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What would you do if your girlfriend was cheating on you with your best friend?

  • 25-10-2008 10:29pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,477 ✭✭✭


    A problem that nobody wants to see, seeing your best friend having sex with your girlfriend would be like your girlfriend ripping your heart out of your chest and crushing it with her heels and your best friend kicking you in the balls at the same time.

    So what would you do? would you become enraged and attack you childhood friend? would you kick them both out and never speak to them again? Would you continue to see your girlfriend and be friends with your friend and pretend like nothing happened? Whats?

    If it were me i'd proberly leave the room and go for a long long walk, then i'd proberly turn up at my girlfriend's parents house and kill them, and their little dog too. Then i'd go to by best friends house and set it on fire with his family inside:mad: Sorry i'm watching ConAir at the moment.

    Seriously though i would leave and take a long walk until i cooled down, then i would go back and talk it out with them both if i can and see what's the deal, i don't know what would happen next but i'm sure it might have something to me 5 years later when i've been presented the opportunity to Roide my best friends fiancee on his wedding night Muhahahaha:)

    What would you do? 207 votes

    Attack your friend
    0% 0 votes
    Never talk to them both
    31% 65 votes
    Forgive them
    64% 133 votes
    Other
    4% 9 votes


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Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    OP Is this just a question from a curiosity or expierence ? Like has your girlfriend being cheating on you with your best friend?


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,125 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    Suggest we tried a spit roast.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,477 ✭✭✭Riddle101


    latchyco wrote: »
    OP Is this just a question from a curiosity or expierence ? Like has your girlfriend being cheating on you with your best friend?

    Nope never happened to me, just a simple question


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,148 ✭✭✭✭KnifeWRENCH


    I've cut people out of my life for much lesser offences than that. I would certainly never speak to either of them ever again. I wouldn't attack anyone because it wouldn't really achieve anything plus I'm weaker than most of my friends!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,406 ✭✭✭Pompey Magnus


    I'd run home to my laptop and post in Personal Issues to ask people that I don't know what I should do.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 702 ✭✭✭Lexus1976


    Riddle101 wrote: »

    If it were me i'd proberly leave the room and go for a long long walk, then i'd proberly turn up at my girlfriend's parents house and kill them, and their little dog too. Then i'd go to by best friends house and set it on fire with his family inside:mad: Sorry i'm watching ConAir at the moment.


    Perhaps this should me moved to the cuckoo's nest :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    I don't know what I'd do tbh...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,854 ✭✭✭zuutroy


    Nine inch nail through the baseball bat and swing away imo


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    Jeeze , just suggest a threesome and let her choose the winner.
    * l mean that's what l would do if l were male. *:o


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Riddle101 wrote: »
    Nope never happened to me, just a simple question
    At least you get to see who your partners cheating with , unlike poor stevie wonder who never got to see who his missus was shagging cheating with .

    Actually probably only time being blind is handy :D


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Personally, I'd wait six months then make their lives a living hell in ways I can't suggest here.

    Been there, done that with a cheating ex-wife.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 28,128 ✭✭✭✭Mossy Monk


    Forgive and forget.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    zuutroy wrote: »
    Nine inch nail through the baseball bat and swing away imo
    Jeez, just because one cheated on me doesn't mean I wouldn't use the ol' bat ever again, ffs! :rolleyes:

    Putting a 9" nail through it would not be my first thought, tbh! >.<


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    Jeez, just because one cheated on me doesn't mean I wouldn't use the ol' bat ever again, ffs! :rolleyes:

    Putting a 9" nail through it would not be my first thought, tbh! >.<

    And your first thought would be ?????????


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    And your first thought would be ?????????

    "I think I'm going batty?"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Originally Posted by sharpshooterH
    And your first thought would be ?????????

    Which bar am i going to hit first?

    2nd Who's shoulder am i going to cry on ?

