Happyness At Someone Elses Downfall

gcgirl

Yesterday My W**k*r of an Ex Phoned me to tell me he had lost his Job!! I was in one of those pissy Monday Humours and it Put me in such a good humour The whole Karma thing and all that!! His house has also fell By 40 grands worth than what he paid for it !! He basically walked out on me and the 3 kids for a 20 year old who screwed him fiancally for the time they were together(not much sex ) then he hooked up with some pole(now i'm wondering how long this will last) 7 years of crap off said person and His complete misfortune has me in a wonderfull humour :D

I Love The Smell Off Karma In The Morning:D:D:D

thelordofcheese

I've just had an awful day, i've lost my job AND the value of my house just crashed. I mean it's down by about 40Grand.

Then i ring my Ex for a chat and to see how things are and she was kinda distant as i told my story, and i could hear something that sounded like.....typing or something then she laughed like a loon and hung up the phone.

Wow, What a weird day.....

taidghbaby

karma.....what has indian food got to do with your ex's sudden downturn in fortunes!

boneless

But remember, karma works both ways....:P

gcgirl

Karma (Sanskrit: कर्म kárma (help·info), kárman- "act, action, performance"[1]; Pali: kamma) is the concept of "action" or "deed" in Indian religions understood as that which causes the entire cycle of cause and effect (i.e., the cycle called saṃsāra) originating in ancient India and treated in Hindu, Jain, Sikh and Buddhist philosophies.
The philosophical explanation of karma can differ slightly between traditions, but the general concept is basically the same. Through the law of karma, the effects of all deeds actively create past, present, and future experiences, thus making one responsible for one's own life, and the pain and joy it brings to him/her and others. The results or 'fruits' of actions are called karma-phala. In religions that incorporate reincarnation, karma extends through one's present life and all past and future lives as well.
Karma for you

I'm still in a friggen good humour and he knows if he wants any sympathy not to ring me cos i told him straght to go F88k himself!!

Marcus.Aurelius

As long as you keep your unfounded joy to yourself, no harm I suppose.

Believing he's suffering becuase he was mean to you is downright silly. He sowed the seeds himself by buying property at an inflated price in a country experiencing an unfounded economic boom mismanaged by an incompetent bunch of halfwits.

Judging by your own post, he may have been right to pull out.

gcgirl

boneless wrote: »

But remember, karma works both ways....:P

I know but if you knew what i had to endure for the last 8 years You'd wanna kill my ex too!

Phlann

Thought this was gonna be about Jade Goody

spurious

Schadenfreude.

Wreck

gcgirl wrote: »

I'm still in a friggen good humour and he knows if he wants any sympathy not to ring me cos i told him straght to go F88k himself!!

How will your three kids feel when they find out their father hung himself cause you laughed at him in his time of need? Cause that's what's going to happen.

Phlann

spurious wrote: »

Schadenfreude.

Gesundheit

Marcus.Aurelius

Wreck wrote: »

How will your three kids feel when they found out their father hung himself cause you laughed at him in his time of need? Cause that's what's going to happen.

Why so serious?

Seriously, hysteria much?

allybhoy

Wont someone think of the children.....please think of the children!

Wreck

Joker wrote: »

Why so serious?

Seriously, fanboi much?

gcgirl

Wreck wrote: »

How will your three kids feel when they find out their father hung himself cause you laughed at him in his time of need? Cause that's what's going to happen.

He was not there much for his kids even when we were together it was the same His youngest daughter has spent much of her first 2 years in a hospital He made zero visits we were together at the time, his sons first b'day he went golfing ! His eldest has said she never wants to marry someone like her father and that speaks for it self!! He was also an abuser so excuse me if i have a lot of hatred for him but the only person he ever cared about is and always will be himself !!

Marcus.Aurelius

Wreck wrote: »

Seriously, fanboi much?

very much so



At least until I get fed up of it. :pac:

Username changes, I love subscriber privileges!

boneless

gcgirl wrote: »

I know but if you knew what i had to endure for the last 8 years You'd wanna kill my ex too!

I think I might have an idea . But I found letting it go better therapy after a while. But hey. I did have a few months of malicious glee at certain events in her life.

cailin06

allybhoy wrote: »

Wont someone think of the children.....please think of the children!

