinking a lot lately of whether or not I feel strongly enough about Islam to convert. I have not had the opportunity to talk to many muslims in person and I'm getting really contrasting opinions between the more 'fundamentalist' approach from some and the very liberal approach of others. I still have reservations about some aspects of Islam (stonings and child custody to be specific) But I really do have a great interest in getting to know more about it before making up my mind.

    The only real problem is the fact that I have a very, very Catholic mother who will no doubt be extremely upset and annoyed and also the fact that I will be going to the US for a year in college (which may or may not cause issues....)

    I would be very grateful if anyone has any advice


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    Well, it's simple really... do you actually believe in a God? You just have to basically question yourself about the core issues before diving into the things you find abhorrent. Every Messenger came with the same basic message: 'Believe in God and follow me.' Be good towards humans, try to fight for injustice (not physically of course), be rational in dealing with those who are intolerant/strict, ask only Allah for forgiveness (when you've harmed anybody or your conscious annoys you), and try to always increase your knowledge (scientifically, theologically & psychologically) bit by bit as you grow older.

    Islam doesn't have to be a huge label (in fact in your heart is the true belief and intentions of following what Allah requires of us sincerely). Don't look for controversial issues and focus on them, trust me, I've never really encountered them in my lifestyle. Your mother will be happy as long as you don't do anything crazy (like going for Jihad!)

    Let the core belief enter your heart, and ask the scholars or knowledgeable people for advice on other issues. Don't let it affect your lifestyle (if you don't want to). Salam...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,892 ✭✭✭ChocolateSauce


    The question is do you believe that God spoke to an illiterate Arabian business man through an archangel and revealed to him his final and unalterable word, to be literally believed as law.

    If not, don't convert.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Agathon wrote: »
    Well, it's simple really... do you actually believe in a God? You just have to basically question yourself about the core issues before diving into the things you find abhorrent. Every Messenger came with the same basic message: 'Believe in God and follow me.' Be good towards humans, try to fight for injustice (not physically of course), be rational in dealing with those who are intolerant/strict, ask only Allah for forgiveness (when you've harmed anybody or your conscious annoys you), and try to always increase your knowledge (scientifically, theologically & psychologically) bit by bit as you grow older.

    Islam doesn't have to be a huge label (in fact in your heart is the true belief and intentions of following what Allah requires of us sincerely). Don't look for controversial issues and focus on them, trust me, I've never really encountered them in my lifestyle. Your mother will be happy as long as you don't do anything crazy (like going for Jihad!)

    Let the core belief enter your heart, and ask the scholars or knowledgeable people for advice on other issues. Don't let it affect your lifestyle (if you don't want to). Salam...

    Brilliant post, it was very helpful!
    I think I will continue to live as you said, and if I still feel strongly about Islam next year, I will consider converting
    Shukran jazeelan!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,418 ✭✭✭JimiTime


    Jannah wrote: »
    I've been thinking a lot lately of whether or not I feel strongly enough about Islam to convert. I have not had the opportunity to talk to many muslims in person and I'm getting really contrasting opinions between the more 'fundamentalist' approach from some and the very liberal approach of others. I still have reservations about some aspects of Islam (stonings and child custody to be specific) But I really do have a great interest in getting to know more about it before making up my mind.

    The only real problem is the fact that I have a very, very Catholic mother who will no doubt be extremely upset and annoyed and also the fact that I will be going to the US for a year in college (which may or may not cause issues....)

    I would be very grateful if anyone has any advice

    Not looking to argue with you here btw. Just curious. What is it that attracts you to Islam? Also, I'd love your insights into the question I asked Here

    You can pretty much ignore the 1st page, as a couple of wallies were spouting:) Be interesting to see your reasonings though, as obviously you are at a stage where you see the evidence for the truth in Muhammads claims etc.
    Thanks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Ooh I saw that thread- it is actually a really great question to ask anyone who is particularly taken by Islam's message. The main reasons I am interested in Islam are:

    * I believe in the oneness of God, rather than the Catholic belief of there being a Trinity, especially the idea that God has a son
    * The Islamic morals appeal to me- modesty of women, not drinking and being constantly aware of God's presence in my life with 5 daily prayers
    * I believe Islam is a religion that is very fair to women (despite what some may say) and that it wants to protect them by means of hijab and treat them as equals, if not raise them to a higher degree because of their roles as mothers and life givers, while still realising that to treat people equally, sometimes people need to be treated differently
    * I agree with the Islamic beliefs on abortion (that it is wrong) and also contraception (that once it isn't destroying a life that is already formed, it is allowed)
    * Benazir Bhutto and her views on Islam have completely changed my perceptions of it and made me realise how it really does work
    * I like the message that one should read the Qur'an and Hadith and always strive to seek knowledge, regardless of who they are
    * I strongly agree with the giving of charity money (zakaat) as a vital part of religion

    As far as Muhammad is concerned, I do believe he is a prophet because of his ability to recite something so amazingly inspired, despite being an illiterate camel driver- it really is a miracle.

    I suppose I'm turning to Islam for the same reasons that many people turn to religions- because they seek something higher than what they have and feel that it will improve their lives to live according to something they strongly believe in


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    The question is do you believe that God spoke to an illiterate Arabian business man through an archangel and revealed to him his final and unalterable word, to be literally believed as law.
    If not, don't convert.

    Go into the 'Why do you believe Muhammed' thread and read post #30 - Evidence in the Qur'an that it was from a Higher Power. It's probably a bit too long for you; I have a feeling you're not the reading type...

    The main reasons I am interested in Islam are:

    * I believe in the oneness of God, rather than the Catholic belief of there being a Trinity, especially the idea that God has a son
    * The Islamic morals appeal to me- modesty of women, not drinking and being constantly aware of God's presence in my life with 5 daily prayers
    * I believe Islam is a religion that is very fair to women (despite what some may say) and that it wants to protect them by means of hijab and treat them as equals, if not raise them to a higher degree because of their roles as mothers and life givers, while still realising that to treat people equally, sometimes people need to be treated differently
    * I agree with the Islamic beliefs on abortion (that it is wrong) and also contraception (that once it isn't destroying a life that is already formed, it is allowed)
    * Benazir Bhutto and her views on Islam have completely changed my perceptions of it and made me realise how it really does work
    * I like the message that one should read the Qur'an and Hadith and always strive to seek knowledge, regardless of who they are
    * I strongly agree with the giving of charity money (zakaat) as a vital part of religion

    As far as Muhammad is concerned, I do believe he is a prophet because of his ability to recite something so amazingly inspired, despite being an illiterate camel driver- it really is a miracle.

