The 7 year itch

gowayouttadat

I think I have it.

So I've been going out with my bf for just over 7 years. In that time we've only ever had one rough patch which was tough but we got over.
I know so many ppl say this in relationship threads but our friends envy us. We're best friends, get on like a house on fire, tell each other everything, pull the piss out of each other all the time, laugh so much etc etc
We used to get slagged over how much we'd be txting each other during the day. I thought that phase would wear out after the honeymoon period but it didn't. He's the first person I want to tell things to and visa versa.

Anyway, roll forward to the last few weeks. For the last few weeks I'm feeling less happy with things. I don't feel the need to contact him as much as I did. I'm heading out more and more on my own with my friends and it doesn't really bother me. For the last few months I've known there's one or two things about him that annoy me and these are coming to the fore front of my mind these days. I'm going to lay them out here cuz I've never ever said it to anyone else. He prefers us being on our own than be with other ppl. He doesn't like going out with my friends. He's grand when we go out with his friends but refuses to go out with my friends or family. I'm beginning to think about our future. What if in ten years time we don't socialise as a couple unless it's with his friends??

Anyway, sorry, rant over, just needed to get that off my chest. Don't even know what i'm looking for here.

Zaph

Well if you don't know what you're looking for, we can hardly expect to know. Not even a question that could be directed to PI, so I'm closing this one.