slutty or not slutty...?? Guys opinions wanted!!

mahamageehad

ok, i know this guy for a while and kinda have a bit of a thing going now for the last month or so with him... hes 20 im 18. im broken up with my longterm boyfriend (3 years) for the last three months.

First nite i met up with him, i was away at a friends and ended up goin back to his and sleepin there but not actually sleepin with him. met up for a drink a week after that then he walked me home and we got comfy on the couch..kissing but thats it. ok so anyways we met up again about a week later, again at my house, no alcohol involved this time!... we watch a film in my room, no chance of being interrupted and it all gets a bit steamy, hands flyin everywhere and lots of body on body friction... but crucially no items of clothing are removed. as you can imagine at this stage i was highly ...frustrated But at da same time i didnt really know if me ripping items of clothing off him was ok... But it was defo wanted by the two of us that it wud go a little further...it was very hard when it didnt happen (sorry couldnt resist! :P)

ok so heres my question.... if i had in the heat of the moment whispered summat like "f you dont fcuk me now you'll force me to become a rapist!!" or just a simple "f**k me" would it
(a) freak him out coz hes a guy he's supposed 2 be in charge
(b) make him cum on the spot from the excitement of it all
(c) make me look like a total slut

Quality

Mother of god.... Mine EYES!!!

RedXIV

guys. want. sex. not complicated. you give him permission, he's going to go for it. B is your answer

Vex Willems

how did you read that?

RxQueen

D). text speak is soooooo over rated!:eek:

Dudess

Yeah, read the charter regarding textspeak - i.e. it's not tolerated here.

TerrorFirmer

don't say anything, just start getting naked. Why would words be even needed?

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mahamageehad wrote: »

k i no dis guy 4 a while n kinda hav a bit o a ting goin now 4 da last month r so... hes 20 im 18. im broken up wiv my longterm bf (3 yrs) for da last 3 months.

1st nite i met up wiv him, i was away at a friends n ended up goin back to his n sleepin dare but not actually sleepin wiv him. met up 4 a drink a week afta dat den he walked me home n we got comfy on da couch..kissin but tats it. ok so anyways we meet up again about a week later, again at my house, no alcohol involved dis time!... we watch a film in my room, no chance or bn interrupted n it al gets a bit steamy, hands flyin everywhere n lots of body on body friction... but crucially no items of clothing are removed. as you can imagine at this stage i was highly ...frustrated But at da same time i didnt really no if me ripping items of clothing off him was ok... But it was defo wanted by da 2 o us dat it wud go a lil further...it was very hard wen it didnt happen (sory couldnt resist! :P)

ok so heres my question.... if i had in da heat of the moment whispered summat like "f you dont fcuk me now ul force me to become a rapist!!" or jst a simple "f**k me" wud it
(a) freak him out coz hes a guy hes supposed 2 b in charge
(b) make him cum on da spot frm da excitement of it all
(c) make me look like a total slut

What the holy blue fúck is that all about?

Milk with two sugars, thanks.

Dudess

Just do what you want to do. Ridiculous - asking for guys' opinions and saying stuff like "he's the guy, he should be in charge".

Boom_Bap

didn't understand a word of what she said.

GrumPy

Great Thread

Why aren't the wimmenz I meet more like you? :pac:

monkeyfudge

Read out everything you've said to us here... but be sure to pronounce it as it's been written.... That should go down nicely.

TerrorFirmer

TerrorFirmer wrote: »

don't say anything, just start getting naked. Why would words be even needed?

She could be ugly.

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I just came, anyone have a tissue.

Dudess talking about sex again?

You're obsessed woman.

Obsessed.

Simply Red

mahamageehad wrote: »

k i no dis guy 4 a while n kinda hav a bit o a ting goin now 4 da last month r so... hes 20 im 18. im broken up wiv my longterm bf (3 yrs) for da last 3 months.

1st nite i met up wiv him, i was away at a friends n ended up goin back to his n sleepin dare but not actually sleepin wiv him. met up 4 a drink a week afta dat den he walked me home n we got comfy on da couch..kissin but tats it. ok so anyways we meet up again about a week later, again at my house, no alcohol involved dis time!... we watch a film in my room, no chance or bn interrupted n it al gets a bit steamy, hands flyin everywhere n lots of body on body friction... but crucially no items of clothing are removed. as you can imagine at this stage i was highly ...frustrated But at da same time i didnt really no if me ripping items of clothing off him was ok... But it was defo wanted by da 2 o us dat it wud go a lil further...it was very hard wen it didnt happen (sory couldnt resist! :P)

ok so heres my question.... if i had in da heat of the moment whispered summat like "f you dont fcuk me now ul force me to become a rapist!!" or jst a simple "f**k me" wud it
(a) freak him out coz hes a guy hes supposed 2 b in charge
(b) make him cum on da spot frm da excitement of it all
(c) make me look like a total slut

Txt speak makes baby jesus cry!

mike65

Tuesday afternoon I think.