    I suppose I'm turning to Islam for the same reasons that many people turn to religions- because they seek something higher than what they have and feel that it will improve their lives to live according to something they strongly believe in
    I have to admit, from reading some of the posts in this forum, this is one of the most genuine pieces of text here, and may Allah continue to Guide you for that reasoning. It makes me want to actually go out and buy Benazir Bhutto's biography.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Agathon wrote: »
    I have to admit, from reading some of the posts in this forum, this is one of the most genuine pieces of text here, and may Allah continue to Guide you for that reasoning. It makes me want to actually go out and buy Benazir Bhutto's biography.

    Do!! It's a really brilliant book- completely changed my opinion on Islam and cleared up lots of misconceptions I had, it's called "Reconciliation: Islam, Democracy and the West". I gave it to a Muslim in my year but regretably he dismissed it, saying that 'Democracy and Islam are incompatable' when if he had only read it he would have realised that he was completely mistaken. He even went so far as to excuse for murderers- absolutly shocking... a part of the book describes how the same group who killed her had strapped explosives to a baby and held the child up towards he at a rally for her to hold when she was whisked away and it exploded.
    http://sayanythingblog.com/entry/bhutto_confirms_that_the_bomb_meant_for_her_was_strapped_to_a_baby/


    Thankfully the vast majority of Muslims have absolutely nothing to do with this kind of behaviour- a particular video that is really sweet and I feel depicts Islamic family life well is:
    http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=KZ513u6zldE

    Thank you for your good wishes, Agathon!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    Jannah wrote: »
    http://sayanythingblog.com/entry/bhutto_confirms_that_the_bomb_meant_for_her_was_strapped_to_a_baby/


    Thankfully the vast majority of Muslims have absolutely nothing to do with this kind of behaviour...

    There's a lot people who are born in these countries and end up worse than animals. Ignorance reigns in this part of the world. Even at the time of Prophet Muhammed (p) they were the worst people (barbaric, ignorant, uneducated). Islam came to take them out of the darkness into the light (educate them, give them morals, discipline them); but it looks like the days of ignorance are coming back and they're going back to their roots. If people follow true Islam as brought by the Prophet (p) there would be peace & harmony (the root of terrorism is not religion - it's occupation); I think this fuels the minds of these vengeful, ignorant souls.

    I'm actually from Libya (also a chaotic, pariah state, under dictatorship), but have been living in Ireland for over 20 years. I don't think there is one true Islamic country on this planet even though many people demonize Islam. Saudi Arabia and the like are still a bit corrupt & ignorant compared to the early predeccessors. There's hope yet insha-Allah for peace & harmony. We just have to try our best to be the best humans we can; & perfect our character, if Allah wills...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Agathon wrote: »
    it looks like the days of ignorance are coming back and they're going back to their roots... (the root of terrorism is not religion - it's occupation); I think this fuels the minds of these vengeful, ignorant souls...
    Its sad to see people taking their religion to the extreme and using it as an excuse to commit terrorism, but it is worth noting that terrorism appears to be a response to feelings of having had a great injustice committed against them or their people. While sometimes this apparent 'injustice' is simply in their head, there really are terrible things happening to Muslims and they don't receive half as much media coverage as they would if they happened in the west- http://edition.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/10/27/syria.iraq/index.html
    Lets face it, if a bunch of Syrians killed American women and children, there would be a lot more publicity and outrage than there is in this case. Not to condone the acts of terrorism, but events like this really so make their anger somewhat understandable


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    Jannah,
    I actually wrote an article about this on my blog web site: http://islamic-empire.blogspot.com

    It's under the Feature Article: Taliban & Al Qaeda.
    I also recommend some books in that blog.

    When thinking about Islam, always keep in mind that the the Prophet (p) was the best example (he never hit his wives, he always helped in the house duties, he was always kind to everybody regardless of their beliefs, he was always smiling around people regardless of his state of mind, he was the most perfect human being). We must use this as our role model. We shouldn't let vengeance blind us; we shouldn't let our anger change us; we shouldn't let our hatred destroy us... No matter what anybody says, Islam is getting stronger by the day.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    Jannah wrote: »
    As far as Muhammad is concerned, I do believe he is a prophet because of his ability to recite something so amazingly inspired, despite being an illiterate camel driver- it really is a miracle.

    I was very impresseed with this until I read the Islam section of "God is not Great" (Christopher Hitchens)
    I'm not going to elaborate on this forum, up to yourself if you want to read it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    I was very impresseed with this until I read the Islam section of "God is not Great" (Christopher Hitchens)
    I'm not going to elaborate on this forum, up to yourself if you want to read it.

    I wonder how many centuries that book will last?!??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Just got back from London and I must say it gave me a completely different view of Islam- its SO strange to be in a region where Islam is so openly accepted and quite the norm. I'd only ever met a few unsavoury Muslims, but there I met really, really genuinely lovely people. Definitely a great experience to go somewhere that Islam wasn't looked on as something so foreign


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27 Jari


    Looking at your posts on questioning if now is the time to convert or do you wait a year while thinking about it. You just need to believe that Allah is the one true god and that Muhammed is his prophet, as a catholic (assumption I am making as you mentioned your mum is) you will of course be familiar with Jesus whom all muslims believe was also an important prophet. The message the prophets have given us has not changed just look to the Quran for the last and final message from Allah that corrects and completes all earlier ones.

    I am a revert and I too spent time wondering and questioning and it is very important that you do so. When I decided to revert I was still questioning but I knew that could go on forever and I had the basic tenets and knew that this was the correct path. Once I had said Shahada an unbelieveable peace descended on me it was truly fantastic and the only thing I was sad about was the time I had wasted when I could have been a muslim maybe a few years earlier.

    My parents are also strict Catholics and it took a while for them to come around but Alhumdurillah they have. The hardest thing for them to accept was the hijab which I have been wearing for 6 years now and I find that the thing that I thought would be the hardest has actually made the whole process complete. I am not a fundamentalist and would question is meant by strict as if you truly believe and follow the path you will find it easy and so rewarding. The overriding impression I have of Islam now is of peace and sisterhood.

    You should check out your local mosque they have may a halaqa there that you could go to meet other reverts and born muslims and you could also learn more about Islam.

