Guys, ever been raped by a woman?

Christy Manure

Just got banned from the Ladies Lounge for the following post:

"Quite a few of [my sexual partners] have been absolute rotters that I was with when I was drunk, and nobody who has seen these creatures considers me to be any kind of a hero or stud. Quite the opposite - the consensus is that I have been taken advantage of numerous times by predatory females who made their moves on someone who was incapable of rational thought.

Girls constantly lament the double standard that girls with a lot of partners are considered sluts, while guys are not. However this is a different double standard - a guy who takes advantage of a girl who is totally out of it is known as a rapist. How are girls who do this thought of?

I wonder what would happen if guys decided to protect their friends the way girls do, and in situations such as this, came over to the girl and shooed her away.

Get away you evil bowler! He doesn't want to be with you."

Guess the ban is a pretty clear answer. Women do not want to admit that this happens, or discuss it. Anyone here have any opinions on this? Draw your own conclusions if I get a siteban for posting it here.

Sabre0001

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Smart Bug

In before ban...

jaycen

Certainly have been a few times (when lockd) that some have chanced their arm, TBH I've never really been so drunk as to go off with a girl I didn't want.

Danbo!

haha, yes, once.

seamus

Nnniiiicce!

Ass

Just putting in a generic "yore ma" response to get it over and done with.

Mahatma coat

Oh Jaysus yeah, more than, and I have had one complete nutter stalk me a few years ago, and one absolutley fooookin huge monster take me home one night, granted Iwas scared of her and she could well have done me physical harm if I'd a said no :eek:

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Ishmael

Christy Manure wrote: »

How are girls who do this thought of?

Randy?

Mahatma coat

'Almost' Any Hole is a goal, would be something to bear inmind tho

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

you see women are weak, so when they do this kinda thing it's funny. whereas men are big, scary and threatening. men have to be stopped at any cost, before they strike again.

Slow Motion

In before this thread gets locked, and some mod takes advantage of it!

Sabre0001

Ass Face wrote: »

Just putting in a generic "yore ma" response to get it over and done with.

Took til post 7. What has After Hours become. I'm not a fan of it appearing in every thread but this one was set up for it!

L'prof

Mordeth wrote: »

you see women are weak, so when they do this kinda thing it's funny. whereas men are big, scary and threatening. men have to be stopped at any cost, before they strike again.

What about a weak man taking advantage of a big, scary and threatening woman???

Dudess

Christy Manure wrote: »

Guess the ban is a pretty clear answer. Women do not want to admit that this happens, or discuss it. Anyone here have any opinions on this? Draw your own conclusions if I get a siteban for posting it here.

I assume you got banned for the misogyny-flavoured language you used which was clearly designed to rile - so the moderator drew the conclusion that you were trolling/flaming (going on about their appearance, how fat they are, the usual :rolleyes:. Newsflash: good-looking, slim women can be predatory and forceful too). It certainly looked like that to me also. You could easily have written a post about predatory women who force themselves on men, without resorting to that language.
But it is the kind of language the neanderthals here on After Hours will understand so good one on moving it to this forum (most of the male After Hours regulars aren't neanderthals but there is one awesomely dumb-fuk contingent).
It's just that, while After Hours is a bit of a lost cause, we women (and plenty of men) are getting sick sh1t of the way there's a certain level of misogyny among posters on Boards.ie and it's just accepted by so many.

As for your question, yes, I definitely agree there are women who force themselves on men.

Kdub

this happened to me once, but it was a complete hottie!! however she had a reputation of being a real man-eater...not caring if the guy was taken or not...anyway long story short, i'm pissed out of my mind dont know whats going on...i'm trying to find my friends in the club and she says they've gone and they told her to take me home...so we i'm in the taxi coming in and out of consciousnes...we end up at her house no one there of course and she puts me to bed literally....can remember next morning with scratches, hickeys and bruises everywhere!!:eek: i cant remember a thing but i got breakfast in bed so i must have done something right

4zn76tysfajdxp

Christy Manure wrote: »

the consensus is that I have been taken advantage of numerous times by predatory females who made their moves on someone who was incapable of rational thought.

