first date location

The Bollox

if you are bring a girl out on a first date where would you go / what would you do?

normally, if I can get into town, I will bring her to the cinema and go for a small bite to eat afterwards. if I'm just in my home town I will probably go for a coffee date.

Rb

Naggin + the local park bushes.

Steve_o

Cinema + a few drinks is always a safe enough bet.

Rob_l

Church- shotgun wedding FTW

FunkZ

Rb wrote: »

Naggin + the local park bushes.

I wish you were a burd! :pac:

MikeHoncho

Cinema is the worst thing you can do on a first date. You cant get to know the person very well while you sit silently through a movie. Always a coffee and then some kind of activity. Bowling / Pool etc. Second date drinks. Third date dinner follwoed by a sex session. Fourth date groping in the cinema.

Ruu_Old

Somewhere that I can get a buy one, get one free meal. *puts hand up to block rush of girls*

Filem and a walk in the park.

Larianne

Some people say cinema is bad on a a first date but its something you can talk about afterwards when gone for dinner/drinks... there's is nothing worse than one sided conversations and agonising silences. (that was a bad one!)

Dinner probably is the safest bet. Can't get to know someone in a cinema now can you!? Go for dinner and if she seems like the fun type thats up for a laugh go to a club/pub after?

Although RB's suggestion is plausible

GirlInterrupted

Daytime - if its a nice day, picnic in Glendalough
Night - coffee/dinner not cinema.

star-pants

One of the best dates I had was dinner, followed by cinema, followed by a drive and long walk.
*sigh*

Manic Moran

Coffee for a first date if you want to make sure you're not meeting an axe murderer.

For a first date with someone you know about already, a shooting range. Excellent excuse to make first physical contact. "OK, put your hands on the grip like this... no, here, move them this way.. now move your hips and legs as so..."

Then again, I'm a bit strange. Date #2 with the Better Half was a tank museum.

NTM

biko

Just a few drinks in a pub of her choice.

Rb

FunkZ wrote: »

I wish you were a burd! :pac:

:eek:

The Bollox

dinner for a first date? that's too formal. at least the cinema is more relaxed, and as someone pointed out, you have something to talk about over the meal / drinks / walk / sex afterwards

A trip to my basement

*raises fingers as guns*

Pherekydes

Last first date:

Bottle of wine in my place. Afterwards,

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Sherifu

The bog. Flask of tea & sandwiches.

Where you bring a girl on a first date really depends on you and the girl.

If you are a good conversationalist then dinner is really the only way to go. It's classy and easy and always a safe bet. If you are rubbish at that then a casual activity is always good. Pool in a not-too-busy bar, something like that. Overall tailor it to you and her personality.

Dragan

Head for the overpass and bring my camera.

After that it gets very GTA.

MIN2511

As a girl ideal first date would be drinks(preferably midweek or early in the week as the bars are empty), cinema-NO, comedy-depends, lunch-yes, dinner-NO

orestes

The zoo is always good

Unless she is an animal rights activist or something in which case she's gonna think you're an evil bastard

Gone West

Ruu wrote: »

Somewhere that I can get a buy one, get one free meal. *puts hand up to block rush of girls*

Filem and a walk in the park.

Lol post your personal in the bargain alerts forum, and you WOULD have a rush of women!

chopperbyrne

orestes wrote: »

The zoo is always good

Unless she is an animal rights activist or something in which case she's gonna think you're an evil bastard

I wanted to take a girl to the zoo on a first date and she rang and said she'd be a few hours late so the zoo ended up being closed.

Ended up going for drinks instead and we didn't get together.

I blame it on not going to the zoo.

No girl can resist cute animals!

Captain Darling

Sherifu wrote: »

The bog. Flask of tea & sandwiches.

Dont forget your milk in a bottle of YR brown sauce that you leave in a drain, just to keep it cool for the tay.

kowloon

Manic Moran wrote: »

Coffee for a first date if you want to make sure you're not meeting an axe murderer.

For a first date with someone you know about already, a shooting range. Excellent excuse to make first physical contact. "OK, put your hands on the grip like this... no, here, move them this way.. now move your hips and legs as so..."

Then again, I'm a bit strange. Date #2 with the Better Half was a tank museum.