    So Insh'Allah it is made easy for you

    Salama

    A friend of Jari


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,892 ✭✭✭ChocolateSauce


    Muhammad the perfect person? Forgive me if I do not agree. Someone who brings his religion to others by conquering their homes is a bad person.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 605 ✭✭✭aliqueenb


    oh god why would anyone:confused:
    stonings
    women no rights
    my brain hurts too much when i think about it im sorry seems ludicrous


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    Muhammad the perfect person? Forgive me if I do not agree. Someone who brings his religion to others by conquering their homes is a bad person.
    who cares if you don't agree. You're a nobody.
    The best historians and writers have voted him as the greatest man:
    http://www.scribd.com/doc/7986099/Muhammed-the-Greatest


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Wow, it's great to get a revert's perspective on Islam- can I ask you, if you found people who were formerly your friends began to treat you differently/ was it a very drastic life change/ what drew you to Islam? Thank you for any information- its very much appreciated!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,835 ✭✭✭Schuhart


    Agathon wrote: »
    who cares if you don't agree. You're a nobody.
    The best historians and writers have voted him as the greatest man:
    http://www.scribd.com/doc/7986099/Muhammed-the-Greatest
    Who is Michael H Hart and why should we be particularly influenced by him?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,892 ✭✭✭ChocolateSauce


    Agathon wrote: »
    who cares if you don't agree. You're a nobody.
    The best historians and writers have voted him as the greatest man:
    http://www.scribd.com/doc/7986099/Muhammed-the-Greatest


    The best by what measure? And supposing for a minute that they are the best, they'd still be wrong. Now, I'm obviously incorrect because I don't have god on my side, but I find the very thought of spreading religion by the sword to be an abhorrent, disgusting and immoral rape of the human species which not only destroys the moral credibility of the religion in question, but also putrifies into a shameful and anathemic joke, the character of the person who started that religion.

    Clearly you don't, but you're in a minority and I personally think you're wrong.

    I think the person with the single greatest contribution to humanity is impossible to name, but I would suggest it is probably a great scientist, politician or philosopher who has lived in the last 250 years.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27 Jari


    In response to the following questions:

    if you found people who were formerly your friends began to treat you differently
    Not really - as I mentioned before I did not start wearing hijab straight away so I was able to tell people before there were any visible signs. And I am of course talking about friends and not just acquaintances. The majority were more interested in asking questions about Islam and why rather than treating me differently.

    was it a very drastic life change

    No it was a gradual change, I did not wake up the morning I became muslim and suddenly knew all the requirements and also I did not wear hijab straight away. The most important thing was to learn to pray and this took a couple of weeks to learn the required quaranic verses to start me off. I kept reading and researching and as I learnt more I was able to become a better muslim. Also I did my first fast for Ramadam that year and it was the most fantastic experience of my life.

    what drew you to Islam?

    There was so many things, the peaceful and beautiful message contained in the Quran, its logic and unchanging ways; I was a bit fed up of changes that happened if the Vatican decided to make an amendment to something (e.g limbo was eliminated) and also I began to question a lot of things and the answers were always there in the Quran . Any muslim I spoke to seemed so knowledgeable and always seemed to know if I had an issue I needed clarifed.


    Insh'Allah you will also be guided to the right path. Keep on asking questions and you too will find the answers you require.

    A friend of Jari.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    The best by what measure? And supposing for a minute that they are the best, they'd still be wrong. Now, I'm obviously incorrect because I don't have god on my side, but I find the very thought of spreading religion by the sword to be an abhorrent, disgusting and immoral rape of the human species which not only destroys the moral credibility of the religion in question, but also putrifies into a shameful and anathemic joke, the character of the person who started that religion.
    Do you have any credible evidence to back-up your claims or are you just waffling your views here?!? I don't know what this has got to do with the subject matter (Jannah was looking for Muslims to answer questions not Athesits hijacking an Islamic forum!)
    Clearly you don't, but you're in a minority and I personally think you're wrong.
    I'm in a minority!!! (there's only 1.2 billion Muslims; and how many Atheists??) --Still you're right and everybody else is wrong, brainwashed & had a sword up against their throats...
    I think the person with the single greatest contribution to humanity is impossible to name, but I would suggest it is probably a great scientist, politician or philosopher who has lived in the last 250 years.
    Again, everybody has their own views. At least come with a logic for your conclusions and back it up with some good references.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,835 ✭✭✭Schuhart


    Agathon wrote: »
    (Jannah was looking for Muslims to answer questions not Athesits hijacking an Islamic forum!)

    I'm in a minority!!! (there's only 1.2 billion Muslims; and how many Atheists??) --Still you're right and everybody else is wrong, brainwashed & had a sword up against their throats...

    Again, everybody has their own views. At least come with a logic for your conclusions and back it up with some good references.
    You have a point, but to be honest I’m more responding to some rather shallow ‘evidence’ you are putting forward. I’ve no especial interest in whether Jannah converts or not, even if she is fulfilling a prediction I made several months ago. How’s that for a scientific miracle?

    In particular, using someone’s “100 Most Influential People” list as backing for a religious faith seems quite strange. I wonder if you’ve really considered what you are saying here. I mean, even if we accept this list as more than just someone’s opinion, we are left with the factoid that Mohammed gets first place in a list that includes Adolf Hitler (39th) and Joe Stalin (66th).

    If being placed on this list is meant to have some significance for validating religious opinions, you might note that 6% of people on that list are atheists, but only 2% are Muslims. I don’t think that statistic has any significance at all – but this is your list that you are advancing as having merit. And, by your standard of merit the 1 billion atheists and agnostics in the world seem to have triple the influential merit of the 1 billion Muslims.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    Schuhart wrote: »
    That single statement is enough to suggest that you've an eagerness to be deluded, because what he's peddling is plausable triteness ... That said, all I've done is made a prediction. Clearly if that prediction comes to pass, my case is made. If it doesn't, then my hypothesis will be demonstrated to be wrong. I'll give you twelve months. If you're agnostic at the end of that period, my reasoning skills will be demonstrated to have made a considerable error.How’s that for a scientific miracle?
    That's the stupidest thing you could say to somebody. It's like me waffling my views and saying, I'll give you twelve months to think about it and revert to Islam or else I'm right and you're wrong!!
    In particular, using someone’s “100 Most Influential People” list as backing for a religious faith seems quite strange. I wonder if you’ve really considered what you are saying here. I mean, even if we accept this list as more than just someone’s opinion, we are left with the factoid that Mohammed gets first place in a list that includes Adolf Hitler (39th) and Joe Stalin (66th).
    At least the man has a good logic of who to put on the list, if you've even read the book. Unlike your logic, which is?!?
    If being placed on this list is meant to have some significance for validating religious opinions, you might note that 6% of people on that list are atheists, but only 2% are Muslims.
    I suppose Hitler and Stalin are in that 6%...
    I don’t think that statistic has any significance at all – but this is your list that you are advancing as having merit. And, by your standard of merit the 1 billion atheists and agnostics in the world seem to have triple the influential merit of the 1 billion Muslims.
    Where did you get that number (1 billion Atheists/Agnostics!?!) you seem to exaggerate and waffle a lot ... There are over a billion Christians, over a billion Muslims, over a billion hindu's/polytheists/etc., not to mention the millions of jews, other cults and sects (pagans, buddhists, scientologists, mormons, etc.) Where did you get your figures from about the 1 billion Atheists. You're also wrong about the influence: It's mainly Catholicism, Judaism, and agnostics (who are tolerant and don't hate religions as you do)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17 rocksteady