    3rd will they let me sleep on their sofa ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    And your first thought would be ?????????
    AC beat me to it.

    A mere 4 minutes it took him! :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    AC beat me to it.

    A mere 4 minutes it took him! :pac:

    I'd be pretty worried if you were my best friend tbh, judging by your username.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    "I think I'm going batty?"

    Yes , yes you are.:D

    Help available through looptheloop.;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    Yes , yes you are.:D

    He might even say "It's like my whole world's gone upside down!"

    or

    "I didn't see this one coming!"


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    latchyco wrote: »
    Which bar am i going to hit first?

    2nd Who's shoulder am i going to cry on ?

    3rd will they let me sleep on their sofa ?

    Sofa so good.

    Would you like to enlighten us further?;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,361 ✭✭✭Itsdacraic


    I scored my best friend and room mates girlfriend. Didn't get the ride though so not sure if it counts.


  • Posts: 14,344 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Reminds me of this picture:


    http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/kk164/WWE-EIW/nase.jpg

    Jeeze , just suggest a threesome and let her choose the winner.
    * l mean that's what l would do if l were male. *:o



    YOU'RE A GIRL?! :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    Itsdacraic wrote: »
    I scored my best friend and room mates girlfriend. Didn't get the ride though so not sure if it counts.

    You should ask him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,361 ✭✭✭Itsdacraic


    You should ask him.

    Na, I reckon he'd get sour over it. The moody fcuker.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Sofa so good.

    Would you like to enlighten us further?;)
    Nothing to enlighten about ,just imagining the painful scenario and how one might deal with it .;)

    Having your heart broken when a relationship is over is one thing , seeing it happen before your eyes ,well.................no not for me thanks


    :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    I'd be pretty worried if you were my best friend tbh, judging by your username.
    Those of us who live by the sword practise the Musketeer's Code. ^_^


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,125 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    AC beat me to it.

    A mere 4 minutes it took him! :pac:

    It only took me 4 minutes with yore ma last night too. Eh, actually ignore what I just said.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    Itsdacraic wrote: »
    Na, I reckon he'd get sour over it. The moody fcuker.

    You say that but there's only one way to find out. The same thing happened to some of my friends and they laugh about it now....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    Reminds me of this picture:


    http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/kk164/WWE-EIW/nase.jpg






    YOU'RE A GIRL?! :eek:

    Nope , l am a woman..........no benoit jeering if you please.:cool:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    It only took me 4 minutes with yore ma last night too. Eh, actually ignore what I just said.

    Aye, she told me. Said she didn't like to charge you double, though, given you didn't make it past her knickers either time ... and not even the ones she was wearing, at that! :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,097 ✭✭✭Darragh29


    Ask her for a 4 baller....


  • Posts: 14,344 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Nope , l am a woman..........no benoit jeering if you please.:cool:


    Oh right, woman, sorry.


    I just assumed from the Bret Hart related name/sig that you were of the male species.


    Why would i bring up Benoit at all? You don't seem to mention him (that i've seen anyway).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    Oh right, woman, sorry.


    I just assumed from the Bret Hart related name/sig that you were of the male species.


    Why would i bring up Benoit at all? You don't seem to mention him (that i've seen anyway).

    Did once in the wrestling forum and they ran me out of town.

    All l said was "l wouldnt Judge him."
    Still stand by that , cause l wasn't there and nobody know's to this day Why?

    This was a man who sacricficed hours of free time to travel back to see his family , and all the while the other wrestlers looked on with respect for him.
    He was a family man and that is why l wont judge him.
    What he did was wrong , but we will never know Why ?

    OK back on topic , this post doesn't mean l would do anything to cause a spouse harm if they cheated on me.;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    if my 'best friend' was female i would ask if i could join in. if it was male i would tell him she has a dose of the lobsters


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    What he did was wrong , but we will never know Why ?

    He probably didn't either? Wasn't his brain just completely scrambled when they did the autopsy?