Heh, I girl I used to work with would come on to me fairly strongly at work, and even more strongly when we'd be out with the rest of our workmates, she was practically a rapist (without the sex part, though I did feel violated). After I left that place she came on to this other lad on another night out. Then the rumours that they "rode" (in the club!) started spreading and he's afraid his girlfriend might hear them. The funny thing is that he himself was so drunk he blacked out that night, and couldn't confidently deny the rumours if they went back to his girlfriend. So now he's in an awful pickle and the potential rapist might strike again.

Is that what you mean?

WindSock

Christy Manure wrote: »

Guess the ban is a pretty clear answer.

'Tis.

Slow Motion

Dudess wrote: »

I assume you got banned for the misogyny-flavoured language you used which was clearly designed to rile - so the moderator drew the conclusion that you were trolling/flaming (going on about their appearance, how fat they are, the usual :rolleyes:. Newsflash: good-looking, slim women can be predatory and forceful too). It certainly looked like that to me also. You could easily have written a post about predatory women who force themselves on men, without resorting to that language.
But it is the kind of language the neanderthals here on After Hours will understand so good one on moving it to this forum (most of the male After Hours regulars aren't neanderthals but there is one awesomely dumb-fuk contingent).
It's just that, while After Hours is a bit of a lost cause, we women (and plenty of men) are getting sick sh1t of the misogyny and the acceptance of it on Boards.ie
As for your question, yes, I definitely agree there are women who force themselves on men.

Really? I don't spend that much time in AH, but other than trolling, from both sexes, and taking the piss in BGRH, I don't see rampant misogyny on boards or any tacit acceptance of it!

Dudess

Yeah I edited that a bit. You know what I mean though: it's ok for guys to say appalling sh1t about women they've been with or women in general.

thelordofcheese

I have, but to be fair i was asking it.

4zn76tysfajdxp

Dudess wrote: »

It's just that, while After Hours is a bit of a lost cause, we women (and plenty of men) are getting sick sh1t of the way there's a certain level of misogyny among posters on Boards.ie and it's just accepted by so many.

You shut your mouth, bitch. :pac:

Christy Manure

Dudess wrote: »

I assume you got banned for the misogyny-flavoured language .

The post is quoted verbatim above. Where is the misogynistic language?

Dudess wrote: »

As for your question, yes, I definitely agree there are women who force themselves on men.

Do you agree that women who force themselves on men should be treated with the same amount of opprobrium as men who force themselves on women?

Dudess

Brooklynn Careful Coupon wrote: »

You shut your mouth, bitch. :pac:

... after I swallow, obviously...

WindSock

Brooklynn Careful Coupon wrote: »

You shut your mouth, bitch. :pac:

Ooh, you're just asking to be raped now.

Prof.Badass

Slow Motion wrote: »

Really? I don't spend that much time in AH, but other than trolling, from both sexes, and taking the piss in BGRH, I don't see rampant misogyny on boards or any tacit acceptance of it!

ahhh, but it doesnt have to actually exist. All you need is to be overly sensitive and then you'll start seeing it.

do you honestly think women don't say that sort of stuff when guys are not around?

men are just less careful about where they say it.

Dudess

Christy Manure wrote: »

The post is quoted verbatim above. Where is the misogynistic language?

The comments on their appearance - always has to be brought into it...

Do you agree that women who force themselves on men should be treated with the same amount of opprobrium as men who force themselves on women?

Yes. There are women who abuse men physically, emotionally and yes, sexually, and it is one of the last taboos.

vinylmesh wrote: »

ahhh, but it doesnt have to actually exist. All you need is to be overly sensitive and then you'll start seeing it.

do you honestly think women don't say that sort of stuff when guys are not around?