    Agathon wrote: »
    At least the man has a good logic of who to put on the list, if you've even read the book. Unlike your logic, which is?!?

    I am very wary of a list of 100 most influential people that has Beethoven ahead of Max Planck, Ernest Rutherford, Erwin Schrodinger, Charles Babbage etc.
    Agathon wrote: »
    I suppose Hitler and Stalin are in that 6%...

    And? You do realise that its a list of the most influential people in history, not the nicest. You do realise that the reason Muhammad is first is not because he was a great religious leader, but because he was also a great miltary/political leader and conquerer.
    Prophet of Islam; conqueror of Arabia; Hart recognized that ranking Muhammad first might be controversial, but felt that, from a secular historian's perspective, this was the correct choice because Muhammad is the only man to have been both a founder of a major world religion and a major military/political leader
    Strange that a divinely inspired prophet needed to conquer quite so many people


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,892 ✭✭✭ChocolateSauce


    Agathon wrote: »
    Do you have any credible evidence to back-up your claims or are you just waffling your views here?!? I don't know what this has got to do with the subject matter (Jannah was looking for Muslims to answer questions not Athesits hijacking an Islamic forum!)

    I find it very rich that someone who cannot tell the difference between an opinion and a fact is lecturing a scientist on evidence.
    I'm in a minority!!! (there's only 1.2 billion Muslims; and how many Atheists??) --Still you're right and everybody else is wrong, brainwashed & had a sword up against their throats...

    By minority, I meant only a minority of people think it is ok to spread religion by the sword (though on another note, there are a billion Catholics...but how many are actually Catholic? How many "Catholics" are in fact atheists? Same goes for Muslims; it's easy to rattle off a large number without considering that not all of them will actually be Muslims). Since you asked, it appears that somewhere between 500,000,000-1,000,000,000 people are, broadly speaking, non-religious (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_atheism). Not only is it well documented that Islam was spread by the sword (it created the Umayyad Caliphate, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Umayyad), the Koran actually promotes its spread by the sword if nessessary.

    Quran Surah 2: The Cow
    ""Give us victory over the disbelieving folk." 286
    "War is ordained by Allah." 216
    "Kill disbelievers wherever you find them. If they attack you, then kil them. Such is the reward of disbelievers." 191

    http://www.faithfreedom.org/Quran.htm

    This website collects hundreds of Koran verses which promote war, violence and death to non-muslims.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,835 ✭✭✭Schuhart


    Agathon wrote: »
    That's the stupidest thing you could say to somebody. It's like me waffling my views and saying, I'll give you twelve months to think about it and revert to Islam or else I'm right and you're wrong!!
    Except that’s not actually what I said. But that’s a matter more appropriate to another forum.
    Agathon wrote: »
    At least the man has a good logic of who to put on the list, if you've even read the book. Unlike your logic, which is?!?
    I don’t actually follow what point you are making here.
    Agathon wrote: »
    I suppose Hitler and Stalin are in that 6%...
    Stalin is there, but Hitler isn’t. Seems that he believed in God.

    The 6 atheists on the list are Karl Marx, Simon Bolivar, Joe Stalin, Sigmund Freud, Vladimir Lenin and Mao Zedong. What you’ll notice is the link to Marxism that atheists like to draw a discrete veil over.

    The two Muslims are Mohammed and Umar ibn al-Khattab, the Caliph who’s conquests made the Islamic Empire secure.

    Personally, I think he should have given the second slot to Uthman, the guy who was clever enough to compile an authoritative version of the Quran and destroy all the competing versions.

    But that really just shows how these lists are entirely subjective, and not the kind of thing you’d expect people to be putting a lot of reliance upon.
    Agathon wrote: »
    Where did you get your figures from about the 1 billion Atheists.
    I got them here, and I said ‘atheists and agnostics’.
    Major Religions of the World
    Ranked by Number of Adherents

    (Sizes shown are approximate estimates, and are here mainly for the purpose of ordering the groups, not providing a definitive number. This list is sociological/statistical in perspective.)

    1. Christianity: 2.1 billion
    2. Islam: 1.5 billion
    3. Secular/Nonreligious/Agnostic/Atheist: 1.1 billion
    ………
    Of course, per capita, your list shows that Jews were more influential than either Atheists and Agnostics or Muslims, taking up 7% of the places. Pretty good for a religion with only 14 million adherents. God must have chosen them, or something.
    Agathon wrote: »
    You're also wrong about the influence: It's mainly Catholicism, Judaism, and agnostics (who are tolerant and don't hate religions as you do)
    My actual point was simply that your list showed up three times more influential atheists than Muslims. I said nothing one way or the other about the fact that Christians account for 75% of the people on the list that you are advancing as evidence of Mohammed’s good standing.
    rocksteady wrote: »
    You do realise that its a list of the most influential people in history, not the nicest. You do realise that the reason Muhammad is first is not because he was a great religious leader, but because he was also a great miltary/political leader and conquerer.
    I think he’s starting to realise it, but hasn’t yet come to the point where he realises that if you are in a hole you should stop digging.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,255 ✭✭✭getz


    first read the small print [the bit they dont tell you about]


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 95 ✭✭merrionsq


    Jannah, what would your Muslim friends say if you told them you knew a Muslim who wanted to convert to another religion? You could apply their arguements to your own situation.

    Also, depending on who you know and where you live, this could be your last chance (ever) to change your religion: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apostasy_in_Islam


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭Agathon


    merrionsq wrote: »
    Jannah, what would your Muslim friends say if you told them you knew a Muslim who wanted to convert to another religion? You could apply their arguements to your own situation.