Ya! I'm sure his children were forefront in his mind while he was 'doing' his 20yr old! :rolleyes::rolleyes:

thelordofcheese

cailin06 wrote: »

Ya! I'm sure his children were forefront in his mind while he was 'doing' his 20yr old! :rolleyes::rolleyes:

This post has Snyper written all over it.

truecrippler

OP, I hope your Ex wins the Euro Millions. We'll see how you like 'Karma' after that :P.

Magpie!

No job, value of house gone down.

Less inheritance for the kids.

Ya gotta think longterm girl!

cailin06

thelordofcheese wrote: »

This post has Snyper written all over it.

Aluminium boats???

No snyper, just li'l ole me

Clare Bear

Look at some of ye, all high and mighty! Bet ye'd feel the exact same in her position. Enjoy the smugness gcgirl

gcgirl

Magpie! wrote: »

No job, value of house gone down.

Less inheritance for the kids.

Ya gotta think longterm girl!

The kids can do better for themselves then waiting on their father to leave them something in his will ! Knowing how dumb he is he'd prob leave it to the pole!! I am teaching the kids never to rely on anybody fiancally ! The only reason he phoned yesterday was because he owned me money off the school stuff and he can't pay but its not stopping him going on holiday to Poland !!

thelordofcheese

cailin06 wrote: »

Aluminium boats???

No snyper, just li'l ole me

Ahh shure you're only 3 posts old, ya havn't met snyper yet.
The loveable scamp that he is.

cailin06

thelordofcheese wrote: »

Ahh shure you're only 3 posts old, ya havn't met snyper yet.
The loveable scamp that he is.

5 posts now.. puberty next

(thread hijacking over now!!)

Kiera

I dont see where his new Gf comes from has anything to do with it so quit saying "the pole"

gcgirl

Kiera wrote: »

I dont see where his new Gf comes from has anything to do with it so quit saying "the pole"

Why are you so upset about The Pole?? We're well use to be Called Paddy everywhere else !!

Hitchhiker's Guide to...

gcgirl wrote: »

The kids can do better for themselves then waiting on their father to leave them something in his will ! Knowing how dumb he is he'd prob leave it to the pole!! I am teaching the kids never to rely on anybody fiancally ! The only reason he phoned yesterday was because he owned me money off the school stuff and he can't pay but its not stopping him going on holiday to Poland !!

why are you so concerned about "the pole"? thought you said he met her well after he left you? don't know why you'd have anything against her tbh

javaboy

I'm pretty sure this:

spurious wrote: »

Schadenfreude.

will cancel out this:

gcgirl wrote: »

I Love The Smell Off Karma In The Morning:D:D:D

before too long. I haven't got the rules handy but I'm pretty sure getting a kick out of somebody being on the receiving end of bad karma will earn you some bad karma of your own.

gcgirl

Roundtower2 wrote: »

why are you so concerned about "the pole"? thought you said he met her well after he left you? don't know why you'd have anything against her tbh

I don't have anything agenst Her(personally i feel sorry for her she does not know what he is really like For the last 3 weeks he rings me at anything from half 11 to half 12 looking for phone sex i have lost count of how many times i have told him to go fuc himself )! I do have issue with no Money towards his kids school stuff !! Not that i was banking on it but school is high on my priorty !! and yes its me who has forked out for the previous 2 years for the school stuff!!

gcgirl

javaboy wrote: »

I'm pretty sure this:


will cancel out this:


before too long. I haven't got the rules handy but I'm pretty sure getting a kick out of somebody being on the receiving end of bad karma will earn you some bad karma of your own.

see above !!

adsgirl

Bloody hell went through similar myself, but doubt if I would rejoice his downfall on a public forum..
Seems to me like a case of delayed revenge..... Poor kids, wow education , taught not to rely on anyone finacialy , but Mummy gets revenge online...Impressed not!

javaboy

gcgirl wrote: »

see above !!

You mean the post directly below mine? It doesn't answer my concerns at all really.