Take a look at the Ladies' Lounge: you won't see the equivalent of "so I lashed her gash" etc...

WindSock

What exactly are you looking for from this thread, OP? Of course women can take advantage of men and seduce them. Many men may like it, and I'm sure there are those that don't. So for those that don't, do you think that these women should be dealt with as harshly in the courts as men that forcefully rape a woman (or other men)?

WindSock

Dudess wrote: »

Take a look at the Ladies' Lounge: you won't see the equivalent of "so I lashed her gash" etc...

Flash your gash maybe...:pac:

Prof.Badass

Dudess wrote: »

Take a look at the Ladies' Lounge: you won't see the equivalent of "so I lashed her gash" etc...

yeah, coz they know men can look in, therefore they don't say it. If it was the ladies toilets however....

Christy Manure

Dudess wrote: »

The comments on their appearance - always has to be brought into it...

How is it misogyny to find a woman physically unattractive? Is it misandry to find a man physically unattractive?

If I had been attracted to these women, I would not be saying that I was taken advantage of...

4zn76tysfajdxp

Dudess wrote: »

Take a look at the Ladies' Lounge: you won't see the equivalent of "so I lashed her gash" etc...

Ahhhh, all you need is a good gash lashing.

It goes without saying that fat women are sexually predators when us poor men are drunk.

They should all be rounded up and put in a hole. Then be starved to death :pac:

4zn76tysfajdxp

Deleted User wrote: »

They should all be rounded up and put in a hole. Then be starved to death :pac:

They'll probably just end up eating each other.

Christy Manure

WindSock wrote: »

What exactly are you looking for from this thread, OP? Of course women can take advantage of men and seduce them. Many men may like it, and I'm sure there are those that don't. So for those that don't, do you think that these women should be dealt with as harshly in the courts as men that forcefully rape a woman (or other men)?

Just looking for an open discussion, where all points of view can be expressed without fear of censorship.

I'm not referring to a seduction which results in the initially reluctant partner coming around and giving their consent. I am referring to the specific situation where one participant is too incapacitated to give informed consent and the other participant has sex with them in this condition.

I don't have a final position on this but it strikes me as a question of double standards. Double standards are often raised by women as an argument when it suits them. But the question here is, do double standards really matter that much?

If not, then the question becomes, Is women's desire for sexual equality truly genuine, or do they just want to have their cake and eat it?

stovelid

Christy Manure wrote: »

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Quite the opposite - the consensus is that I have been taken advantage of numerous times by predatory females who made their moves on someone who was incapable of rational thought.

If you have to resort to paying for sex when you're drunk, obviously you'll get ripped off from time to time. Couldn't you invest in love doll or something?

4zn76tysfajdxp

Christy Manure wrote: »

or do they just want to have their cake and eat it?

Yes, because they're fat.

Smart Bug

Christy Manure wrote: »

or do they just want to have their cake and eat it?

Are you sure its their cake they want eaten?

Darragh29

Christy Manure wrote: »

I am referring to the specific situation where one participant is too incapacitated to give informed consent and the other participant has sex with them in this condition.

Too incapacitated to give consent or even try to mutter the words "no, not tonight Joesphine" but not too incapacitated to get it up and give her a lash???

Sounds like you have a problem with your willpower OP! :cool:

Smart Bug

Darragh29 wrote: »

Sounds like you have a problem with your willypower OP! :cool:

Fixed last post...

WindSock

Christy Manure wrote: »

Just looking for an open discussion, where all points of view can be expressed without fear of censorship.

Grand, but you know why you were banned from LL because you are a re-reg and a troll. Using language like swamp donkey or whatever to describe women in LL is unacceptable, not to mention your posts come across as mysogynistic women bashing as a whole.

Do women want sexual equality? Well, we are not equal to men sexually or phsically so we can't in some ways be. What I would like to see is to not be disrespected out of my choices or have people expect me to put up with disrespectful language all the time because I am seen as something to decorate their knobs with.

citytillidie

I can sort of see what the OP is getting at maybe he should have used a different example like domistic abuse.