    Also, depending on who you know and where you live, this could be your last chance (ever) to change your religion: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apostasy_in_Islam
    It's amazing how much people hate religion. I've got about 5 atheists ganging up on me here from freedomfighters.com or whatever web site they're on mission from. I don't know if these people are actually trying to find answers or just attacking for the fun of it?!

    The Islamic System is actually too complex for simple-minded atheists. You have to study it properly from the basics. If you don't understand the basic concept of a Creator, then why go onto other subjects which are way above your heads. Your assumptions and research lead to your world view. It's good to see that you've found a great world view (without the slightest bit of evidence) but every man for himself. No matter how much you try to explain things to you idiots it seems like you just keep bringing more questions from your atheist web sites. I've finished arguing here. good luck!! Jannah, the best example of Islam is in the people (travel to the Muslim lands) and take your time making up your mind.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,835 ✭✭✭Schuhart


    Agathon wrote: »
    I don't know if these people are actually trying to find answers or just attacking for the fun of it?!
    To be honest, I haven't a clue why I'm posting here either.

    But I'm pretty certain I'm not seeking answers. Its more that I'm expressing concern at what you seem to think constitutes an answer.
    Agathon wrote: »
    Your assumptions and research lead to your world view.
    Jean Paul Sartre couldn't have put it better. Clearly we agree that reality is partly something we create in our heads.
    Agathon wrote: »
    No matter how much you try to explain things to you idiots it seems like you just keep bringing more questions from your atheist web sites.
    Speaking for myself, what actually happens is I post reasonable material providing answers to your question. I then wonder who you think you are fooling when you respond as if that material did not exist.
    Agathon wrote: »
    I've finished arguing here. good luck!!
    Finally, you stop digging.
    Agathon wrote: »
    Jannah, the best example of Islam is in the people (travel to the Muslim lands) and take your time making up your mind.
    In fairness, here you actually do talk sense. What's important is how and with whom a person feels they can live. Jannah's mother doesn't have to lead Jannah's life. Jannah does. If Jannah finds the people currently around her don't gell with her, indeed she should search further. If she find a community who share her outlook, then why not join up with them? You'd be mad to spend your life with people you just don't want to be with.

    The only rational advice is exactly what you've just said. Just as with any major decision, do your due diligence. That has more to do with getting to know the people you think you might be more at home with than reading whatever random holy book they happen to be reading.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,892 ✭✭✭ChocolateSauce


    Agathon, I've spoken strongly against religion and Mohammad, but I have not attacked Muslims or yourself because I believe in showing respect to people with whom I disagree. You lower yourself by hurling insults at us.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 95 ✭✭merrionsq


    Agathon wrote: »
    It's amazing how much people hate religion. I've got about 5 atheists ganging up on me here from freedomfighters.com or whatever web site they're on mission from. I don't know if these people are actually trying to find answers or just attacking for the fun of it?!

    The Islamic System is actually too complex for simple-minded atheists.

    I'm not an atheist. Your presumptuous intolerance speaks volumes about yourself. And gives a bad name to beliefs you promote.

    Is it not an interesting comparison between those who join a religion and those who try to leave it? Then also compare it to how this occurs in other religions. This would certainly be of interest to me if I ever was changing my beliefs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,809 ✭✭✭CerebralCortex


    Agathon wrote: »
    It's amazing how much people hate religion. I've got about 5 atheists ganging up on me here from freedomfighters.com or whatever web site they're on mission from. I don't know if these people are actually trying to find answers or just attacking for the fun of it?!

    The Islamic System is actually too complex for simple-minded atheists. You have to study it properly from the basics. If you don't understand the basic concept of a Creator, then why go onto other subjects which are way above your heads. Your assumptions and research lead to your world view. It's good to see that you've found a great world view (without the slightest bit of evidence) but every man for himself. No matter how much you try to explain things to you idiots it seems like you just keep bringing more questions from your atheist web sites. I've finished arguing here. good luck!! Jannah, the best example of Islam is in the people (travel to the Muslim lands) and take your time making up your mind.

    I'm not simple minded or an idiot.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,412 ✭✭✭oceanclub


    Agathon wrote: »
    I wonder how many centuries that book will last?!??

    Umm, if longevity is a sign of truth, then why aren't you Hindu?

    P.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    aliqueenb wrote: »
    oh god why would anyone:confused:
    stonings
    women no rights
    my brain hurts too much when i think about it im sorry seems ludicrous
    Obviously too much watching the media and too little reading unbiased books
    Agathon wrote: »
    That's the stupidest thing you could say to somebody. It's like me waffling my views and saying, I'll give you twelve months to think about it and revert to Islam or else I'm right and you're wrong!!
    You're right- it was a pretty stupid prediction for that dude to make- not in that he may/may not be right, but for the fact that he was so pompous as to believe that he knows better than me in how I choose to live my life. But really, I wouldn't give his stupidity too much thought- let him delude himself with his own self importance


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭ironingbored


    Jannah wrote: »
    Obviously too much watching the media and too little reading unbiased books

    Yeah, like the quran and the bible! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,835 ✭✭✭Schuhart


    Jannah wrote: »
    You're right- it was a pretty stupid prediction for that dude to make- not in that he may/may not be right, but for the fact that he was so pompous as to believe that he knows better than me in how I choose to live my life.
    In fairness, I think this is a little confused. A valid prediction is a valid prediction. Sorry about that, but what you are saying amounts to 'he's right, but I wish he hadn't had the bad grace to actually say it'.
    Jannah wrote: »
    But really, I wouldn't give his stupidity too much thought- let him delude himself with his own self importance
    Can I just take a little reality check here. As far as I'm concerned, I'm only here because my parents did the needful on a particular night. If they hadn't, this post would not be here.

    On the other hand, while I expect its mostly for practical reasons, you are choosing which absolute belief system to adopt. Whatever absolute belief system you subscribe to finally will undoubtedly condemn all kinds of perfectly innocent folk for perfectly harmless stuff, while assuring you your presence here was pre-ordained by some being for infinite wisdom and whatever.

    Does any of that matter before chucking about statements about self importance? There are none so blind, I would guess.

    I'm not self-important. Just ocassionally riled. Which is why I'll point out that, unlike the so-called miracles in the Quran, my prediction was clear and falsifiable.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Schuhart wrote: »
    In fairness, I think this is a little confused. A valid prediction is a valid prediction. Sorry about that, but what you are saying amounts to 'he's right, but I wish he hadn't had the bad grace to actually say it'.
    Excuse me, am I a Muslim? No. Therefore your prediction was wrong and you are not right, but ignorant and yes, full of your own self importance.
    Schuhart wrote: »
    Can I just take a little reality check here. As far as I'm concerned, I'm only here because my parents did the needful on a particular night. If they hadn't, this post would not be here.