    Or maybe he walked in on his wife and ki-no, no I wont go that far. Though it WOULD be on topic....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,729 ✭✭✭Pride Fighter


    I'd join them.


  • Posts: 14,344 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Did once in the wrestling forum and they ran me out of town.

    All l said was "l wouldnt Judge him."
    Still stand by that , cause l wasn't there and nobody know's to this day Why?

    This was a man who sacricficed hours of free time to travel back to see his family , and all the while the other wrestlers looked on with respect for him.
    He was a family man and that is why l wont judge him.
    What he did was wrong , but we will never know Why ?

    OK back on topic , this post doesn't mean l would do anything to cause a spouse harm if they cheated on me.;)

    Meh. i wouldn't worry. the Wrestling forum is gone to crap these days anyway. Its desperately in need of a mod who doesn't know anyone on it. i wouldn't let the idiots put you off it. With the right posters, it can still be a fun place.


    As for Benoit, i didn't know him personally, i only knew him by what i saw on TV. I thought he was an amazing wrestler. I still think so. I don't have any opinion on his personal life whatsoever. Still probably the greatest pure wrestler of all time. Apparently was incredibly fan-friendly, too, from what i heard of him. I wouldn't judge him negatively.

    He probably didn't either? Wasn't his brain just completely scrambled when they did the autopsy?

    I believe they said he had "Dementia caused by multiple concussions" and it resembled "an 80 year old Alzheimers patient". I think thats when (most) people kinda lightened up on him. He clearly didn't realise what he was doing.


    Anyway.. enough.. we'll get this locked :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    He probably didn't either? Wasn't his brain just completely scrambled when they did the autopsy?

    Yes it was , he had the brain of an elderly person with Alzheimer's from too many chair shots to the head and also his Flying headbutt.:(

    Anyhow back on topic again , l still stand by my previous post , have a threesome and let the girlfriend decide.
    When she does High Five each other and thank her for a good time.:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Was very sad to see what happened to Chris Benoit .Not sure if there is a connection between thread topic and him .Like was there a cheating factor involved in him doing what he done ? Either way ,ever sad and very tragic .


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 93,596 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    What would you do if your girlfriend was cheating on you with your best friend?

    I'd have him put down.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    I'd never talk to them, but not until i've tasted sweet sweet revenge...

    I'd probably pretend i didn't know... String her along for a while, then one night i'd get the camera out and record her in her least innocent guise, that would makes its way onto to internet, never to be deleted. I'd also make sure it gets to every single member of her family, every employer she ever has as well as every single person she ever knows.... i can do that without talking to her.

    Oh, and aids, i'd give her aids.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Holsten


    Kill them both, no question.

    Max you'd get would be 5 years.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    latchyco wrote: »
    Was very sad to see what happened to Chris Benoit .Not sure if there is a connection between thread topic and him .Like was there a cheating factor involved in him doing what he done ? Either way ,ever sad and very tragic .

    No conection to thread topic. Thanks for pointing that out.:rolleyes:;)
    And we don't know what set him off.:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    This thread is spreding out more and more like Pulp Fiction .God help anybodys who's cheating :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,501 ✭✭✭BrokenArrows


    id tell you but then id have to do what i did to them. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    id tell you but then id have to do what i did to them. :)

    And l would help you.............

    Wonder if it's got anything to do with me watching SAW tonight?:D

    Let's Play A GAME.:D:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    No conection to thread topic. Thanks for pointing that out.:rolleyes:;)
    And we don't know what set him off.:)
    Yeah , but once his name is mentions in the thread ,well ya know , roumors and all that * shush * :cool:




    now i know you know i'm only kidding :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    latchyco wrote: »
    Yeah , but once his name is mentions in the thread ,well ya know , roumors and all that * shush * :cool:




    now i know you know i'm only kidding :)

    Ffs


    SHUSH.:rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    Rape her dog to death.


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