I'm still sure that laughing at someone else's misfortune is only building up your bad karma. Build up enough of it and you can't get a loan. We've all seen the ads. "County court judgements? Bad credit rating? Excessive bad karma? You need an IVA"

CtrlSource

Phlann wrote: »

Gesundheit

Hehe, good one

Kiera

gcgirl wrote: »

Why are you so upset about The Pole?? We're well use to be Called Paddy everywhere else !!

I'm not upset at all. But like someone said, airing your dirty washing in AH might not be such a good idea! Maybe try PI?

Karma karma karma karma karma kameleon

brianthebard

gcgirl wrote: »

I don't have anything agenst Her(personally i feel sorry for her she does not know what he is really like For the last 3 weeks he rings me at anything from half 11 to half 12 looking for phone sex i have lost count of how many times i have told him to go fuc himself )! I do have issue with no Money towards his kids school stuff !! Not that i was banking on it but school is high on my priorty !! and yes its me who has forked out for the previous 2 years for the school stuff!!

take him to the court for the money tbh.Why let him off the hook after all that you went thru?He might even be starting a new life in poland,quick,sue now!

rovert

Phlann wrote: »

Thought this was gonna be about Jade Goody

+!

gcgirl

Kiera wrote: »

I'm not upset at all. But like someone said, airing your dirty washing in AH might not be such a good idea! Maybe try PI?

Karma karma karma karma karma kameleon

i would but an Eddie o sullivan joke did not go down too well:D!! But in fairness its not a pi problem ! its not a problem at all!! :D:D

gcgirl

brianthebard wrote: »

take him to the court for the money tbh.Why let him off the hook after all that you went thru?He might even be starting a new life in poland,quick,sue now!

Thanks there i could still wack him for 25 percent of his income(dole)!! 50 euro a week!!

ejmaztec

Sounds like variation on a Twink.

gcgirl

I don't think Twinks husband used her as a Punch bag! Nor did he obsess over her mobile phone or made her give up things she enjoyed doing,

Kiera

Seriously!

PI is that way

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gcgirl

Kiera wrote: »

Seriously!

PI is that way

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Fail

I'm actually surprised by what some of the this girl's posts here??
So much for the sisterhood!!
if you have nothing positive to say keep it to your self!!

adsgirl

gcgirl wrote: »

Fail

I'm actually surprised by what some of the this girl's posts here??
So much for the sisterhood!!
if you have nothing positive to say keep it to your self!!

Grow up for god sake, Sisterhood??
Bloody kids I feel sorry for, for a woman who claims to hate her ex, you sure know a lot about his buisness..
Build a bridge and get over it....

Phlann

He does sound like an arse, tbf. But so do you a little.

Out with the bitterness, in with the love. You know it makes sense, baby :cool:

gcgirl

adsgirl wrote: »

Grow up for god sake, Sisterhood??
Bloody kids I feel sorry for, for a woman who claims to hate her ex, you sure know a lot about his buisness..
Build a bridge and get over it....

Sorry i was being sarcastic there there is no sisterhood thats a myth ! just like Tir nir og!! I know a lot about him because he tells me in order to try to make me feel sorry for him !!

Kiera

gcgirl wrote: »

Fail

I'm actually surprised by what some of the this girl's posts here??
So much for the sisterhood!!
if you have nothing positive to say keep it to your self!!

Oh sweet jesus. Boohoo poor you!! Sisterhood my arse! Someone doesnt agree with you and you go off on one?

Karma indeed

adsgirl

gcgirl wrote: »

Sorry i was being sarcastic there there is no sisterhood thats a myth ! just like Tir nir og!! I know a lot about him because he tells me in order to try to make me feel sorry for him !!

So why listen ffs, slam the phone down, I think you haven't let go to be honest.
Thats not sarcasm by the way...

Degsy

Kiera wrote: »

I dont see where his new Gf comes from has anything to do with it so quit saying "the pole"

She might just be tall and skinny.

gcgirl

Kiera wrote: »

Oh sweet jesus. Boohoo poor you!! Sisterhood my arse! Someone doesnt agree with you and you go off on one?

Karma indeed

Walk a mile in some ones shoes and see how they live !! This time last year i relied on Those Great people at Womens aid and went through 2/3 months of councilling having to get a protection order and so on so when you have been through that and hopefully you never have to ! fair enough i was weary about the guys here but for women (Pretty bitchey)!!