question for the ladies

looking4advice

I want to spice up the love life with my girlfriend so have decided to purchase a vibrator (for her!!). Just wondering if anyone could recommend me one? I saw a durex one (called magic wand or something) in one of her girly mags and it won some award. thanks.

Rozabeez

Have you asked her if she already has one?

looking4advice

I live with her so I know for a fact she doesn't have any. I don't want to spend too much money in case she doesn't like it and I have to bring it back to the shop !!!!

Rozabeez

Maybe you should just ask her first, if you're not satisfied with your sex life, you should talk about it with her rather than spring something on her she might not like.

looking4advice

Its not that I'm not happy. I thought it would be a fun thing to buy. We have already bought the vibrating ring (Can't remember the name) in Boots and that was fun, but a little expensive for a once off.

Rozabeez

Check out www.annsummers.ie

LadyE

looking4advice wrote: »

Its not that I'm not happy. I thought it would be a fun thing to buy. We have already bought the vibrating ring (Can't remember the name) in Boots and that was fun, but a little expensive for a once off.

You can get a better one in ann summers. Its not the durex one but AS brand, think its cheaper. And you can also get one that isnt a "use once then throw away" thing. With controls and remote control.

If its her first one you might wanna go easy? Maybe take her shopping with you?

I would deffo ask her how she feels about getting one. Be sure you want one tho...because you cant take it back to the shop like you said. Thats just ewwwwwww

Have a look at Ann Summers website for ideas. Or there is a thread in S&S about the same thing.

Rozabeez

Hahahaha, "I'd like to return this used vibrator, can you direct me to the second-hand section please?"

dublinmadyoke

If I were you take her away somewhere romantic for a weekend or week.... that willl spice thing up no end...

LadyE

Rozabeez wrote: »

Hahahaha, "I'd like to return this used vibrator, can you direct me to the second-hand section please?"

Fricken horrible isnt it :pac:

looking4advice

LadyE wrote: »

You can get a better one in ann summers. Its not the durex one but AS brand, think its cheaper. And you can also get one that isnt a "use once then throw away" thing. With controls and remote control.

If its her first one you might wanna go easy? Maybe take her shopping with you?

I would deffo ask her how she feels about getting one. Be sure you want one tho...because you cant take it back to the shop like you said. Thats just ewwwwwww

Have a look at Ann Summers website for ideas. Or there is a thread in S&S about the same thing.

is there any particular one that you'd recommend or looks good?! I don't think I'll bring her shopping with me cos she'd be too afraid anyone would see her. She loved the vibrating ring thing so I'll just have to convince her!!

LadyE

looking4advice wrote: »

is there any particular one that you'd recommend or looks good?! I don't think I'll bring her shopping with me cos she'd be too afraid anyone would see her. She loved the vibrating ring thing so I'll just have to convince her!!

I think its down to persoanl choice tbh.

Go to the website, let her pick something then you go in and get it yourself. Nothing to be embarressed about tbh if anyone sees her.

MistyCheese

Myself and himself were in Ann Summers last weekend. These days you can get a vibrator that you hook up to your mp3 player / i-pod and it vibrates in time to the beat!

We ended up getting a "finger rabbit" and little pocket vibrator.

John Mason

My friend has a very good website. PM me if you want the address

BroomBurner

You should definitely broach the subject with her with regards what she would like. You might know that she deffo wants one, but they come in different lengths and widths and she's the only one that will know which one is going to suit her.
Another poster suggested going away for the weekend, I would agree with that suggestion. Combine the two ideas and take her to Amsterdam or somewhere similar. Would recommend Amsterdam mostly for it's relaxed attitude to things, and the wide range of choice. Would recommend Beate-Uhse (not sure on the spelling), they're quite an upmarket shop and don't just stick to one or two brands, which Ann Summers can do at times.

GirlInterrupted

Rampant Rabbit Deluxe ftw. That's all I'm saying.;)

Ann Summers or online, excellent investment.

Maple

GirlInterrupted wrote: »

Rampant Rabbit Deluxe ftw. That's all I'm saying.;)

Ann Summers or online, excellent investment.

My mate is insisting I buy one of these.

GirlInterrupted

maple wrote: »

My mate is insisting I buy one of these.

A power tool for those times when there is no other tool around!:pac::pac:

lol.

mollybird

RAMBIN RABBIT!! it is the only one. i've had mine for the past 5 years and it's the best thing i have ever gotten. goes great for the lonely nights when my OH isnt' around.

FlexiLexi

i need a new one, my old one broked!!!help me out ladies!!recommedations!!!!

vektarman

Would definitely recommend dropping in to Ann Summers.

MJOR

Ann Summers..... They'll advise.. I would suggest starting off with a clitoral stimulator first.