    On the other hand, while I expect its mostly for practical reasons, you are choosing which absolute belief system to adopt. Whatever absolute belief system you subscribe to finally will undoubtedly condemn all kinds of perfectly innocent folk for perfectly harmless stuff, while assuring you your presence here was pre-ordained by some being for infinite wisdom and whatever.

    Does any of that matter before chucking about statements about self importance? There are none so blind, I would guess.

    I'm not self-important. Just ocassionally riled. Which is why I'll point out that, unlike the so-called miracles in the Quran, my prediction was clear and falsifiable.

    Actually, before you begin to revel in your own infinite wisedom once again (snore... :rolleyes:) I would like you to know that I am currently looking into humanism- not for your sake, but for mine. Therefore, I highly doubt that I'll be 'condemning' anyone but you for your obvious stupidity and superiority complex


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,835 ✭✭✭Schuhart


    Jannah wrote: »
    Excuse me, am I a Muslim? No. Therefore your prediction was wrong and you are not right, but ignorant and yes, full of your own self importance.
    I said I'd give you twelve months from last May. So the clock is still ticking. Whatever way it works out, looking at where we are now, I say my prediction couldn't be dismissed as far fetched speculations on a ridiculiously small amount of information.

    Can I also assure you of my complete lack of amour propre in all of this. As I said, if you're agnostic at the end of that period, my reasoning skills will be demonstrated to have made a considerable error. In other words, I'm perfectly open to the contention that I'm full of it.
    Jannah wrote: »
    Actually, before you begin to revel in your own infinite wisedom once again (snore... :rolleyes:) I would like you to know that I am currently looking into humanism- not for your sake, but for mine. Therefore, I highly doubt that I'll be 'condemning' anyone but you for your obvious stupidity and superiority complex
    My work here is done.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,255 ✭✭✭getz


    the only words god wrote are the 10 commandments and the belshazzers writing on the wall-every thing else has been written by man-if one wants to believe in religion-jesus is supposed to have said --[gods house has many doors]-i will always respect a person from the salvation army far more than any priest /vicar/monk or any islamic teacher at least they go out and help those who need it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    Seems to have to read threads more often as some people are not quite clear on what this forum is about.

    1. If you have a beef with Islam/Muslims this forum is not for you. Try another one.
    2. If you feel that your religion is better then Islam and you feel the need to say it, this forum is not you.
    3. The rule is attack the post and not the poster (regardless of what religion you are or lack there of).

    If you have genuine questions then it is the forum to use.

    I've had to hand out warnings/infractions and a ban. I really do not like doing this. So be a bit more civil to each other and if you don't agree with the answer at least try to live with the fact that not everyone will think the same way you do. If you feel someone is misbehaving use the report post rather then escalating the issue. Thanks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 144 ✭✭Yusuf Mirza


    Assalam alaikum.

    Hay take it from an Irish Muslim who converted. It is the right thing to do to become Muslim. Islam is a wonderfull religion that gives you a personal relationship with Allah.

    Yusuf - alway


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,171 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    Sorry didn't read the whole thread but here's my take on your question.

    I think you need to first get yourself completely clear about the concept of islam and understand it properly. The concept that there's only one god and Mohammed is his messenger. And then understand the whole concept of the point of life in Islam. These are the core understandings of Islam.

    There's not much to it but if you really want to understand it, you'll find there's a lot to understand. From the whole scientific approach to life and the universe to the more deep theological ideas from our existence to the illusion of matter and materialism to the God himself.

    Once you start to get a better understanding of the ideas and concept of Islam you'll start to notice its the most straightforward religion in the whole world. Infact you'll realise its not a religion at all. Its just the way of life that will keep you the most out of trouble for your own good! Its a set of rules, its a guidebook to this universe (as mentioned in the Quran if you can find the right verse!).

    This is all you need to know about Islam. Don't get distracted by all the worldly worries of women rights, child custody, jihad, circumcision etc. Cuz you really don't have to worry about all that once you can truly establish your existence. You'll never know when to convert. You'll just know that you've converted.






    Now if you feel my words are little more than vague ramblings, here to go a little deeper for you to ponder over:

    Islam is the set of rules that if truly followed by everyone on this planet, there would be no wars, no killing, no injustice or evil. Everyone will be equally rich and happy while we could together explore unlimited space both inside and outside forever.
    Every rule from not consuming alcohol to giving obligatory zakat (charity) to free interest banking.
    If every person in the world gave zakat every year like in the islamic way, there would be no poverty in Africa, there would be no poverty in the whole world. This is the easiest way to make poverty history only if Bono and Geldof would have come across it.
    If all banks in the world would abolish the interest banking system and would shift to the "islamic" non interest banking system, we wouldn't be seeing this economic crisis. Countries wouldn't be in major debt and again there would be a lot more money and wealth among people that everyone could live happily.


    People blame religion for all the violence and killing in the world. I blame people's lack of religion and faith the cause of all violence and killing in the world. Religion is what keeps people away from causing violence, injustice and evil. Religion is what binds people to their true purpose of this life.

    Islam speaks more about these world issues than any other religion you'll come across. Islam is also the religion that makes the most scientific and factual sense. Everything form the Big bang (mentioned in the Quran) to how Iron came from the skies and sank to the bottom of the earth (as mentioned in the Quran and if you find out this is a very accurate description of the formation of earth and how Iron sank into the core of the planet creating the earth's magnetic field) to how embryos develop in the human uterus to things like positive thing, the "law of attraction" thing, psychology of men and women and many many other things. Its all in the Quran if you can find the right verses.

    Only if you can open your mind's eye and look around. Not getting blinded by the shimmering bright city lights which block out the reality in front of you. Reality many people overlook and get indulged in believing what they see is all that is real rejecting God, whereas nothing in this world can truly be stated as real. All they can reject is models of God but not God itself. God is something that can neither be fully understood or explained. Neither can God be proved through science as our scientific knowledge is only confined to our universe and God doesn't belong to our universe but the universe belongs to God.