You see adverts for this all the time but its always the man hitting the woman, never see it the other way about even though it does happen its still a really tabo subject in the mainstream media as men are seen to be stronger than woman.

Christy Manure

Darragh29 wrote: »

Too incapacitated to give consent or even try to mutter the words "no, not tonight Joesphine" but not too incapacitated to get it up and give her a lash???

Sounds like you have a problem with your willpower OP! :cool:

When I am drunk I definitely do. I don't have a problem with raising my rope though.

I can dimly recall occasions where I would be banging away at a beangarda from Moate or some other dreadful person and would be actually laughing out loud at what a write-off she was.

My ability to see the funny side of these encounters would always have deserted me the next morning.

Christy Manure

WindSock wrote: »

you are ... a troll.

If it is acceptable for you to call me a troll, is it acceptable for me to call you a trollop?

AnonoBoy

I know a lad who woke up to find a girl he didn't fancy riding him. He wasn't too happy about it but it didn't scar him for life either.

I think she slipped a condom on him before she molested him though so at least that wasn't a worry.

javaboy

Christy Manure wrote: »

If it is acceptable for you to call me a troll, is it acceptable for me to call you a trollop?

Sparkling wordplay my friend.

Definitely one of our better trolls. Can we keep him?

Dragan

Christy Manure wrote: »

Just looking for an open discussion, where all points of view can be expressed without fear of censorship.

I'm not referring to a seduction which results in the initially reluctant partner coming around and giving their consent. I am referring to the specific situation where one participant is too incapacitated to give informed consent and the other participant has sex with them in this condition.

I don't have a final position on this but it strikes me as a question of double standards. Double standards are often raised by women as an argument when it suits them. But the question here is, do double standards really matter that much?

If not, then the question becomes, Is women's desire for sexual equality truly genuine, or do they just want to have their cake and eat it?

Look, if a girl takes advantage of a guy who is off his bin then yeah, she's a ****ing rapist. If you do not have clear and obvious conesent from someone you proceed to have sex with, as far as i am concern, that is effective rape.

Rape does not have to be violent to happen. That is the first mistake people make.

Christy, sadly you are ruining a perfectly valid point by going about expressing it in a way that clearly indicates you have some sort of problem with women.

Then again, i can only conclude that you have self esteem issues or alchohol issues with the amount of chicks you claim to have been with that you did not find attractive.

What's that old saying "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me something else and mumble mumble mumble" - George W Bush.

kaimera

Might I ask where this happens that women take advantage of men?

A place & time would be perfect.

Ehh..for a friend of course

>_>
<_<

WindSock

Christy Manure wrote: »

If it is acceptable for you to call me a troll, is it acceptable for me to call you a trollop?

Why would it be? They mean two different things. Are you calling me a trollop?

Tigger

Dudess wrote: »

INewsflash: good-looking, slim women can be predatory and forceful too). .

nope ungly preadatory girls are psychos
good looking ones are nymphos

just to fill you in (ooer)

Irishcrx

Attempted rape, was at a party over the summer at a friends house, drove down in the evening and planned on staying over the night as it ws a good bit out. So theres this one girl there who seemed fine at first (Canadian) but a few drinks later and shes following me around the place, then she starts playing footsie with me under the table, I was being cival but had no interest in her so I'd move away and again shes just follow, started getting a bit to touchy for my liking so rather than locking her out in the dog house I decided to hit the sack as I was hammered anyway, so I go up to one of my mates spare rooms.

So I drift off to sleep only to be woken about a half hour later by this mad bitch half naked in the bed and licking my face sayingn such things as "Oh come on baby you know you want it", Since I'd only woke up I was terrified so I jumped up and bolted it god no you ****ing bawler, howler uhhhh...bad girl!...

Damn my boyish good looks! , Had she had any date rape drugs I may have been victimised..