Mike.

Aurora Borealis

Nothing wrong with making the move if that is the question. It is incredibly difficult to read.


A.B.*

*Ponders whether there should be a direct correlation between the ability to express oneself in the written word and the age of consent....

colly10

Loose the text speak there, it's hard on the eyes. No need to say anything to him (but I wouldn't worry too much about what you do say). Just start stripping him off, he's not going to complain

chopperbyrne

You're eighteen, start using proper spelling.

Then worry about your personal issues.

mike65

mike65 wrote: »

Tuesday afternoon I think.

Mike.

Is it?

c - 13

I cant actually read that so i'm going to say ... yes ?

dodgyme

mahamageehad wrote: »

k i no dis guy 4 a while n kinda hav a bit o a ting goin now 4 da last month r so... hes 20 im 18. im broken up wiv my longterm bf (3 yrs) for da last 3 months.

1st nite i met up wiv him, i was away at a friends n ended up goin back to his n sleepin dare but not actually sleepin wiv him. met up 4 a drink a week afta dat den he walked me home n we got comfy on da couch..kissin but tats it. ok so anyways we meet up again about a week later, again at my house, no alcohol involved dis time!... we watch a film in my room, no chance or bn interrupted n it al gets a bit steamy, hands flyin everywhere n lots of body on body friction... but crucially no items of clothing are removed. as you can imagine at this stage i was highly ...frustrated But at da same time i didnt really no if me ripping items of clothing off him was ok... But it was defo wanted by da 2 o us dat it wud go a lil further...it was very hard wen it didnt happen (sory couldnt resist! :P)

ok so heres my question.... if i had in da heat of the moment whispered summat like "f you dont fcuk me now ul force me to become a rapist!!" or jst a simple "f**k me" wud it
(a) freak him out coz hes a guy hes supposed 2 b in charge
(b) make him cum on da spot frm da excitement of it all
(c) make me look like a total slut

I am not being smart here but for feck sake can you not write the flamin' thing in english?

Gran Hermano

They bleed, my eyes are bleeding... bloody text speak. Not a good game.

biko

Tried reading it but cannot make sense of what I think I understand.
OP, come back and explain pls kthx

c - 13

c - 13 wrote: »

I cant actually read that so i'm going to say ... yes ?

A lot like the Lisbon Treaty so.

Theta

Holy shít, I think I think reading that gave me eye cancer.

PeakOutput

obviously some people are just stupid it reads fine

do what you want life is too short

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Slutty or Not Slutty?

Slutty for me please.

Was it a first date?

Because only sluts fúck on a first date.

topper75

I think it's something about a guy being in charge. Best of luck to him.

Dudess

Hmmm.... it's debatable really whether it's stupid or very intelligent to be unable to read textspeak.

Kintarō Hattori

The textspeak is awful OP and you'll put alot of people off of reading your post with it. In regards to the issue most guys will not refuse sex if offered to them on a plate. Just go with your feelings in the moment.

2-ShortDa5foot5

Take the next left, keep going for 100 metres and you're there.

MrVestek

mahamageehad wrote: »

k i no dis guy 4 a while n kinda hav a bit o a ting goin now 4 da last month r so... hes 20 im 18. im broken up wiv my longterm bf (3 yrs) for da last 3 months.

1st nite i met up wiv him, i was away at a friends n ended up goin back to his n sleepin dare but not actually sleepin wiv him. met up 4 a drink a week afta dat den he walked me home n we got comfy on da couch..kissin but tats it. ok so anyways we meet up again about a week later, again at my house, no alcohol involved dis time!... we watch a film in my room, no chance or bn interrupted n it al gets a bit steamy, hands flyin everywhere n lots of body on body friction... but crucially no items of clothing are removed. as you can imagine at this stage i was highly ...frustrated But at da same time i didnt really no if me ripping items of clothing off him was ok... But it was defo wanted by da 2 o us dat it wud go a lil further...it was very hard wen it didnt happen (sory couldnt resist! :P)

ok so heres my question.... if i had in da heat of the moment whispered summat like "f you dont fcuk me now ul force me to become a rapist!!" or jst a simple "f**k me" wud it
(a) freak him out coz hes a guy hes supposed 2 b in charge
(b) make him cum on da spot frm da excitement of it all
(c) make me look like a total slut

The answer my dear is 42!

Dudess

OP, how would you feel if HE made the first move? Would you think that was awfully slutty of him...?

Maybe say "how about it now?" instead of "**** me"... Or as someone suggested, don't bother saying anything, just have sex. I think you're communicating enough without words - your message is pretty straightforward

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Dudess wrote: »

Hmmm.... it's debatable really whether it's stupid or very intelligent to be unable to read textspeak.

Did you understand it?

Therein lies the answer.