NTM

You jammy dodger you!

Kulgan

Yea id agree with cinema being worst thing you can do on first date.

Although I went to cinema with a chick on a 3rd/4th date once and I was happy enough to just sit there and watch the film but she wouldn't stfu. I was really getting into that chick flick too jeeez.

brick tamland

Yeah the cinemas a **** idea

go for a few drinks, have a chat all the best 1st dates i was on were like that.

always thought meals were too formal really, for me anyway

Jemmy

Larianne wrote: »

Some people say cinema is bad on a a first date but its something you can talk about afterwards when gone for dinner/drinks... there's is nothing worse than one sided conversations and agonising silences. (that was a bad one!)

My last first date was dundrum cinema, but we had a drink before in Winters bar.

Met a little earlier than the movie enough to hav a decent chat then in we went. Was nice to have a chat first but knowing if things got weird or hard to talk you were goin to the movie anyway.

Jemmy

chopperbyrne wrote: »

No girl can resist cute animals!

This is true! The zoo would win me over! haha

KatiexKOUTURE--

Jemmy wrote: »

This is true! The zoo would win me over! haha

The zoo is a class idea.. And go for something to eat after.. After that is up to you's to..

Ponster

Can't be said often enough. Avoid cinema on the first date !

Eric Cartman

Rb wrote: »

Naggin + the local park bushes.

you good sir, are the epitimy of awsome

Eric Cartman

orestes wrote: »

The zoo is always good

Unless she is an animal rights activist or something in which case she's gonna think you're an evil bastard

they normally dont get boyfriends anyway...

Jemmy

Eric Cartman wrote: »

they normally dont get boyfriends anyway...

haha but harsh! Everyone can find luv!

Eric Cartman

Infononymous wrote: »

Dont forget your milk in a bottle of YR brown sauce that you leave in a drain, just to keep it cool for the tay.

hahahhahahhahahhahha, the first time ive truly laughed at the inernet in quite some time

D-A-V-E

ya agreed that the cinema is crap to bring them..best thing would be to an average sized pub with a live band playing! if your not into that as mentioned and from Limerick city something different would be to go to the unigolf in castletroy..only one of its kind in the world, great fun and different! thats the thing you want to get around..different!!

NorfolkEnchants

Always go for something different, suggest something that she would never have thought of, like tell her you'll meet her in the park to feed the ducks. If she's up her own a*se then make sure you make her bring the bread, flawless policy to make her reconsider herself!

orestes

Jemmy wrote: »

This is true! The zoo would win me over! haha

Doing anything on Saturday?

Jemmy

orestes wrote: »

Doing anything on Saturday?

Working!

reregholdsworth

Warehouse
Line Array Speakers
Loud Techno
Comfy settee on the edge of the dancefloor
kissy kissy

Andrewf20

Ideal location for a first date?

Bring her to speeddating.

AlmightyCushion

A game of bingo perhaps.

thefinalstage

AlmightyCushion wrote: »

A game of bingo perhaps.

Thats how I met my lovely second wife. She was 78 I was 22. We fell in love when I saw her bank balance. We married and She died of a heart attack on the wedding night. Now I own several bars around the country and have my own pool of jello.

MORAL: Go to bingo.

Pride Fighter

Porn shop.
If she never wants to see you again afterwards fine. If she does she is up for the freaky sh1t.

Call Me Jimmy

AlmightyCushion wrote: »

A game of bingo perhaps.

That's the one! I was trying to think what that crazy f**ker posted about as his planned first date a while back.

Jemmy

Pride Fighter wrote: »

Porn shop.
If she never wants to see you again afterwards fine. If she does she is up for the freaky sh1t.

ha ha great idea! At least you'll know where you stand from day one!

fearandloathing

from my experience women are pretty uncomfortable eating around guys they are interested in but they dont know very well so id stay away from the dinner option.. i find coffee to be a good option, defo leaves potential for a quick getaway if needs be:D

Sherifu

fearandloathing wrote: »

from my experience women are pretty uncomfortable eating around guys they are interested in

No head then.

fearandloathing

guess not..:mad: .. lol

clark nova

knocking golf balls off the top of a car park can be a good ice breaker