    Think of God as being the ultimate power/force outside of the universe that caused the creation of the Big Bang where all the matter in this whole universe was created from nothing (Just like God mentions in the Quran, both about the big band and how he can create something from nothing in an instant). All the laws of physics were created the instant after the big bang which led to the formation of the universe the way it is right now. So if we try to find a proof of God by scientific means, our science can only take us as far back as the instant after the Big Bang when the rules of physics were formed. And if you go a little deeper into the physics itself, Physics is just the name we've given to all the rules and equations the universe functions by. Laplace's Demon explains it quite well actually though i believe he came very close to getting it right but didn't quite go any further with it.
    This is what Laplace's Demon suggests:

    "We may regard the present state of the universe as the effect of its past and the cause of its future. An intellect which at a certain moment would know all forces that set nature in motion, and all positions of all items of which nature is composed, if this intellect were also vast enough to submit these data to analysis, it would embrace in a single formula the movements of the greatest bodies of the universe and those of the tiniest atom; for such an intellect nothing would be uncertain and the future just like the past would be present before its eyes"
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laplace's_demon

    Well, if you think about how a single formula could govern every action in the universe and that would leave past and present as just an illusion. The way God mentioned in the Quran how he has complete knowledge of you, your past and your future. He can tell what's in your heart even before you can get aware of it yourself. Also how God tells what would happen in the future. It all wouldn't be possible if the universe was random. But its not. Its tightly bound by a set of rules and equations. Who made all these rules and equations? And if someone made all these rules and equations (surely they came from somewhere as they didn't exist before the big bang), then could he not have complete knowledge about how those rules and equations will come into effect. Surely God is the all knowing (wasn't it mentioned in the quran?).

    So you see how everything starts to make sense when you see things (like science) from the way mentioned in the Quran. Everything fits in together perfects and thats cuz everything is perfect (as mentioned in the quran). The universe and everything in it is not random. It can't be random cuz if it were the universe couldn't be able to sustain itself. God sustains the universe and everything in it (as mentioned in the quran).
    And this is how you prove God through science and religion.
    And i could go on about this all day!


    To end. Its very easy to get carried away by all these worldly worries nit picking on issues that wouldn't directly concern you, by majoring on minor things. This will only distract you from your cause. Understand and believe in the cause, the rest will happen itself. All you've got to do is believe. All matter is nothing but an illusion and it blurs out the reality. There's a very good quote in the Quran where God says the non-believers have been made deaf, dumb and blind by God and they'll never be able to seek the truth.
    This is very true with most of the world if you see. This is what happens when you indulge yourself in matter. In the materialism of the world. You'll get blinded by it and you'll not be able to see the true reality. God takes away the light from the people who do not believe (a verse in the quran).
    People say the quran is not comprehensible or its just a book full of metaphors. God has stated he made the quran easy to read and understand. Its all upto how you go about reading and understanding it. You can see the true light or you can get blinded by the bright city lights!!


    Here are a couple of books i'll highly recommend you read:
    http://us2.harunyahya.com/Detail/T/EDCRFV/productId/998/THE_QUR’AN_LEADS_THE_WAY_TO_SCIENCE
    http://us2.harunyahya.com/Detail/T/EDCRFV/productId/951/TAKING_THE_QUR’AN_AS_A_GUIDE
    http://us2.harunyahya.com/Detail/T/EDCRFV/productId/993/THE_OTHER_NAME_FOR_ILLUSION:MATTER

    You can download the books as pdf for free from the links and i highly recommend you to read them in your pursuit of truth.
    Also recommend you to read his other books to, they're all very enlightening.

    Good Luck! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 699 ✭✭✭DinoBot



    There's not much to it but if you really want to understand it, you'll find there's a lot to understand.


    I love your thinking here, "not much....but, there's a lot to understand :confused::confused::confused: which is it ?

    This is all you need to know about Islam. Don't get distracted by all the worldly worries of women rights, child custody, jihad, circumcision etc. Cuz you really don't have to worry about all that once you can truly establish your existence. You'll never know when to convert. You'll just know that you've converted.

    Your right ! Why the hell do people get so distracted with things like womens rights, child custody and jihad. Leave that to god I say :rolleyes::rolleyes:
    Are you for real ??

    Islam is the set of rules that if truly followed by everyone on this planet, there would be no wars, no killing, no injustice or evil. Everyone will be equally rich and happy while we could together explore unlimited space both inside and outside forever.

    But then your logic makes sence:"if truly followed by everyone"
    And there was me thinking the world was not only for muslims , stupid me :rolleyes:

    Is that not the whole reason of conflict, people do NOT agree with each other on every point. The way to resolve conflict is not to ensure everyone converts to the same religion but to foster an understanding of respect for difference.

    And you also speak of Islam as if its one big happy family, which version of Islam would enable us to to live with "no wars, no killing, no injustice or evil"

    -sunni ?
    -shia?
    -Wahhabism ?
    -Sufism ?

    If all of these forms cant even live in peace with each other and they all clam to follow Islam, what hope does the world have ?
    Or are they getting distracted by worldly worries !!!



    D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,171 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    That post was directed towards the OP. Not you.


    For you.
    Well, there's only one form of Islam.
    I can't tell whether its sunni or shia or wahabi or something else but its the one that is mentioned in the Quran and followed by Mohammed.
    I don't know what exactly caused people to create these diversions but its something common with every religion.

    And yes the reason of conflict is people not agreeing with one another. My point was if everyone just followed one set of guidelines, there wouldn't be any conflict in this world which is something that maybe you could agree with. Its only a hypothetical situation, i agree.

    Part from all the as i stated the post was directed towards the OP. If one can get clear about one's own actions and purpose, then he wouldn't have to worry about the little distractions.
    Like Hannah Moore said "Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you get your eyes off your goal".
    People constantly keep getting themselves caught up and start majoring on minor things while they keep forgetting about the bigger and more fundamental goal.