AlmightyCushion

Dudess wrote: »

Hmmm.... it's debatable really whether it's stupid or very intelligent to be unable to read textspeak.

With a bit of effort it can be done so I'd go with stupid.

Oh. So thats what this was all about.

OP, seriously, just let things progress naturally. It's always the best course of action. On all the occasions that ye have kissed, who made the first move each time?

Please reply in proper english.

kittensoft1984

quality wrote: »

mother Of God.... Mine Eyes!!!

+1

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Dudess wrote: »

OP, how would you feel if HE made the first move? Would you think that was awfully slutty of him...?

It's different for blokes and burds though.

A girl is a slut if she sleeps around, fúcks on the first date, gives bjs to a lot of blokes, etc etc, all other kind of slutty behaviour.

If a dude sleeps with a shít load of burds, get's head at every hands turn, has a few different sluts on the go, he's a fúcking ledge.

And with good reason.

Dudess

AlmightyCushion wrote: »

With a bit of effort it can be done so I'd go with stupid.

As in, to describe textspeak? Yeah, I'd agree with that.

ScumLord

I'm going to say, yes, with an if.
Or no with a but.

I assuming you talk normally, maybe he couldn't understand you?

Homer

Txt spk translator....

just a pity it doesn't work in reverse or I might have a clue what the daft bint is on about.

PeakOutput

lady in the street freak in the bed would sum it up for most guys i think

AlmightyCushion

industria wrote: »

Txt spk translator....

just a pity it doesn't work in reverse or I might have a clue what the daft bint is on about.

Watch it.

Quality

mahamageehad wrote: »

k i no dis guy 4 a while n kinda hav a bit o a ting goin now 4 da last month r so... hes 20 im 18. im broken up wiv my longterm bf (3 yrs) for da last 3 months.

1st nite i met up wiv him, i was away at a friends n ended up goin back to his n sleepin dare but not actually sleepin wiv him. met up 4 a drink a week afta dat den he walked me home n we got comfy on da couch..kissin but tats it. ok so anyways we meet up again about a week later, again at my house, no alcohol involved dis time!... we watch a film in my room, no chance or bn interrupted n it al gets a bit steamy, hands flyin everywhere n lots of body on body friction... but crucially no items of clothing are removed. as you can imagine at this stage i was highly ...frustrated But at da same time i didnt really no if me ripping items of clothing off him was ok... But it was defo wanted by da 2 o us dat it wud go a lil further...it was very hard wen it didnt happen (sory couldnt resist! :P)

ok so heres my question.... if i had in da heat of the moment whispered summat like "f you dont fcuk me now ul force me to become a rapist!!" or jst a simple "f**k me" wud it
(a) freak him out coz hes a guy hes supposed 2 b in charge
(b) make him cum on da spot frm da excitement of it all
(c) make me look like a total slut

Ok, this has taken me 10 minutes to decipher. Here is my reply in your language.

K, u is so slutty, is ok. jus rip his kit off an fuk hm.

blah

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JangoFett

mahamageehad wrote: »

k i know this guy 4 a while and kinda have a bit o a thing going now 4 the last month r so... hes 20 im 18. im broken up with my longterm bf (3 yrs) for the last 3 months.

1st nite i met up with him, i was away at a friends and ended up goin back to his n sleepin there but not actually sleepin with him. met up 4 a drink a week after that then he walked me home and we got comfy on the couch..kissing but thats it. ok so anyways we met up again about a week later, again at my house, no alcohol involved this time!... we watch a film in my room, no chance of being interrupted and it all gets a bit steamy, hands flyin everywhere and lots of body on body friction... but crucially no items of clothing are removed. as you can imagine at this stage i was highly ...frustrated But at da same time i didnt really know if me ripping items of clothing off him was ok... But it was defo wanted by da 2 o us that it wud go a lil further...it was very hard when it didnt happen (sorry couldnt resist! :P)

ok so heres my question.... if i had in the heat of the moment whispered summat like "f you dont fcuk me now you'll force me to become a rapist!!" or just a simple "f**k me" would it
(a) freak him out coz hes a guy he's supposed 2 be in charge
(b) make him cum on the spot from the excitement of it all
(c) make me look like a total slut

Sometimes a girl saying "fcuk me" gets me ridiculously worked up, that would have made his day

Quality

Quality wrote: »

Ok, this has taken me 10 minutes to decipher. Here is my reply in your language.

K, u is so slutty, is ok. jus rip his kit off an fuk hm.

fuk im lyk a buni n dnt stop b4 he cums evrywhere. lyk all ovr da place. yknow wot im tlking bout ya? gud girl.

Ugh. I just died a little inside.

zuutroy

Made it through about 10 characters of the post. OP deserves personal abuse imo. What a ****ing butchery of language.

GrumPy

He wants you, but maybe he is sky/unsure of your reaction. Let him know it's ok to strip you. Maybe loosen his belt, and unbutton his shirt and let him know