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Who's Fault is it??

  • 08-08-2008 9:45pm
    #1
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭


    I noticed alot of my underage friends look considerably older, when we go to bars it's me (the 18 year old) who gets asked for id.

    So in the case that a 18 guy is in a bar where he expects other adults to be...he picks a girl up, sleeps with her, and later finds out she is only 14 or 15 etc...

    Who's fault is it. Should guys not be able to pick up a girl without asking for a birth cert or should bouncers be more careful checking id's etc.....
    Or should the girls have the sense not to sleep with older guys as they know it can get them into trouble.

    Sorry I dont have any links to back it up guys but im sure you have heard about Mr.C etc in the news


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  • #2
    Sir Digby Chicken Caesar
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 23,556 ✭✭✭✭Sir Digby Chicken Caesar


    who? what?


  • #3
    Terry
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    Christ. More paedophilia.

    ID or you are to blame.


  • #4
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    I'm to blame.....sorry im 18 and been with the same guy since I was 13 so ive never been in that situation


  • #5
    kaimera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,396 ✭✭✭✭kaimera


    Mr. Cowen?


  • #6
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    kaimera wrote: »
    Mr. Cowen?
    Now that I can agree with!! Stupid government


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  • #7
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    |-*SxyDubGrrl93*-| wrote: »
    who? what?
    where when


  • #8
    Princess Consuela Bananahammock
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,763 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    In the scenario you describe, everyone.

    The bloke - it's a one night stand. You pays your money, etc. etc... If he sleeps with a potentially underage girl, he has to take responsibility. There is no rule where by you MUST shag on a first night.

    The girl - if you're gonna pretend to be adult, accept the adult consequences of your actions. You are NOT absolved of personal responsibility just becaue you're 14!!

    The venue - as far as I know, letting minors (knowlingly or unknowingly) into an 18+ venue is a crime. If they're serious, check all the borderline cases.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • #9
    tribulus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,635 ✭✭✭tribulus


    When are you publishing the results of your survey?


  • #10
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    I think if the person produces some form of id fake or not they are absolved of responsability


  • #11
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    tribulus wrote: »
    When are you publishing the results of your survey?
    17/6/09


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  • #12
    connundrum
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,563 ✭✭✭connundrum


    I blame the parents tbh. Whores!


  • #13
    FruitLover
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,534 ✭✭✭FruitLover


    HouseHippo wrote: »
    So in the case that a 18 guy is in a bar where he expects other adults to be...he picks a girl up, sleeps with her, and later finds out she is only 14 or 15 etc...

    What bars are these?

    For eh... research purposes...



    Giggidy...


  • #14
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    connundrum wrote: »
    I blame the parents tbh. Whores!
    My parents wud never let me out all night at that age!!!


  • #15
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    FruitLover wrote: »
    What bars are these?

    For eh... research purposes...



    Giggidy...
    ;)

    Try an underage disco instead
    :D


  • #16
    Schism
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,919 ✭✭✭Schism


    You're just feeling sour because they aren't getting asked for I.D. and you are, imo of course.


  • #17
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    Schism wrote: »
    You're just feeling sour because they aren't getting asked for I.D. and you are, imo of course.
    Ah no sure in 20 years when I still look young and they are all withered and leathery.....
    I'll be thankful.


  • #18
    Terry
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    HouseHippo wrote: »
    My parents wud never let me out all night at that age!!!
    When was that?
    Last week?

    The only people who spell the word "Would" as "Wud" are usually kids themselves.


  • #19
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    Terry wrote: »
    Christ. More paedophilia.

    Haha :)

    That made me LOL for some reason.


  • #20
    Keano
    Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 12,808 Mod ✭✭✭✭Keano


    George Bush's fault.


  • #21
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    Keano A Legend wrote: »
    George Bush's fault.
    Why not lol


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  • #22
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    Terry wrote: »
    When was that?
    Last week?

    The only people who spell the word "Would" as "Wud" are usually kids themselves.
    You're just bitter cause you're old.


  • #23
    Jesus Wept
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    Terry wrote: »
    Christ. More paedophilia.

    Statutory rape surely.


  • #24
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    The-Rigger wrote: »
    Statutory rape surely.
    Exactly :)


  • #25
    genericgoon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,676 ✭✭✭genericgoon


    The-Rigger wrote: »
    Statutory rape surprise sex surely.

    Fixed.


  • #26
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    Hahhahahahahahaha


  • #27
    Jesus Wept
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    genericgoon wrote: »
    Fixed.

    Not rly, it's consensual, so it's unlikely to be surprise sex. :pac:


  • #28
    genericgoon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,676 ✭✭✭genericgoon


    The-Rigger wrote: »
    Not rly, it's consensual, so it's unlikely to be surprise sex. :pac:

    It'll be a surprise when the party van comes for him. :D


  • #29
    HouseHippo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    genericgoon wrote: »
    It'll be a surprise when the party van comes for him. :D
    :D


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