    Stop worrying about world peace while you fail to find peace within yourself!
    Conflict is a property of this world. People have been in conflict ever since they walked these lands and will remain in conflict till the end of time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 144 ✭✭Yusuf Mirza


    That is correct. There is one Islam. But many different ways of precticing it.
    It would ne interested in hearing your view on what defines what a Muslim is.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 263 ✭✭Jannah


    Agathon wrote: »
    Jannah, the best example of Islam is in the people (travel to the Muslim lands) and take your time making up your mind.
    I would fully agree with that- the more I meet Muslims, particularly in their home countries, the more I feel there really is something special in their outlook on life and their mannerisms in general. I think it's more the fear of what everyone else will say that is the problem, and I know it's always "Bah, don't mind what they think..." but it's a LOT easier said than done!! Particularly since part of my college degree will mean spending a year in NY ... I'd worry for my safety if anything
    Infact you'll realise its not a religion at all. Its just the way of life that will keep you the most out of trouble for your own good! Its a set of rules, its a guidebook to this universe (as mentioned in the Quran if you can find the right verse!).
    I completely agree- for me, it won't be my previous religion which only occured once a week and was instantly forgotten, it will be a guide to a happier life that is both fulfilling and will allow me to meet people who share my values and can have a positive influence on me
    All you've got to do is believe. All matter is nothing but an illusion and it blurs out the reality.
    Yeah, but the thing is that I don't want to enter a huge life commitment blindly- it will probably be the most important decision I could ever make and I think it would be best to not have anything niggling away at the back of my mind that could very well one day be a deal breaker

    Thanks a million for all your answers- they've been brilliant


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,171 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    I don't remember who it was but i once herd someone say "Islam is the best religion in the world and muslims are the worst people".
    Pretty strong statement but makes a little sense if you look around. Surely i've met many muslims who're amazing people with a great knowledge of things. But i have to say i've met loads of non-muslims who were a lot well mannered than muslims. That say i've seen lots of ill mannered non-muslims too. Guess you'll find all kinds of people everywhere!

    But my point is in meeting and hanging around with other muslim people like the person suggested, you'll come across a wide range of muslims and i just wanted to tell you to not base your opinions about muslims based on a very narrow, handful of muslims cuz there are some terrible muslims out there. I think its best to find the one best muslim you can find out there, the nicest, most honest and the most well mannered muslim cuz he'll be the true muslim which you can base you concept of Islam on. Its gonna be a hard find.

    And also a lot of things what muslims do are very culturally based. You'll find a great difference between the Arab muslims and a Pakistani muslim or something and that cuz of the difference in cultures so try to keep that in mind and make the distinction between what's culture and what's religion.




    And yes indeed its a very big decision you're thinking of making there. Thats why i insisted you to think for yourself. Don't let other people's opinions distract you. A lot of people will make a lot of blatant accusitions and will try to scare you but then again, just think for yourself. God will guide you to the right path, whether thats Islam or something else!
    And also remember there's no compulsion in Islam. If you decide of accepting Islam to try it out and then if you decide you don't like it, you can always change your ways. Don't believe in all those "you will be beheaded if you decide to leave" stuff. It doesn't apply to you. You have your will to do what you want and we humans have no right over your decisions as long as they don't harm anyone.
    Though i'll have to say it again. You can't become a muslim till you truly believe in the one God and Mohammed to be his messenger. Faith is the 1st fundamental pillar of Islam and without faith you won't be considered a muslim by God according to Islam. You can lie or pretend to humans, you can lie or pretend to yourself but you can't lie or pretend to God.


    Well, for now don't worry about that too much. As i just said, think for yourself and you'll be guided. Do your research. Don't just blindly believe what people say to you whether its a muslim or a non muslim. Its your life and only you can decide which way you wanna take it.
    If you have your doubts about Islam, don't ever feel forced into converting. Wait till you're absolutely sure that you're a muslim. When will you feel sure about that? Thats when you'll truly start to believe in the one God and Mohammed as his messenger. That is all you need to do to call yourself a muslim. Its that easy. You don't need to change anything, you can keep your name, you can keep your job and your lifestyle (maybe with some alterations) but its not a big change. As i said most of what you see in the muslim world is a cultural thing, not a religious thing.


    So to end, i'll say it again, do your research and do as much research as you can. Don't just blindly follow and believe. Its your life and yes its a big decision but to give you something to think about again, if you believe in an afterlife, then you'll begin to notice (probably notice more as you dig deeper into the belief) that this life is worth so little, all the things and associations in this world you make start to become so pointless and meaningless. Think of our place on this world. The 70odd years we're given to live on this planet. Our 70 odd years compared to the 14 or so billion years of existence of the universe (sorry to bring back the universe but i've always had a great interest in physics and astronomy!). Our 36k mile planet nothing more than a spec of dust in a more than 14 billion light years wide universe. How insignificant the loop of time and space of existence we've been given is compared to the wide universe. Can we say we know everything? Can we say what we do in this world of ours really matter? A world that someday is bound to perish but either a meteor or if not by our very sun itself when it burns no. There is no constant in this universe. Everything that is formed is bound to perish someday and so are we.
    If you believe there's more to our existence than these 70 odd years we spend on this insignificant plant then you'll realise how insignificant all those pleasure decisions of yours were. How out of all the millions of decisions you made in your 70 odd years only a handful really matter. If you believe there's more to our existence than a pointless 70 years on a pointless planet, then you'll notice the scale of the decision you're gonna make and how everything else starts to become smaller and insignificant.
    If you believe we're creatures of dust to be born of and perish as an insignificant aspect of this universe, then no decision you make is gonna make any significance in front of the vast dust cloud which the universe.
    Just think what would happen after you perish. What would it be like. Both with an afterlife and without one...

    A lot of people will use what i've said to say religion is a figment of human imagination. I say we're all here for a reason. The universe is not random. Every single electron and spec of quark and Lepton is there for a reason. Look it up. In this universe nothing goes to waste or is of no purpose or value. Neither are we.

    But then just think for yourself and believe what feels right to you...





    woah, another gigiantic post, wasn't meant to be that big... I keep getting carried away a lot!! :p
    Well, it should keep someone busy hopefully!
    Oh, and if you or anyone of you wanna tell me, abuse me, accuse me, or just ask me anything, feel free to PM me. I'm not the best person but i'll see how i can help ye!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 699 ✭✭✭DinoBot


    And also remember there's no compulsion in Islam. If you decide of accepting Islam to try it out and then if you decide you don't like it, you can always change your ways. Don't believe in all those "you will be beheaded if you decide to leave" stuff. It doesn't apply to you.

    Why does it not apply to her ? Is there a special pass you can get for this ?

    I was always under the impression that the Hadith were vaild. Am I incorrect ?

    Muslim 623 The Prophet said: "It is not permissible to take the life of a Muslim except in one of the three cases: the married adulterer, a life for a life (if the person is Muslim), and the deserter of Islam."
    Bukhari 9:89:271 A man embraced Islam and then reverted back to Judaism Mu'adh said: "I will not sit down unless you kill him as it is the verdict of Allah and His Apostle"
    Bukhari 4:52:260 Ali burnt some people (Zanadiqa, atheists 9:84:57) although the Prophet had said, "Don?t punish anybody with Allah's punishment (Fire)" if a Muslim discards his religion, kill him"


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